Every day on relationship_advice...

Sage_Planter · 2020-07-27T00:41:05+00:00

It's just missing the "he's absolutely perfect except for..."

celestialparrotlets · 2020-07-27T04:21:40+00:00

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runaway-bunny · 2020-07-27T04:18:01+00:00

I screencapped a post on AITA from earlier today that reminds me of this:

It was written by a nurse working overtime in the PICU, who lets her boyfriend live with her rent-free while he plays video games and works 2 nights a week at a grocery. She had her first Saturday off since they got married earlier this year, and made plans with bf to go to an animal sanctuary, just to have him leave the house before she woke up so he could spend the day with his buddy instead and ignore her calls. She even gets locked out of her house at one point, and waits an hour for bf to drive the 5 minutes back home and unlock it, and when he DOES arrive he doesn’t even get out of the car but uses the garage door remote and drives off. At the end, she says she wants to stay with him, and worries whether SHE is the asshole.

Thought about DMing her the link to the handbook PDF!

redbirdflies · 2020-07-27T01:27:12+00:00

I saw a post on r/ dating over thirty today that said

“I must say this is a depressing sub full of miserable people giving bad advice, I can’t be alone in this opinion”

Nope. No, you’re not alone 😂

Every relationship advice sub on Reddit is full of lvms and pickmeishas whose best advice is to CoMmuNiCaTe.

🗑 🗑 🗑 🗑

Alma00019 · 2020-07-27T05:30:09+00:00

So on my reddit thread this post came up, and right under it was....

r/relationaship_advice

(paraphrased)

"My (20F) boyfriend (22M) knows I'm a virgin but threw me on the bed and held me down in order to have rough abusive sex with me because he thought I'd be into it because I'm black. What should I do?"

finalbosskitten · 2020-07-27T01:28:54+00:00

https://twitter.com/JennyENicholson/status/1287417928497815553 is another *chef's kiss* one straight down to the fuckin' age gap, hah.

Still genuinely horrified the few times I actually went on AITA...y'know I actually expect to see some women being awful but almost everything had men being objectively the immoral asshole. Oof. And, y'know, it really makes you think...considering that Reddit is overrun by men that are generally pro-men...yet the majority of stories on those subs still genuinely make the man seem like the asshole.

gabydrt · 2020-07-27T01:22:50+00:00

And he don’t like Beyoncé lol

mscristalconnors · 2020-07-27T04:38:00+00:00

I stopped reading at doesn’t eat pussy. I’m out. I can’t!

Cosmictears83 · 2020-07-27T08:18:01+00:00

I can't stand the people who whine on reddit that the advice on relationship subreddits is to break up. Um, hello do you read the awful inexcusable things people are trying to get help for? People aren't on there for minor disagreements. Its usually abuse, or people being complete failures of human beings.

2020-07-27T05:27:40+00:00

Reddit be like: just cOmPLiMeNT him more.

CharTheCatMom · 2020-07-27T00:39:51+00:00

I almost choked on my food 💀😂😂😂😂😂

RustynaShackleford · 2020-07-27T00:58:46+00:00

loooll

i laugh, as a former pickmeisha, at myself also

SuccessfulShow5 · 2020-07-27T03:02:04+00:00

I’m soooo fucking guilty but I finally saw the light and I will never be in the dark again !

VivaLaSea · 2020-07-27T01:59:54+00:00

That whole sub just pisses me of with their stupidity.

Partyavoider29 · 2020-07-27T15:11:59+00:00

That so many women spend so much of their precious time on Earth doing mental gymnastics to rationalize their boyfriend's absolutley deplorable behavior in our toxic male oriented culture breaks my heart.

It shouldn't be so brutalizing to want companionship. It's what we're raised to want. I'm really tired of hearing what WoMen Do ToO like, I'm sorry, one of the leading causes of death for us is dating men who turn out to be violent. Stop pretending it's comparable. We should be outraged by this. It shouldn't be so outright dangerous to date men.

Lagaceta2020 · 2020-07-27T04:19:10+00:00

Leave his stinky balls ASAP you can do much better!!!!

GAaliyah12 · 2020-07-27T12:40:48+00:00

LMAO I can't date a man that tell me he don't like Beyonce! You better keep that hating shit to yourself.

Myplummms · 2020-07-27T14:49:12+00:00

i JuSt WaNt tO dO aNyThiNg BuT bReAk Up WiTh HiM!

denverkris · 2020-07-27T13:51:03+00:00

You forgot this part:

"But he's good to me and I love him".

wtf, I'm crying lol.

PicklesNBacon · 2020-07-27T12:04:49+00:00

Omg it’s so true

citrus_sugar · 2020-07-27T21:32:20+00:00

Lesbian checking in. I still don't know why those that have relationships with LVM can't see how shitty the guy is being to them.

N2Gen · 2020-07-27T05:43:25+00:00

Ded 😂😂

Puzzleheaded-Level21 · 2020-07-27T14:24:13+00:00

These girls won't even take their friends advice, let alone some random people on the internet telling them to break up.

Why do they even ask these questions when 99% they'll continue being in a relationship with the dude?

eatjables · 2020-07-27T17:38:28+00:00

There’s an insightful thread on another forum titled, “Why are nurses married to bums?” and it’s an interesting read that offers some insight into the correlation between being a ‘caretaker’ and choosing a SO.

Asopaso07 · 2020-07-27T07:20:52+00:00

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Title	Every day on relationship_advice...
Author	donutmogul
Upvotes	2234
Comments	111
Date	July 27, 2020 12:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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