I don't care if you're following the philosophy of Mark Manson, "Be Honest and Be Non-needy, have a great life blah blah blah"

I don't care if you're using the old school Game or utilizing some other dating coaches advice or whatever.

WHATEVER approach you're taking to either 1) Find a girlfriend or 2) Find a fuck buddy or 3) HookUp, unless you're a traditionally good looking guy, you'll face A TON of rejection and some of these rejections can be pretty humiliating and can hurt your ego seriously.

Let's say there is that smoking hot blonde girl with a seductive face and killer body. You approach her and introduce yourself , and then out of nowhere she tells you you're not her type and rejects you right there.

And now imagine this type of scenario happening again and again and again. How are you gonna deal with it?

I don't care whose advice you follow and how strong your "inner game" is. This is gonna hurt.....A LOT. Unless you're a psychopath incapable of feeling any emotion, these rejections (specially when you're genuinely Interested in that girl) will feel like someone has shot you in the chest with a double-barreled shotgun

You’ll question yourself. You’ll question your worth and there will be times when you'll want to just stop it cuz it's too damn painful.

Anything can happen after these really painful moments. For Example:-

One possible outcome is after getting rejected over and over and over again, you'll be desensitized to all these rejections and sort of become a dick. And as counterintuitive as it sounds it is at that moment, you may start seeing good result.

I'm not a good looking guy at all. If I'd tell others to rate my face on a scale of 1 to 10, more than 80% of them would rate 5 on average. And that means I'm more likely to get rejected by the girls I really really like BUT when I get the best haircut, have a nice grooming routine and take care of my fashion, things get a little better. Combine it with good posture and I'm not only looking better but feeling great as well.

This "look" combined with being desensitized to rejection (as described above) gives me an edge and then getting number within 2 minutes, getting dates, taking girls home the same night become A LOT easier.

I could write more about why emotional and physical rejection is an integral part of my game but it wouldn’t resonate with most of you here.

Some people say, "Be non-needy and Honest" , some say, "Have an amazing life" or "Get a Hobby". The thing is I don't give a shit about whatever the fuck your philosophy is. The most important question of all is, "How are you gonna respond to A TON of humiliating rejections?"

Everybody knows having a good job/career is good for you.

Everybody knows making more money creates more opportunity in your life.

Everybody knows having a hobby is good and going to gym is important.

These are basic shits that everyone learned before they came to earth.

Two types of guys can show middle finger to women.

1) The first category is the incel and the mysogynist.

Their message is "I can't get girls so I HATE women kind." but deep down they desperately want to be with a woman they desire.

2) And the second category is as you can imagine....The Players.

Their message is "I've already faced a hell lot of rejections and endured more emotional pain than most guys ever will in their lives. So if you think I'll take your opinion personally, think again." and unlike the incels or mysogynists, the player really means what he says.

No coach whether he is Julien Blanc, Mark Manson, Todd V or James Marshall, none of them is gonna affect your dating life more than the best coach of all time - Dr. Rejection.

For average looking guys rejection is like crossing a crocodile infested river, if a crocodile has got you, you're done. if you can successfully cross the river, on the other side there is the invaluable treasure.

But unfortunately, like crossing a crocodile infested river most guys are too afraid to start or are forced to quit in the middle for whatever reason. This is the truth.