Dating women who have advanced degrees

thisplaceisashes · 2021-04-03T03:33:01+00:00

You realize you’re getting consensus from a very limited pool? Mostly people subscribe to this specific sub for a reason. Also, why ask Redditors? Go to your target audience (i.e. men you want to actually date)

... There’s a reason most people marry within their circle. Sure, you have trophy wives / husbands but generally speaking, people with advanced degrees marry others with the same. You want to be proud of your partner - men especially like to show off their “possessions”. And in many ways, people view their partners as reflections of themselves. If you’re smart, accomplished, and attractive, you will have zero issues regardless of age: men will line up and be proud to have you holding their arm when you walk into the room. Be interested, interesting, and laugh: hard and often - and the rest will take care of itself.

reLincolnX · 2021-04-03T02:00:29+00:00

Women who have advanced degrees especially in western countries aren't looking for a husband/boyfriend, they are looking for a partner/a glorified roommate most of the time. It's even worst (or better depending on who you're asking) if they're "educated" (meaning progressive/liberal who believe she has a score to settle with the Patriarchy).

They are perfect if you're more looking for companionship (someone who is there) and if you want to pull a Claire and Francis Underwood (from House of Card).

One of the great things, IMO, with this kind of woman, is that you essentially need money to make them happy. Domestic chores? You hire a maid. Holidays planning? You call your bank. You want kids? You hire a nanny/governess. And then you sent them to an elite school across the country.

They are high maintenance when you don't make a lot of money. But when you do, it becomes easy.

You have a deal instead of a "real romantic relationship", however. They don't need you and you don't need them.

midwesternMD · 2021-04-03T14:48:58+00:00

MD here. The fact is, while you’re working towards an advanced degree (ie spending your 20s in school), you’re generally socializing/working/studying with people who are doing the same thing. We pair off within our institutions/fields, which by default puts us in similar socioeconomic circles.

For those of us who either didn’t pair up or separated/divorced after graduation, dating is a clusterfuck. For one, the people still dating haven’t paired up.

Were they just hyperfocused on school? If so, are they socially competent?

Were they unable to maintain a relationship?

Are they emotionally unstable?

Basically, what’s the red flag that they are still on the dating market?

I’m sure women wonder the same thing about all the men out there.

I’m mid-30s, and I earn enough to comfortably raise/support a family anywhere in the country. For me, a woman with an advanced degree/career/earning potential is a “nice to have.” I divorced such a woman because the passion went to shit. So for my values, I care more about avoiding a dead bedroom situation than anything else.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-04-03T02:24:27+00:00

Being a high earner myself, I don't give a shit about a woman's degrees, some secondary education is nice but there's usually a shit ton of debt involved, something I have no interest in taking on.

I hear more women bashing men that have blue collar jobs even though those guys make great money

But yeah it's the same thing as having whatever standard you want, even if you bring less to the table, an obese 4 can want a 6 figure good looking guy, an old unibrow guy can not want a career woman, at the end of the day it's your life no excuses

cowfishAreReal · 2021-04-03T01:59:08+00:00

Women with advanced degrees usually marry later and are less submissive to men. So they're upset because they want young women to give them attention, marry them as virgins, and have no way to financially sustain themselves

thetruthishere_ · 2021-04-03T02:25:36+00:00

May of those men have nothing for the table themselves. LOL

Frankly the whole 'table' thing is just weird to me.

Men who only care about youth and 'fertility' are not even worth dating.

M3taBuster · 2021-04-03T21:01:48+00:00

How do you know that these are "the same men"? Do you keep a list of their usernames? More likely than not, they are in fact not the same men.

Speaking for myself, I personally do value appearance and femininity, as well as personality, and common values and interests, much more than a potential partner's career or degree. I just don't care all that much (as long as it's not sex work ofc). And I may even be a tad averse to dating a woman who is more educated or earns more money than myself, not because I care, but because I'm convinced that she will.

There is also the element that universities tend to exhibit a bias toward certain values, and the longer someone is in that environment, the more likely that is to influence them. So as a result, we see that highly educated women tend to overwhelmingly share certain values and certain personality traits that most men find unattractive. And men are aware of this, so this could be part of why you might see some men hesitant to date highly educated women. And I'm sure you know exactly what I mean by this. Even just using the word "intimidated" as an explanation for why a man wouldn't be attracted to a woman was probably enough to set off alarm bells in the heads of all the men who were reading it. It did for me.

However, I'm not deluded enough to simultaneously be averse to highly educated women and expect that she makes as much money as I do. I doubt many other men are either.

Flightlessbirbz · 2021-04-04T03:31:38+00:00

Men: What do you bring to the table apart from your vagina? Modern women are lazy and hypergamous.

Also men: We don’t care about your degree or career. We just want young hot ass.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-04-03T01:46:22+00:00

Men who don't care about their woman's careers shouldn't complain when they get divorce raped and have to pay heavy alimony.

Men with options don't tend to settle with the Starbucks barista, they usually go for people in the same class

no_value_male · 2021-04-03T11:48:02+00:00

The higher the degree, the higher her paycheck, the more unlikely a male is to satisfy her hypergamous tendencies.

HOLYREGIME · 2021-04-03T02:05:31+00:00

but why all the bashing of women with degrees/ a stable career.

I don’t think it’s bashing, just pointing out that it doesn’t raise their value as much as women think it does. Women who get a degree and advance their career doesn’t suddenly open a pool of great new guys. It’s often the same BB they passed over. A lot of women’s value to men is placed on their looks. As they get a degree and advance their career, they age. It could potentially be net negative for some women.

wouldn’t that bring him money, responsibility, and resources to the table.

Yes, but it’s not the way relationships work. The guy at best will get 50/50 but most often he’ll still contribute the majority to the relationship. He’s not asking her for money, she’s won’t be paying for gifts, luxury expenses like he will. A guy with money will buy and pay for w/e his partner wants. A woman with money is unlikely to do the same for the guy and if so definitely not to the same degree.

or is it because they’re intimidated by these women.

Unlikely.

Or maybe they assume women “have hit the wall”

Very likely. Most people don’t get established until 24-25. If she pursues an advance degree it could be even longer.

If she’s going after her looks match, a guy who has an advanced degree/career he can probably date younger women. Instead of dating someone at 26-27 he can go with a 22-23 year old. Close enough in age where the ethics police won’t come knocking in his DMs.

renfsu · 2021-04-03T02:09:53+00:00

Disadvantage because women with advanced degrees aren't really worried about dating til they get their degree which will be when they're closer to 30. If they want kids, they don't have much time to find a quality partner.

Women with advanced degrees tend to prefer guys near her class or higher. Which means as they earn more money, their standards increase, and the number of potential partners decreases. Yes there are women who date down (financially) but they're much less likely to compared to a man.

Women who get advanced degrees mistakenly believe that it will make them more attractive. Something they don't account for is the fact that they're competing with women who earn less than them.

It's basically diminishing returns. No one wants a homeless chick but an independent woman making 40k isn't going to have too much trouble competing with an independent woman making 100k. While the differences in men making those amounts are pretty huge. Women are judged by how they are/how they look while men are judged by what they bring to the table (resources).

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-04-03T02:39:03+00:00

Most of the women you're referring to are either frigid or so hopped up on political affairs that they both can't find any men to date, and no men want to date them.

godtet88888 · 2021-04-03T08:21:44+00:00

I have been reading the responses and your posts as well. It seems you are worry about not being able to find a man in your near future because of what you learned about redpill. You really don't need to worry about that.

A redpill man just does not sound like your type. If you want my personal opinion, I think you need someone who has less demanding career or stays home. Having kids and two career driven parents, is quite difficult.

Good news for you, redpill men are in the minority. Even if they weren't, redpill men don't care about your degrees or career, as long as you're not entitled about it. What they do care is whether your career will be a hindrance to what they want. This is why I said that a stay at home dad or one without a demanding job is better for you than someone of your class. Your class would mean they are equally as busy and that just sounds like a recipe for disaster. I mean men did it for years. They had housewives while they brought home the bread, so if you take the role of breadwinner, someone needs to take the role of homemaker.

I understand your asian parents may not like it. I am asian (half) myself and my mother has said the same thing as your parents. I just don't agree with them all. Your plan also sounds too narrow and calculated. I mean what if you don't find a bf in 2 years? You know you can have children a lot later than people think.

My mother had me at 36, my friend's mom had him at 42. I think your parents have too much input on your personal life. If you don't get married, nothing wrong with that. If you don't have kids, nothing wrong with that either. They may be disappointed but its your life.

Congrats on graduating soon btw. I hope your future after college is full of pleasures!

WanWhiteWolf · 2021-04-05T09:35:21+00:00

Don't take a "Red Pill" man ideology as reference on who you want please. You don't want to end up there.

"Red Pill" teaches men on how to get laid with younger and more attractive women. Granted, they have a few good core principles. Also some good lifelong suggestion. But unfortunately, the community was taken over by men who were not successful with women in their 20' and now they seek revenge.

You don't need anyone to tell you that a women in her 30' with 0 career, promiscuous past and 2 children is generally not fit to be a wife.

But the "wall" and other such extremist views? Let me ask you a simple question:

Do you think a 35y' CEO of a company would pick a 32y' woman successful doctor as a wife OR a 22y old hot girl that is a cashier at Walmart?

Yes, a career has less impact on woman attractiveness than it has on a man attractiveness. But it's not irrelevant. On a contrary, it's a sign that the person has developed some sort of discipline, personality and communication skills.

The risk is the other way around. A woman who is successful tends to not want a man who is beneath her on socio - economic status. And that's filtering out a lot of the candidates. Let's say that you are a successful doctor. You already filtered 90%+ out of your dating pool. And if you want to marry up, you filtered 98% of the dating pools. That's the risk. You might not be happy with your marrying options if you take socio-economic status into account - study shows that women are, at least for now, programmed to do so.

As for you trying to find a man before age 25, I would be careful with that. Human brain develops until age of 25. You might not even be compatible a few years later. In fact if you check the divorces statistics, the chance of divorce is double for someone who marries before age of 25 versus someone who marries after. Additionally, if both man and woman have careers, the divorces chance is reduced by a significant margin.

My personal suggestion?

If you want children, start looking for husband material between 25-30. Marry late 20 , early 30. Have children by age of 35. You can also do it later, but that's the best age bracket if you want to maximize your chances.
If you don't want children then it doesn't matter. Focus on career and if you feel you want someone permanent in your life, start looking whenever you see fit. After 35, the chances of being married drops (less interest / overall advantages).

LMM-GT02 · 2021-04-15T17:31:20+00:00

Some people are fucking troglodytes that rarely have intelligent words come out their mouth. Usually women with advanced degrees are not this. Some people are simpletons/NPCs that just live their life day to day with limited thoughts about the world beyond them.

SteveSan82 · 2021-04-03T10:24:40+00:00

More educated she is, the more entitled and obnoxious she is.

jjlew922 · 2021-04-03T01:54:18+00:00

The men who resort to redpill are insecure, narcissistic assholes. They use the tactics they’ve learned and get borderline or bipolar women to agree to their reality. I have an advanced degree and dated 2 men also of the same who after time and trying to figure out their bizarre behavior stumbled on Reddit and TRP and it all made sense. I’m emotionally mature and didn’t take the bullshit games for very long. These men are narcissists. They put up a good front then try manipulate women and quite frankly gaslight themselves into thinking they’re waiting and deserve a unicorn virgin submissive intelligent sexy woman who doesn’t exist. It’s because they’re narcissists, all men who follow TRP are, it’s that simple. Call it what it is already!!

iwannabeastonedhippy · 2021-04-03T02:04:50+00:00

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Barely-moral · 2021-04-03T02:17:27+00:00

I wonder why a lot of redpillers believe that women who have advanced degrees (Master's or above) would be at a disadvantage when it comes to dating.

I can only speak for myself. The more educated a woman is, the more her hypergamy plays against her because there are less men that meet her requirements. That is a significant disadvantage. It is hard to meet someone at your level when you are rising to the top.

When reading redpilled content (or content that I believe is redpilled) on the internet, they seem to favour women who are "young, fertile and feminine" and that "no men care about a woman's career or degrees."

Correct. A career woman brings nothing of value to my life. Chances are that the qualities that make her a good career woman or get her the degree are the exact same qualities that make her a bad partner.

Ironically, these same men ask these same women "what do you bring to the table"?

No irony.

This seems to be regarding their resources, as well as personality traits, fertility and femininity.

Remove resources from that list. I bring more than enough resources. Any resources she brings are of no value to me.

These are also the same men to outright reject a woman if she brings nothing else onto the table other than beauty

I doubt those are the same men. To your point, if a man is interested in a LTR, beauty fades. It is required but it is not enough.

but they'd go for that type of woman rather than a woman with a degree simply because they assume she is older and "used up".

No. I reject women with degrees/careers because it is impossible for a human to have advanced degrees or a career unless you really like that shit. If a woman likes anything to the point of investing that much time and energy into it, that time and energy will never be available to be spent on me and the relationship. I want a woman that can put time and energy into the relationship as the number 1 priority. A woman that has an advanced degree/career already has her number 1 spot filled.

But why all the bashing of women with degrees/a stable career?

They are bad partners because of their priorities.

Wouldn't that bring him money

Not valuable. Also, her money is hers. My money is ours.

responsibility

She is responsible for her career first. Not interested.

and resources to the table?

Same as money.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-04-03T04:13:45+00:00

I think it's purely intimidation, which is sad.

AelfredRex · 2021-04-03T02:09:35+00:00

Intimidated. Totally. Fragile egos, ya know.

just_a_place · 2021-04-03T02:13:26+00:00

The only disadvantage these women truly have is that they themselves exclude a sizeable proportion of the male population from ever having a chance with them. They pre-judge all non-title holding males as being beneath them despite their sincerity or intelligence level.

As men we favor "attainable" women over prettier women. That's the cold truth.

It is in fact true that a woman's education level or her degrees do absolutely nothing to make her more attractive to a man. This just a fact.

When men ask women what do they bring to the table what we are usually asking is what advantages or perks does a man get as a man for having that woman in his life as opposed to the disadvantages and net losses that she will incur on his time and resources? We are not actually talking about what monetary or property assets she is bringing to us as if this is some kind of corporate merger.

If a man rejects a woman whom he feels is bringing nothing of worth to the table then that is well within his prerogative just as a woman is entitled to reject any suitor she feels doesn't live up to her standards. Men can reject women for any and every reason he so chooses. That is his right. Women have the same right. This is fair.

I have also noticed that these same men either tend to have nothing to offer themselves or are much older.

Then women should not see them as worth being with and move on to men who do offer something.

But why all the bashing of women with degrees/a stable career?

Because of insecurity. Do not waste your time with those who bash anything without saying anything constructive.

Wouldn't that bring him money, responsibility and resources to the table?

No. It would bring him even more insecurity as she can and will feel entitled to dump him at any point in the relationship if she feels he is not living up to her higher standards. Women in this category have much more unattainable standards of men than women of lower classes.

A woman with a degree will expect her man to be CEO/Chairman material and as much of a careerist as she is. She will never settle for a plumber or a repairman in her life. Men know this, and will thus not waste their time pursuing unattainable women. They will sets their sights much lower at their own level or lower in order to secure a mate. That is why I said from the very start that men always favor attainable women over any other type of women no matter how perfect she may look. Attainability is everything. Women with degrees and earning higher wages than men are simply not attainable because it is these women themselves who willfully exclude average men from ever approaching her.

The sad part is that the men whom these high earning and educated women are gunning for will not be interested in these careerist women because these men have endless options o choose from and will most likely choose younger and prettier women who do not threaten their status. Careerist women are more of a threat to men in that they are usually the competition in said career and not really any sort of partner material. Men don't usually fall in love with the competition.

Physiologist21 · 2021-04-03T03:10:59+00:00

Hypergamy. My friend is a PHD candidate, she is the only one who isn't like the rest of her cohert. Her peers are all, overweight, entitled, masculine wastes of chromosomes. They look down on uneducated people and would refuse to date men who have accomplished way more then they have but because they went to school and are "academics" they think this matters in the dating world. Clueless, and this is the type of people college humanity departments create, echo chambers of clueless and entitled people.

jayval90 · 2021-04-03T03:08:56+00:00

Ironically, these same men ask these same women "what do you bring to the table"?

I'm not sure what question you're really asking here. Are you having trouble with the concept that men like feminine and beautiful women, and dislike women who lack one or both of those traits? That seems to be the core of your difficulty in understanding.

More practically, the reason this is even mentioned in RP among guys is because there is a common misconception around this fact among non-RP people. Having a degree generally means higher prospects all around. But whether it's intimidation as you seem to wish it was (an intimidating woman is just as lonely as any other cat lady, but I digress), or just the fact that guys value femininity and going through school doesn't foster that, it doesn't quite work that way with women and degrees the same way it does with men.

And again, empty beauty is a completely separate issue. The common thread in both cases is a lack of femininity to complement his masculinity. In the beautiful woman who developed a crappy personality because everyone treated her wonderfully because of her looks, that's actually worse than the career woman who measures herself by manly standards and then wonders why straight men don't see her at the same level.

Career women also suffer from the "I should be able to do better than HS dropout girl who married at 18 and is dedicating her whole being into a marriage!" syndrome of elevated self-importance. No, your career is not going to help a family-minded marriage succeed. It is going to hinder it.

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disignore · 2021-04-03T09:29:54+00:00

I don't care about women and their career. I mean it is not like a deal breaker for me. Which ever women I date that have their college degree is like over me in career goals, I studied Industrial Design but haven't got my degree, yet.

I've dated PhDs and Masters in journalism, health, and administrative or finances (though, I wouldn't date a Lawyers and an architects, even models); and I don't care. I have a horrible CV cos I dedicated most of my early career with unsuccessful startups in fashion and cannabis, and tried to enter the fintech world without success. But men, I have on thing they love, freedom and a huge skill-set, in fact they long for my freedom, been told many times. A recent avg looking gal, who is lab chemist, spent a lot of time telling me she always wanted to manage her time as I do. They usually asks me what do I do and I tell them I freelance, which leads me to explain how most of the time I skate, go to the gym and bike, because I can work anywhere I want (well before COVID) and being a designer is like being a rockstar in my experience. They love that I can do whatever I want, ceramics, woodwork, 3d printing, photography, graphic, drawing, painting, fabrics and textiles, even shoes; I have a good opinion on arts, music, film, painting and I'm a nerd for science.

I don't care if a woman has a PhD or as many masters as she can get. In fact if you ask me what I look for is actually whats their opinion, how they see the world, which is their cosmology and if they don't mind that I bike and skate and sometimes I'm dirty and smelly (though I take baths and use cologne and eau the toilette and all that bs).

I have a good anecdote. Once I dated a huge journalist in my country, we meet through a sketchy website, not gonna tell which was it. She is actually a Lawyer. We meet in the Sodosopa of my city. I warned her that I would probably arrive dirty and with my skate and that I was dirt poor cos atm my clients' payments were on hold. She was like, well whatever. The date went good, she invited me to her place, but because she had to leave to film a documentary the next day I had to leave early. Yada yada yada, we are platonic now which I don't mine, I love her, but we are not in sync with our schedules.

In fact, I had an issue with a recent tinder match, a PhD who was looking for body only; she was like yeah I want only to fuck, and I was like, hey I have opinions also and she then nope me out. You can look through my profile to read the story.

The morale is, if have a lot of insecurities but my career isn't one, and if I date a woman I don't mind what's her degree. It doesn't intimidates me.

cuckspace · 2021-04-03T10:16:23+00:00

“What do you bring to the table?” is not about money or resources. For me it’s about a warm and pleasant personality, whether she can make my everyday life more enjoyable than without her, whether she can make me feel good at home with her. Highly educated women are too busy taking care of their own career and social life to care about the happiness of another person.

Teflon08191 · 2021-04-03T10:23:16+00:00

I wonder why a lot of redpillers believe that women who have advanced degrees (Master's or above) would be at a disadvantage when it comes to dating.

The instincts nature bestowed them with (hypergamy) puts them at a disadvantage.

That's not to say they can't find a similarly high/higher-earning man themselves, but they're entering into an incredibly competitive market having poured a major amount of their resources into becoming something men generally don't assign a whole lot of importance to in their romantic partners.

ridderrobby · 2021-04-03T10:49:01+00:00

The theories describe putting themselves at a disadvantage, and are therefore at a disadvantage. If an educated woman has no issues dating down, this disadvantage is gone almost entirely

passepar2t · 2021-04-03T12:09:22+00:00

I don't think they're disadvantages. They're just not as advantageous to dating as many women think.

iwannabeastonedhippy · 2021-04-03T13:31:14+00:00

Yikes. I just got permanently banned from a redpilled sub for not willing to listen to their advice. (they are telling me to get a man before I reach the age of 25 and he must be above the age of 30.) after stating multiple times that I refuse to date a man older than me, they started downvoting me and I got banned. I mean I only was on there to see what mistakes women do in dating so I don't repeat them myself.

RabidusRex · 2021-04-03T19:25:12+00:00

From what i understand, couples that are more educated and have higher paying jobs tend to have longer lasting relationships.

bowserfire73 · 2021-04-03T19:50:48+00:00

Personally I don't really care but I think the problem is they have way too much student debt. Plus more women are in liberal arts than high earning fields, so they aren't able to pay those debts.

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2021-04-04T00:30:11+00:00

Well, think about the argument. It is self-refuting.

If men do not care about "careers, degrees, etc.." as they claim than:
Whether or not a woman has a Ph.D or no degree is irrelevant; meaning there is no legitimate reason not pursue an advanced degree out of your volition.
That means do whatever you want; because where it "doesn't matter" doesn't even matter (romance), and even that doesn't even matter.
This also means asking the Q is useless; because men do not care.

In fact, it lets women off the hook to accumulate as many degrees as possible (she can do whatever she wants to..), because this will not affect any romantic, sexual, etc.. from men anyway. That means no negative impact, as well. While continuing to have high gain elsewhere.

proceedproceedstop · 2021-04-04T14:52:20+00:00

When men ask "what do you being to the table?", they are not asking about resources.

Far-Touch-6370 · 2021-04-20T13:23:37+00:00

As a 18 year old going to med school, I can savely say, it gets you around them, but they aren’t looking at you because your drive, goals, and dreams. That’s something you gain over time, and it ain’t going to make them stay. Trust me.

Artlovenbeauty · 2021-04-03T03:03:27+00:00

Here’s my perspective as a woman with several advanced degrees:

It’s a hindrance in the “marketplace.” As society stands, as a woman my value to a man is first in how I look, then in what domestic value I may provide, and last, but what I have devoted the most time to, my career.

So while some women can devote a lot of brain space to their looks and domestic because they don’t have to think a lot about their careers, they will have access to higher quality men than I do unless I do double duty. Whereas a man in my situation can roll up to the bar in dusty wrinkled scrubs and have women all over him.

Oh well. Guess I gotta be cute then.

Here’s an anecdote: out to dinner with a finance friend and his beautiful new bae, and I assume she’s in retail or mid level management or something but no she’s a whole highly specialized and paid doctor. And he was like “yeah that didn’t really matter at first. If I weren’t physically attracted to her I wouldn’t have bothered getting to know her” or something to that effect

Notsonewguy7 · 2021-04-03T04:41:19+00:00

I dated a Lawyer, Architect, and Computer Engineer (I'm to dumb to know what that means) .

They just like anyone else. Though sometimes a little condescending.

icedhumblepie · 2021-04-03T07:06:43+00:00

I wonder why a lot of redpillers believe that women who have advanced degrees (Master's or above) would be at a disadvantage when it comes to dating

"no men care about a woman's career or degrees."

The latter doesn't mean the former.

Many RP men talk about spinning plates, i.e. having uncommitted casual sex with multiple women, who are individually referred to as 'plates'.

If you are a plate with an advanced degree doesn't really matter one way or another, you're just another plate. That's what is meant by not caring about the advanced degree.

Where you might see some more bitter RPers or MGOTWers starting to denigrate and mock women with advanced degrees is that said women believe that an advance degree makes them more desirable or in some way valuable/special, whereas, as previously stated, it makes no difference. If anything, the resources plunged into getting the advanced degree, and the time wasted outside of the sexual market place highlights poor choices by said woman. In their minds they are mocking a fool for making a foolish claim and foolish deluded choices, and the hostility comes from their perception that the woman with the advanced degree thinks she is better than them.

Obviously these people are operating from quite a narrow theoretical framework, and as it is a framework that is hostile to most women's agenda, I would be careful how much stock you put in it. Learning about TRP is useful so that you can learn to avoid their more reprehensible tactics like negging, and the more abusive forms of dread game.

Well, many people get degrees in order to kickstart their career at a higher position than their non-university educated peers, therefore earning money at a faster rate. Similar things can be said about apprenticeships.

They don't care about these things in a plate. Their own finance and career, sure, but that's their own.

Wouldn't that bring him money, responsibility and resources to the table?

They don't care. Sure it's handy for plates that lavish them with gifts, and pay for their stuff, but a plate is still a plate.

Or is it because they're intimidated by these same women?

The point of TRP is that you are not intimidated by anyone, on a deeper level.

Or maybe they assume these women "have hit the wall"?

Perhaps that they've wasted pre-wall time unless they're in their 30s.

their ideal type of woman is usually a submissive 18-year-old slim-curvy white ISFJ Stepford Wife

A plate is a plate is a plate? I think some of the material you have been reading is more incel than RP.

That's all just 'purist RP' though. These days a lot of original RPers have progressed through that stage, and seek different things from life.

However I have to understand that even guys my age with degrees and careers would probably prefer a 19 year old than me.

No, not at all. Contrary to all the pill type content, the vast majority of people are still operating under conventional dating strategies, rules and understandings, especially if you are meeting people in real life rather than via on-line dating. There will be plenty of professional men seeking partners their equal from their age group. Whilst there are definitely age-gap relationships, they are talked about online in a volume that's disproportional to their actual frequency.

Det_Steve_Sloan · 2021-04-04T11:37:54+00:00

Ironically, these same men ask these same women "what do you bring to the table"? This seems to be regarding their resources, as well as personality traits, fertility and femininity. These are also the same men to outright reject a woman if she brings nothing else onto the table other than beauty

I have never seen these observations, ever, among Red Pillers. Especially the bold part.

Nobody gives a fuck about a woman's degree. They care about looks, femininity, loyalty and fertility. A woman with a degree is also more likely to a) Have a degree that is useless, b) Be a feminist.

Lemme clue you in on something. Men don't like feminists because they're intimidated by them, they don't like them because their views are dangerously obsequious and align, perfectly, with crude propaganda. A man doesn't want stupid as the mother of his offspring, a one-track direction to trannies, socialism and degeneracy in the house.

Every feminist I've known has been a simpleton. Every one of them supported Biden, but were too stupid to give me the names of two Syrian cities, since Biden bombed that country illegally, for example.

There's nothing worse than a simpleton with a degree in the arts, with debt, who thinks that getting 'any' degree activates righteous super hypergamy, even if she's fat.

Title	Dating women who have advanced degrees
Author	iwannabeastonedhippy
Upvotes	24
Comments	409
Date	April 3, 2021 1:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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