I share this because so often when us guys have been cheated on or handed divorce papers we look within to find out what we did wrong. We're accountable, we take ownership, that's what we do. We ask ourselves hypotheticals like....what if I was more successful? Better looking? Taller? In better shape? Made more money?

This news just goes to show that even if you are a 6'4" model-looking dude who is the greatest NFL quarterback of all time, even if you have kids with the gal, even if you have homes in Miami, Montana, New York, and Boston, even if you have cooks and cleaning staffing taking care of everything...your wife can leave you for a jiu jitsu instructor.

No one is immune. There is no secret formula. Legal marriage is a risky and outdated institution. She's not yours, it was just your turn.