Single dad “can’t make you the center of his world” yet.... can’t leave women alone. Four kids and two baby mamas, this guy is a catch! Leave women alone and raise your kids!

ribsinthegarden · 2021-02-14T16:54:45+00:00

This violin’s so tiny I can’t even play it.

MadamLeFay · 2021-02-14T16:28:55+00:00

He has custody of two of his four kids. He sees the other two on weekends. He is looking for Wife #3 and these women can sense it and are running for their lives. Plus, he's too damn fertile.

theseviraltimes · 2021-02-14T16:53:25+00:00

He should have thought about this before he spread his legs.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-14T16:16:46+00:00

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Summerisle7 · 2021-02-14T16:45:22+00:00

The idiocy. The entitlement. He’s desperate to find a free babysitter with on-call sex. I pray that every woman he meets will be as wise and self-respecting as the women who’ve turned him down so far.

real90slike · 2021-02-14T18:15:11+00:00

"Dating is difficult because there's no come back to my place or anything like that" Notice how he said he main focus of dating was whether he could get in her pants or not. He doesn't actually care about dating, just getting the P. #ScroteTingz

capresesalad1985 · 2021-02-14T17:54:22+00:00

Something tells me this dude didn’t make women number one without the kids

riseaboveagain · 2021-02-14T18:36:56+00:00

“Pity me! I brought four lives into this world, it makes life so difficult to get new pussy 😭😭😭”

alwaysonalongtrip · 2021-02-14T17:12:18+00:00

“I don’t have time to date and mean women complain when I offer them scraps”

blackflowerx3 · 2021-02-14T16:51:52+00:00

This is why I refuse to actually date dudes with kids. If your baby mama(s) don't want you, why should I?

Mella_20 · 2021-02-14T17:12:37+00:00

Wtf. This is why I'm childfree and will only associate with childfree men.

Men have the nerve to tell on themselves and then still wonder why women don't like them. Like bruh you put it out there, what did you expect me to do?

I swear they talk like they are so confident they can't be replaced. I'm so confused by that.

So many questions. Like why do you have TWO baby mama exes? Why do you expect a childless woman to like you when you can't and don't want to make them the center of your world? Why don't you realize that you are disposable to someone with self-respect?

If I'm childless, then my partner is gonna be pretty high on the priority list. Imagine being with someone with not one but two baby mamas. Its bad enough with one. You won't even be on the priority list, not even at the very bottom. There's no way you'll get what you put in to the relationship back. And with most men you won't get it even if he's childless.

eveloe · 2021-02-14T17:45:23+00:00

Did anyone else spot him equating his two older daughters with the babysitter or was it just me?

Davina33 · 2021-02-14T17:39:46+00:00

I commented on that. Yeah, this is what single mothers go through all of the time. At least single fathers actually get praised for what they do instead of disrespect.

intergalacticanon44 · 2021-02-14T16:51:17+00:00

Why is he making this a single-dad thing? At least they aren’t demonised like single-mums are.

Summerisle7 · 2021-02-14T16:46:52+00:00

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Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-02-14T17:09:43+00:00

Those selfish bitches! How dare they don't want to come after him, his job, and his four other children!

Mcccy · 2021-02-14T17:34:37+00:00

I just KNOW he's 45-50 and instead of looking for women his age he's after 20-30 year olds, who normally run for the hills when they realise he has 4 kids and looks for a mom²

foxfaebae · 2021-02-14T18:09:24+00:00

Andddddd this is why I don't date men with children. I want to be the center of attention for once.

Adventurous_Rise_307 · 2021-02-14T18:54:51+00:00

Single dads are the worst. They literally use their kids as a shield against relationships and true dating. I myself have six children, and when men pull the “I HaVe ChIlDrEn I’m BuSy” I just tell them that I have six kids a job and a dog am very busy as well but SOMEHOW found the time to text a person.

I don’t date single dads anymore 😂

understatedalways · 2021-02-14T19:52:31+00:00

I have 3 kids. I have no problem dating. This guy is just lazy and entitled. He thinks women should fall all over themselves for the scraps he’s offering. I don’t date single dads for this very reason. They refuse to get childcare in order to see me and think I should be ok with it. Nope. Plenty of childless HVM who want to date me.

smol_kitty · 2021-02-14T20:22:50+00:00

No mention of him dating or attempting to date other single parents

SarcasmSlide · 2021-02-14T17:27:09+00:00

This is just a worse version of taking you dog to the park to pick up women.

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2021-02-14T20:16:14+00:00

From the perspective of someone who has been the "kid" with a dad trying to date... these dads always act like they are so involved with the kids and doing everything for them, but they're out there chasing women and using the kids thing as a cope when relationships don't work. They like to act all heroic about being a parent who stuck around but complain about paying for things or having to put aside doing whatever they want whenever they want to be a parent. Welcome to adulthood, if you can't handle this responsibility then don't do adult things and make kids until you are willing to be a real parent and do it with a smile on your face.

My dad dated people and on the occasion that he had to take care of his parenting responsibilities with 3 young children, his girlfriends would get pissed and resentful, and he would act like parenthood was spoiling his fun or blame our mom. Then the girlfriends got involved in parenting and criticized our mother's parenting and then would get upset when we didn't want to listen to our dad and his new girlfriend trash on our mother. In particular one gf who was a nutritionist used to call my sisters fat and talk about how my mom was "abusive" for allowing them to gain weight. In reality my one sister was overweight but the other was not and the overweight one was taken to the doctor regularly and would sneak food out of stress and anxiety- not the GF's place to bodyshame her under the guise of "concern."

My dad would talk shit about our mom and they'd get jealous that he was still speaking about her. A couple even called my mom on her personal phone number or AT HER JOB to discuss things with her. The "baby mama drama" and kid drama came 100% from my dad dating low value women and having very poor boundaries with the women he dated and not taking his responsibility as a parent as seriously as he should have. It was his fault, not the kids' or the baby mama. I imagine many single dads follow this pattern and I've NO interest whatsoever in dating a man with children for this reason.

Glad the ladies this dude is running into know their boundaries. I wouldn't want to date a man with children because I do think the children deserve to be put first, and I think that after a divorce most men do not take their responsibility of parenting seriously but rather go out looking for a new woman to fill that position. I am not interested in being a placeholder and I also don't want to be a proxy to victimize someone's kids who are already traumatized by a divorce or other loss of their mom, by having the dad triangulate me against the kids and ex, or put me into a parent role or a "you need to accept her she's my girlfriend" role. Men who would do that are garbage and need to be left in the trash heap.... I've had enough for one lifetime.

Babooshka-123 · 2021-02-14T20:38:12+00:00

Genuinely what does he expect? I bet he’s dating younger women without children too not women his own age who also have families already and wouldn’t be as put off.

ethnicallyabiguous · 2021-02-14T22:32:48+00:00

I have a guy that I’ve known for 15 years. He came back around saying that he realizes I am the one, I am his person and his unicorn. I have been on the fence about dating a man with kids. I have dated men with kids before and I have never liked it but I still wanted to be open because I’m in my 30s and there are rarely men without kids in my age range. But one week into dating and he constantly was hanging up with me rather quickly because his daughters were calling him. So I told him I can’t do this anymore because I have to accept coming in place behind his children,and I’ve never really liked being at the bottom of a priority list. At first he said that “wasn’t true”, but almost immediately changed his tune to “What do you expect?!? They are my kids!”

He could not see the issue in this arrangement.

I hate how women are constantly praised when they are being self-sacrificing and have little to no needs. It has led to this situation where men literally can’t fathom a woman who doesn’t want to put his needs before hers.

Volperossa_ · 2021-02-15T00:49:51+00:00

He’s dating 3 or 4 women and is tired of starting over? Try dating dozens of men who all turn out to be liars, assholes, misogynistic, cheaters etc and tell me how tired you are of starting over. Cry me a river.

bisanti · 2021-02-14T16:55:33+00:00

🎻 plays tiny violin 🎻

Important_Page_6846 · 2021-02-14T21:38:55+00:00

Women never leave the father of their children for a bad reason. Even the worst of women never do, women have literally been brutally killed alongside their children JUST to try and make things work with these degenerate male leeches. So if a man has children and is single there is a VERY good reason and it’s basically the largest red flag there is.

Gourmay · 2021-02-15T02:44:54+00:00

I was with a man with two kids after I moved to the US and he lied about it for quite some time; I wonder if he’s being upfront about it and dating women of his age range who might also be moms, which is what he should do if he has time to date. My ex would break up with me every two months for the most random reasons and it devastates me that on top of putting me through it he put his young kids through that, and clearly a revolving door of girlfriends. I’m glad my parents didn’t put me through this, I only ever met the wonderful partners they married and are still with.

Cellswells · 2021-02-15T06:41:31+00:00

“My poor me...can’t bring home [probably much younger women] to stick it in without condom and make more bb to complain about on interweb. Iz sAd.” —anHONESTgreatGuY

jenneschguet · 2021-02-14T20:42:50+00:00

It’s almost as if sex and dating is gasp mating! He can’t find a mate- I wonder why?

destineygray · 2021-02-14T17:11:40+00:00

Is it bad that I almost want to give him credit for not wanting to introduce these women to his kids immediately?

A lot of single dads will make their kids your responsibility on date one

Descendant_of_Innana · 2021-02-15T14:53:12+00:00

This post might as well be the next WhereAreTheGoodWomen. that godawful misogynist sub is in a desperate need of its counterpart and this one's it!

PersephoneisHalfHell · 2021-02-15T09:51:29+00:00

I really struggle to give this the reading everyone else has. If this were a woman, we'd be applauding her putting her kids first (not introducing them early, making time for them), and saying she'd been screwed over by two men, one who gave up all responsibility and was carrying that. The men dating her clearly would have had unreasonable expectations on her time.

In this case, having been a single mum myself, I think what he says is reasonable. We don't know why he had the kids. We don't know he hasn't had a vasectomy. We don't know that he wants another mother for a child, and it seems like he wants a companion.

Being a full-time dad means it's a lot more likely that he knows how to value others and run a house with two to four kids himself.

I think that there is a lot of shit from men, but picking apart this post isn't it.

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