Lets say you are a genuinely great and fun guy. You’re exciting, interesting, are able to create sexual tension, have a lot in common with a girl and always make her laugh and keep her on her toes. You are charismatic and she really enjoys your company - you have chemistry.

But she isn’t aroused by your looks. You’re plain as day, average height, nondescript neutral face, not ugly but not attractive. You’re body is bang average, not fat but she doesn’t feel that you’re strong at all, in fact, everything about you is physically vanilla.

She’s never saying how hot you are or how sexy you are and she’s never touching you uncontrollably. Sex right from the get go was “fine” but she’s never noticeably into you on a superficial level, at least not like she’s been into other men before.

But you’re together and you’re dynamic emotionally and intellectually is great. You’re a good guy, you have chemistry and get on well, but you’re not actively turning her on with your looks.

Is this being settled for? Is this beta bux? Can this relationship last? Or is physical attractiveness actually more important than we care to admit ?

Edit : What I mean by beta bux/provider is not just that shes with him for money. I mean shes basically not with him because hes a hot chad