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[–]Sage_PlanterFDS Disciple637 points638 points639 points 3 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link
It's just missing the "he's absolutely perfect except for..."
[–]Incredible_AlligatorFDS Newbie299 points300 points301 points 3 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
It's usually "he hits me and emotionally abuses me and calls me names.... but he's perfect in every other way!" 😫🙄
[–]betelgeus_betelgeusFDS Newbie222 points223 points224 points 3 years ago* (20 children) | Copy Link
There's a thread like this every other day on relationship advice and AITA. Those exact words.
Like, "I yelled at him after he spent all the rent money I earned on his gaming PC AITA?"
Or "WIBTA if I ask him to do one chore once a week? Otherwise he's so perfect!" "He says my need to have access to a shower is too high maintenance how do I cope now he's sold it for weed?"
It's like going to a restaurant and being like: the waiter slapped me when I asked for water, they took my chair and said I deserved the floor, and aside from that and the giant piece of poo in my Uncle Ben's Risotto they served cold, I had a wonderful time! 5 stars!
[–]sashimi_girlFDS Newbie114 points115 points116 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Omg I’ll never forget the lady who was like “my partner broke my chihuahuas leg but he’s so nice and he’d never ever hurt a person! 🥺 don’t tell me to dump him!”
[–]helppleasekkFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow I'm glad I missed that one
[–]denverkrisFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ns, me too.
[–]afrodizzy25FDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The one I’ll never forget is “my boyfriend wanks in the shower and leaves his cum in the bath for days. AITA for asking him to clean it up?”
Wish I could clean up my memory of the graphic image she painted.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That one still leaves me asking wtf. I’ve honestly never encountered that.
[–]riseaboveagainFDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My coffee just leapt up my throat 😝
[–]smaller_angFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AAAAAAAGH.
[–]ThesociodarkFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She was pregnant too.
[–]oddcharmFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WTF
[–]InnocentlyDistressedFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya I remember that one. I was completely disgusted. That’s my family you just attacked your ass would have been thrown out so fast!
I hope if she stayed with that monster she gave away her dogs. I don’t usually advocate for abandoning/rejoining pets but they can’t stay in that environment if she choose to stay. I’m still messed up by it my stomach turns.
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What the fuck is wrong with straight people?
[–]HappycatchariotFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/AreTheStraightsOK No we aren't. I mean r/tinder is proof of that.
[–]Incredible_AlligatorFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂🤣🤣🤣
[–]ThrowRAintenseloveFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Omg. I just had a visual of the restaurant example...
[–]betelgeus_betelgeusFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm picturing it's a fairly nice, upscale restaurant... For about 20 feet in the door. Then everything is bare concrete, mysterious stains, and incandescent lighting.
[–]StrainingMyNeuronsFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Screaming!
[–]SadVibesGirlThrowaway Account1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry but what does AITA and WIBTA mean?
[–]betelgeus_betelgeusFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Am I The Asshole" and "Will I Be The Asshole"
[–]SadVibesGirlThrowaway Account0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you!
[–]TERFSareawesomeFDS Apprentice78 points79 points80 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The other day on Breaking Mom I saw some woman unironically post "My man is perfect and AMAZING he's always open to doing chores around the house as long as I tell him what to do".... lol. The jokes write themselves 🤡
[–]Shrimpy_monstersFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That sub is a shit show. I can’t even look at it
[–]TERFSareawesomeFDS Apprentice39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The bar in that sub is so low it's in hell. Going to that place is the equivalent of watching a horror movie
[–]ChobyoFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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That is so true, sometimes I dive in to give some thoughtful advice in the hope, to reach the people through their delusional self manipulative state, because we´ve all been there, we all didnt know our worth as a person, what we wanted and HOW TO GET IT. But its fruitless most of the time, the people personalized the victim-mentality and just spiral downwards with their good-for-nothing-husbandos, but now comes the good part
ONLY when people reach rock bottom (thats 98% of the posts there mind you) and felt terrible pain, they can change, only then they are ready to get themselves back together, start the long neverending journey of love, self respect and asking for what you want, no matter who the hell dares to disagree.
[–]HappycatchariotFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I got autobanned from there for being an member here.
[–]indaazz1FDS Newbie120 points121 points122 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
omfg THIS and they literally insert a long ass list of glaring red flags but hE’s aMaZinG iN eVeRy oThER wAy
[–]ScotsburdFDS Disciple29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or, but he's a great dad! No love, that's what you tell yourself to justify staying in your toxic relationship. He's not and never will be a great dad. Great dad's do not disrespect the mother of their children.
[–]hilariouslystatedFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What about the "and I really love him but..."
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[–]celestialparrotletsPickmeisha™️158 points159 points160 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Lmao just the other day I saw something in another sub where she’s 23 and he’s 37???!!!! and he’s an abusive alcoholic but she’s still tryna make it work...😞 😫
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[–]Shearay752FDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Low self esteem, not knowing any better (being groomed), emotional/physical abuse or manipulation, money.... All sorts of things... it's a sad , sad world...
[–]InnocentlyDistressedFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Usually it’s because they think they are more mature and have their life together ..... clearly not often the case
[–]SaffroFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Low self esteem
[–]PaintedThreadFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They believed that lie about all older men being more "mature and emotionally/financially settled". 9/10 they end up with weathered f-boys with hypertension that might gift them a bag from the Michael Kors outlet after they've wasted enough of their youth on them.
[–]Ace-BeeFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea, he expected her to quit university and be his bang maid and babysitter. These make my blood boil.
[–]laserkatzeFDS Newbie124 points125 points126 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
absolutely!
„My (21f) boyfriend of 5 years (42m) wants me to quit my job because I haven’t been able to cook him lunch while he’s gaming lately. Which meals are easy to cook and don’t stick to the keyboard?“
[–]NoNarcs_FDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂🤣
This is actually disgusting.
When I was 18 I dated this guy who was 30 and everyone in our lives thought it was so weird but I defended it like tHeY'rE JusT jUdGmEntAl aNd jEaLOuSe...but now I'm like ew what a predator.
[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple52 points53 points54 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh god, this reminds me of a post where naive teenage girl wants romantic picnics, but her prehistoric scrote is only interested in abusing her and using her as a porn doll.
Seriously, ladies, what do you think these dinosaur grandpas want from you, being few generations ahead and you being fresh out of high school? The only reason I can think of, is using you as a tool for his pedophilic porn fantasies and making you soon-to-be unpaid caretaker to change his diapers.
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s a wrap! Sent it to print!
[–]runaway-bunnyFDS Newbie216 points217 points218 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I screencapped a post on AITA from earlier today that reminds me of this:
It was written by a nurse working overtime in the PICU, who lets her boyfriend live with her rent-free while he plays video games and works 2 nights a week at a grocery. She had her first Saturday off since they got married earlier this year, and made plans with bf to go to an animal sanctuary, just to have him leave the house before she woke up so he could spend the day with his buddy instead and ignore her calls. She even gets locked out of her house at one point, and waits an hour for bf to drive the 5 minutes back home and unlock it, and when he DOES arrive he doesn’t even get out of the car but uses the garage door remote and drives off. At the end, she says she wants to stay with him, and worries whether SHE is the asshole.
Thought about DMing her the link to the handbook PDF!
[–]BorderszFDS Newbie84 points85 points86 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't get why she would want to marry him bc he sounded like a crappy bf to begin with anyway. I hope she divorces him bc he is a leach. She needs to read the handbook!
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple73 points74 points75 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's honestly so sad that so many women have such low self esteem.
[–]codename_epicFDS Newbie64 points65 points66 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That one was so bad. They didn’t have one day off together in 18 months... she didn’t sound suspicious of him cheating at all the poor thing.
[–]JasmineAndClovesFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is exactly what I thought. My heart sank for her. I really don’t believe he was meeting up with his bro multiple times in one day, coincidentally on their first day off together in over a year ... I think this arrangement where he lived with her but never really had to see her was working out very nicely for him and that he may have already had plans with his side piece. 🤦🏼♀️
[–]tinysilverstarFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The other sad part is that almost every reply was "wtf? dump him" but she would defend him or blame herself.
[–]Lavender_flowFDS Disciple35 points36 points37 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the bar is in hell
[–]deepseaclimbingFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Handbook link?
[–]runaway-bunnyFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It should be in the sidebar of the sub or the about page!!! It’s a fun read :”)
[–]ajog1986FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Next time, don't think about DMing her the link--just send it. I'm here because someone did that for me and this entire sub has been life-changing!
Help out the others. Show them that there is a better way. ❤❤❤
[–]redbirdfliesFDS STRATEGY COACH235 points236 points237 points 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
I saw a post on r/ dating over thirty today that said
“I must say this is a depressing sub full of miserable people giving bad advice, I can’t be alone in this opinion”
Nope. No, you’re not alone 😂
Every relationship advice sub on Reddit is full of lvms and pickmeishas whose best advice is to CoMmuNiCaTe.
🗑 🗑 🗑 🗑
[–]Incredible_AlligatorFDS Newbie92 points93 points94 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I was subbed to both r/datingoverthirty and r/datingoverforty and I had to unsub from over30 because it was so bad. But over40 isn't nearly as bad. I mean there's still pickmes on there but at least they seem to know something shady is going on. Makes sense though, it took me nearly 40 years to figure this shit out too.
[–]LongirlFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I was a regular on DOT and in hindsight I think I got some very bad advice. The final straw was being told that I was lying to my bf because I didn’t know whether I wanted children or not so therefore hadn’t bought up the discussion of children with him. He hadn’t bought it up either (turns out he didn’t want children). I told my then bf about the advice I’d received and he said ‘then you’re pretty naive to follow the advice of a stranger. You know our relationship better than them. That bloke sounds like a prick’.
[–]hhgjj0Pickmeisha™️33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That "you know your relationship better than a stranger" is really a double edged sword.
When I told my extremely clingy, paranoid jealous ex to either find a therapist or at least inquire other people/read about what healthy relationship expectations should be, he also gave me this "but they don't even know us" crap. I think hearing other people's opinions might have helped him a bit.
[–]LongirlFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I completely get your point. But this man wasn’t horrible or abusive, he’s one of the nice men (even though he ain’t really got his shit together) so I don’t blame for saying that. He’s one of the few men I’ve dated who wasn’t a manipulative arse.
[–]Incredible_AlligatorFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah there's some really terrible advice on there. I couldn't take it anymore. It's almost as bad as AITA.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m turning 40 next month 🎂 🎁 and it took me this long too!
[–]Incredible_AlligatorFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm turning 40 next month too! Happy Birthday, birthday month sister! 🎂
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you! Happy birthday month to you too Sis! :)
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple45 points46 points47 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I used to read a lot of other relationship subs but I had to cut waaaay back because the only response I found appropriate would be a link to the FDS guidebook.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s funny, I put some of my relationship drama in a reply on there, and I got a TON of ladies that sent me Reddit links to FDS! 😉
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did they direct message you? There've been a lot of women I wanted to link to FDS but I knew if I did it in a comment that I'd probably get mobbed by LVM who'd decry this subreddit as misandry or something, and I didn't want that to poison the well. I've always been hesitant to DM though, because it feels a little intrusive to me. But I should rethink my stance on that. The potential benefit outweighs any drawbacks.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well actually I got a mix of both - some women sent me the FDS link directly in the comments, while others DM’d me. You’re definitely smart for being careful about where you would post the link. IMO i would do DM, that’s what I do at times. We definitely do have to protect this sub Reddit. It’s still baffles me when I get a response from the male trolls that have found out about FSS, then visit and start to harass us with hateful replies. Even though the moderators here at FDS are AWESOME and delete the hateful posts very quickly, I still see the notifications on my phone and can read some of the comments from these scrotes, and they are super cruel and intentionally say evil things to try and make us feel subhuman. But I’ve learned that Reddit is creepo-central for women and just shrug them off.
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Did you talk to him?” 🥴
[–]Robotgirl69FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me too, almost 40 with two kids to the same absent deadbeat dad and I'm only just starting to realise. Thanks to FDS.
A couple of guys from my past have been expressing interest of late, but I feel like I look at them with a brand new mind.
What was 'cute' and 'young at heart' quickly became irresponsible and unreliable. I have enough to look after already.
I realised that 'feeling sexy' had nothing to do with some guys insatiable sex lust, and everything to do with my own percieved as insufficient, hahah) sexuality.. well, honestly, it's not even on my radar any more. It just feels gross when randos are drooling.
I was so desperate to please.. maybe age or kids changed that. Maybe I just realised that the D was always abundant. Maybe when I was younger i bought into the myth that women are less desirable as they get older. Pfft! That single mums are desperate.
Well, it's the opposite. Don't ever believe a guy who tells you this shit, directly or indirectly. Dont accept anything but the best behaviour, the best effort. Take care of yourself, your life. Dont ever worry about some jerk guy. There's so many of them out there. The best ones aren't the ones gagging and sexualizing you. I wish I could tell myself this 20 years ago.
Know your worth xx
It's all a lie.
[–]allthedates2018FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I totally posted over there once and the responses were so, so depressing. I peaced out after that. That sub is such a drag.
[–]Alma00019FDS Newbie70 points71 points72 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
So on my reddit thread this post came up, and right under it was....
r/relationaship_advice
(paraphrased)
"My (20F) boyfriend (22M) knows I'm a virgin but threw me on the bed and held me down in order to have rough abusive sex with me because he thought I'd be into it because I'm black. What should I do?"
[–]donutmogulFDS Newbie[S] 46 points47 points48 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I read that earlier...felt so bad for her. racist + pornsick.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I read that earlier too. It pissed me off so much and left me speechless! I sent her a PM to give advice on that, hopefully she read it.
[–]mrs1001nightsFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read: my boyfriend raped me because I am black.
[–]chasingxxsanityFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At least she dumped him.
Apparently I'm blocked from relationship advice on this account lol. I had to go to my other one to read it.
[–]LongirlFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I read that too. I mean, WTF?? That boy is warped and that girl needs to run.
[–]rhyth7FDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He'll do this shit and then act like he didn't know it was wrong. Terrible. All rapists like to pretend they don't know what rape is. And then men say that they don't need to be told not to rape.
[–]riricideFDS Apprentice10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly that was some bullshit rationalization for rape. He did it because he wanted to. If anything it was probably because she was a naive virgin rather than anything related to race. How can you even pretend you're so dense that you think any woman, let alone all women, of any race will like being abused?!!
[–]finalbosskittenFDS STRATEGY COACH104 points105 points106 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
https://twitter.com/JennyENicholson/status/1287417928497815553 is another *chef's kiss* one straight down to the fuckin' age gap, hah.
Still genuinely horrified the few times I actually went on AITA...y'know I actually expect to see some women being awful but almost everything had men being objectively the immoral asshole. Oof. And, y'know, it really makes you think...considering that Reddit is overrun by men that are generally pro-men...yet the majority of stories on those subs still genuinely make the man seem like the asshole.
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple108 points109 points110 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I read an AITA recently where a father wanted to know if he was the asshole for threatening his severely depressed teenage daughter (who'd stopped eating and was so withdrawn that she'd stopped talking to anyone) that he'd stop paying for therapy if her grades didn't improve, because she liked going to therapy. The therapy that'd gotten her eating and talking again. 🙃
Oh, and he couldn't seem to understand why his wife disagreed with him and was arguing with him about it.
[–]SummitToThePeakFDS Newbie67 points68 points69 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men make themselves look like a fool online and then blame us.
It's the Way of the Scrote.
[–]donutmogulFDS Newbie[S] 58 points59 points60 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
haha aita is a goldmine. i love reading it for entertainment purposes. re: that twitter post...there was something incredibly close to that written on reddit recently (forget the sub). A woman was living w the bf and going to school but expected to be the maid in exchange for living there free or reduced rent (i forget). Then he was getting upset at her for skipping the dishes once in awhile or not cooking all his meals (she's not holding up her side of the deal). Like indentured servitude. And he was wondering why she was pissy all the time. then like clockwork they delete the post after everyone calls them an AH.
[–]ashwheeeFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s my ex!
Jk but not really.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
...y'know I actually expect to see some women being awful but almost everything had men being objectively the immoral asshole.
That’s because they are the “asshole” 90% of the time. In my experience, at first I thought that each individual guy I’ve been in a relationship with were their own individual monsters, as they all did their own “unique” shit to me across the “jerk spectrum,” but then I saw similar repeated asshole behavior patterns in all of them - emotional manipulation, disregarding my needs, only hearing important stuff I say when they felt like it, etc. And the list goes on and on, but the bottom line is that society conditions men to treat us like crap from the get go. Not one man I know is even close to 50% true gentleman status. Not even in my own family! And unfortunately, most of us ladies figure this out way late in the game. As I had said in a prior comment on this thread, I’m 40 and just now realizing these patterns. It’s so sad that most of us have to go through abuse before we really see these men for who they are 😢 Hopefully the next half of my life will be greatly improved because of the painful and heartbreaking lessons I’ve learned from these LVM - which are around 90% of the male population, In my opinion.
[–]gabydrtFDS Newbie124 points125 points126 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
And he don’t like Beyoncé lol
[–]donutmogulFDS Newbie[S] 51 points52 points53 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
automatic dealbreaker
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple87 points88 points89 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I love her but she's the ultimate PickMe. 😔
[–]user728282FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
elaborate? 😱
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple51 points52 points53 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Her husband cheated on her and she stayed with him.
[–]thighsmatchFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She also illustrates the problem with age gap relationships. They started dating when she was very young and less established in her career. As an artist, Jay was relevant in the 90s and early 2000s. As his career fell, hers grew. Surprise surprise he ends up cheating on her. She should have dumped him long ago.
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[–]HhjjuuyFDS Apprentice20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Money is a means to an independent life, its value is as a tool. Choosing money over a life without a cheater is not a good move.
[–]cherryloafFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She made a whole song blaming the kind of woman he cheated on her with and staying with his dumb ass
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I stopped reading at doesn’t eat pussy. I’m out. I can’t!
[–]Cosmictears83FDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I can't stand the people who whine on reddit that the advice on relationship subreddits is to break up. Um, hello do you read the awful inexcusable things people are trying to get help for? People aren't on there for minor disagreements. Its usually abuse, or people being complete failures of human beings.
[–]ThrowRAintenseloveFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I totally agree. I infact have not gathered the courage to tell my whole story ...but seeing abuse i said leave him in oneafterinfedility and I had forgotten it's for reconciliation. My whole idea is to post it there where no one can say leave him but they will if they read all he's done. Challenge. I even thought i should go with a poll post leave him or stay
[–]ThrowRAintenseloveFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the upvotes. What do you suggest? Is it ok to do that? Share a poll?
[–][deleted] 29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Reddit be like: just cOmPLiMeNT him more.
[–]CharTheCatMomFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I almost choked on my food 💀😂😂😂😂😂
[–]RustynaShackleford20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
loooll
i laugh, as a former pickmeisha, at myself also
[–]SuccessfulShow5Pickmeisha™️17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m soooo fucking guilty but I finally saw the light and I will never be in the dark again !
[–]VivaLaSeaFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That whole sub just pisses me of with their stupidity.
[–]Partyavoider29FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That so many women spend so much of their precious time on Earth doing mental gymnastics to rationalize their boyfriend's absolutley deplorable behavior in our toxic male oriented culture breaks my heart.
It shouldn't be so brutalizing to want companionship. It's what we're raised to want. I'm really tired of hearing what WoMen Do ToO like, I'm sorry, one of the leading causes of death for us is dating men who turn out to be violent. Stop pretending it's comparable. We should be outraged by this. It shouldn't be so outright dangerous to date men.
[–]Lagaceta2020Throwaway Account10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Leave his stinky balls ASAP you can do much better!!!!
[–]GAaliyah12FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LMAO I can't date a man that tell me he don't like Beyonce! You better keep that hating shit to yourself.
[–]MyplummmsRuthless Strategist5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i JuSt WaNt tO dO aNyThiNg BuT bReAk Up WiTh HiM!
[–]denverkrisFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You forgot this part:
"But he's good to me and I love him".
wtf, I'm crying lol.
[–]PicklesNBaconPickmeisha™️2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg it’s so true
[–]citrus_sugarFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lesbian checking in. I still don't know why those that have relationships with LVM can't see how shitty the guy is being to them.
[–]N2GenFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ded 😂😂
[–]Puzzleheaded-Level21Throwaway Account1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
These girls won't even take their friends advice, let alone some random people on the internet telling them to break up.
Why do they even ask these questions when 99% they'll continue being in a relationship with the dude?
[–]eatjablesFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There’s an insightful thread on another forum titled, “Why are nurses married to bums?” and it’s an interesting read that offers some insight into the correlation between being a ‘caretaker’ and choosing a SO.
[–]Asopaso07FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😄😄😄
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