I think we all agree that men should respect simple requests in bed, i.e., “I’m not really into that, please stop doing it.” I recently had a man freak out because he was pulling my hair and I asked him not to because it messes up my curls (yes this may sound high-maintenance, but fellow curly-haired women will understand the struggle). He literally got out of bed and said he was going to take me home, saying I ruined “an intimate moment.” It just reeks of “I should be able to do what I want to to you in bed.” Anyone else encountered a similar scenario?

ETA: To be clear, he was very gently pulling my hair, more like holding it away from my face and running his hands through it. It didn’t hurt. So it wasn’t quite the pornsick moment some are interpreting it as. But his reaction was still not ok.