CMV : if you do not maximise your looks potential close to the limit you should not complain about dating

AceOfSpadesGymBro · 2023-10-18T01:03:42+00:00

Aren't women supposed to like me for who I am?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-18T05:29:53+00:00

Another post of "do stuff about your physique and hygiene to get pussy"

That's how you create resentment

Because nothing of this actually makes sure (or actually really increases) their chances unless they are top bottom borderline unable to function people.

And what happens when they do all that stuff and nothing happens? They become even more mad and bitter to huge degree.

Now don't get me wrong,i think everyone of both sexes should do that stuff. However,they should do it FOR THEMSELVES in order to be a healthier person. If they do it because "i want Women!" they have more underlying issues that they don't go away regardless of how many reps they do

RedditLiesMore · 2023-10-18T03:42:00+00:00

I disagree. I'm more fit and stronger than the majority of commercial gym-goers and regularly get compliments for my physique and strength...from other men.

I used to dress well and also received compliments...from other men.

While I'm more attractive than my hypothetical non-fit self, I still do not reach the the attractiveness threshold to be considered attractive by women I'm interested in or even the women I've dated.

At the end the day, I'm still the guy with the a mediocre face and the darkest skin.

bifewova234 · 2023-10-17T23:58:35+00:00

There are a lot of people who will never be desirable no matter how hard they try.

Independent-Mail-227 · 2023-10-18T02:24:11+00:00

Ok so, I go to the gym become the best person I can and my "reward" is a single mother or some used up onahole? No thanks.

Gold_Supermarket1956 · 2023-10-18T00:48:52+00:00

Women don't even have to go to the gym as long as their slim... A slim man still has to put on muscle... And a nice physique literally takes years..

Spyro7x3 · 2023-10-18T02:46:27+00:00

Don't forget to put your left shoe on your left foot and your right shoe on your right foot either guys. Its easy

nonplussedminus · 2023-10-18T08:53:48+00:00

You can do all this and still be an incel. I did all this and was a champion wrestler in college. Deadlift 400, Bench 250, Bitches 0. Women don't care how much you lift if your face is ugly.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-10-18T01:42:39+00:00

So men should put in MORE work than women now on appearance? Men need to become the prettier ones who focus more on appearance, then compete intersexually harder than women do, in order to get women who are objectively less attractive, more overweight?

We flipping things now? Going back to nature? Or maybe, in a world where men bring nothing to the table that women do not, but women still have higher reproductive costs, it makes sense for men to at least bring more looks given everything else is equal? I dunno. A world where men date down in absolute appearance?

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-10-18T00:37:05+00:00

If you're a man and you do not have a BMI below 25, you cannot complain about your dating life or lack thereof. The reality is that men find women far more attractive than women find men inl, so that means as a man you're going to have to put in a lot more work to be seen as attractive than a Woman would have to attract a man. It's just the way it is.

Don't cry or complain about it because that isn't going to change anything, so either get to work or shut the fuck up.

Roddy_Rowdy_Piper · 2023-10-17T23:51:56+00:00

Totally agree

Men need to have a low enough body fat % where they have cheekbones, defined chin, none of this chubby shit, No belly sticking out

Until you reach this stage you have NO right to complain

And yes, it's different for women, I don't make the rules, deal with it either way

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-10-18T05:59:39+00:00

I think the best way to look better for most people is to eat a tapeworm egg rather than working out for a full year lmao.

Proudvow · 2023-10-18T07:58:31+00:00

If someone with your maximized look is projected to still have a shit dating experience that's kind of enough to complain about. The juice isn't always worth the squeeze.

SoooDisappointed · 2023-10-18T10:51:38+00:00

Much on the contrary. Suppising the numbers of 20% of guys being considered medium and above while the other 80% being considered non-physically attractive aka ugly are real, they are so absurd that men should really spend their time and efforts somewhere else.

candikanez · 2023-10-17T23:30:56+00:00

They don't want to do any work. They've been raised with the belief that just because they're male they have privilege and are entitled to a submissive wife.

Lovers691 · 2023-10-17T23:55:17+00:00

Yes, if you go to the gym for a 6 months to a yeah you will have a better physique that most people but the truth is these things won't do much to improve you looks unless you are really out of shape/have poor hygiene

Ok_Finger_6818 · 2023-10-18T07:44:41+00:00

What I don’t understand is, there are no genuine bros helping bros, it’s all a competition and for what? The chance she might find you attractive and go with you? Let go of the things you cannot control. Jealousy is unattractive. Be humble, have a healthy ego.

Be your genuine self once you’ve found yourself.
Be consistent.
Make sure you do what you’ve said you’re gonna do.
You’ll be judged on how you treat others.

Go to therapy and learn how to be your genuine self (now this is the part where you may feel I am contradicting myself - would you rather choose to just cope with your situation or choose to change your situation?)

Go to therapy to learn how to be consistent, learn how to have a healthy ego and self esteem, learn how grow your confidence, learn ho to be humble and accepting of what you have, learn how to treat others.

Safinated · 2023-10-18T00:03:07+00:00

Oh, but that’s effort. With no guarantee. Also, single moms, fatties, and not good enough

norihitodesuga · 2023-10-17T23:29:41+00:00

you don't need the gym lol, just do cardio, callisthenics and stretch. also you don't need a beard if you have a decent looking face, many women prefer a clean shaven look.

EastSideSlasha · 2023-10-17T23:25:26+00:00

4 hours a week wdf what you gon achieve with that 😂

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thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-18T00:07:27+00:00

Here, hear! 99% of the dudes that claim that they were cursed from birth to never be attractive to anyone ever haven’t even made an effort. Sure, some people are dealt a worse hand than others. But your options are either to play it the best you can or roll over and die.

MrBrittle · 2023-10-18T00:42:48+00:00

This is Red Pill and it's for normies, like me.

This worked well for me, although moneymaxxing can be better than looksmaxxing sometimes (here in Brazil)

However, as it is a CMV, I ask you a question, what about truecels? In your post it sounds like you blame them for their bad genetics.

MaleficentSun3923 · 2023-10-18T02:52:52+00:00

Yeah this worked wonders for me. Became top of the food chain as early as age 21 after working out at 18.

Girls better work out as well or they will never be able to look like their early 20s ever again. They just don't have the know how, the determination or the time to figure it out.

literaryhogwartian · 2023-10-18T11:44:34+00:00

Also by being healthier you will be far happier. This will also make you more attractive

Icy-Sprinkles-638 · 2023-10-18T15:33:10+00:00

Since this is clearly aimed at men here's the counterpoint: for decades men have been told starting at early boyhood that looks don't matter, that personality overcomes all. Breaking conditioning that you've been subjected to since before you formed conscious memories is fucking hard. It is 100% fair to complain about how following the advice you were given your whole life and that was used to shape you at your deepest level was a complete and total lie.

damnregistering · 2023-10-18T17:34:33+00:00

I agree but those things you should do regardless if you are dating or not to pay respect to yourself. Now whether doing those thing is enough to be attractive YMMV, but you should do them as a minimum.

Different-Virus-7474 · 2023-10-19T00:44:45+00:00

I tried that. Doesn't work.

No-Resource2745 · 2023-10-19T11:53:35+00:00

You missed making sure your clothes aren’t wrinkled. Also proper sizing of clothes is something that gets really overlooked. A lot of dudes will wear an I’ll fitting suit, and complain that they aren’t getting the perks that come with wearing a suit, like dude, the thing needs to fit right, take it to a tailor.

Title	CMV : if you do not maximise your looks potential close to the limit you should not complain about dating
Author	Cjaylyle
Upvotes	34
Comments	204
Date	October 17, 2023 11:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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