I'm done 🙅🏻‍♀️💢💔

Elizapornberry · 2020-12-16T20:44:59+00:00

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strcrssdvoyager · 2020-12-16T20:48:43+00:00

He broke down and apologized

He's only upset that he got caught. If he had anything even resembling empathy, he wouldn't have abandoned his wife and his newborn for sex.

shinyjewels · 2020-12-16T20:45:59+00:00

Imagine how scared she was giving birth alone.

Maude2010 · 2020-12-16T21:44:30+00:00

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BasieSkanks · 2020-12-16T20:59:35+00:00

Okay, but how does being afraid of fatherhood lead to being balls deep inside a woman 10 years your junior?

Aocwannabe · 2020-12-16T21:02:37+00:00

I feel so sad for her. She’s already vulnerable to post partum depression and trying to swim through a sea of hormones. I hope she has the support of her family and friends.

lskfjd743 · 2020-12-16T21:05:33+00:00

I was just speaking to my friend who is a family law attorney about this post and she mentioned that this situation is not a "speak now or forever hold you peace" sort of thing. She has had clients who are in the same boat who are smiling in the hub's face and making long term plans to divorce behind their back. If this woman didn't want to have a date in divorce court today, that's fine but she needs to know what her scrote-dumping timeline is and get as much out of him before D-Day.

stbfAAA · 2020-12-16T21:18:21+00:00

'he only did it because he was scared about being a dad'...Excuse me?! I can hear a better excuse from the first rock that I find outside. 😒🙄

ScrappleSandwiches · 2020-12-16T22:01:23+00:00

I hope she tells him she forgives him.. then gets a lawyer and serves him papers for Christmas.

2020-12-16T23:55:53+00:00

Funny, when men get scared they sleep with coworkers or shoot someone. Meanwhile, we just self-care, have a cry out session with our friends and move on.

Summerisle7 · 2020-12-16T21:00:58+00:00

IT wAs A miStAke! DoNt ThROw EvErYtHiNg YoU hAvE togEtHer AwAy! CoMMUnicAtE!

melonmagellan · 2020-12-16T23:11:15+00:00

This is why I'll never have a biological child. Walking out isn't as simple and you're stuck with this scrote for almost two decades. Not to mention the struggle of single parenting while essential begging for child support.

2020-12-16T21:33:35+00:00

"I'm scared of being a dad so I'm going to risk getting someone else pregnant." DON'T Fuck men. Let them die of "blue balls"

chateauduchat · 2020-12-16T23:02:13+00:00

Oh my god. I’m fiercely childfree and stories like this always confirm it for me.

satans-sugarbaby · 2020-12-17T00:32:00+00:00

Reading that gave me a legit sinking feeling in my stomach. I've never given birth or been married, but even just trying to fathom that level of betrayal is heartbreaking.

GabbaG0ul · 2020-12-16T22:38:58+00:00

Not that im putting the blame on the 20 year old, but I would love an AMA from one of these women. Like why do you sleep with these dudes? You know he’s married with a kid on the way. He’s a decade older. You know he’s a piece of shit. Where is the appeal?

AyemHerself · 2020-12-16T21:38:14+00:00

The only way his excuse makes a sliver of sense is if he admits to actively sabotaging his marriage. He doesn't want to be a husband and father, therefore he ran off to fuck a younger woman and live the fuckboy lifestyle. This woman should oblige him. She'd be doing her child a favor.

light_workerx3 · 2020-12-16T21:06:38+00:00

Gtfoh!! This is beyond low !!

Lavender_flow · 2020-12-16T23:42:00+00:00

"I just don't know what to do" 🙄🙄🙄 "my soul mate " cheated on her while she is in labor. The bar is in hell.

lunakelly · 2020-12-16T20:45:28+00:00

men are despicable... smh

Saitschik · 2020-12-17T05:16:43+00:00

30 year old man is "scared" of being a father 😂 so many men are really just clowns nowadays.

I wonder how it feels like to never leave the mind of a 15 year old even though your saggy balls already hit the toilet water.

How cheating helps to ease his fear also remains a mystery.

dreaming2794 · 2020-12-16T21:51:52+00:00

What a grub! Absolute grub. Get away form him you and your child deserve better.

rhyth7 · 2020-12-16T23:21:34+00:00

I wonder when they got married. How much of that 8yrs was being married and did she have to pester him for it? Was the child planned? 8yrs and wasn't even there for when she was in labor.

CuddleLlamaNoDrama · 2020-12-16T20:40:29+00:00

Just reading posts like this (and there seem to be too many) makes me wonder if most men (all?) are emotionally stunted. I can’t fathom a betrayal more heinous than this. But I’d be proven wrong.

basicbagels · 2020-12-17T01:24:46+00:00

Scrotes gonna scrote. They’re pathetic

leonie86 · 2020-12-17T02:32:17+00:00

I can feel how painful this is for her, the betrayal is intense and I hope in time she finds the strength to leave.

whatiidwbwy · 2020-12-17T05:14:37+00:00

He thinks he has her trapped, he thinks he has diminished her worth as a human because she gave birth to his child, and he thinks she can’t leave. That’s why he did it.

getbentgent · 2020-12-16T21:47:08+00:00

Wow, just wow. And of course his excuse for doing it is absolutely horseshit. Sis, it's garbage day time to take out the trash!

NottodayScrote · 2020-12-17T00:23:44+00:00

What a piece of... As if women don't deal with enough stress before and after pregnancy

ThePrettySweety · 2020-12-17T14:56:48+00:00

If she stays she needs to leave the relationship open. Men love one sided monogamy. If they could have one sided monogamy they would. Even if she doesn’t see other men she should still tell him she wants an open relationship since he opened it. I tell women all the time if you’re going to stay with your husband after he cheats let him know he is free to cheat. It takes the fun out because for some reason a lot of men like the thrill of sneaking around to cheat and their SO not knowing. I’d tell him since he’s cheating he can get sex else where and no longer from me and that the relationship is now open. Watch the man’s reactions. I did this to an ex and he had a look of panick on his face. He couldn’t get the thought of another man having me out his head. I had to leave because he became so insecure.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-12-17T09:47:56+00:00

He was scared? She was gestating and giving birth, damn it. These fucking guys...what are they for?

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-17T05:19:59+00:00

I know that when I’m afraid something scary will happen, fucking is the first thing comes to mind. Wait, no. I’m not a NVM.

swatir24 · 2020-12-17T11:39:54+00:00

It broke my heart to read this. I hope some day when she is less vulnerable, she finds it within herself to dump his ass.

protectinidentity · 2020-12-24T07:40:10+00:00

Poor thing.

Title	I'm done 🙅🏻‍♀️💢💔
Author	ReadinIt17
Upvotes	452
Comments	101
Date	December 16, 2020 8:35 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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