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Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-11-07T09:15:11+00:00

This sub is fucking mental i swear

No, I wouldn't,and 99% of normal people also wouldn't.

King_conscience · 2024-11-07T10:52:15+00:00

No but deeply sorry what happened to you

ComfortableJeans · 2024-11-07T09:16:13+00:00

Jesus Christ, no.

For one, I don't want to hurt someone like that.

Secondly, I don't think I could enjoy sex with someone that wasn't also enjoying it. Even if it weren't as extreme as rape, it still wouldn't be enjoyable. I'd get nothing positive out of it.

I guess I don't have sex with people that I haven't fallen for anyway, so if me and her are having sex at all, then I've already gotten strong feelings for her and wouldn't want to hurt someone I love like that anyway... Or anyone else, but especially someone I love.

There's reasons than that, but ultimatly they're all going to come back to some variation of 'I don't want to rape someone.'

This might sound horrible, but I'm a 6'3, 205lbs guy who got in a LOT of trouble with police when I was younger. Fairly regularly. What stops me from raping someone isn't physical ability, or fear of police.

It's that I'm not a horrible monster.

Electric_Death_1349 · 2024-11-07T09:13:48+00:00

What sort of sick question is this? No, of course I fucking wouldn’t

Main_Following1881 · 2024-11-07T09:22:26+00:00

nah, if she aint into it im not into it

Weekly-Syllabub-608 · 2024-11-07T09:22:30+00:00

No. Society exist because %90 of the population aren't evil. The %5 most evil men distort what most of us are like.

Lovers691 · 2024-11-07T09:22:55+00:00

This would probably be deleted but no, I would bet money that no man here would say yes even if they would do it. All in all rape seems like a pretty low IQ crime and I personally can't imagine a scenario where I would be driven to it.

Illustrious_Wish_383 · 2024-11-07T09:14:33+00:00

Fuck no.

thedarkracer · 2024-11-07T09:23:42+00:00

It's like asking if we would enjoy killing someone if we got away with it. What you are asking is basically a sin.

RecentDegree7990 · 2024-11-07T09:22:46+00:00

It’s funny when women say that if there was no laws men would rape women. Who put those laws? Men, women until few decades were inconsequential in politics and law making and according to feminists still are like this because we live in a Patriarchy, so it was men who put those laws, if most men were rapists they could just repeal those laws or ignore you can’t do anything about it, and yet we don’t do that because we see it as bad

TheGreatBeefSupreme · 2024-11-07T09:32:26+00:00

LogoNoeticist · 2024-11-07T09:34:56+00:00

Thank you for having the courage to ask that question 🌼

I'm so sorry for what happened to you and I get your want to understand the psychology of your perpetrator (I hope that person gets punished and suffers for his crime). I can't understand why he did what he did and I would never do anything like that. Sex should always be about care and tenderness and never violent and selfish.

izzzy12k · 2024-11-07T09:45:47+00:00

Why would I even consider such a thought?!

I might legally get away with it, but I would never escape the self-reflective guilt that would follow me for the rest of my life.

Working-Engine5037 · 2024-11-07T09:52:09+00:00

No. What’s the joy of rape? A girl says no?

Why is that supposed to be enjoyable to non-sociopaths?

I like a girl who enjoys struggle play or some light bandage sure. But if a woman isn’t into it, what’s the point?

FuuraKafu · 2024-11-07T10:17:18+00:00

I cannot for the life of me understand what makes another person do this, but I feel this sick need to understand.

They say sex is about power, and it's kind of true. Power and sex are very closely interconnected - there is competition within one sex, and the push and pull game of "who wants it more" within a relationship, there is the sense of "loss of self" which desire does to us, it's an altered state of mind that we do not just switch on with a button, it happens to us, and there is the tension between the bliss of that and the frustration of losing control. These are the ways how the matter of power gets attached to desire. And with messed up individuals, that concept can get twisted.

To add to this, in my opinion, male and female sexuality are quite predictably different, which is deeply rooted, kind of innate and biological, and it causes a lot of tension between the sexes. Widely speaking, men by default are much more easily excitable and eager, some say they have proactive desire in contrast to women's reactive desire. What this means is that men have this basic feeling that a big chunk of their desires are unwanted and they need to supress/hide it. Which is true, and it's all because of consideration for women. But it's something that a lot of men struggle with, and imo it's largely what fuelled the patriarchy and women's subjugation. It is that "simple". That being said, women can be rapists too which supposedly happens more than people assume, but as a man, I understand men more, and that's what your question is about.

Fucked up men can get like a vengeful "fuck it, I take what's mine" attitude about sex, which to me is an unfortunate but "understandable" extension of all of this. The context is that men suffer with being too horny, to put it simply. That combined with the world being flawed and it including a lot of hurt and bullshit results in these horrible deeds sometimes. It is a twisted, evil attempt to grab back control, to overcome a kind of unaddressed, denied weakness. That's how I would put it.

It is absolutely fucking abhorrent, and no, I would never do something like this, most men wouldn't. I saw your comment about you planning to kill yourself, it makes me very sad. All I can say is if you wanna talk more, or even just went to someone anonymously, my DMs are open.

Termodynamicslad · 2024-11-07T10:19:19+00:00

No.

Your question is similar to the commonly raised point "If no laws existed, would everyone do crime?" the answer is no, while some people would be inclined to commit more crime and crime rate would definitely rise, humans would form communities to protect themselves and enforce their own made up rules, these people would still think doing crime is bad even if they get away with it.

Animals with social structures all have rules to deal with deviants and members that disrupt the order

Artistic_Speech_1965 · 2024-11-07T11:00:11+00:00

WHY ??! I could do other stuffs if I am not caught only if it doesn't harm another human being, so I wouldn't

I am really sorry for what happened to you. There trully are some monster in this world

QuantityAcademic · 2024-11-07T11:25:48+00:00

No, what the fuck.

AreOut · 2024-11-07T11:34:59+00:00

ugh, whoever visits PPD usually has at least an ounce of introspection, so unlikely to be a potential rapist

untamed-italian · 2024-11-07T12:01:06+00:00

Would you rape a woman if it was guaranteed you’d get away with it?

No. Also, you're being incredibly offensive.

Tokimonatakanimekat · 2024-11-07T12:07:54+00:00

Nope. Not a fan of sex without desire on her side.

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-11-07T13:33:53+00:00

Why would anyone answer yes to this, since you'd just get account banned?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-11-07T14:04:38+00:00

No. The idea that I would hurt someone like that just makes me feel sick.

BeepBeepYeah7789 · 2024-11-07T14:09:27+00:00

As a Christian, here's my answer:

Do I have the POTENTIAL to rape a woman? Yes

Do I have the STRENGTH to rape a woman? Most likely

Do I have the DESIRE to rape a woman? Absolutely not.

Humanly speaking, there are many things I would do if I knew I wouldn't get caught. Rape is NOT one of those things.

Longjumping_Bid_797 · 2024-11-07T14:10:32+00:00

I am insulted by this question.

LostWanderer88 · 2024-11-07T14:39:44+00:00

Never.

I want her mischievous, horny and full of energy

abaxeron · 2024-11-07T14:43:02+00:00

I will not say "Nah, Noes, Nevah", because if everyone says this, then who is doing the raping,

but I will say this: you do not have enough money or psychoactive substances to make me start considering such an act at the back of my mind. I am not saying such amount of money or psychoactives of such potency don't exist; they probably do, but it's not something you realistically have at hand.

I'm an adult, I know how to take care of my own orgasms, I'm getting more and more germophobic with age, I was 16 when I first turned down the opportunity to have sex because the other person was drunk, I'm not into domination, and if I was into sticking it in an unresponsive body, I'd buy a silicone doll with model-esque looks (which I can afford) with nether parts that can vibrate and spin (which is a real thing). I don't drink distilled spirits, don't take drugs, and know all the places on the Internet where I can satisfy my curiosity on what women be hiding under their clothes (and since recently, I can look under clothes of women that have actually never existed outside of someone's sick and twisted imagination, thanks to AI image generation). I am not particularly high libido, and have not experienced sexual frustration ever since meeting and getting together with a woman who is enthusiastically and passionately in love with me.

I will agree with a line I saw in some book years ago. "Rape is not crime of power and domination; it's a crime of frustration". I know how to deal with my frustrations. Many people don't.

Zabadoodude · 2024-11-07T16:02:21+00:00

Wtf! No! I'm sorry that happened to you OP. Rapists are a small minority of men, and we think they're. Monsters too.

GrandpaDallas · 2024-11-07T16:23:22+00:00

No.

Even aside from the obvious reasons that hurting people is a shitty thing to do, I’ve had enough sex with women who were passive and women who were eager participants to know that the latter category was significantly more fun. I can’t imagine how much less fun it would be to be forcing a woman to actively be pushing herself away from me.

Throwaway26702008 · 2024-11-07T16:51:18+00:00

Only if the women was Ryan renolds and he consented (im a straight man and this is a joke)

valerianandthecity · 2024-11-07T17:06:44+00:00

In answer to your question; no.

Sorry to read about you being raped.

I cannot for the life of me understand what makes another person do this, but I feel this sick need to understand.

I've looked into the psychology of rapists (though not in depth), and from what I can gather people can rape for multiple reason;

A) Some people are simply anti-social (or can be intoxicated), and think nothing of transgressing boundaries to get what they want.

B) Some people put their sense of status and identity in dominance, and rejection of their advances is seen as a challenge to their identity of being able to get people to do what they want. So they do it anyway.

C) Some people have a kink for power imbalances or non-consent (though there are many, many people who have those kinks who only exercise it through fiction or roleplay and would never do it with an unwilling participant). And having a rapekink combined with anti-social personality traits (e.g. a lack of effective empathy, a history transgressing boundaries).

D) (The most controversial, probably) Something I was discovered and realized is that a lot of people do not understand what sexual assault and rape are. And so can SA and rape without knowing they have.

Meaning, they think of SA or Rape as someone screaming crying and protesting while someone physically holds them down and forces them. However SA and Rape can look like someone saying no, stop or don't once or twice and having their protests ignored, and then freezing or complying out of fear or not wanting to anger someone who isn't respecting their boundaries.

For example; in my school it was part of the culture to smack girls asses or grope them and we boys laugh about it. It wasn't until I was an adult that I realized that we had a culture of SA in my school, and none of the guys I knew though it was strange. I also witness a a group of boys pressing a girl into kissing them, who repeatedly tried to walk away and would politely but repeatedly refuse, but they wouldn't let her. Fucked up, but we literally didn't think anything of it.

justsomelizard30 · 2024-11-07T17:12:34+00:00

Raping a woman could cause extreme harm to her. This is a negative consequence, so therefore, never not in a million years would I do something like that.

Dry-Ad3452 · 2024-11-07T17:23:08+00:00

Wtf type of question is this?! No, absolutely not.

ArtifactFan65 · 2024-11-07T17:25:54+00:00

Personally I wouldn't simply because I don't want to harm other mammals.

0kayz00mer · 2024-11-07T17:26:10+00:00

I still remember my first FWB teaching me how to “choke” her. I had never even thought of ever choking a woman but I obliged solely because she enjoyed it a lot. I am fortunate to have grown up with realistic access to sex such that my views on sex were socialized and influenced by real sex with real women as opposed to the deep dark corners of the internet. My natural brain pathways and reward mechanisms surrounding sex developed the way they were supposed to… by having sex with real women… and consequently I very much enjoy and prefer women’s sexual enjoyment and pleasure and can’t even fathom the idea of ever wanting to rape a woman.

BrenoECB · 2024-11-07T17:46:06+00:00

You see, every day i will take a bath.

When i go to the bathroom there is a mirror i need to pass through

When i go through this mirror i will see a person

I like to be able to be proud of the person i see on the other side

So my answer is no

Affectionate_Cat1512 · 2024-11-07T09:27:46+00:00

No normal functioning, sane man would want to r*pe another person. These are not "your regular Joes". These are deranged and evil scums of earth.

I tried CNC once with my then gf (with her consent of course - it's written in the name). The moment she said "no, please" all my will just flew out of the window and i suddenly felt like the worst piece of shit ever. I felt like i will cry and beg her to forgive me, even though she was very enthusiastic to try it. I couldn't have sex for almost month, because every time i would just remember her from that day. And i like kinky stuff

So, no - i wouldn't r*pe women, even if i could do it repercussion free

Consistent-Career888 · 2024-11-07T09:51:22+00:00

What a sick disturbing question. If it matters. When I was serving In the Army . I did many deployments in the middle east . I rescued hostages from ISIL . I assure you . I sent those vile rapist on a express trip to hell . I had zero problems with it .

In prison rapists have to be kept out of general population and locked up 23 /7 for their own protection.

Men despise rapist.

Your question is sick and repulsive. You should be permanently banned and a court mandated psychiatric evaluation.

Men made laws with harsh punishment. Until 2008 rape could carry execution.

In Kennedy Vs Louisiana the US Supreme Court ruled that crimes not causing death violate the 8 th amendment against cruel and unusual punishment.

Most feminists have beeen historically anti capitol punishment.

Perhaps you should seek help for whatever it is that causes this snd you to have these thoughts. It’s not healthy or normal.

Less than 2 percent of prisoners are rapists .

Rape has nothing to do with sex . It us about power and control.

Most men fnd it highly repulsive.

I could not continue watchng the Handmaidens tale series with a GF as ir bothered me .

Perhaps my experiences in the middle east where I dealt with Jihadis raping exacerbates my revulsion. The memories are not pleasant.

Most men find rape to be repulsive.

I cannot even role play non consent sex with a girl friend.

You probably should ask a qualified mental health professional to deal with this not Reddit. Who knows who will respond and what their mental status is .

babazuki · 2024-11-07T10:23:13+00:00

Men created laws against rape before they allowed women to read and write. And the have always enforced the laws and imprisoned and killed each other for committing rape. Why do you need to aks this? What brainrot feminist bullshit got to your head? Vast majority of dudes are against rape. There's no question to be had. Wtf

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TJshimensoka · 2024-11-07T11:32:52+00:00

I would, for just the sake of it. Similarly I would murder, torture or try parachuting if no negative consequences was guaranteed. But I won't because reality doesn't work like that, nor do I feel compelled to do so.

shadowrangerfs · 2024-11-07T14:47:43+00:00

NO. I wouldn't.

The overwhelming majority of people wouldn't.

Most people are good people and would never even think of harming another in that way.

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