Ofc he blames it on her and not himself

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-03-25T01:14:54+00:00

That age gap makes me think he probably has already found a much younger girlfriend and he's just trying to mess with his wife's self esteem before he dumps her for the girlfriend.

Technical_Moth248 · 2022-03-24T23:23:20+00:00

Idk how she can still be desperate to have sex with him after being threatened with divorce for not being fit enough after having his child. Preferences are allowed, but she is obviously still very physically fit from her description. It is insane and unrealistic to expect someone to work out that much for presumably the rest of her life so he doesn't leave.

Let his old ass go. I'm sure he'll totally thrive like he thinks he will trying to pick up the women he jerks off to.

2022-03-25T03:03:13+00:00

Did the math and basically, this piece of shit was 41 years old when he first got involved with her when she was just 26 years old. He mentioned that she looked her absolute best in 2014, when she was basically 26, assuming her birthday was in 1988.

When men say they are only attracted to women in their teens and 20s, they are admitting that they are incapable of love. He couldn't keep his boner up for her once she started aging like a normal person, going through pregnancy and childbirth, the changes in her body that came with those lifechanging events. I'm willing to bet he is an absent father on top of this. A man who resents his wife with a passion also hates his children that he has made with that woman.

I gotta say it, but I don't envy the younger women who has to deal with these types of scrotes. I don't envy the fact that these kinds of men no longer find me attractive now that I'm older than 29. I am at peace finally that I don't have to deal with men like that anymore, outside of them trying to harass me online over my age or some shit lmao.

I don't know if anyone here recognize this name anymore but does anyone recall a YouTuber named Onision? He is a real sick person who loves teenage girls. He married his first wife when she was barely 18 (granted he was around the same age), then left her years later for a 17 year old girl. Once those two broke up, he got with another 16-17 year old girl, married her as soon as she hits 18, and then years later tried to leave her for yet ANOTHER teenage/early-20s girl. THIS is the type guy that are so common, it's scary!

sleepysiri · 2022-03-24T23:25:28+00:00

Who wants to bet he has ED and is taking it out on her. My pp doesn’t work anymore so you have to bend over backwards and become hotter than you already are to make my saggy balls happy! 👹

PinkestMango · 2022-03-25T02:46:50+00:00

(inhales)

WHY ARE YOU DATING A GERIATRIC SCROTE WITH NO REDEEMING QUALITIES???

that's all.

thepsychopathhunter · 2022-03-24T23:15:38+00:00

34 and 49 for eight years…so they got married when she was 26 and he was 41?! And that doesn’t account for the time they spent dating…

Even if he is very fit as she describes he’s still hit the wall and did hit the wall when he first met her at that age because scrote men rot like bananas. This is pure projection. He preyed on a young woman, used the age gap to manipulate her and now she’s brainwashed into thinking the solution to having more sex with this old scrote is returning to her pre-pregnancy body. No respect at all for her carrying his child. 🤢 And she also says she’s very fit already, he’s just trying to make her feel badly about herself to hold onto her.

makeawomancum · 2022-03-24T23:09:53+00:00

The age gap alone makes me worry and question their dynamic. I’m heartbroken it’s so common for women to blame themselves for naturally going through bodily changes postpartum or as they age. I swear every ungrateful husband who negs their wife look far less attractive than their wife. Even if not, I’m sad at the pressure she feels to look a very specific way for someone so mean and low value.

ceramicunicorn · 2022-03-24T23:35:09+00:00

“This body made you a daughter. You’re welcome.”

Cue the sound of a suitcase handle being pulled up, the click of heels across the floor, the roll of suitcase wheels behind them, the firm closing of a door.

LadyWizzard · 2022-03-24T23:31:25+00:00

He has ED and is scared she will dump him so he's preemptively blaming it on her and trying to break her down mentally she she won't have the confidence and energy to leave.

Zurflu · 2022-03-24T23:30:32+00:00

Does anyone else think it kinda sounds like he'd rather fuck a dude?

PicoPicoMio · 2022-03-24T23:32:26+00:00

Oh this poor woman. I have no doubt she’s probably extremely fit already, he’s pushing her to internalize his body dysmorphia. Let me guess, he probably has porn addiction she doesn’t know about.

KetoKittenAround · 2022-03-24T23:24:05+00:00

Death is just about knocking on his door, but he’s too busy worrying about what this 30 year year old is eating instead of getting his life alert alarm.

RoseDumpling · 2022-03-24T23:55:46+00:00

Let him goooooo

SessionLeather · 2022-03-25T00:45:21+00:00

What a narcissistic MANIAC. He is dragging her into his body dysmorphia and hatred of women’s bodies. I hope she is able to escape and use some of the alimony money to pay for some decent meals (probably hasn’t eaten anything but salads and protein shakes with this psycho monitoring her all day)

miwamus · 2022-03-25T02:49:11+00:00

He's abusive and/or has ED.

cottoncandyisthebest · 2022-03-25T01:45:12+00:00

I’m sure she’s way more gorgeous than his crusty self deserves and he knows it

smart-tart23 · 2022-03-25T03:03:13+00:00

So I couldn’t even read past the age difference … my jaw dropped and I thought THE AUDACITY of this old ass man to think he has a right

millennialpink2000 · 2022-03-24T23:39:27+00:00

He's not interested in what she eats, he's interested in controlling her and moving the goal posts so she continues jumping to please him. Honestly, it sounds like he's in the closet and using her weight as a reason to never be intimate with her. This level of control isn't normal, and it reminds me of a family member who struggled with his sexual identity and came out later in life. He used to try to control me and my eating in similar ways

KetoKittenAround · 2022-03-25T05:47:07+00:00

Madam, he is knock knocking on heaven’s door for man years, especially in the fitness game where I’m certain he has dabbled in a bit of this and a little of that.

My advice would be of course to get rid of him. But as you get your ducks in a row… start telling him that you notice him “slowing down” he doesn’t seem as “vigorous “ as when you met. After all, the other men you know are very enthusiastic with their partners in the bedroom.

This man is slowing down. He is about to become all but useless.

Pull away and start living your best healthy life. Tell him all about himself. His stink and his gross. You’re turned off by such an creature. One that can not even please his willing wife.

I bet it’s a bunch of things but the steroids push havoc on that little dak. They can’t perform and please ? It’s your fault! Except it’s them not being up for the act. They are limp.

queenofswordsxxx · 2022-03-24T23:41:51+00:00

So she’s fit but he wants her to be anorexic?!?

vforvendetta87 · 2022-03-25T04:31:05+00:00

So he’s abusing her. Got it.

Minkiemink · 2022-03-25T00:36:50+00:00

What he wants is the 26 year old he married *AT AGE 41\* ! Now he's almost 50 FFS. The issue isn't with you OP, the issue is with his ED along with his absurd expectations.

Ivimaiden · 2022-03-25T00:29:11+00:00

Ppppppffffff!! I would kick this guy’s ass faster than the mental farts coming out of his mouth.

2022-03-25T03:59:10+00:00

He sounds mentally un well. She's going to have the guys lined up waiting if they get divorced and I hope they do.

EurasianEmpress · 2022-03-25T03:44:30+00:00

I bet HE’s the one not in good enough shape and he’s trying to force her to be “perfect” to compensate for his own rotting looks.

I bet he will cheat on her and leave her, anyway. He’s already planning it.

butteryrum · 2022-03-25T09:49:02+00:00

If true, which I HOPE not, but if so.... any man monitoring your meals is an abusive pos.

The fact he equates being motivated/disciplined to "how in shape someone is" equally as dumb as it sounds ignorant of biology. How the fuck does anyone get to 50 so pig headed? That's why part of me has a hard time believing these things are written by anyone other than greasy 20 year olds who have hardly touched a boob let alone ever been married.

Davina33 · 2022-03-25T01:35:48+00:00

Who does this old scrote think he is? The age gap is bad enough, without him thinking he can demand a super skinny sex doll as well. I don't think the problem is his wife at all but his erectile dysfunction has another cause. I hope his wife wises up to this. This makes me feel sick!

KitKat1705 · 2022-03-25T07:39:11+00:00

He is cheating. Why do people marry people like that ? I like working out but if my Bf started telling me I need to work out and pestering me about it. I’d walk away.

oscine23 · 2022-03-25T11:19:13+00:00

He’s cheating.

Miss-Education · 2022-03-25T01:38:42+00:00

All’s not lost. She knows she’s beautiful, she’s in good shape, and she values her accomplishments. She doesn’t sound like he’s totally destroyed her self esteem, but he’s trying.

She needs to find her husband a someone named Venus, with big arms and a penis.

She’ll easily find someone that values her with a big, working …

K0rla · 2022-03-25T11:17:07+00:00

Beat him to it and divorce him first.

saint-jezebel · 2022-03-25T00:07:20+00:00

Age gap relationships are pure manipulation and just don’t work.

3orangelove · 2022-03-25T13:51:12+00:00

Solution: Get in the best shape of your life by divorcing this scrote and having the best sex of your life with someone else. 😏

Leeola_Mcgillicuddy · 2022-03-25T02:39:32+00:00

Wow. Scrotes gonna scrote! And scrote to the extreme like this guy. Life is wayyyy too short. I would dump that zero. Males with a very narrow definition of beauty and what is sexy in a woman usually have problems with their pee pee.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-03-25T06:20:11+00:00

Yoooo I read this one. That was wild.

InappropriateMommie · 2022-03-25T12:08:48+00:00

OMFGA LEAVE HIM

murdertoothbrush · 2022-03-25T14:27:16+00:00

But it's definitely not a problem with his geriatric penis... /s

wet-plants · 2022-03-25T10:40:32+00:00

He’s 49, with a 34 year old. How much you wanna bet it has nothing to do with her fitness and everything to do with his pedophillic preferences for much younger women.

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2022-03-25T20:06:51+00:00

As a “mentally disciplined,” woman who cares about fitness and healthy eating, this is the lowest circle of hell. The amount of anxiety and energy it would consume…

DTMFA, girl.

rainbowhelix · 2022-03-25T23:49:57+00:00

Interesting that she still "strongly believes that he cares" about her. The patriarchy loves to push this lie. "He lOveS you, even though his actions completely counter that idea..."

Ok-Appearance5982 · 2022-03-26T06:04:49+00:00

She lost me at “ I strongly believe he cares about me”. She needs an FDS rescue

freerollerskates · 2022-03-25T08:36:59+00:00

If you're commenting on your partner's body it should be from a place of care. "You've put on weight recently and I'm worried that you're not taking care of yourself" is fine but this shit, to a woman who honestly sounds insanely physically fit, is just appalling and clearly an attempt at control.

Novemberinthechair · 2022-03-26T08:57:01+00:00

He's mental. She needs to run before he destroys her soul completely.

Title	Ofc he blames it on her and not himself
Author	AphoticEnigma_
Upvotes	810
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Date	March 24, 2022 11:01 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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