The Struggle Is Real...

2022-03-07T04:16:21+00:00

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VesperLynd- · 2022-03-06T17:15:21+00:00

Oh Ive heard of this website elsewhere on Reddit. Even if you type in that you have absolutely no standards at all itll give you a low percentage. Perhaps the dude who programmed this wants us to pick up guys from the street like in those tiktoks

wonkyeyes8877 · 2022-03-06T17:29:08+00:00

It's called the "Female Delusion Calculator". So I don't give a shit what it says.

LysistrataRises · 2022-03-06T20:57:21+00:00

This site was SPECIFICALLY created by a self-confessed bitter scrote using biased data: https://www.indy100.com/viral/female-delusion-calculator-bitter-man

Even if you set your standards at the lowest possible it still gives you like 2% and calls you delusional.

Jokes on them, all it tells me is that dating isn't worth the effort.

munakhtyler · 2022-03-06T17:09:28+00:00

Better single and successful than chained to a loser and abuser

revengeofgivingtree · 2022-03-07T03:37:27+00:00

Math time!

The average population in each US state is 5,763,868 (source https://www.states101.com/populations)
Half of the population is male. 5,763,868/2 = 2,881,934
2,881,934×0.0016= 4,611 rounded to the nearest whole number

You have a potential dating pool within your state of apx. 4,611 If you went on a date with a different man every day it would take you about 13 years to date them all.

LizzoSaidTruthHurts · 2022-03-06T23:44:09+00:00

nahhh this can’t be right. Because I put in the BARE MINIMUM of standards and got 2.2%.

-not married (within 15 years of me)

-any race

-at least my height

-not obese

-at least makes as much money as me

And I was 4/5 on the “delusional scale.” What does that say about the quality of men out there? That 98% can’t even match what I’m bringing to the table?

I know the bar is in hell for men but I suspect that there’s something fishy going on with the numbers. This website feels like incel copium.

Moira_Spice · 2022-03-06T17:35:09+00:00

This tool has been created by an incel. Dont take what it says seriously: I've dated many guys over 6ft, not obese, with great $$$, the odds are much higher than that lol.

I did a quick napkin calculation of the odds of meeting three men corresponding to the above criterias ans it was something in the order of 0.0001% which I definitely don't believe.

fuckbeingautobanned · 2022-03-06T17:07:55+00:00

I wonder what their threshold for obesity is. Any race!? 25-40!?

ddamaya · 2022-03-07T05:51:03+00:00

The math ain’t mathin right

yourealibra · 2022-03-06T17:41:57+00:00

Why would you fill out something called a “female delusion calculator?” This is some of the most incel bs I’ve ever seen.

Primary_Wrongdoer931 · 2022-03-06T17:08:58+00:00

Not obese (also, one of my requirements) eliminates like 70% of the male population. It’s not that hard to maintain a healthy weight as a man. The struggle is so real.

Sunshine_Daisies2525 · 2022-03-06T21:36:57+00:00

That’s still a quarter of a million people…. So correct me if I’m wrong, but even with this super biased metric, you could still date a different guy every day for more than 700 years and not go through them all.

(I’m not a math wiz, but this is based on a population of 162 million men in 2021)

No_Fig2938 · 2022-03-06T17:39:51+00:00

This is supposed to show you how "unrealistic" your standards are, but ends up showing you how 99% of men are low value lol.

Also this kind of static is normal as well, we are unique people, our interest are unique as well, there's no way we'll vibe with most the population, especially if you're hv, this shows just how men don't see women as people but as a potential mommy bangmaid and will date any women that fulfills that role.

thighvalue · 2022-03-07T14:10:27+00:00

If only 0.1% of the US population as a whole meet your standards we are still talking about 329000 people :D

eagleverest · 2022-03-06T21:08:50+00:00

There’s a version for males!!!

https://realitycalc.com/

shockingupdate · 2022-03-07T01:48:54+00:00

Someone took precious time out of their undergraduate Java programming class to develop this cope

JulyParade · 2022-03-06T17:17:03+00:00

I dated several of this guy! They still have serious mental health issues and are looking for bangmaids. If only short guys had more confidence....

Zurflu · 2022-03-06T17:41:38+00:00

I got me one of those!

Dating isn't just a random game of chance. For example, if you work in a professional high-paying field you could meet a variety of men who make over 100k every day. If you take care of your own health or are attractive you're more likely to be with someone who is also healthy and/or attractive. Weeding out the men who don't meet your standards also raises your chance of being with someone who does meet them, regardless of your own circumstances.

Also, imagine what happens to this statistic when you subtract all the unemployed basement-dewlling incels out of the pool. The worst of the worst men aren't really meeting women, anyway.

thighvalue · 2022-03-07T12:24:40+00:00

This is so meaningless, because the percentage of women with your exact hight, race, income and age is also tiny

all_or_nothing_bet · 2022-03-06T19:05:34+00:00

It's called Frmale Delusion Calculator. It's a toy for incels made by incels that has nothing to do with reality.

23eggz · 2022-03-06T21:25:37+00:00

I mean.. 1/1000 doesn't seem that bad to me?

lluuni · 2022-03-06T18:41:14+00:00

The age group you pick will almost always give a seemingly low statistic. For example, men within the 20-25 age group make of a small percentage of the population. So it will always look like having ANY standards will result in small results. It’s absurd, and a way to guilt trip you into dating low value men.

dembar126 · 2022-03-06T19:15:14+00:00

Whoever created that should have included penis size. 🙃

wonkyeyes8877 · 2022-03-06T18:06:32+00:00

This calculator was created by a scrote loser. The results are bullshit. Keep your standards. Never ever settle.

My ideal man is 35-45. Physically active and makes health a priority (so no smoking and wearing sunscreen is a must). 6'4"+ because they are more attractive to me. Makes at least $120k a year and is more than happy spending a large portion of that on experiences with me. Child free. Cleans up after himself. Enjoys cooking and is good at it. Wants me, wants every inch of me, and expresses that often. No porn, no PIED. Oh, and never even considers cheating.

This isn't too much to ask for.

I don't give a flying fuck if some fugly POS says there is a 0% chance of meeting this man. I will happily live single in a cute condo and experience every other aspect of life without the worry and pain of an unfulfilling relationship. I will not settle. I will not give in to the lies the scrotes spew out trying to make me consider them because I will never be desperate for a relationship or marriage.

nlyddane · 2022-03-07T12:26:55+00:00

Oh man. I just took the quiz and it called me a “Cat Enthusiast”.

FineDeliciousSnakes · 2022-03-07T13:43:51+00:00

I’ve dated three men who match this aside from the height. I’m 5’5 and prefer men 5’7+. One of those three was 6’1, but no amount of height can make up for douchbaggery, I’d rather date a lemon

They’re out there

mashibeans · 2022-03-07T23:39:45+00:00

Imagine hating women so much, and being so salty the Dead Sea has nothing on you, to the point you put all this effort to fucking program a website to "prove them wrong"!

The small dick energy this screenshot alone emits, is ASTOUNDING.

He could've used this energy to self level up, with none of it tied to the goal of "getting chicks,"you know, just becoming a better, good person. But NOoooOOoOo, gotta spend energy on this bullshit, LOL.

VanessaViews · 2022-03-06T22:34:12+00:00

To me this just means guys need to step it up

masterofthebarkarts · 2022-03-06T19:18:56+00:00

I know it's already been said, but the stats used to create this website are not great.

Even the redpill subs this was initially posted to had some criticisms of his data analysis (although ofc most posters were gloating and overjoyed about how all women with standards will somehow die alone 🙄).

Statically, men over 6 feet earn more than shorter men. Wealthier men are more likely to be of a healthy weight. Also, the percentage of men who meet these criteria vary so enormously by county/region that a population-level tool (even if it were accurate) would be useless.

Pasdepromesses · 2022-03-06T23:00:52+00:00

That’s weird because 4 of my LTR’s have been with men exactly like this (only taller, like, all of them were around 6’6). I’m from Europe though, but there have to be some tall men in the States right?

warinmymind94 · 2022-03-06T19:26:57+00:00

Thats a fake statistic. There's a good number of men that are between 26 and 40 that are actually single and not obese and over 6 foot 2. Finding someone that makes 100k a year or more is more common around the bigger cities, higher cost of living but higher wages. Less than 1% okay.

socalqueenofcheese · 2022-03-08T03:36:26+00:00

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CuddlyKitty · 2022-03-10T06:12:29+00:00

According to this website, my 6'7", 29 y.o., white, not obese, husband that earns $90k a year literally does not exist. There's a 0.0000% chance. Something tells me this site was made by butthurt, angry scrotes with skewed data.

AmeliaEmiliaEmma · 2022-03-06T17:48:30+00:00

LOL! To meet less than a bare minimum- 0.16%.

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Title	The Struggle Is Real...
Author	socalqueenofcheese
Upvotes	649
Comments	84
Date	March 6, 2022 4:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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