I don’t understand the mentality of men who blame women for their unsuccessful attempts at relationships.

If you get “ghosted” or “rejected” EVERY TIME you try to talk to/get to know a woman, there’s a reason, and it’s most likely you. Even if you believe you’re doing everything “the right way”, chances are there’s something off-putting that you’re doing. 

Are you really surprised if women don’t want anything to do with you if you only talk about yourself, have bad hygiene, and/or constantly bring up sex? And those are just the tip of the iceberg. 

Also, I don’t believe looks matter nearly as much as people think. I don’t give a shit if you looked like a Greek god; If you chased me off a bus asking for my number, that would send off alarms in my head and automatically make me assume you are a weirdo. 

As a woman, I believe one of the most important ways to have success with women is treating them like they’re people, and not as if they’re a prize to be obtained. 

But in order to do that, you need to be capable of self-awareness and self-reflection, and have a good capacity of emotional intelligence.