A comment on an article about disrespectful things men have said to their wives during labor. He literally got off to her being in pain, and she doesn't seem to see this as a problem

TheDameWithoutASmile · 2021-05-13T13:27:01+00:00

This is one of the worst "my husband is a shithead during/after our baby was born" stories I've ever heard. I can't decide if it is worse than the story I read about a woman whose husband would masturbate while she breast fed. She would have to hide in closets with their child because it made her so uncomfortable and he wouldn't stop following her into their child's bedroom where she did the feeding and masturbating.

zazaleaz · 2021-05-13T12:47:50+00:00

My brain will not allow me to believe this is real. I simply cannot believe that a woman in labor "wouldn't mind".

Guilty_Assignment · 2021-05-13T13:08:39+00:00

Why tf allow him into the delivery room? She could be attacked on the street and this scrote would be too busy unzipping his pants to help or call for help. W T F

bluebird_wings · 2021-05-13T15:01:50+00:00

Here's the part that most messed up:

Even if her moans turned him on because his brain has been programmed to associate her moaning sounds with sex...why didn't he have the self control to resist masturbation and redirect his thoughts towards supporting his partner??

What's more, why didn't he have the self control to keep it to himself, no matter how he handled it?

Just 😟🙁😕☹🤯

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-05-13T14:00:09+00:00

How do you unread something ? Please

akiikaaki · 2021-05-13T12:46:09+00:00

What the fuck 🤮🤮

HeavyMetalLobster · 2021-05-13T12:59:30+00:00

Porn sickness. He gets off to women’s pain. Another sick scrote.

Platipus6 · 2021-05-13T13:24:39+00:00

Imagine it's one of the most important days of your life - giving birth to a human you created.

Instead of being comforted, supported, safe, secure and knowing you can rely on your husband, you're wasting valuable energy being complicit in covering up his depravity to the nurses.

This is what codependent used to mean. Betraying yourself because of someone else's sickness. He's a black hole and she's gone.

starfighter07 · 2021-05-13T13:45:29+00:00

I just want to vomit.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-05-13T13:25:47+00:00

Post flair checks out.

MisakiKurisu · 2021-05-13T13:25:57+00:00

Divorce sis, that's the answer.

ModeratelyCapable · 2021-05-13T14:26:36+00:00

This is horrifying-like, WTF. I guess I need to be more grateful my NVM ex simply slept while I labored and then cared for our newborn. 🙄

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2021-05-13T18:36:36+00:00

I had a friend whose baby daddy asked her to wait till his quest (video game) was over to take her to the hospital when she was in labor.

She had to call her father to drive her.

Her and her husband were in their 30s at the time. No, they are not married anymore.

AcadiaLeather5071 · 2021-05-13T13:11:34+00:00

Every day we stray further away from gods light...

BlackGirlKnickers · 2021-05-13T14:09:23+00:00

What the actual fuck!?

SnooPickles4103 · 2021-05-13T14:43:50+00:00

Men are the fucking worst, the most despicable creatures to have ever existed

MamaGia · 2021-05-13T15:40:13+00:00

This may successfully turn me off men forever.

the-worst- · 2021-05-13T13:19:30+00:00

🤢🤢🤢🤢

If my husband did that while I was in labor, I'd kick him out of the room and demand he not be allowed back in. And he'd be on thin fucking ice when I got home.

He got off. To her moans of pure agony. Contractions are awful, and I think i got the easy way out with c section.

But I was taught to mask my pain from an early age. The most pain my husband witnessed me show was gritted teeth and a low growl of pain every now and then.

ArtisticBrilliant491 · 2021-05-13T16:19:29+00:00

I hope she had a boy. Good luck parenting with that. He can't even be bothered to refrain from touching himself while and in direct response to his wife's child labor. Bet he's not changing poopy diapers and do we really want him to? Just when I thought that I had heard it ALL.

Davina33 · 2021-05-13T14:33:56+00:00

That is so disgusting. Nothing is off limits to these perverts.

Picky_and_Choosie · 2021-05-13T13:10:46+00:00

The fact that she's responding with anything other than disgust is just..🤢🤢🤮🤮

sugarplumcutie · 2021-05-13T14:05:23+00:00

I am never having a man’s child.

radsera99 · 2021-05-13T15:28:43+00:00

I’m going to cry. Men are so depraved

drakiedoodle · 2021-05-14T00:41:15+00:00

My shitty ex husband told me it can't hurt that bad, to just squeeze his if it hurt, and got kicked out by the doctor after he asked him to put an extra stitch in there to make it was nice, and tight. When he had his vasectomy I revealed in saying those same things back to him. His doctor found me quite funny even though he didn't appreciate it. I'm do glad I got away from that abusive monster.

WeirdRockbaby · 2021-05-13T13:32:13+00:00

I can't even blame porn for this since every birth scene in movies and tv are depicted in a sexual way. like, look at the camera work and the sounds and faces of the actress, they direct this scenes as if the girls are having extreme orgasms and not pain.

moonstonegoddesss · 2021-05-13T12:56:53+00:00

if my husband did that the first thing I would do after labor would be to divorce him.

gigababejfl_ · 2021-05-13T13:06:38+00:00

She is better than me. Imagine having to be the woman who can say this and not be kidding. Like where does one go wrong and carries a child for someone this primitive and careless about the wellbeing of his wife??

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TellCerseeItWasMe · 2021-05-13T15:10:45+00:00

Where do you find this crap??

throwawayheh3 · 2021-05-13T14:21:59+00:00

oh my god. men are so fucking vile

dinosaurnuggetzzz · 2021-05-13T15:42:20+00:00

This literally makes me sick to my stomach. She needs to get far away from this guy. Getting off on his wife's pain jfc.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-05-14T00:05:31+00:00

Imagine letting someone like that reproduce 🤢

radsera99 · 2021-05-13T15:53:32+00:00

The fact that the article even exists is the epitome of male depravity

thecrazywitch31 · 2021-05-13T17:24:56+00:00

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Novemberinthechair · 2021-05-14T00:02:13+00:00

Was this written by a man who wanted to get off to his baby moma's labor pains, was shamed, then went looking for acceptance online?

waddamelone · 2021-05-14T01:32:06+00:00

Nicki Minaj voice: shawty Imma only tell you this once you the illest. Babadadado.

What the actual fuck did I just read.

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-05-14T04:28:42+00:00

🤮

aquietsword · 2021-05-14T06:16:04+00:00

I wonder if there were any previous signs showing how fried his brain is. Men love to wait until a woman is in a vulnerable position before really letting shit like this start, but sometimes there are little things. We need to normalize calling out scrote behavior publicly and then leaving scrote men. He can put a ring on his little ass dick and live happily ever after with the only thing he actually cares about.

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