It's crazy how important social circle and status is

Chicagoj1563 · 2021-09-08T10:22:59+00:00

Totally agree with this. If the seduction community ever evolves it could be that game will be seen as the fundamentals on social dynamics and how to talk to women. But, social circle and status in those circles is where guys can really take things to a whole new level. You build that social life for yourself, but most guys would probably find access to really attractive women through that lifestyle. Then it becomes a lifelong process of building an awesome life.

Game + social circle + status is where the magic happens.

Blackmetalpenguin90 · 2021-09-08T10:56:18+00:00

If think you left out a step.

Unemployment, no social circle and no interesting activities = You feel worthless = social death sentence and instant repellant to women

rewinder909 · 2021-09-08T11:19:42+00:00

I think a best way to put it is, if you do nothing with your life you will have nothing to talk about with a woman. The more you do activities and interact with people, the more you will have experience socializing and talk about. If you live an interesting life you become an interesting person. That's all.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2021-09-08T11:16:21+00:00

Wait... how do random chicks even know about your weak social circle? You definitely need to build one, but how in the world is it stopping you from getting first dates? It's not the kind of thing that should be immediately obvious to a stranger. Are you telling them?

RealHumanBeing2020 · 2021-09-08T11:12:59+00:00

I agree. In fact, a lot of dudes who struggle with women do so because they’re somewhat loners and basically have no friends. If they had a social circle, they most likely wouldn’t have problems meeting women.

Daunt02 · 2021-09-08T15:33:05+00:00

I didn't start getting laid regularly until I became respected in the arts, music and party scene in my city. I was broke and not that much in shape too, had a drug problem also, but it was one of the times I got laid the most.

Being vetted by social circles and communities automatically puts you in a position for the women that would like can feel comfortable in talking to you. Social game doesn't get you laid per say, it takes away the barrier of having to establish your persona to new people. Makes things easier if you don't fuck up.

Equivalent_Climate69 · 2021-09-08T12:47:27+00:00

I can understand the need to have a social circle and I think in the UK it may be necessary to have one as cold approach doesn't work that well here.

But I don't understand how "social circle game" would work any differently to any other type of game. Let's say you've become friends with a group of people. You all hang out in that group, its evenly mixed with an equal number of guys and girls. At some point, you're at a house party and you get talking to one of the girls and make a move/ask her out/ask her for her number or whatever.

If she refuses, it becomes awkward, and if she goes out with you, then that's it, you're coupled up. If you then dump her later, all of a sudden that's your social circle blown out of the water because you're labelled a player to the rest of the girls, and btw, girls talk.

SO ---- what's the point of "social circle game" if at the end of the day after all that effort, your additional lay is going to be +1

? Maybe I'm understanding it wrong and someone else can break it down for me but I see all these idiots banging on about social circle game and how everyone can pull 3 girls at a time from a social circle but I struggle to believe its that easy that you go out and make a few friends and then have chicks at your beck and call.

GotThaAcid5tab · 2021-09-08T10:37:35+00:00

This is so true. I get fed up of the annoying black pill memes on this sub uttered by the usual morons.

This applies even more so in the UK, where a lot of American "advice" just doesn't make any sense whatsoever. In the UK, you have to be the "man around town" and "one of the lads" to be in any way attractive to women at all. If you don't full fill that criteria, no amount of cold approaching will work, even if you're not ugly and can even provoke aggression and hostility from those whom you approach.

I've been unemployed/part time employed/temporarily employed my whole working life.

If I am working on a zero hour contract as a delivery driver that is the very bottom of the barrel. That's not a proper "employment" type job, even.

When I was in my 20s I always said I will make a serious effort to start "dating" when 1. I had a full time job and 2. I lived in my own place.

That never came and as a result I wasted my youth.

So yeah, it does all stem from having a proper job and preferably a group of friends.

UnidentifiedLunatic · 2021-09-08T10:33:11+00:00

That’s probably because being socially active gives them a taste of what your real personality is, instead of having to wonder if you’re only behaving a certain way because you’re trying go get laid. It also shows them you’re a normal human being, that is fun to be around and has been accepted by their surroundings. Someone that doesn’t interact socially with others shows a lot less about their own persona, and for all they know could be out to mug, rape or kill them. Also if someone isn’t going out with a group of friends, that could imply that they’re only after hookups, which could come off as creepy, because people can’t read whether you’re well- or ill-intended. Being socially active drops a lot of clues about someone’s personality, shows that they’re just out there to have fun, and makes people feel comfortable around them. So before going out looking for hookups, look for a social circle. It introduces you to new people, and gets the ball rolling. If you find the right circle, it’ll make you happy, with or without the hookups you were looking for

_Turiya · 2021-09-08T11:56:05+00:00

what do loners and lone wolves have to do to become that social butterfly i find it it excruciatingly hard to connect with the world at large and i can score a girl here and there but not without effort but i know what your saying and it’s applications just not sure how to make that personality switch

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2021-09-09T03:01:56+00:00

This is an innate biological response women have. You can observe in primates how the alpha males are usually the social elites. They are able to maintain social bonds between males and females, and thus are the dominant leader. Therefore, these males have the most sexual access to females and are the most prized male by the females. Social status is everything, but "social dominance" might be a better word. Being a leader in something. Think of 50 Shades of Grey were Mr. Grey is a rich entrepreneur. This book was a best seller targeted at single women. Also think of the stereotypical "Chad". These men are usually leaders of fraternities or other social clubs.

jontttu · 2021-09-08T12:18:51+00:00

Damn a post i actually agree with. Im also good looking guy and confident in myself. I also have job and hobbies, but my social circle is really small. I very rarely meet new people, but when i meet new people in parties my success rate of getting laid is pretty high without even working for it.

Also Im not extrovert and usually I don't know what to say, and that's probably why my tinder dates are usually boring. But when im with group of friends, girls notice me all the time.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-09-09T01:24:25+00:00

Also worth mentioning that enhancing ones social circle has the byproduct of actually leading to a happier and more interesting life in which getting women perhaps isn’t a desperate priority, which is both attractive to women and a healthier mindset

putcoolusernamehere · 2021-09-09T14:48:49+00:00

Yeah, one of my best friends is this hyper social guy. Like he's social to the point many in his direct circle have been telling him he needs to learn to prioritize himself over socialization more. He is now a dating a really high quality woman after dating another high quality one before her. He's overweight and not particularly focused on career. He's just incredible at socializing and because of that he's never going to have to worry about finding a job or finding a woman. Extroversion is a superpower.

Mq200 · 2021-09-08T13:24:52+00:00

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Tavarshio · 2021-09-08T21:00:42+00:00

Lemme chime in on this: Remember George Sodini? AFAIK he was always gainfully employed and made a good living. But he had no friends, was estranged from his family, and single for 18 years before his death. There are unemployed moochers with plenty of friends who still get some play. I've been saying this for years: sociometric status is far more important than socioeconomic status! Being a rich dork is a lonelier existence than being an starving artist.

Building a social circle takes time and most of all, it takes an abundance mentality. You must learn to do stuff by yourself and feel comfortable being by yourself out in public. I say it's fine to chit chat with strangers and acquaintances but don't expect anything from anyone. The scarcity mentality that comes from loneliness can make the condition self-perpetuating.

sadhak_x0 · 2021-09-08T23:14:23+00:00

There are no rules. Success is random. All the comments here are true for some people and false for others.

Ashamed-Height1106 · 2021-09-08T11:16:55+00:00

Disagree. I have no social media, no social circles and have an awesome relationship and job. If anything I'm happier that we outgrew hanging out with (mostly his) friends and focus on ourselves more.

rivetcitymayor · 2021-09-08T13:30:44+00:00

Social circle is king

Particular_Visual531 · 2021-09-09T00:14:39+00:00

I'm a dating coach and i alway start from the beginning, what does that mean? All our dating interactions are just millions a years of evolutionary biology covered with current social rules. The reason we feel nervous asking a girl out, the way we feel when we like someone, the way we act and the way the girl that we are talking to are acting are all built into the subconscious. Once you realize that you can start to slow it down, i equate it to the matrix, you can realize that its all not real, but it feels real to you and everyone else. If you can ever become like Neal in the matrix, thats when you can be high social status just by acting that way in your own mind. Everyone else will believe you are because they just see the outward signs. Of course this is what is hard, again kind of like the matrix, it all feels so real we want to let those feels take control, but they are just age old biological programming designed to help us survive and mate in a highly social mammalian group.

recyclablebanthas · 2021-09-09T01:21:14+00:00

I've seen short dudes, regular looking dudes or slightly good-looking dudes do far better with women than I have.....

.....despite me having a looks advantage.

I mean, you've realized that you've been missing something (social life, etc.) but the wording here shows some unhelpful ideas still persisting.

There's no objective scale of attractiveness. If you get a group of people in a room and ask them who their 10s are, it's not possible to reach consensus. One person's 10 will be another person's 7 or 6.
So the idea of a "looks advantage" is kind of meaningless. Some people are going to find you attractive and some aren't.
The evidence is there. You've seen people you consider "regular looking," doing better than you have been with women. The truth is that the women with those "regular looking dudes" didn't see them as "regular looking." They actually found them attractive.
Attractiveness is enough of a personal thing that we cannot rely on our own assessment of our own attractiveness as a gauge of whether any particular person outside of our parents, will also agree with us.

Adjustedwell · 2021-09-09T02:12:15+00:00

First of all, this is an incredibly important post - first-hand admission that being tall and good-looking isn't an auto-win.

But also it shows that your mindset means the most, I say this because I also dont believe the reason those other short guys are getting girls is a result of social circle and status.

This shows that confidence is key regardless if you're short, tall, alone, with people, whatever the case is.

Of course if you've got money, looks, height, muscles, social circle, and are well socialized it takes less "game" to get women, but you still need game and the more game you have the less the other stuff matters.

willgo-waggins · 2021-09-09T04:34:04+00:00

Absolutely 1,000,000 percent correct!

I’ll go one further.

I make it a point (I get along very well with women) to form multiple different (some interaction but very restricted and careful as it can backfire on you) groups of people. I include enough men to not be obvious and never any that are better looking or more attractive otherwise than myself.

That’s not to say that my close friends are under those restrictions. Quote the contrary. There is the fact that most of my closest friends are women anyway and at least five of those I have slept with in the past and I’m some cases will again.

DoubleM961 · 2021-09-08T12:07:18+00:00

I agree with this. I started my own business and started making decent money. I started going out more and posting better photos on Instagram. You wouldn't believe how different girls responded to me on Instagram when I DM them.

Money IS needed. But what you do with that money makes a huge difference (at least at first) you also need to have decent communication skills and off you go

SlickBackMex · 2021-09-08T19:52:34+00:00

This is where I'm definitely lacking 😩

Zpb927 · 2021-09-08T21:51:02+00:00

Yeah I totally feel you bro…. I’m a tall fit good looking dude (not trying to brag, just what I’ve been told) and get plenty of matches on tinder. However anytime I start dating a girl, they always seems to be dumbfounded by the fact that I only have a couple of friends and prefer spending a lot of time alone, given I’m very introverted by nature. The last girl I was dating would always ask me how I don’t get bored. Idk like I have a job, go to school, the gym, etc. it really does amaze me lol

Altostratus · 2021-09-08T22:43:41+00:00

It’s interesting that you assume the lack of social circle is the issue. IMHO, most women would be more concerned about the unemployed piece.

burncushlikewood · 2021-09-09T03:10:32+00:00

So true, building a good group of bros isn't just good for women it's good for your mental health as well. I do disagree with you a bit money is very attractive to women, they want to live luxurious lifestyles, big houses, nice cars, expensive vacations. Building good relationships with men and women are the key to happiness, even if you're not getting laid having friends will keep you happy.

willgo-waggins · 2021-09-09T04:35:50+00:00

Meetups groups.

It’s like adult play dates or group make friends stuff.

CountFocus · 2021-09-09T09:38:50+00:00

Back in my hometown, I had this short friend, maybe 5'7. Really smart and witty but his father is very rich so he took the opportunity and cultivated an insane status. Everyone wanted to be his friend, everyone loved him. He was really nice.

Every time we went out women would throw themselves at him, it was crazy. He was the one who rejected most of them.

That time I learned a valuable lesson, yes looks matter, but status is king. That's why most men fight for status in a way or another.

dsoj873 · 2021-09-09T14:56:09+00:00

getting a social circle started once you're out of college and uni and stuff it hard. Especially one with cool guys and young girls

AelfredRex · 2021-09-08T11:59:39+00:00

This isn't high school. It doesn't matter that you're sitting alone and not at the "cool kids" table. It's what's inside you that matters to a woman, not the people around you.

TitusVI · 2021-09-08T11:54:49+00:00

If you think about it wouldnt it be weird if women like unemployed, hobbyless, boring dudes? If women breed with loosers humanities future is lost.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-08T16:45:49+00:00

Disagree.

I've had zero social circle the entire time I've been into GAME, yet I sleep with 100+ girls a year on average for the past 10+ years.

You don't need any social circle to have a Tinder girl come straight to your place to bang.

Or with daygame or nightgame.

All those are 1-1.

Nobody else matters.

No the one thing you need isn't social circle, it's probably the least important.

All you need is GAME.

saulisdating · 2021-09-08T20:16:08+00:00

Contrary to popular belief, your social circle is largely irrelevant for plain pickup and seduction. Plenty of guys travel around and go solo and pick up women successfully.

I’ve been going solo in several different countries and cities where I know no one. And if you know what you’re doing things are going to go great, regardless if you have lots of friends and a huge social circle back at home or not.

Lack of a social circle is just an excuse. It HELPS you and complements you, but you certainly don’t HAVE to have one to succeed.

I largely do day game and social circle means jack shit when approaching random women. In clubs even less so.

Artist-in-Residence- · 2021-09-09T04:08:11+00:00

Hmmm...I don't know. Many men with large social circles tend to have bad reputations and women are told to avoid them unless you plan on being their "flavor of the month".

Think of Harvey Weinstein before the news broke on him, everyone knew what his was doing and men like him tend to have huge social circles, and he could easily have sex a lot of desperate women who were after his money and fame, but smart women knew what he was about and avoided him.

Quite personally, I always preferred more edgy men, the ones who stand slightly off to the side and watch everyone, as opposed to the one who is always in the middle of the action, like Weinstein.

I think though all women like men who have talent, skills, or generally respected by their peer group. I tend to have a strong attraction towards visionary types. Men with a great vision. I'd much rather choose an unknown guy with potential who has a great vision than a slimy guy like Weinstein who has large social connections.

And I have to say that most powerful people don't have friends, they have interchangeable allies and enemies, hence why it's lonely at the top.

Also I find it hard to trust someone who has a lot of "friends". As they say, a friend to all is a friend to none.

Appropriate_Ad3327 · 2021-09-08T10:04:08+00:00

How tall are you?

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Due_Entertainment_66 · 2021-09-08T12:20:25+00:00

I really hate this genetic requirment to seduce women for reproduction, we dont even need this. Hope we evolve fast out of this bullshit need.

campskills21 · 2021-09-08T17:01:00+00:00

If you want attractive women these days, you need a car and your own place unless you're very hot. A cool social circle I'm not sure is that important, prob helps some.

ApatheticHeretic_101 · 2021-09-08T18:14:01+00:00

Long story short: OP has no job, broke, lonely and alone...and still trying to sound confident by downing other men, saying he's more attractive. And still trying to give "advice".

Never take advice from a 'useless" man. They have nothing to offer and their advice could lead you down the wrong path.

2021-09-08T12:05:07+00:00

I completely agree. It's amazing how much more attractive the women you meet through social circles can be than what you get on tinder. I gurantee most of the women I meet in social circles would swipe left on me on tinder but take an interest in me because I met them in person and they saw me interact with others.

bonix · 2021-09-08T12:31:22+00:00

A social circle is proof of value. They see it as "hey if these all these people like him and are cool then he must be a pretty decent person." Having no social life other than going out solo does not look good.

keyson5 · 2021-09-08T12:57:18+00:00

Good advice

sohamDab · 2021-09-08T13:43:28+00:00

how tall are you?

2021-09-08T13:51:29+00:00

I think 99% of the community forgets about this

daddysgotanew · 2021-09-08T14:44:50+00:00

You’re just not good looking enough so yea you need a ton of status or cash to make up for it. Burger King Chad doesn't need any of that

iTAMEi · 2021-09-08T14:51:55+00:00

Yeah one thing in my life is I have a group of friends who live in the city I grew up. I’ve slept with a few of the girls in their friendship group that they’ve met since I left. There’s two more I’m convinced I could probably sleep with but they’re ex gfs of friends of mine at this point.

I think me visiting and getting hyped up by everyone in the group has really really helped there.

dPensive · 2021-09-08T15:12:23+00:00

Listen on how to be a high value man by Kevin Samuels. A network of men that look out for eachother and use eachother to benefit the whole is essential.

sailing_to_the_stars · 2021-09-08T15:17:06+00:00

When I was in high school, my biology teacher told me the importance of social status and culture in dating.

ant2k15 · 2021-09-08T15:53:58+00:00

I agree 100% you get way more attention when you’re sociable. Women find that attractive. And it helps them let their guards down easier. Social proof is a serious thing. I apply the same thing to social media. You want a desirable and sociable chick to take interest in you with 5 followers and horrible pics. You have to balance it out for them. They like seeing you have positive social interactions.

So at a party - I don’t really need to try to hard. The women for me will come to me. I’m not looking for their attention or bothering people. I’m enjoying myself. With my friends. With the people around me. Solo. They find there way to me. More times than not.

On social media - I’m active enough not to draw suspicion. I post. I have good photos. And I live my life. They find you over there when you do that. (Bonus Tip : take your date to an attraction * yes pay for a real date* and get her to take a picture of you. Boom! new photos / new stories. Even if you guys dont last you still got a memory that will get you more dates. )

You have to get the ball rolling. And putting yourself out there is key. Even if you go alone. Find a way to enjoy your own company. Whatever it is for you. I like concerts and festivals. More times than not I go alone to not have to babysit people. You meet so many like minded people - when your doing things you actually want to do. And these are some down ass chicks. You also make friends. Increasing your social network of like minded individuals. So its not forced. Because they actually like you and want to link.

PracticeTerrible8660 · 2021-09-08T16:41:59+00:00

I feel you bro

myster7600 · 2021-09-08T17:02:47+00:00

This is one of my biggest issues as a 25 year old. I could have a social circle but I don’t like the commitment of having to hangout all the time, spend money, and always be out doing something. I rather just chill most of the time and do something occasionally. People tend to cut you off after denying a few hangout requests.

AnthonyCarmine · 2021-09-08T17:27:24+00:00

You make a good point g

ignitedwolf9200 · 2021-09-08T17:48:48+00:00

100%

AvocadoCatnip · 2021-09-08T17:52:22+00:00

How you talk about your employment status and social status/social circle, is important.
The impression you give, is important.

The reality, not so much. In the short term, anyway.

prince_of_brosia · 2021-09-08T19:23:36+00:00

Or you can be a lone wolf. Going to places by yourself shows confidence. You just got to make sure to appear confident and look lost. Pre pandemic I’d go to concerts by myself all the time

Bombsawayboy · 2021-09-08T19:36:35+00:00

Live an active and interesting life, and you’ll never have to cold approach again.

fyvhvgxf22222222222 · 2021-09-08T20:19:26+00:00

Neither of them matter. None of you have status and never will. Women also don’t give a fuck about your friends either. All women want a free ride in life, you need to make enough money to make that happen so go get a 6 figure career and have a hot face (if you don’t at least you have money now to go get a bunch of surgeries to attempt to fix it) and you’ll land 99% of women.

DylanFiglewicz · 2021-09-08T20:57:16+00:00

Not if you lower your standards like me lol we shouldn't have to, but any port in a storm and drastic times call for drastic measures. I have been on umeployment all year and don't have a car lol or many friends where I moved. Still can always get a girl tho. Just about having faith in yourself and not looking at outside factors for internal problems. Nobody can get anygirl, but almost everyone can get girls. If I can then it just a matter of perspective and not giving up. Everyone has gotta get so much outta their own heads about everything. If you're cool and fun then that's it.

Mrs_Caulfield · 2021-09-08T21:21:02+00:00

As a woman, I would say this applies as well. Not just in terms of dating but with people in general.

If you don’t have many friends people somehow find you weird. Socializing has never come easy to me and being “popular” with many friends has never interested me anyway. But then I realize that maybe I have to.

agaren · 2021-09-08T21:58:44+00:00

I’ve heard this advice from a lot of people and it’s very true! Do you have any tips for expanding your social circle (especially if your on the shy side like me, lol)

Filth-Montane · 2021-09-08T22:07:26+00:00

How do I learn this? I’m not great in a social setting and people tend to walk all over me. This is despite the fact that I’m relatively handsome, educated and well-read. Where should I start in trying to improve?

PureFlames · 2021-09-08T23:28:17+00:00

I dont think its as important as you think. Personally for me I have extremely high status and a very large social circle (probably in the hundreds) and while it definitely helps, it doesn’t help as much as you may think

strengthfrombalance · 2021-09-09T01:07:09+00:00

Facts. Great post

OnionLegend · 2021-09-09T02:38:15+00:00

You’re right.

Side note, do you think you have a looks advantage or do you know? Maybe they’re just as good looking but don’t fit your standards?

2021-09-09T02:45:17+00:00

This is 100% correct. You’ve nailed it.

KindredJars · 2021-09-09T03:45:50+00:00

I actually posted in askseddit a few days ago asking how to build a social circle if you don't have much to work with starting out (in terms of people). Some helpful insight in the comments/responses:

https://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/phhf4e/how_to_build_social_proof_when_you_have_little_to/

plaze6288 · 2021-09-09T04:00:28+00:00

Unemployment, no social circle and no interesting activities = social death sentence

This is so true...iv made it with crypto and have plenty of money but little to no success because its no help when you have Zero social life and no friends.

2021-09-09T04:46:15+00:00

The problem imo is that there is really no context behind online dating. When you meet through a social circle there is backstory and context as to why you are talking in the first place. Online dating isn't a replacement for socializing. And most people who have built a social life aren't looking to just hand it to somebody that doesn't. Seems fair to me.

MentalCelOmega · 2021-09-09T05:31:09+00:00

GG if you are unable to obtain social status.

LanaTownsend · 2021-09-09T05:37:13+00:00

Yeah, social status is huge and should be developed. People who are sociable, personable and engaging are more attractive. By "attractive", I mean people want to be around them....not strictly their looks. It pays to be a regular at a particular place. The guy who comes into an establishment & has people greet him makes a much better impression than the guy who comes into a place & sits in the corner all night staring at his phone. Women like familiarity and most importantly - a guy who makes her & others feel comfortable. This should be emphasized WAY more in this sub instead of being too dependent on cold approaches or dating/fucking strangers on Tinder. That is low-value and last-resort behavior.

Good looks, car, career, height, nice body, etc do not mean jackshit if your social skills are subpar and you have no friends.

DanChed · 2021-09-09T05:43:41+00:00

It's also really fulfilling. Should be the main focus for most single and socially deprived people getting a circle of friends. I'm working on it now

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-09-09T06:23:23+00:00

DIFFERENT TAKE, DEVIL'S ADVOCATE:

I'm a tall, decent looking guy

thats cool and all ,buuuuut You NEED game, swag, CHARISMA, CONFIDENCE, and an IDGAF. A sigma male, go getter, mover-shaker, whatever you wanna call him can walk in MOST public spaces and "mingle" with dxmn near anybody on a dime.

Unemployment, no social circle and no interesting activities = social death sentence and instant repellant to women.

No...No. Women like men who are physically Attractive and behaviorally attractive, this gives you a Halo effect with EVERYONE...not just women.

You don't NEED to be the "guy who hangs with everybody and everybody knows all your business"... You JUST NEED TO BE the "guy who she finds attractive WHO CAN ALSO attract other people with a movie star like aura". I'm a textbook "sigma antihero type" I HATE having ppl who I don't really like or fxxk with like that all up in my face(or business) running their bigaxx mouth, talking about stupidaxx shxt I don't even care about, JUST to keep up some fakeaxx facade. However, I CAN walk into most environments with broad shoulders, handsome face, well groomed "grudge rocker" facial hair, deep voice, swagger, and charisma to start convos, speak to, and "move through" ANY space at a whim.

Women LOVE that, it shows attractiveness on MANY levels, and confidence to make COMPLETE STRANGERS just interact with you like old friends(or starstruck fans in some cases).

PaintingCool · 2021-09-14T07:22:47+00:00

In NYC your social life is CRUCIAL

freethinking123 · 2021-10-04T13:45:56+00:00

I feel like this thread basically has a lot of well-intentioned advice but it comes down to just a couple of sentences, be superficial, take lots of selfies post them, add all kinds of strangers you don't know or care about and get into the bottle service crowd out at the local Club

Title	It's crazy how important social circle and status is
Author	Mq200
Upvotes	997
Comments	253
Date	September 8, 2021 9:52 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/pk7ebt/its_crazy_how_important_social_circle_and_status/
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