Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women?

Let me depict the ideal porn user: - young man - single - at home - alone - online

Clearly the amount of men in this situation is huge and only going to grow. Most importantly most men now START their life like this. Which leads to a growing problematic trend: porn induced erectile dysfunction (PIED).

What happens if a man starts his life with PIED? What happens when he realizes the culmination of his courting efforts is an unpleasurable moment of embarrassment in front of the woman he invested so much time on?

And what happens when he's already been there and predicts such outcome?

Will he still pursue women knowing he can't have sex with them? If all the sex he can have is one click away, how can he find the motivation to stop having sex (i.e. masturbating) , hitting the gym, starting to cater to the female gaze, leaving his computer, and courting a woman? He won't. Probably the most he will do when in need of female companionship, will be chatting up a random female with no intention of endangering his ego by putting himself into a potentially sexual setting (hence the growing trend of men who endlessly chat without ever asking out).

But most importantly, if a man can find the strength to resist the urge to have sex (by masturbating), wouldn't he also be enlightened enough to resist the urge to pursue women, and actually pursue his dreams instead?

If such man is enlightened enough to strive beyond porn addiction, wouldn't he be strong enough to also forgo women, to finally chase his vision (which increasingly doesn't include a woman)?

Yes he would, of course he would.

Finally, this whole situation takes place just considering himself and his internet access. Beyond that there's the rest of society, with plenty of feminism, dating apps and hypergamy. This leaves no doubt, it's by no means rational to pursue an alternative lifestyle.

TL;DR: given the current social setting, men who forgo sex also forgo women, and men who don't forgo sex get trapped by Porn Induced Erectile Disfunction. In no case men end up dating women.