Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering.

yesmme · 2021-01-14T14:13:34+00:00

I remember when people caught him liking a bunch of BDSM profiles and photos on his social media and someone wrote an article about it. “Does Armie Hammer know we can see his likes”, the article asked.

2021-01-14T14:24:45+00:00

If he thinks there's ever a point where it's cool to eroticizing violence, he's low value. He doesn't suddenly become high value because he's decided that he doesn't want to hurt you right now. Because he still thinks it's cool to have sex with women he doesn't respect, and that those women deserve to be strangled.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2021-01-14T13:56:09+00:00

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Repulsive-Ad1092 · 2021-01-14T14:18:36+00:00

No one in this forum believes this piece of shit loves his wife. This is just to tell the world that “she is the one who turned a bad boy into a good man” I can’t even imagine the gaslighting and sexual abuse she must be suffering 😢

ALISHAISHERE123 · 2021-01-14T14:09:36+00:00

" the things that I want to do"

The fact that you want to degrade "any* type of woman makes you utter trash.

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2021-01-14T13:09:23+00:00

"I need you too much to hurt an asset"

Ladies... never forget: they know... they simply don't care.

DameSorciere · 2021-01-14T13:16:04+00:00

"Guess I gotta treat you like a human being I guess 😩😩😩😩😩"

viell · 2021-01-14T14:36:28+00:00

Yeah. Exactly what I said yesterday, he clearly never changed but sold his wife the lie that he did because he "respected her too much". Honestly, I feel for her. Not only he was clearly gaslighting her and cheated on her repeatedly (and he talks about her in his texts as someone he was playing and a nuisance), but she also has to live with the embarrassment this guy being the father of her children brings. I hope she has a good emotional support with family and the likes, because she's gonna need it.

Hardwatergal · 2021-01-14T13:12:17+00:00

Madonna / whore complex.

Men are so mentally and emotionally LACKING. Imagine having such a basic, clichéd complex and yet zero self awareness of it. Go to therapy, scrotes.

miss_peach94 · 2021-01-14T13:18:02+00:00

Got it. So when a guy asks to choke me, I'll assume he has categorised me as a whore per Madonna/Whore complex. Love it when men snitch on themselves

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-01-14T14:26:16+00:00

lol, so what he's basically saying is, that he respects only his own wife. other women doesn't deserve his respect.

sugaredberry · 2021-01-14T15:40:17+00:00

Cringe... it is really lonely at the top. I see beautiful strong women who are celebrities and they are single... I sincerely do not believe they are the issue.

electroloop · 2021-01-14T13:20:01+00:00

“I respect you too much to do these things that I kind of want to do.”

Straight from the scrotes mouth! You hear that ladies? Any partner who pushes for BDSM type shit in the bedroom does not respect you or your boundaries! Things I should have learned a long time ago.

to_learn_to_fly · 2021-01-14T15:25:45+00:00

So he'll just cheat on his wife with women he doesn't respect enough.

Repulsive-Ad1092 · 2021-01-14T16:42:49+00:00

Ladies, after commenting here I got this DM:

“just wanted to that guy is based he is treating women with the respect they deserve. He should spit on her”

Male depravity again

Pornruinedsociety · 2021-01-14T15:21:01+00:00

I don't know who he is and I don't want to, but I can tell he lacks good judgment and taste by that hideous white turtle neck he's wearing, which alone would be bad enough but to then team it with a black suit jacket, it's testement he is incapable of making sound decisions.

ashleecakes · 2021-01-14T19:05:20+00:00

You guys heard the latest on him right? Acting out rape fantasies with knives, drinking blood, liking cannibalism? I grew up with him and we all knew he was fucking weird. He literally wasn’t even popular in high school. I’m glad the truth is finally coming out.

candyfox84 · 2021-01-14T16:33:28+00:00

With everything I'm hearing about this guy, I just know he's going to end up on an episode of true crime.

Saitschik · 2021-01-14T13:24:03+00:00

Madonna-Wh're complex much, huh. Scrote

AlexxyaKat · 2021-01-14T13:43:09+00:00

Bingo!!!! It’s a matter of RESPECT

Myplummms · 2021-01-14T17:16:10+00:00

Has anyone seen where his texts got leaked and he’s talking about having a cannibalism kink? (I.e drinking blood and putting women’s fingers in his pocket). This guy is really disturbed

KindredMaximus · 2021-01-14T21:23:14+00:00

Shows very clearly that men who choke and hurt you during sex, can do so because they have no respect for you. They HATE you when you allow them to hurt you. BDSM'ers are gross.

jewdiful · 2021-01-14T16:42:41+00:00

This is why I would never date let alone fuck any man that enjoys that kind of shit ever again. Sometime during the early months/years of dating my SO of seven years I suggested rougher sex, choking etc to “spice things up” (still brainwashed at the time) and he was horrified, he said if he even tried he’d lose his boner. The idea of hurting me was a complete turn off. I’m glad for that because I feel so incredibly safe and fulfilled with him, if we’d had that kind of sex together I’d probably have left the relationship after discovering radfem and then FDS. Turns my stomach to think that at one point in time that’s what I wanted.

My SO also always refused to have “make up sex” after a fight, no matter how many times I suggested it back in the early years of dating (we used to fight constantly. Somehow we got through it, both grew up, and the relationship is incredibly healthy now). If he was angry or upset sex was off the table until he felt emotionally connected to me again. So many men can turn anger into sexual desire or conflate the two because of porn that I’m incredibly grateful he isn’t and has never been like that. As soon as I began learning about how awful porn was for women in general he immediately volunteered to give it up forever, though he was never a big porn watcher in general. We have a very healthy and fulfilling sex life because he doesn’t have sick and twisted ideas about women, sex, and porn like most men do.

Dontstopmenow2021 · 2021-01-15T00:13:44+00:00

He's a textbook psychopath. He love bombs and grooms his victim and then sucks the life out of them (including financially, although the dude is loaded):

https://pagesix.com/2021/01/14/armie-hammers-ex-courtney-vucekovich-he-wanted-to-barbecue-and-eat-me/

Pengtingcalledme · 2021-01-14T14:25:53+00:00

Scary

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2021-01-14T17:48:07+00:00

Gross. He just realised he had to keep his nice guy image up with his wife and probably did all the depraved shit with side pieces.

2021-01-14T17:57:53+00:00

coughs madonna whore complex coughs

goldiebaby · 2021-01-14T18:27:23+00:00

Any man who subscribes to the Madonna/Whore complex is bad news!

Woman_on_Pause · 2021-01-14T18:38:42+00:00

This mofro told a woman he wanted to cut off her toe and carry it with him.

WTF

aquietsword · 2021-01-15T02:34:53+00:00

Thank god for this community. I'm watching people's takes on YouTube and all I see are the same old "it's just a fantasy," "consenting adults," " don't kink shame" bs. Go back a few years and my brain would have accepted that maybe it's not a big deal. But no, it's gross and creepy and dangerous.

pinkcloudzzz · 2021-01-14T15:49:31+00:00

BDSM is about OVEREMPOWERING a woman.

miramathebeatqueen · 2021-01-14T17:18:49+00:00

lmao bullshit what a fucking liar.

akashyaboa · 2021-01-14T17:31:15+00:00

But then they cheat to do things they kinda want to but can't do to the woman their "respect".. so there is no winning

Maude2010 · 2021-01-14T22:39:44+00:00

The fact that he wouldn’t or couldn’t do it to his wife says it all.

rightioushippie · 2021-01-14T15:18:23+00:00

This is part and parcel of toxic masculinity. I had a boyfriend who wanted to marry me and “respected me too much” to let me give him a blow job. Da fuck? I enjoy pleasuring my partner. That’s the point of sex for me. The fact that he would “let” other women give him blow jobs before who he “didn’t respect” was so bizarre and, I realize, so typical. It’s all just so gross. And I know I’ll probably be called a pickmeisha again for saying I like to give blow jobs lol.

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Title	Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering.
Author	howdoilogoutt
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Date	January 14, 2021 12:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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