It seems that many men make this joke about "putting a paper bag over her head" when it comes to fucking women they aren't attracted to. So they fuck her, but does it out of horniness because she has a vagina and that's good enough for them to get an orgasm. They put a paper bag over her head (figuratively or literally) in the sense that her vagina is all they're focused on because the rest of the body including the face is disgusting. After they nut they'll feel low-key disgusted. That's my understanding of what men mean when they fuck unattractive women and that such women can still get laid.
So this is the man's perspective - he gets an orgasm, and feels some degree of shame from fucking her. Initially I was going to ask how you think the woman in question feels (as an actual question, not as a confrontational thing). But I figured it'd make more engaging conversation to put you in her position instead.
So a woman has sex with you, but you know that she finds you repulsive, but she goes "ehh whatever" and fucks you out of horniness, and you know that afterwards she'll probably feel some degree of shame. She (figuratively or literally) wants to put a paper bag over your head. Afterwards she wants nothing to do with you. How would this make you feel, exactly?
Assume that you in turn find her reasonably attractive. Assume that you are aware of the this info (above paragraph) before, during, and after the event. Assume that she was the one who propositioned you (for the sake of discussion).
Would you reject her offer, knowing this information? Would you still consider this a "score" afterwards, even if you know she is ashamed of having done anything with you?
This is sincerely NOT meant as a "Gotcha" if you're wondering. I'm genuinely curious as to how you'll answer.
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I mean, half the fun of sex is feeling desired . . .
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You should have went for marriage first. Problems solved.
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I have the feeling that no sex before marriage would fix women's problem of having have to have sex on the first (couple) date(s).
Afterall they are the hornier people, they will sooner or less accommodate their behaviors for the sake of getting laid.
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This exactly is the problem. My biggest issue is that the people who participate and want to participate can just not stop complaining about hookup culture. Let us take women for example. They constantly complain about being pumped and dumped. What did they expect taking part in the hookup culture?
Take the men who can't get laid. What did they expect taking part in the hookup culture?
It is absolutely nuts. Everybody is complaining about something they are actively taking part in and thus keeping alive.
I am just showing a solution to this problem. A way. You can take it or you can leave it. By the looks of it most people like to take part in something which they later on complain about. This is not adult behavior. This is way worse than childish behavior. Way worse.
Agreed.
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I am in one. 😅
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As a single male, who admittedly is desperate for a relationship, I wish I could punch these a*hles a couple new holes for their absolutely stupid comment. They might think it is funny to say something like that but it is obviously not! I think you nailed the meaning of that saying.
If she'd "put the bage bag over my head", I'd feel ugly, undesired, disgusting,... I'd wonder why I even bother to be in that place I am in. I'd wonder why she even did this and why she even stays with me if I am that disgusting and ugly to her.
For me personally, it would be certainly hard to get out of such a situation because my mind would bug me with "there is no other women that can love you or be with you in bed". In the worst case, I'd be forced to stay with her... by my own brain.
I want to be loved and wish some face cuppings and lovely kisses.
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No matter in which way it is said. Guys should be aware that this is definitely not something that a wife would like to hear. Unless that couple is exchanging jokes back and forth and this is included in their repertoire.
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