“Please no hate, I already feel so bad..”

HandOverYourCummies · 2019-04-07T12:05:50+00:00

it was still fully functional

haha yeah sure classic medicine there

ActionJacksen · 2019-04-07T12:51:57+00:00

how about just leave his dick alone I'm in the first place.

Lion_amongst_gods · 2019-04-07T13:16:50+00:00

I'm seeing this "No judgement", "No negative comments", etc. mostly by women on social media. Why should there be no judgement or negative comments? Why should anyone be entitled to only positive opinions and encouragement? And mostly, whatever follows these statements is some vile act.

Edit: There are some serious responses here that made me think. So here's my addendum. Negative comments aren't necessarily unproductive by themselves, it's a lack of direction after the negative remark that's unproductive. So, I'll partly agree. Another small qualm is that I've never seen a "no positive comments" anywhere. Everyone wants validation, but not expecting negative feedback is naive.

ManMoth2 · 2019-04-07T14:38:58+00:00

whole chunk of skin missing

Well, that does sound like a circumcision to me... What exactly was she expecting?

HeForeverBleeds · 2019-04-07T12:18:43+00:00

The nurse doesn't seemed worried

Why would she be? Considering those perverts were willing to cut of such a large part of the penis (the foreskin) in the first place, what's a bit more skin from the penis to them? Only a bit more damage was done than was already intended

This is why it's so important that parents need to educate themselves about male genital cutting. This was entirely preventable

saikon_1485 · 2019-04-07T11:40:18+00:00

wat to do... how bout not mutilate kids ....

lastlaugh100 · 2019-04-07T15:31:48+00:00

Healthcare professional checking in.

Pediatricians receive $400 Medicaid reimbursement for each male genital mutilation.

Doctors have a financial incentive to:

Ignore the functions of the foreskin
Overstate the benefits of genital mutilation
Downplay the risks and permanent harm.

source: friend is a NP and had clinicals in 2017.

functionalsociopathy · 2019-04-07T15:12:28+00:00

What do I do?

You could try filing a lawsuit against the Doctor or hospital for malpractice both for botching the circumcision and misinforming you about the risks and consequences involved.

Maito_Guy · 2019-04-07T13:49:04+00:00

"I got the most sensitive part of my babies dick cut off but please be nice to me"

FFS

Evildl17 · 2019-04-07T12:11:03+00:00

Poor family didn't think it through. Now damage is done that can't be undone. This just hurts my heart.

peepeeandpoopooman · 2019-04-07T14:53:33+00:00

the boy could grow up with painful complications, as well as having a de-sensitised penis which means less pleasure from masturbation/sex

HumanzDisgustMe · 2019-04-07T14:03:06+00:00

Genital mutilation

ScreendeadGames · 2019-04-07T14:52:39+00:00

"I paid a stranger to chop my son's genitals up, but he chopped the wrong part! This is totally so much worse than what I wanted"

thwip62 · 2019-04-07T13:57:40+00:00

there is a whole chunk of skin missing!

I can't...I just can't.

What do I do?!

You could have not had your kid mutilated for no reason. A radical idea, I know.

vSkyy12 · 2019-04-07T15:46:55+00:00

one day into living on this planet and he already has something to be self conscious about for his entire life...

Tenchworks · 2019-04-07T16:17:33+00:00

I remember doing a maternity suite tour at one of our local hospitals and being told it was policy to do circumcisions on any boys born in their facility unless the family had a religious ground for objection. I called bullshit, got into an argument with the nurse doing the tour and was almost escorted off the premises by security when a Dr in the ward overhearing the argument stepped in and said it was not YET policy.... Me and my wife noped the F out of their as fast as possible.

It was appalling to think people where having the procedure done thinking they had no choice and going along because all these medical 'professionals' know better.

matrixislife · 2019-04-07T15:12:56+00:00

Well done, you had one job and failed in it within a week of him being born.

Dantevortex · 2019-04-07T14:05:52+00:00

"fully functional" ...... dick got chopped off basically.... That's not the same as "fully".

perplexedm · 2019-04-07T13:23:41+00:00

The nurse doesn't seemed worried

May be mother took that child in to some hospital where Dr. and team with sadist femcrazy tendencies? Because have seen some Drs. and nurses, especially female ones bragging about it. She should check the hospital and Dr.'s history.

Bleeding too much means it is not such a small cut and will not bode well for the child in future. What are legal ways for that person to report and work against this Dr.?

factsd0ntlie · 2019-04-07T14:01:10+00:00

I pray to god she lives with that guilt all her life. I still can't believe that circumcision is still popular in one of the most developed countries in the world.

I hope the child recovers.

Kil1m3pl3s3 · 2019-04-07T15:31:13+00:00

You know what? Why don't we take out his appendix too, and a kidney, let's botch the surgery and make him self conscious for the rest of his life! Please no hate though, my culture says it's okay to mutilate and harm the most innocent people!

fdoiknow · 2019-04-07T17:27:04+00:00

I fucking hate that circumcision is a thing. Why did this become something that seems automatic in the US? Stop it now, it’s simply crazy.

KingOfOpai · 2019-04-07T14:58:42+00:00

Wow that's funny the doctor fucked mine up too some of the skin is attached to the head I have to get it fixed

Mr7FootCock · 2019-04-07T17:34:47+00:00

"Why don't we cut off the tip of your nose too, it's still fully functional"

Arthuyo · 2019-04-07T19:15:54+00:00

The nurse doesn't seem worried.

I suspect the reason the nurse doesn't seem worried is this is likely rather common, and to be more cynical, by the time any potential complications arise it will be after they've left. So the nurse likely won't have deal with it.

derkam · 2019-04-07T16:03:56+00:00

Good, Lord.

That font.

TheJoestarDescendant · 2019-04-07T23:54:14+00:00

Her body her choice...

His body also her choice...

But men are oppressive and have male privilege REEEE

Anonymous2401 · 2019-04-08T01:09:49+00:00

What do I do?

Don't mutilate the baby, jackass.

JewishAnomaly · 2019-04-07T16:40:22+00:00

You were willing to remove half of the skin on his penis but suddenly the glans is of concern to you?

Pascals_blazer · 2019-04-07T21:23:01+00:00

You know, I've never been "okay" with circumcision, but I've gone from mildly against it to full fledged pissed off when ever this shit comes up.

Honestly dafuqs wrong with you that the default when viewing this new life, this little boy, is "let's cut off the most sensitive part of his penis". Leave the poor kid alone.

Let's pretend that there is no benefit at all to keeping a foreskin, that both cut and uncut is the same. Why bother doing the surgery at all then? Don't fix what isn't broke to begin with, especially since in this case, the "fix" took normal and broke it.

2019-04-07T17:11:24+00:00

‚please no hate towards me meanwhile I ruined my son‘s body/sexual organs‘

BITCH WHY DO YOU PREFER THINKING ABOUT PPL HATING YOU INSTEAD OF YOUR OWN CHILD YOU FUCKING DISGUSTING PERSON!!!

HUDmanguy · 2019-04-07T16:33:01+00:00

Wait what is this pointing out? The circumcision? I’m circumcised is there problems with that? Legit question

Yes I understand he cut off the head but I’m wondering why people are talking about how circumsision is so bad

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2019-04-07T23:37:16+00:00

don't feel bad - he agreed to it right/

You'd never make a permenat decision without their permission RIGHT?

2019-04-08T01:08:35+00:00

Your posted story is going to help many men be strong & demand that their baby boy is not cut .... thank you for sharing your story.
Signed,
Uncut

(because my Dad fought the Hospital the day I was born & refused to back down)

Jackypep · 2019-04-08T01:11:33+00:00

I was and wish I never was. Had 4 girls and no boys but definitely would have not had it done had I had any sons. It's absolutely archaic! The hygiene issue is BS. By that logic the labia of women would need to be removed too.

TheRealBidness · 2019-04-07T21:07:15+00:00

sue the doctor for malpractice.

psychoIogic · 2019-04-07T17:33:02+00:00

This is the worst fucking thing I've ever read. I'm so sorry. People fucking suck. You should sue them.

DominatePressure · 2019-04-07T20:43:22+00:00

I would be glad to pay some big gay dudes to fck the shit out of the doctor's asshole and just tell him before "dont worry it will still be fonctional"

MGMStopTheChop · 2019-04-08T06:53:55+00:00

"please no hate"

No, lady, you deserve hate. You failed your son, and you don't deserve his love.

m0mmyneedsabeer · 2019-04-08T16:13:12+00:00

I hate these kinds of posts so much. How can anyone believe that their child is born imperfect? It kills me to think this happens to so many innocent babies. My son is perfect and doesn't need normal healthy parts of his body removed. It's not a birth defect, it's supposed to be there!!

Ketsa · 2019-04-07T14:00:52+00:00

No hate, just 10 years in prison, come here !

autismlmao · 2019-04-07T17:13:43+00:00

Why do women want men circumsised?

Abbertftw · 2019-04-07T16:40:13+00:00

To be honest this just sounds fake.

YaBoyUzi · 2019-04-07T19:21:18+00:00

So we back in the mine, pickaxe swinging from side to side, side side to side

Imperator_Gub · 2019-04-07T20:28:50+00:00

Can someone give me the arguments around this from both sides? It’s not an issue I know too much about but this group seems to be quite invested in it.

ThatsReallyGr8 · 2019-04-07T22:24:44+00:00

"Lawyer" & "publicity"

ion647 · 2025-09-29T17:39:26+00:00

"I murdered 246 people and now people don't like me, what do I do!"

Kek_9ine · 2019-04-08T04:38:30+00:00

The is obviously satire, their using comic sans

Hoggenstien · 2019-04-07T23:04:32+00:00

100% Chance that if this witch doesn't stop her WICKED ways then somebody is going to throw a bucket of water on her.

willbebossin · 2019-04-07T23:14:34+00:00

I'm all for men's rights, but is this sub against circumcision? I'm asking out of curiosity and not contempt.

Hyperionc137 · 2019-04-07T23:43:56+00:00

uh maybe inform the doctor there are complications instead of faking a post on Reddit?

rabel111 · 2019-04-08T03:09:00+00:00

Fake?

McFeely_Smackup · 2019-04-08T22:53:46+00:00

This is not a real post.

LurkerTurnedReddit · 2019-04-07T18:00:00+00:00

I think you’re in the good man. You made a decision and moved with it. Take these people freaking out with a grain of salt. I’m circumcised and has caused exactly 0 issues. 0 knowledge of it. Honestly had no idea anything was different until SexEd. But this sub is skewed in one direction as well so...

a-Bird-on-a-Wing · 2019-04-07T14:12:42+00:00

Christianity, Judaism and Islam have become oppressive religions. They are meant to be metaphors, their holy books.

The reason males are circumcised is to symbolicly curtail their sexuality. It is unfortunate gynocentricism. There is nothing spiritual about oppressing someone.

Sexual guilt or oppression has been identified by Sigmund Freud as the MAIN CAUSE of psychological/mental illness.

Bluntman962 · 2019-04-07T18:06:58+00:00

Anti Circumcision seems like the Male version of Anti Vaccination. "LOOK AT ALL THESE INTERNET ARTICLES!" I have never seen any legitimate arguments against circumcision, but have read and seen several stories of how in the way and unwanted the foreskin is.

arendt1 · 2019-04-07T14:06:33+00:00

If you don’t want hateful comments don’t post what happened on Reddit

BlackMesaIncident · 2019-04-07T15:42:23+00:00

Well, sure that’s bad, but you’ll feel better when you see the news. Every day, thousands of men die from a host of third world diseases that the contract because of a small flap of skin that they were born with.

Chrisfish11 · 2019-04-07T15:18:19+00:00

Don't worry. Your son will appreciate what you did later. Cuts heal. Foreskin is forever.

Deahtop · 2019-04-07T12:53:17+00:00

Don't feel bad. Don't let others here judge you. You made a decision to circumcise, and that's okay. The procedure didn't go well, which sucks, but will hopefully still be okay. Just keep an eye on things. Babies are incredibly resilient, and will heal quickly. Just ask for a ton of Vaseline before you leave and keep his little pecker gobbed up in Vaseline. I'm sorry this happened to you.

Just hold your son tightly, love him a little extra, and just be a good father. You're a parent now, you'll make other mistakes. But learn and move on is all you can do now. I hope everything ends up okay for your little fella. Keep your head up and congrats and your new little baby boy!

Title	“Please no hate, I already feel so bad..”
Author	platesizedareola
Upvotes	2109
Comments	416
Date	April 7, 2019 11:23 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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