Men, like women are facing their own insecurities, but men’s insecurities often in something that they can’t change. For example, height, jawline, eye color or etc but in most women cases, they could just lose weight and dress better and they will be super hot.

Men often getting shamed if they are short, which something they can’t change but for women, its empowering to become fat. We all know that women are empowered daily, in terms of economic, politics and many more (I have nothing against it). Nowadays, women have huge advantage and options in dating market and below 80% men have limited options, I believe most men are just settling with anything they can have.

Let’s say that I’m an average joe in everything. Average face, height, body shape, career and etc. What could I do to make you fall in love with me. Assume it as a cold approach in a bar or looking to hook up and casual fling ?