I’m trying to understand why some guys after seen the sh*t show a divorce brought to our lives, decide to go for seconds and get re married?

My divorce left a sour taste in my mouth after watching someone I spend a quarter of my life make a complete 180 and change the entire narrative. Victimize them selves to feel entitled to half of my hard work.

I’ve seen how all of it plays out at first is all roses and perfect moments but later down the road all of that dies down. A woman is trying to show you her best at all times because her end goal is marriage, they all have a hiding agenda it could be driving by love at first but love starts slowing down and potentially die down.

The moment they get that ring and you sign that paper you have giving up all leverage, all power. You could be the best husband and bow your head to avoid conflict at the end the ball is in her court.

If at any point after they get that ring they feel they can do better or get better, the only thing holding them back is to break that contract wipe you out once again and go live their lives off your hard earn money.

I found a ride or die after my divorce and they make more money then me more educated, wants to start a family with me yet I’m hesitant. What’s to guarantee me that once she gets that ring she’s going to remain the same. The difference between a break up and divorce is that another divorce would obliterate any chance at retirement.