Where is the current dating disaster headed? It can’t possibly sustain itself for much longer, and women only seem to be getting more delusionâl.

purplish_possum · 2024-06-07T02:05:43+00:00

Funny thing is -- the guys doing those dangerous jobs necessary to keep society running are still getting laid and still having kids.

cornersfatly · 2024-06-07T01:59:39+00:00

Yay, another fist shaking post about how all women are unfeeling lizards who are basically the anti-christ because we refuse to give kind, sweet men their much deserved handjobs and head kisses. This one doesn't even have anything interesting to discuss, just two paragraphs about how the world is going to implode because women won't give me fuck fuck. Come on man, at least introduce something juicy under the guise of a workable solution. A prostitute for every redpiller, Andrew Tate in the schools, 21 BMI government mandated girlfriends, women enslaved in lithium mines carving out cores to power our AI waifus- come on man! Where's the fucking CREATIVITY

RosieBarb · 2024-06-07T01:47:02+00:00

Yep, that's me- upending families and society.

Lanaglu · 2024-06-07T02:12:41+00:00

"even average women now have inflated egos and unrealistic standards". Do you have a source for that? What metric are you using here?

Having a relationship is not the only way to help deal with isolation, (and sex definitely isn't), I think trying to make friends you can have a human connection with would really help. Not saying this is easy either, but you shouldn't just be focusing all your attention on getting a date.

Being a virgin is not a mental health issue. It can effect your mental health but it's not the lack of sex itself, it's the lack of self-esteem, feeling you need validation from having sex and sometimes the self-destructive resentment from thinking you are "owed" sex. Having sex won't magically fix your mental health issues.

DoubleFistBishh · 2024-06-07T01:32:32+00:00

So this sounds a lot like a you problem

Warm_Gur8832 · 2024-06-07T05:10:02+00:00

If there’s a crisis afoot among men due to a lack of responsibility, grit, and traditional manly values; it’s really fucking weird for so many men to freak out about it by worshiping YouTubers who’ve never worked a real job and who present ideologies that conveniently blame everyone else for men’s problems.

How do you expect to get “the old manliness” back by clinging to adolescent lullabies that just point the finger at everybody else and ask zero responsibility or risk on the part of yourself?

his_purple_majesty · 2024-06-07T01:57:49+00:00

blade runner style dystopia

Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2024-06-07T03:36:58+00:00

This sounds like an OP problem.

Cethlinnstooth · 2024-06-07T02:08:46+00:00

The majority of the guys who do traditional guy dirty work are very competent men who just enjoy working with things not ideas or people, get plenty of women and get paid really well in my country and could easy get a reasonably well paid desk job if they wanted. It's just about always barely employable guys with some sort of low level IT certification they aren't using because every interviewer sees what a liability they are who are the ones having the big fat whine about women.

And if you're isolated in an era with cell phones and social media you're probably on some level choosing to be isolated. Seriously dude you've got it easier to keep in touch with people than every currently living generation has had itm

Unhappy_Offer_1822 · 2024-06-07T02:00:33+00:00

i mean things evolve and become different, especially when new ways to process information come into play. that's how its always been

OkProfessional9405 · 2024-06-07T03:09:35+00:00

The people who don't reproduce leave less of those people in the next generation, they just get replaced by people who are reproducing.

MongoBobalossus · 2024-06-07T02:22:13+00:00

Well, for the well adjusted among us, it’ll go just fine.

For you, tho…

Suspicious_Glove7365 · 2024-06-07T03:12:17+00:00

Às an averäge wømân, ǐ wòuld rãther keêp my “unreãlïstic stàndards” thån sèttle fòr a män whǒ mækes my lĩfe wórse. Why ís it mÿ respønsibility to fix the “$èxlessness among young men”?

superlurkage · 2024-06-07T02:50:59+00:00

This appears to be a personal issue

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/5kcYDdbzlC

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7YRjaIbEvH

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/RQHHiTGvnS

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/LCJIw68Npp

tendrils87 · 2024-06-07T04:34:25+00:00

The sexual market can remain irrational longer than you can remain solvent.

obviousredflag · 2024-06-07T12:56:45+00:00

Whether you want to acknowledge it or not, even average women now have inflated egos and unrealistic
standards.

Whether you want to acknowledge it or not, the average woman is in a happy long term relationship and has her standards met by her partner. We have the data on that. You are delusional about the world. You are the exception. People in general do not experience a dating disaster. You are experiencing a dating disaster. You are the reason for your own dating disaster.

Historic levels of isolation and sexlessness are by choice and they are affecting men and women alike. Globally, equal amounts of men and women report feeling lonely. Equal percentages of young men and women report having had no sex in the prior year. (Para-)social relationships shift to online spaces. Sex or relationships are just not that much of a priority for young men and women. Men and women are pushing committed relationships into later stages of life. People adapt to new lifestyles and the environment they are living in. Times change, and if you don't adapt, you might think something like a disaster is happening.

What you fail to show is that there is an increase of people who are UNHAPPY about a lack of committed relationships or sex.

Men still occupy the vast majority of undesîrable and dangèrous jobs necessary to keep society running.

And they get paid for that. Do you think they do that out of some form of deal? Sex vs doing the jobs that keep society running? No, the deal is money vs jobs that keep society running. How do you define an undesirable job? Don't you think the guy climbing up to high voltage power lines to fix some shit and risking his life would rather care for the elderly or teach children math? I don't think he sees his job as less desirable to him as these alternatives. He was free to pursue anything that interests him and that he is qualified for by his personality and cognitive abilities.

Women and lèftist dogmá have upended the nuclear family model and traditional gènder roles, with nothing to replace it with as the framework of society.

And how is that related to any dating disaster? That's a traditional values disaster, and therefore only a disaster for people like you, who want to cling to the past. Spoiler alert: you can live your values with other people who share them. You don't need more or some other women to share your ideas of families or gender roles.

Do you live with your parents, and grandparents under one roof? Or did you abandon your traditional values all by yourself to live the live you enjoy more, than what was the societal framework of the past?

harmonica2 · 2024-06-07T02:07:36+00:00

There are women I know that do have average boyfriends and husbands. So maybe some women who come back down to Earth and realized their options therefore?

ilike18yoblackpussy · 2024-06-07T07:55:32+00:00

In 2024 sexless dudes will just pull up generic porn site dot com on their smartphone, jerk off, bust a nut, and then forget about women and do something else.

Women with unrealistic standards will just end up single or else miserable because they don't think the guy they "settled" with is good enough.

It is true that single men may have less motivation to work hard. But that is balanced by more women in the workforce.

abnabatchan · 2024-06-07T08:06:08+00:00

this post reads like a script from a bad movie made by Andrew Tate, where everything wrong in life is somehow the fault of women or "leftist dogma." maybe it’s time to put down the pitchfork and embrace the fact that society changes, and that’s okay. everyone's navigating these shifts together, not just one gender or political ideology.

RubyDiscus · 2024-06-07T10:00:19+00:00

There is no "dating disaster".

Just a few men complaining.

The large majority play by the rules and have no issues.

holyskillet · 2024-06-07T02:09:57+00:00

Men still occupy the vast majority of undesîrable and dangèrous jobs necessary to keep society running.

Are these men capable of doing anything that can get them a desirable job?

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Cammed-stroked88 · 2024-06-07T02:40:56+00:00

36m. I’m a machinist/mechanic for a major transit agency on the west coast. I’m relatively fit, handsome, make over 100k, with a let’s just say above average endowment. I never had kids and never married, although I wanted those things. I have now completely given up and checked out of dating. Theses days I’ve found most women are unwilling to compromise on the smallest of issues and the levels of entitlement have reached unforeseen heights. Unless you’re a millionaire metrosexual 6’3 ophthalmologist with a horsecock

Salt_Alternative_86 · 2024-06-07T03:42:10+00:00

Disengagement by men is driving economic and societal collapse, birth rate collapse is driving demographic winter, hook-up culture is driving single motherhood boom and incurable STD epidemics... We will likely see war with Russia and other foreign powers seeing our weakness, collapse of the social security system and welfare state due to unfunded liabilities, wall street's ponzi schemes collapse due to lack of investment, loss of petrodollar as international power declines, hyperinflation beyond current levels, mass homelessness in elderly lacking children and infrastructure to care for them, shortages of goods from lack of international purchasing power and domestic production, loss of several decades plus worth of trade skill experience, and finally balkanization of the states as collapse ensues. This is the end of Rome for want of good men, and much of what I've listed is already visibly happening to the point even the normies are noticing.

Nellylocheadbean · 2024-06-07T03:53:33+00:00

Normal level headed attractive ppl will continue to date and have families and everyone else will probably have to step their cookies up or get left behind.

Siukslinis_acc · 2024-06-07T07:08:48+00:00

Historic levels of isolation and $èxlessness among young men are eventually going to take a toll on society with a rising mèntal health crîsis that comes with it.

It's not a gendered issue. Women experience it too.

guppyhunter7777 · 2024-06-07T03:29:30+00:00

Um...combination of AI really screwing every last thing up. First AI girlfriends are going to take a lot of guy off the market. Second AI is in quick order in the next wave of interrogation kill off a lot of entry level white collar jobs. That sector is dominated by women, HR assistants to medical scheduling to paralegals. Women will likely get to make a choice SAHM or dirty blue collar. Roofer, plumber, welder or mom? Said it once will say it again. Ladies eat your cake now, the pendulum is not going to be kind.

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berichorbeburied · 2024-06-07T01:35:22+00:00

Nobody cares about elderly women.

So when all those elderly women who are singe huddle together.

And all men consistently of all ages point towards younger women.

That’s when a collide will happen.

Until then don’t worry about it.

This is the best time alive to be a man.

I don’t have to be in a relationship or commit and I still can get sex?

Win win win win win win win

Sink or swim bro. Sink or swim

Title	Where is the current dating disaster headed? It can’t possibly sustain itself for much longer, and women only seem to be getting more delusionâl.
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Date	June 7, 2024 1:28 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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