Proof that scrotes never change, they just make empty promises and get upset when you don’t fall for them.

InaneObservations · 2021-01-19T02:17:10+00:00

I've known a few guys like this. During their college days they just churned through so many smart, pretty, hard-working, studious, ambitious women like they were nothing. They'd neg them, treat them like crap, ditch them on weekends with lame excuses. Dump them by blatantly cheating on them.

But college, like all things, came to an end, and then they weren't cool frat guys anymore, they were just entry-level small-town dicks whose beer and pizza habits packed on 40 lbs they couldn't shake off. ALL those smart, pretty, ambitious women went to real jobs in bigger cities, and the only women the guys could get with were the townie bar flies.

Those guys would literally get into a depression and cry tears into their beers over all the high quality women who "got away," like it was the womens' fault for not sticking around and putting up with all that bullshit. It was like, No, Andy. Remember, you ditched her EVERY WEEKEND to go party without her, and then you fingered her roommate. She left you because you suck as a human being.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-01-19T01:29:16+00:00

This is why you never let a man play you. They know just what they are doing and it is all underpinned by the greatest entitlement, misogyny and sense of ownership of you.

GoldandGlowing · 2021-01-19T00:45:40+00:00

I hope her fiancé does stomp him out. Tf you tryna do now?

Bows_and_bows · 2021-01-19T01:18:55+00:00

Ugh, this hits HOME. I waited around for a guy for years, being plain as day with my expectations and desires. I was hurt as fuck and such a pickme at the time.

He played around with other girls constantly and when I finally moved on and found my now-husband, he begged me for a chance. Saying he was in love with me and saw us having children together.

I noped the fuck outta there and never looked back. I just wish I could have seen the light sooner.

Gourmay · 2021-01-19T01:15:57+00:00

ok? And? Guys love fucking up & then make the real travesty about how quickly she moved on

I moved on a month after breaking up with an LVM I thought I had a future with, with a long-time friend (and so far high quality man) and guaranteed that tweet is what he'll think when he finds out. So many guys have fucked me about these years and I finally know to move on ruthlessly.

Venture8 · 2021-01-19T00:32:16+00:00

Reminds me of that Fitzgerald quote, "No, sir, the girl really worth having won't wait for anybody."

sassfire · 2021-01-19T00:24:43+00:00

I’ve seen this exact situation play out a few times. It reminds me of this quote:

Somewhere between heartaches and waiting comes another chance to be found by somebody who can show you, you’re not just another option but the ONLY choice.

CassieGreen85 · 2021-01-19T03:56:06+00:00

ok? And? Guys love fucking up & then make the real travesty about how quickly she moved on

These LVM think they're so smart and slick, playing games and thinking their partners are none the wiser, and don't seem to understand that their partners have been mentally getting ready to leave them for months.

And this is only after overtly tolerating all their bullshit for years, trying to internalize and justify and giving him a thousand chances and even more "communication" conversations. By the time the woman is ready to break up, she's already tired and fed up, and mentally getting ready for it.

They get salty about how "fast" she moved on? Scrotes, she has been ready to move on for a while, and she was giving you a last chance to give her some hope that you were actually worthy of staying. And as always, you fucked up.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-01-19T00:54:48+00:00

When the men in our lives are, on occasion, graced with our advice we too shouldn't sugarcoat it. Just a thought. The same scrote who ignored his friends advice also took his girlfriend for granted. You can CoMMuNiCaTe with those men until your face turns blue. Good on her for leaving.

NoMoreLVM · 2021-01-19T06:19:11+00:00

This is the thing - men are told that they won’t age, their sexual value will only go up, they have plenty of time, and they just overestimate their value. Sexual market value of men doesn’t remain the same with the same age groups - it evens out between the genders as people get older, but 37 year olds with receding hairlines will never be hot to girls in their 20s. Men who are aware of this know to invest and hold on to the HVW early on and not fuck about.

sassenachpants · 2021-01-19T03:57:43+00:00

Story time!

Pre-FDS I was someone’s forever gf. We had kids, we lived together, joint bank account. He kept putting off marriage talk and I thought if I was a better pretend wife it would all work out. I was a total 🤡.

Until one day something in my head was like “NO.” And worked on getting promoted and making more money until leaving wouldn’t negatively impact my kids. And I fucking left. Set up another house. Started dating someone else. After I broke up with that person (thank you FDS) this motherfucker comes back like “I was fine with things like they were.”

Uh, I WASN’T. That’s why I left. You missed out on a brilliant woman with a six figure income, have a nice life. Enjoy your shared custody asshole.

IgetUsernameScraps · 2021-01-19T06:44:10+00:00

“He hurt her repeatedly and then expected her to help him work out why.”

That is CRAZY. Who thinks like this?

OrangeyPanda · 2021-01-18T23:35:38+00:00

Yes to all of this, but imagine being friends with this guy even after how horribly he treated his ex. Plus he has zero emotional intelligence, what friendship does he even bring except for expecting therapy from you.

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-01-19T01:45:29+00:00

Sweet sweet karma

Jay-quellen · 2021-01-19T02:57:31+00:00

Ah, this is a classic. Tale as old as time!

Surprise-Character · 2021-01-19T06:00:23+00:00

Ugh. Everything about this is exactly like my ex husband, down to the demanding exclusivity while doing nothing to atone or add to my life. Unearned exclusivity. So entitled.

CassieGreen85 · 2021-01-18T23:30:41+00:00

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HappyCoconutty · 2021-01-19T03:33:38+00:00

A Kappa, huh? Explains a lot!

PeachPitiless · 2021-01-19T12:30:10+00:00

I was separated for years before I finally initiated the divorce. Our mutuals said my ex was shocked and hurt because he thought I'd reach out eventually to repair our marriage. He'd been living with one of the women he cheated on me with since I left...

ethnicallyabiguous · 2021-01-19T04:37:11+00:00

Do y’all remember that song bambi by Jidenna? I fucking hated that song. It is literally what this guy is talking about. In the video/song, he talked about being a cheater and a liar and it’s in his blood because his granddaddy had seven wives. But when she was at her wedding day, he literally showed up drunk as shit and told her she can’t leave him. Like that toxicity was romantic. Why the fuck is the sooooo common?!?!

pinkcloudzzz · 2021-01-19T01:51:02+00:00

Rumor has it the person tweeting is her new fiancé(e) 😏 jk ... unless...

carlther · 2021-01-19T00:11:54+00:00

Give the narrator credit for talking some sense into that NVM. Maybe he can learn? But I doubt it...

myousername · 2021-01-19T08:25:42+00:00

🎶Tale as old as time🎶

akashyaboa · 2021-01-19T10:25:01+00:00

Ahahaha die mad about it. I love when bad people get owned. KARMA IS A WOMAN

SpaceC4se · 2021-01-19T13:16:55+00:00

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myeggsarebig · 2021-01-19T16:46:04+00:00

I’m 44, and I’m not saying this to brag, but a few of them are still trying after 20 years. “I’m so sorry...you were so great...perfect...and I was a fool...”

Me: Um, sorry to disappoint, but I was 20 something and I did what all 20 somethings do after a breakup, I got drunk, and found someone else. I haven’t given it much thought, since then”

HE ACCUSED ME OF LYING! - and said that I was just putting up a wall because he hurt me.

Unbelievable.

I have another one - HE could not commit, and I gave him waaaaaay too many chances...he text me every time he gets a new number...like I care. He actually group texted me (with his closest family and friends) on new year...and his excuse is always the same: “just calling to see if you have my grandma’s vase.”

The vase went in the trash when he did.

I’m currently partnered with a good man. Everything we do to keep our family progressing, we do together. If I do therapy, so does he, if I’m eating well, so is he, if I’m deep cleaning for Passover, he is helping even tho he’s not Jewish - because we are a family. If we hurt each other, we own it, and if there’s one cookie left, I GET IT...lol...

Scram, ya has beens. I got a good one.

yolosunshine · 2021-01-19T04:53:36+00:00

This needs to be tattooed on arms from college graduation.

If frats wanted to do their membership a real favor...

goldiebaby · 2021-01-19T19:52:55+00:00

My ex before my husband was a total douche. I started dating my now-husband 2 weeks after the break-up. I also took a social media vow of silence during that time and posted nothing about my relationship. Eventually, I was happier not being on SM, so I stopped posting altogether. 3 years later, about a week before my wedding, I get a text from a random number. It turned out to be my ex who wanted to "reconnect." I responded with a photo of my wedding invite and cue epic meltdown. 60+ texts about how "mean" I was to move on so quickly, how I must have hidden my relationship on FB just to mess with him, women are all hos etc.

The kicker was that I had blocked him on FB, but he was using his sister's account to stalk me. Some men are just trash.

Repulsive-Ad1092 · 2021-01-19T10:37:21+00:00

And I mean, the guy posting this is still not being too harsh on his friend. What do you think it would have happened if he was writing about a girl who used to cheat on his bf and then wanted to come back when he was engaged?

i2aminspired · 2021-01-19T10:59:26+00:00

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Yeah_hey_kittycat · 2021-01-19T05:35:55+00:00

Well at least “Rev Rell” knows what the hell he’s talking about...

TextualRibbons · 2021-01-19T02:50:02+00:00

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