There seems to be this idea that if women aren't attracted to you, it's got to be because you're a misogynist and "No one owes you sex, asshole!" Which is true, but doesn't mean his lack of luck is necessarily due to attitude.

Certainly, we can point to examples, which numerous other threads do. Nor is loneliness a justification to hate women. But an entire group shouldn't be painted with the brush of their worst examples.

I've encountered more than one person whose attitude can be summarized as: women are nothing but holes to stick it inside. However, they're rarely without a partner, so clearly their beliefs hasn't stopped women from being attracted to them. A couple even have domestic violence convictions, so it goes beyond mere words.

https://amptoons.com/blog/?p=19021&cpage=1 This is someone who's essentially spent his life fighting for women's rights. At the age of 45, he was sadly forced to admit that love probably wasn't going to happen for him. And despite having a good life in many other ways, it got to him. Almost all of us want a partner, male or female, and never having success can be difficult.

It's nice to think that if we live a good life and be a good person, that good things will happen to us. However, life doesn't always work that way. Everyone does what they can with what they have, which sometimes leads to crappy outcomes.