What are your expectations for sex within LTRs? How do you prevent dead bedrooms? When can you expect sex to decrease or should it remain high forever?
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You should end relationships. Not meeting your partner's needs doesn't give you justification for cheating.
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It's also a way, but I believe people should practice open relationships ethically. It isn't ethical to "open up" exclusive relationships without a warning.
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What’s an LTR?
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That's how it should be. If you start thinking in terms of 'frequency' and 'initiation' something has gone horribly wrong, and hopefully you're not married yet
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Err, so you haven't been in any long term relationships then, but your confident you know why sex stops after 5 years? The first 6-24mo of any relationship is DTF time, it's when that stops when you're if anything better than when you started dating is the puzzle
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Attraction is certainly it, but studies show it falls despite all of that. As I said, you will quite literally be a better man, but the sexual interest won't even be a quarter of the DTF you have right now.
I'd just suggest don't get married, and stay with someone only so long as they desire you. If that ends up being the rest of your life, all the better, but don't give up the ability to just walk out the door without a sheriff later coming to serve you papers
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The most overt point to disagree with here broadly speaking is that in the context of a marriage/long term relationship, more often than not, the woman’s sexual desire for the man tends to drop, where the males tends to remain far more constant. Exceptions? Sure. But this is the broad trend.
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I will have to leave this to others to decide whose assessment of the broader reality is more accurate here.
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Utterly irrelevant to the argument. Even assuming I had never had any relationships, would not change a single thing about what we are discussing with regard to the broader trend between men and women in long term relationships.
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I'd say year 3 is where I call it LTR. Have to at least give it time to get out of the Honeymoon stage
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