One thing I'm noticing is that a lot of the women who are more delusional with their dating standards are also the ones with not much to offer, meanwhile the ones with realistic standards actually have things going on.

For example, it'll be a girl who believes she deserves a guy around her age (25-35), over 6ft tall, handsome, makes $100k a year, owns a nice house, luxury car, spoils her, and is completely faithful. Meanwhile, she works at Walmart, is $15k in debt and has a kid.

Now I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that woman. That's just an average person but we really have to think about this logically. The man described exist, but is a relatively small percentage of the population. That number decreasing when you consider how many of them are actually single, since most likely many of these men are older, and are married to the women who were with them when they didn't have any of this.

They also often only think about it from the perception of what they want, and not what this man would want. Basically like, I deserve this man simply because I'm me.

SO my question is where are these women planning to find these men? What are you doing or what do you have that would attract and keep them?

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