When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you this

heliodrome · 2020-07-23T14:41:51+00:00

I remember that my life was always on pause and in flux whenever I was in a relationship. I wasted so much time on relationships I can’t waste a minute longer.

Wait__No__What · 2020-07-23T17:04:35+00:00

Once you see it, you can't unsee it. My 20 year old daughter sent me here, and once I got turned on to FDS, my eyes were BLASTED open. Now I see how women are gaslit, practically from BIRTH, into accepting less for themselves in the name of someone else's happiness. It's bullshit and I'm so grateful that this place exists and the word is being spread. Mostly I'm proud of my beautiful young Queen for finding this on her own and making it who she is. She won't put up with a tenth of the shit I did, because she knows better and won't accept less than she deserves. I'm proud of ALL you Queens!

Keep spreading the word!

redbirdflies · 2020-07-23T15:51:15+00:00

❤️ this so much.

Ladies, don’t just read the handbook. That’s not enough. SHARE it with your friends. It’s in PDF form form on the FDS wiki. Print it out and share it with the women in your life

It’s a goldmine of information that was painstakingly and lovingly curated by our amazing mods. It’s the mindset shift every woman in the world needs

Read it and share it as much as possible

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-07-23T17:42:19+00:00

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sailorstrong · 2020-07-23T15:35:05+00:00

Yes for FDSers in Vancouver!

Finallyfreetobe2020 · 2020-07-23T16:07:10+00:00

Yes!! My HVF sister sent me the handbook last week after a particularly bad camping trip with the family. It certainly was like a switch flipping! Monday, I left my emotionally abusive and controlling husband. My support group is overjoyed that I’ve finally realized my worth. I’m finally feeling like myself again and I’m looking forward to the future, where before I was just trying to make it through each day. So thankful to have found this sub and the amazing women here.

reina_nova · 2020-07-23T14:42:04+00:00

I love this! Women helping women 👏

VelvetKnuckleduster · 2020-07-23T15:56:54+00:00

Seeing other women have epiphanies like this is one of life's great joys.

lagghbran · 2020-07-23T17:55:50+00:00

it's so crazy how much this reddit can seriously change your whole life, i used to be so weak and caught up over literal garbage. my new boyfriend pays for our dates and things like that and i don't stop him (he doesn't hesitate) because i know that's simply how a man that cares about his woman acts

guavagoodness · 2020-07-23T18:39:44+00:00

That’s me packing my shit to move out my bfs place today. A light switched on.

arwenagon24999 · 2020-07-23T14:55:31+00:00

I love hearing about these moments 🥰

onthechainwaxx · 2020-07-23T17:08:28+00:00

This just made me so, so fucking happy in a way that no man ever has. Because I relate, this has been me since I discovered FDS a few weeks ago. I feel like I've gotten my life back, MYSELF back, from some painful void. It's a beautiful feeling that I just can't put into words. Every woman deserves to feel this way. I'm definitely going to print the handbook out and share it with everyone I know.

TheOGJammies · 2020-07-23T15:41:40+00:00

🙌🙌🙌🙌

HoneyBouquet · 2020-07-23T16:00:28+00:00

Yes another sister has found us!!! Queen shit 👸

k20_4 · 2020-07-23T23:18:02+00:00

Posts like this make me question why people see this as a negative sudreddit. A woman, who was miserable but desperately clinging to a doomed relationship because society taught her she needed to be pretty and likeable for the ultimate prize: a POS husband. She broke things off with him, started treating herself better, and started making plans for better herself & advancing her career. I swear FDS is Pickmeisha Rehab, and I'm here 👏🏻for 👏🏻 it 👏🏻 FDS doesn't hate men. It's one of the few places where women are encouraged to put themselves and their needs first, and to ditch the idea of having to nurture everyone in their lives and instead foster healthy and mutually beneficial relationships.

paperbagskirt · 2020-07-23T14:52:52+00:00

LOVE to see it

heliodrome · 2020-07-23T14:40:57+00:00

So sweet!

aTrueJuliette · 2020-07-23T15:31:00+00:00

That handbook is top notch quality. It is so good. I am almost half way done. I hope they make a second one lol

mrs1001nights · 2020-07-23T17:39:00+00:00

This is what we love to see, and what men are so afraid of! A happy, confident woman enjoying HER life for herself, looking after herself, and going after her dreams

slanX638 · 2020-07-23T18:06:07+00:00

Well, now i know how i will spend the rest of my quarantine before going back to work!!! Time to dive in and really allow myself to hold myself up onna pedestal. I haven't texted the man in interested in 3 days. Haven't even bothered to check if he's texted me. Blocked. Time to let other quality men persue me. 💞💞💞💞

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-07-23T19:23:31+00:00

This whole space feels like women loving women; very compassionate and concerned about the well being of other women.

This is a beautiful space.

juliaakxo · 2020-07-23T17:18:19+00:00

where can i find the handbook!

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-07-23T16:43:11+00:00

Now THIS is a beautiful victory

BeADecentHumanBeing · 2020-07-23T17:20:35+00:00

Yay!! So happy she is doing better, women looking out for one another is beautiful :)

linawilkins · 2020-07-23T19:43:21+00:00

Last night, my close friend reminded me of my value. Today I deleted my OLD accounts. I have been matching with LVMs. Not anymore.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-07-23T18:39:21+00:00

You saved a life op!

Eltrajeazulito · 2020-07-23T20:58:37+00:00

It really is like a switch. Since I truly learned from FDS I haven’t been the same. FDS saved me from my pattern of abusive relationships. I take shit from no one now.

Knackered_Hubcaps · 2020-07-23T16:41:01+00:00

Yes! Brilliant news 👑❤️

carameals · 2020-07-23T17:39:25+00:00

You're a life transformer!!! Spread the words!!!

LateNightLattes01 · 2020-07-23T17:20:47+00:00

Ahhh! Please tell her this internet stranger is proud!! Congrats on the beginning of the life you want and deserve!! 😁

tonha_da_pamonha · 2020-07-23T17:25:16+00:00

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 yasss queen!

libralia · 2020-07-23T17:40:53+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

2020-07-23T18:26:19+00:00

HELL YES

yokusugosu · 2020-07-23T19:44:20+00:00

All it took was to read one FDS chapter for the switch to flip. It also happened to be the chapter that resonated with me the most.

friggintiredmyguy · 2020-07-23T19:30:02+00:00

Sorry to be that person, but where can I find the handbook?!

sisterofnarcissus · 2020-07-23T19:38:07+00:00

I also loved the enlightenment moment

MalloryDame · 2020-07-23T19:48:51+00:00

You are both QUEENS!! So happy for her ♥️ Live that high life, girl!

throwawayoopshehe · 2020-07-23T19:51:21+00:00

ugh i love women

ceilingkatwatchesus · 2020-07-24T01:49:01+00:00

i love hearinf stories like this. i dropped my LVM a year ago. Now my online business picked up and starting to sell to different shops (yoga studios, gym cafes, etc.) It’s crazy how in a years time all this happened with my business and got two adorable kittens as well. Also, much more confident in what I need and want and if you not in the same mindset as me then I don’t even bother. I even deleted OLD. Such a waste of time and I don’t have time due to my business! Yaaaaasss keep it up ladies🙌🏿🙌🏿

SunflowerinVirgo0903 · 2020-07-23T19:55:05+00:00

Same place I am in. I believe that FDS is.the awakening of the linchpins seth godin talked about. I am so privileged my spiritual guides brought me to this community, and I'm excited for my future as well as the posterity of the beautiful, talented, and innovative smorgisboard of women who were, and will be, guided here.

2020-07-23T21:18:39+00:00

I love it. Women looking out for each other.

Meredeen · 2020-07-23T22:25:18+00:00

Goddamn I just noticed we're at 85k subscribers, scrotes be mad 😂

shakethat_milkshake · 2020-07-23T20:48:03+00:00

this is beautiful <3

i showed the handbook to a friend and she thought it was interesting but wasn't ready to accept it and has continued behavior that holds her back from growth and healing. as so many other commenters have said, all women deserve to feel this way. this inspired me to send my friend more threads from the handbook and re-read it myself.

PomegranatePrincess8 · 2020-07-23T23:04:53+00:00

Yaaaaas baby. We all growin and winnin over here!! 💕💁🏾‍♀️💅🏾

Why_dont_ya_ · 2020-07-23T23:24:44+00:00

Fuck. Yes.

lilithdianara · 2020-07-24T03:51:45+00:00

This. This is what we do the work for. I’ve shared the handbook with three of my friends who are now all fuckboy free and are now living their best lives, making choices FOR THEM. One of the best parts of being a HVW is being able to inspire others to finally break free from the patriarchal conditioning of always sacrificing and putting others first before ourselves. FDS truly changes lives for the better.

supadupamuaks · 2020-07-23T21:44:30+00:00

Sweet. (Y)

trying_to_sleep_here · 2020-07-23T23:18:00+00:00

Legit made me tear up!! 👸👸

AotearoaCanuck · 2020-07-24T03:17:37+00:00

Amen sister! I have gained so much from this incredible community of strong powerful women. When I had a terrible experience with a man tonight, my first thought was “I need my FDS ladies”. Thank you for all your love and support. We are all in this together.

BackgroundRide3 · 2020-07-23T17:43:10+00:00

What is FDS and what is LVM? Thanx.

stxrchild · 2020-07-23T17:58:47+00:00

Scrotes Hate Her! Woman Teaches Other Women To Value Themselves Using This One Simple Trick

GlamGemini · 2020-07-23T21:55:09+00:00

Whats the fds handbook? I'm on mobile and looked on community info section but couldn't find anything

ashleecakes · 2020-07-23T23:13:40+00:00

YES QUEEN!!!!!

quirkypinkllama · 2020-07-24T00:37:02+00:00

Yep! Queens be queens!!

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-07-24T00:40:44+00:00

Ya love to see it

LU_7192 · 2020-07-24T01:03:30+00:00

THIS WAS ME.

FDS literally helped change my life. So happy for her

bloxxum · 2020-07-24T02:46:34+00:00

So many heart emojis.

shakethat_milkshake · 2020-07-25T02:53:08+00:00

That’s strange! I see menus. Are you on mobile or a computer ?

Title	When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you this
Author	sjw__7
Upvotes	2280
Comments	109
Date	July 23, 2020 2:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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