Beating your boyfriend is ok?

qoppaphi · 2013-12-14T02:14:19+00:00

Jaw's dropped. Why the fuck are they all blaming the victim.

jobes · 2013-12-14T02:42:31+00:00

"No officer, I killed him out of the anger HE caused in me. I'm the victim here!"

ghebert001 · 2013-12-14T04:49:35+00:00

Imagine if the genders were reversed:

"Dude, she pushed you to your limit. She's just as much to blame for you knocking her the fuck out. A decent woman does not make her man mad enough to want to hit her. If my gf did something bad, I'd take a frying pan and knock her in the head with it. You did it out of anger so she has to see there's two sides to this"

beethy · 2013-12-14T04:27:08+00:00

I posted in the thread in /r/rage claiming it's fake.

However the OP sent me a message which verified its legitimacy. Just so you guys know.. this screenshot is completely real. It checks out.

SRSLovesGawker · 2013-12-14T02:56:43+00:00

I literally just did an involuntary SMH.

What. The. Fuck. This would be the worst sort of vile post-facto abuser justification regardless of gender. How the hell are these people justifying it because "He made her mad"?

^Edit The way the names were blanked out looked kinda sketchy, so I pulled it up in paintshop and I was right -- names are obscured to the eye, but not to the machine. 2 minutes searching facebook and all those names popped right up, all friends of each other. Whoever made this looks like they're doing it in a way that leaves payback open to this girl and her friends. Be aware.

^EditEdit Messaged the OP and he cleaned it up. Better now.

wysiwyg2 · 2013-12-14T04:02:22+00:00

Talk about a true sexist double standard.

Mashuu225 · 2013-12-14T10:10:16+00:00

http://judgybitch.com/2013/10/15/this-is-female-privilege-and-women-fully-intend-to-keep-this-one-fair-enough-but-men-will-be-keeping-a-few-of-their-privileges-too/

Way back in 2007, Jezebel ran a post called Have You Ever Beat Up A Boyfriend? Cause, Uh, We Have, and it is enlightening, to say the least.

All these comments are taken directly from the Jezebel article.

I once dated an alcoholic (rite of passage for all good little girls) who came over drunk and got in my face. I punched him hard enough to knock him on his ass. After I dumped him, he served me with a restraining order, which I proudly showed off to all his friends. Stupid wimp.

... Yeah, that wasn’t fun. I screamed bloody murder which scared the shit out of him, and then got up and punched whatever shit was left out of him. He became mildly terrified of me after that.

... So i jumped into a cab with no money. Ran out at a red light. Used my set of keys to get into his appartment. Confronted him. Slapped his glasses off his face. Bite him repeated so hard that he imediately bruised. Got out a kitchen knife. He threatened to call the cops on me and i called his bluff knowing he had too much blow in his appartment to want to bring cops in. He threw out all my shit and called my roommate to come get me.

... I tried to run one of my ex’s over with my car. After the gazillion fight that week, I was so sick of him. He walked out mid scream of mine, so I got in my car and went after him. The neighbor’s yard fell victim to my wrath, unfortunately. And the poor woman was there gardening. She never said anything to me though. Wonder why HAHAHAHA 8/29/07 11:38am

Well, holy shit! These comments are from supposedly self-aware feminists who would never accept a single justification for any man beating the crap out of any woman, but the glee is just so self-evident, isn’t it?

tokyochimp · 2013-12-14T07:34:13+00:00

a good man wouldn't give you a reason of beating him up,

you deserve a man that loves you and treats you good

I am speechless.

Daemonicus · 2013-12-14T02:46:26+00:00

If you get assaulted get evidence than get away, then call cops and press charges.

Sadly if you call the cops during the dispute you might end up arrested or shot.

glguru · 2013-12-14T08:49:50+00:00

Typical abuser logic. Thank fuck I do not have people like this in my life.

allenstenhaus · 2013-12-14T08:49:10+00:00

Someone needs to Photoshop the names and images to men, post it elsewhere, then watch the shitstorm ensue. Once the feminists and white knights come out, reveal the original image and watch just how few people care at that point.

Dullahan3470 · 2013-12-14T05:20:05+00:00

Delusional females working to make each other feel justified/vindicated in their crimes. Happens all the time with less serious shit. "You only cheated on him because he was neglecting you." for example.

Most rational people will say it's not okay, and I bet these girls would even agree if their brains weren't busy trying to rationalize their own actions.

Their boyfriends are idiots for sticking with them, too. I wouldn't be surprised if there was emotional/verbal abuse as well being inflicted on those poor guys.

zulu127 · 2013-12-14T03:17:08+00:00

Surely something like this can be forged, that would be my hope after seeing this. If this conversation is for real then it is in the top tier of disgusting things I've read. These people need to take some anger management [and English] courses. There's a lot of this notion that men deserve to be abused going around these days. It is very troubling.

Jamezinator · 2013-12-14T06:15:39+00:00

Who else here is single!? Fuck yeah!

MockingDead · 2013-12-14T13:20:50+00:00

Please tell me this is fake. My girlfriend's brother has 18 months in jail since his ex was punching him and when he blocked he accidentally elbowed her. Women are becoming invincible.

Simultanagnosia · 2013-12-14T04:27:55+00:00

Been there! It is characteristic of the feminist mindset. If she is afraid to leave; its your fault and she is justified in killing you to secure her safety (whether or not you are actually a threat). If she is angry at you for something you (may) have done then she is justified in beating you.

Feminism like this is a con. Women want to be regarded as equal but this is not equality, this says exactly what feminists have fought against, it says women are unable to control themselves and behave rationally and that they need men to shoulder the burden of being rational and objective.

allenstenhaus · 2013-12-14T05:44:46+00:00

He brought the beating on himself ?

Jesus.

copterdick · 2013-12-14T14:27:47+00:00

"what you (the abuser) did was out of anger..."

She was angry about something guys, that makes it alright. When someone upsets a woman she has the right to hurt them, everyone else gets it, we should all calm down and see how wrong we are. /s

mailjockey · 2013-12-14T03:22:51+00:00

This can't be real. Someone tell me this can't be real. Men don't even justify damage done in a fair fight with each other like they are doing. If this is our future, we are doomed.

Lurker_IV · 2013-12-14T05:48:44+00:00

Lets spin this:

"Girlfriend justifies her abuse, 'You made me angry, its your fault. You made me hit you.' "

That has enough ambiguity for people to assume its the girl getting abused and to get them to look in on it.

Oldini · 2013-12-14T08:02:27+00:00

Would men ever discuss similar things about beating their significant other like that? That seems genuine and sincere, the whole discussion. If men talk about similar things it's always clearly a joke. Not saying it should be ok to joke about, but talking about violence in an encouraging manner like these women are doing must be much more harmful than joking about it, where everyone in the discussion clearly understand it's a joke and not to be taken seriously.

powerdeamon · 2013-12-14T15:49:50+00:00

If this were a screen shot where the genders were opposite, the police would be involved in no time flat.

But instead no one will admit a crime took place.

Again, it's our privilege...

scanspeak · 2013-12-14T08:56:21+00:00

One day after years of abuse he will have enough and fight back and probably kill her. Then we'll be expected to pity her and add her to the male-against female domestic violence numbers..

INeedANewAccountMan · 2013-12-14T04:41:12+00:00

Pretty bad editing to be honest, easy to read the names and find their profiles. But this is still messed up.

Edit: OP fixed the blanked names.

fuckinhell · 2013-12-14T04:44:16+00:00

What the fucking FUCK???

cbarrett1989 · 2013-12-14T08:05:49+00:00

Welp, this is the most infuriating thing I've read all day. It's doubly infuriating having been on the receiving end of a woman with a shit-ass temper. Nobody should be encouraging violent behavior like this regardless of who's on the receiving end of it.

2013-12-14T11:25:55+00:00

If a woman actually gets a man that mad... she deserves her hospital bills. /s

Fucking ridiculous double standard.

galt88 · 2013-12-14T14:45:36+00:00

Has anyone contacted the police? This childish person straight up confessed to battery to the world.

RXRob · 2013-12-14T10:39:24+00:00

By her own admission she slapped him 20 times. If he hit back even once he'd have been arrested.

Go on Matt. Go and find a real woman. One who has the emotional maturity to tell you what's up rather than beating it into you.

BioGenx2b · 2013-12-14T05:53:04+00:00

Well fuck me. Somebody tell that poor man to get the fuck out before she puts him in a coma. My ex got violent when she got angry, but I would wrestle her to the ground and put her in a lion tamer if she refused to quit. We talked about it and I made it clear that hitting was not okay, problem solved.

ShitLordXurious · 2013-12-14T08:14:30+00:00

This is horrific.

I'm speechless.

Eezyville · 2013-12-14T14:15:14+00:00

Man this is awesome. Now the guy has evidence against her.

KRosen333 · 2013-12-14T08:53:08+00:00

"a good man wouldn't give you a reason of beating him up" ? wot.

wot.

> mfw wot.

SHITLORDHERE · 2013-12-14T16:15:18+00:00

I wonder if these ghetto, trailer trash cunts would be singing that tune if, after they struck their boyfriends, the boyfriends knocked them the fuck out. Equal rights and equal lefts.

headless_bourgeoisie · 2013-12-14T06:59:00+00:00

Holy shit.

DJBennettron · 2013-12-14T08:59:41+00:00

Clearly, whoever screencapped this post knows women in a witches coven.

redheadedalex · 2013-12-14T12:46:21+00:00

oh my god this is some fucked up shit. And I'm a woman. "he shouldnt have pushed you to that point" oh my GOD!!! its a lifetime movie in reverse!

ShadyDude995 · 2013-12-14T12:59:59+00:00

That comment section is like the worst fucking circle jerk I've ever seen.

GrantNexus · 2013-12-14T13:34:48+00:00

Power hamsters TO THE EMOTIONAL RESCUE

greenmesh · 2013-12-14T13:49:13+00:00

Oh, the irony! That last comment got me most. "If he can't see the other side of the story..."

-_-

MoFuckinBananas · 2013-12-14T17:56:26+00:00

History Channel Aliens Guy

"Feminism"

Space_Ninja · 2013-12-14T22:31:46+00:00

"If he ACTUALLY gets a girl THAT MAD, he's just as much to blame"

Wow. Not even sorry about it. What a classy girl.

And Cassandra: you are worthless and pathetic... and a cunt.

s1500 · 2013-12-14T06:36:30+00:00

This better be fake. It's almost as if 2 women were bragging about how much better they were beating up their significant others.

2013-12-14T10:32:16+00:00

Well regardless of the obvious issue. If a guy stays with such a destructive woman... Seriously he should grab his stuff and GTFO as long as he still can and even more important he needs to do it asap.

HalfysReddit · 2013-12-14T16:05:13+00:00

There's a bright side to this story and a dark side.

The bright side is that the dude who was dating Cassandra is going to gtfo.

The dark side is that the dude who is dating Chelsey is an idiot and hasn't left yet.

The darkest side is that these fuck-ups will reproduce, probably beat their kids too, and raise a new generation of fucked-up people. Yay mental illness!

warspite88 · 2013-12-14T17:16:39+00:00

Feminism has nothing to do with that group of women's chat. Some Women think this way and do this all the time. So do some men.

Where feminism comes into play here is how for the past 40 years it has supported women's position like you see women doing here while in the exact same scenario feminists would demand the man be put in prison for assault of a woman.

FEminists today are starting to backpeddle and say "no no no feminism does not support this." too late, feminism has supported this double standard and many still will even after the world wakes up to the hate.

Btw has anyone contacted authorities yet about this linked discussion of an assault?

beatbox_pantomime · 2013-12-14T05:47:35+00:00

The poor little wimmins can't control themselves when pushed, but men are expected to because they're emotionless paychecks with dicks. RRRRGH.

xVoluntasx · 2013-12-14T09:47:10+00:00

If someone hits me, I don't care if it's a man, woman, animal, or mutant...i'm hitting back, twice as hard

Meistermalkav · 2013-12-14T10:37:08+00:00

In those situations, I would favor stepping on their hands, and accidentially ( by this point,. most likely battered red and blue) making sure they never ever forget the day they initiated domestic violence. You know, I am a big guy, I can take a few punches, make sure that you have plenty of evidence before you defend yourself and "accidentially" go for more then you intended, so in court, you just need to take off your shirt during the "I am just a widdle girly, I could not hurt a fly" speech.

And yes, posts like that are the reason I thank whatever higher power claimed responsibility for sending me a GF that is nothing like that.

surfnsound · 2013-12-14T12:22:51+00:00

Obviously as long as "it's out of anger" it's ok

ellisftw · 2013-12-14T12:32:52+00:00

Holy shit. I wish I knew those people in real life. That's insane.

2013-12-14T13:27:55+00:00

What the actual fuck?

aussiepowerranger · 2013-12-14T15:35:36+00:00

no what you did is assult and you should be in jail.

Unenjoyed · 2013-12-14T15:53:32+00:00

It was like a brutish moron echo chamber in there.

Fentron · 2013-12-14T16:17:23+00:00

/r/rage

not-quite-obscure · 2013-12-14T16:29:32+00:00

Holy shit

rogue780 · 2013-12-14T16:59:46+00:00

I have such a hard time believing this

Prtyvacant · 2013-12-14T17:33:21+00:00

Men need to stop dating idiots like this. They will eventually get the point. It's obvious that logical reasoning isn't working very well.

chickenKsadilla · 2013-12-14T17:57:08+00:00

Just another person I would be blocking on Facebook. That website pushes me to my mental limits sometimes.

alternativejohn · 2013-12-14T18:17:00+00:00

Wow they are crazy

seductivestain · 2013-12-14T19:57:01+00:00

Someone should switch their names out for Tony, Jacob, and Jason, post it on tumblr, and see what kind of reaction it gets. Then post the real one in the comments.

p3ngwin · 2013-12-14T23:01:18+00:00

"if he can't look at both sides then...."

says the entire circlejerk who not ONCE asked for his side of the story before absolutely defending this girl's violence.

so when SHE beats HIM, HE "deserved" it, and he's at fault because he "doesn't listen".

meanwhile it's fine for these assholes to not even inquire what happened between the two people, because who needs to know right? just presume he's guilty and he "deserved it".

the girl-OP knows she fucked-up and is a "worthless & pathetic" person, and that's exactly why she went crying to her friends asking for support.

special_mister_k · 2013-12-15T00:06:33+00:00

I can't even...

myrushmore · 2013-12-14T10:36:44+00:00

Regardless of gender, beating on someone is not ok. I don't care who you are, if you lift your hands to anyone in anything other than defense maybe you should take a moment to think about what your doing.

MerfAvenger · 2013-12-14T10:28:53+00:00

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ViolatingUncle · 2013-12-14T17:03:34+00:00

Wow those are some violent and mentally-ill people.

cpsam123 · 2013-12-14T18:40:12+00:00

This makes me scared for humanity.

smkeybare · 2013-12-14T19:00:50+00:00

Flipped the genders in that post to read it from the opposite perspective. It was a good read.

BladexJogger · 2013-12-14T19:51:07+00:00

I'm normally a little upset at the male-sexism posts, but this is literally making my hands shake I'm so mad. Holy shit. Fuck those people, and fuck people who think like that. I can't even right now

ProBread · 2013-12-14T19:57:49+00:00

this is ridiculous

The_Vigorous_Truth · 2013-12-14T22:05:30+00:00

HOLY FUCK I never get mad or overcome with rage from internet shit, but damnit this genuinely infuriates me. sdlfkhdsgj;lsdhfgsd.fhg;sdfvj;lkcj;ldf

B68B · 2013-12-14T22:36:24+00:00

I mean I'd be lying if I said this didn't make me furious.

asmartgoat · 2013-12-15T09:04:37+00:00

Reverse it

"She got him so mad, she deserved it"

SHITLORDHERE · 2014-01-10T21:00:14+00:00

Equal rights and equal lefts. Pity he didn't beat the shit out of her after she assaulted him.

crazyrican · 2013-12-14T16:32:38+00:00

Beating ANYBODY is not good girl, boy no one!

AllHailKingGeorge · 2013-12-14T11:47:43+00:00

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ihaveahadron · 2013-12-14T03:27:42+00:00

Normally I'd say its an obvious troll. But this country is so fucked up I don't doubt its legit. If your a guy leave here and go to China as fast as you can. Your in danger every day you exist here.

mattavich · 2013-12-14T18:37:42+00:00

looks completely fake.

Title	Beating your boyfriend is ok?
Author	xSage82x
Upvotes	870
Comments	211
Date	December 14, 2013 2:06 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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