I think this is another frustrating part as a guy for the fact that you're still expected to be a high achiever but not every person who achieves great things started from the bottom or with nothing. I went to very rich and privileged schools and it shows and how the kids are because you have so many kids that are basically handed everything and it doesn't surprise me that they probably still do well because the poor dude still has to worry about money and a car and shelter before he can even have them taking a lady out on a date

Cool I better use easier the top man when your parents pay for your car and your clothes and you really don't have to worry about much

Donald Trump is a great example as he was born into a very rich and privileged family and use that to better his station and there's so many other celebrity examples but it would be foolish to think that these guys were high value based off of Merit and hard work alone because that's just not true

I went to school with a kid who had his Rich parents pay for everything and even though he was in school for a great job he really did not have to be because both his parents would Supply him money

And this guy had no social skills or any Grace in himself whatsoever. And it makes sense because he's a rich kid so he really does not have to make himself into a better person to gain things because he already has everything

I think this is like the weird glitch in a lot of women attraction because they don't really care how you became successful just so long that you are and I think a lot of men recognize that and understandably get frustrated