And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!

intergalacticanon44 · 2021-03-19T12:08:38+00:00

She just kept going😭😭

popsthrowsup · 2021-03-19T14:04:44+00:00

I read this post that actually got me heated.

This woman makes 55k to her Husbands 155k. They put the same amount of money (not percentages THE SAME) into a joint bank account that they use to pay for bills (mortgage, utilities)

However. She does all the grocery shopping which she pays for OUT OF POCKET, not from the joint account.

She then said she does all the meal prep and work, she even does all the yard work. She also pays for their pets expenses again. Out of her own pocket. She also does all laundry and cleaning herself, but he picks up after himself.

She describes scrapping by to save so she can get the things she wants while he’s husband freely and easily spends on his hobbies. But that doesn’t hurt her because he works hard for what he has...

She got 10k in debt in college when they were dating and she was able to pay it off early, now he wants to renegotiate so she contributes more.

She said no and gave the reasons lists above, when he’s confronted with the lack of house work, it’s “well you didn’t tell me”

This is a divorce I would support. Lots of dudes just want roommates and moms. It’s crazy to think that she’s basically holding the house hold afloat on her 55k salary while he’s looking around like “wow my life so great. I have all this money! Look at all these hobbies I can do. the house is so clean all the time! Wonderful”

Like he can’t even contributed more hahaha what is he doing!’

2021-03-19T13:03:17+00:00

1000% correct. I'm so glad more women are waking up to this and feeling comfortable sharing their feelings on it.

2021-03-19T13:17:55+00:00

👑

2021-03-19T13:08:03+00:00

BIG facts!

WildTenderness · 2021-03-19T15:05:26+00:00

Oh I know sis started a war in the comments 😭 but we love to see it

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-03-19T13:12:21+00:00

I swear to God, FDS values are spreading lately.

Fiebre · 2021-03-19T13:46:48+00:00

What check, what wallet?

So many men don't even earn enough to provide for their families. They just keep going to work to avoid being at home and use it later as an excuse not to do chores. So many men give a tiny portion of their salaries to their wives - not for their expenses, but for family expenses. A tiny portion, like 'Why would a kid's shoes cost (insert the actual price)? Here's (one 5th of the price), don't spoil the kid'. Even if they earn enough.

So many choose to stay extra hours (not even always work, just stay in the office), get jobs with business trips just to avoid the family.

So many don't contribute a single fucking thing!

(Nice vid and I mostly agree, but this first point is so often not true bc those sirs can't even be wallets)

Cross_Stitch_Witch · 2021-03-19T12:32:14+00:00

That father figure point at the end though, wew! fans self

nothing998 · 2021-03-19T11:40:21+00:00

No lies detected.

WestAtmosphere · 2021-03-19T16:13:35+00:00

I know the trope rp men, incels, + mgtows often push is the older a woman gets the more damaged they are. But really the truth is that it is men that are more damaged and they fail to cope so they end up targeting young women.

If I think about my most successful relationship, it was when I was really young in my teen years. I know porn usage is starting earlier and earlier but i think at that point it had not infiltrated my bf from then. The difference in their personality and effort is drastic compared to men 25+ y/o. A high value man is RARE past 30, as all the decent men settle fairly early and don’t play games. Which Im happy for my sisters that find a good one because it is so rare. The older the man gets the more likely he is porn addicted and is jerking it to 18 y/o’s on instagram and tiktok. Not only this but they are often emotionally constipated and have never been to therapy.

Just speaking my thoughts based on this video and what she said! It’s not even sad, tbh Im glad these sorts of men just weed themselves out cause I definitely wouldn’t want to be stuck with the type of guy I mentioned.

ASmallGardenFairy · 2021-03-19T14:59:45+00:00

I’m literally not getting married anymore. I’m gonna learn so many things (I’m already a native Spanish speaker and became fluent in Mandarin after living in China for six years), learn how to play an instrument (a dream of mine for so long), continue to travel the world after the pandemic, build my own cabin in the countryside one day, get into woodworking and organic farming, own my own chickens, fight in the eco-socialist revolution, and never get married unless I meet the highest value HVM. This is coming from a girl with an insane libido who never thought she could be alone for more than a few months because I NEEEEEED the D, but after seeing what’s out there...I’m focusing on myself, my dreams and my vibrator

yoursultana · 2021-03-19T13:05:25+00:00

Sis stuck the knife in and kept pushing lmfaoo. Nothing but the truth.

ItsFreezen · 2021-03-19T12:17:30+00:00

Truths.

throwaway04357 · 2021-03-19T13:14:46+00:00

The part about men only contributing a check was my favorite.

Most married fathers go to work then come home and say they need a break. They don't help with childcare, they don't help with grocery shopping or cooking, they don't make appointments or plan things. Most of the time it's the woman who does all of it plus she's expected to work a full time job as well or else be labeled a gold digger. And then men will cry about alimony and child support when the woman decides to divorce him for being a lazy/ selfish, emotionally unavailable partner.

I wish men would realize they're not right about the majority of things (if anything).. they're just loud. We've been taught our whole lives to be quiet but I love that the tables are slowly turning. More women are using their voice to speak out against all this bullshit and more little girls are seeing it. The more we speak up the more normal it becomes.

pinkcityscape · 2021-03-19T12:33:11+00:00

Nailed it

villagefunambulist · 2021-03-19T14:03:20+00:00

FACTS!! 🔥

Trinityblue93 · 2021-03-19T14:45:19+00:00

I see no lies, only truth.

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-03-19T14:03:32+00:00

I hope this gets pinned and stays on the first page

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-19T16:30:58+00:00

Wow, everything is true here. Even settling for whichever woman is there to marry because they don’t have the courage to pursue the woman they love. Fucking spot on the money

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-03-19T13:51:56+00:00

This is everything and makes me super happy

oh_beach_please · 2021-03-19T14:56:25+00:00

She's absolutely correct and I hope that it will lead even one or two blokes to take a moment of self reflection. If even some guys read this, get pissed off for getting called out but then address that issue imagine how different the world would be? But, nah MUH PENIS right

tastyserenity · 2021-03-19T14:37:19+00:00

A fucking draaaaag😍😍😍

Fitncurly · 2021-03-19T16:41:10+00:00

Sis threw down nothin but straight FACTS! Be mad or change it men 💅🏼

7Cuervos · 2021-03-19T14:32:14+00:00

Nothing but factssss!!!

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-03-19T15:07:00+00:00

Good music too

rainbowhaloz · 2021-03-19T18:16:14+00:00

My dad's a mgtow dip shit. He left when I was two and still blames women for all of societies woes. I can't fucking stand him. He quite literally is a wallet these days, because he never talks to me either. Fuck him, I'm squatting and eating his food.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-03-19T13:47:23+00:00

Love her! Her content is so wholesome and addresses so many points FDS makes! her tiktok's pvllsc

IndividualRoutine661 · 2021-03-19T15:24:23+00:00

That queen just keeps slaying ✊🏻

escapetodos · 2021-03-19T15:27:02+00:00

Huge facts!

Mind-Objective · 2021-03-19T13:07:25+00:00

Oof the jordan peterson one

longhaird0ntcare · 2021-03-19T15:47:01+00:00

What is this persons username on TikTok?? Need to follow this treasure.

souredskittles · 2021-03-19T22:23:19+00:00

Women do initiate more divorces BUT we also initiate most breakups in general no matter the level of commitment. So it’s so stupid that they think it’s more likely in marriage.

Leavix · 2021-03-19T14:03:35+00:00

Only truth, but the flashing colors makes it unreadable... Or am I getting old? The message was worth overusing the pause button though

drunkenwithlust · 2021-03-19T16:07:13+00:00

Quality content and I love this song

RecoveringRecluse79 · 2021-03-19T13:08:18+00:00

Oooo that last part. Too many of these men are looking for somebody to be their daddy at their grown ages. It's pathetic.

tellmesomething11 · 2021-03-19T18:00:20+00:00

Haha the last one...look at who the men are calling “Daddy” 🤣🤣🤣

CarpeFknDiem · 2021-03-19T15:20:59+00:00

She gave them no room to breathe and I love it

TropicalPrairie · 2021-03-19T18:49:30+00:00

I LOVE this :D

2021-03-19T20:08:05+00:00

What a queen!!!!

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-03-20T02:48:32+00:00

Jordan Peterson is a shitty human being.

gouttrout · 2021-03-19T17:17:40+00:00

This needs a seizure warning.

CynicalSucculent · 2021-03-19T16:59:13+00:00

I saw this video and favorited it. She said no lies.

Admirable-Ad-2065 · 2021-03-19T14:30:00+00:00

I 💚 this!. 💯% agree. I learn so much everytime I go on FDS. So glad I joined Reddit.

2021-03-19T14:34:08+00:00

Dang, this is too true.

msundrstoodcmmndr · 2021-03-19T15:05:33+00:00

The accuracy 🎯

randowordgenerator · 2021-03-19T19:04:28+00:00

what, like they wouldn't?

sugarplumcutie · 2021-03-19T22:24:27+00:00

DAMN💀💀💀

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xdecadent · 2021-03-30T16:04:27+00:00

Whew. THIS IS LOUD!

sterlingrose616 · 2021-03-20T07:54:59+00:00

The one about men marrying whoever comes along cause they couldn’t chase the love of their lives kinda stung some. I don’t want a man to settle for me just cause “it’s time” to get married😢

Title	And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!
Author	slipperyfoots
Upvotes	1672
Comments	116
Date	March 19, 2021 11:33 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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