I see no lies

pineycitrusforest · 2020-07-28T21:01:53+00:00

Also add to the wife list: send out any birthday/holiday cards to both families and birthday and holiday presents to both her family and his. 🙄

Quicklyquigly · 2020-07-28T21:32:51+00:00

Stay up all night with infants while men sleep soundly. Not sleeping for months. That will AGE you. That will change your brain. It will damage you. You can’t talk about it because “every mother does it”. You don’t get any help, you don’t get a break and nobody is coming to save you.

not_a_paper_pusher · 2020-07-28T20:52:15+00:00

Do men protect though? Who has always been the one protecting children, the vulnerable and other women from...men. Women have always been the protectors.

thowawaywookie · 2020-07-29T02:38:01+00:00

I hear men say they go to war, get injured, die, to protect us.

Who starts all the wars?

not_a_paper_pusher · 2020-07-28T22:17:57+00:00

The last man that assaulted me bragged to me about being a protector. That he hated men that hurt women. Then denied everything when I reported him to the police for assaulting me. I bet he still believes he’s a protector that hates men that abuse women.

just_takin_the_d · 2020-07-28T23:50:08+00:00

Remember that women also protect their families and especially their children. Being the “protector” is just one more thing men have unfairly taken all the credit for.

willowgrowingroots · 2020-07-28T21:09:49+00:00

++performative sex 24/7

tellmesomething11 · 2020-07-29T00:25:48+00:00

Scrub toilet, empty trash bathroom, wipe down dirty walls from children, fold clothes, switch out clothes when they no longer fit, replace light bulbs when burned out, wipe counters and baseboards, shampoo carpets, make appointments, figure out medical/ dental/school bills, clean sheets, decorate, throw parties for them 🙄🙄, be social, drink and get up early to work, look sexy, work out, Etc etc etc.

I can’t stand lazy bum ass men🤦🏽‍♀️

luna_prismatic · 2020-07-28T23:25:12+00:00

Eh I don’t know if men even do “protect” though. Mate guard, sure, but that’s just for their own ego and insecurities. I’ve seen so many prank videos where the pranker jumps out/chases an unsuspecting couple (for example), and so many men run like hell, not even bothering to help the woman they’re with, lol. It makes you wonder what a lot of men would really do in a true crisis situation, despite action and hero movies pumping up their collective ego about what “heroes” and “kings” they all are. I think claiming to be a protector/provider is just a bragging right for other men tbh. Because we know a lot of men don’t actually bring shit to the table, and resent being asked to give literally anything, even stuff that’s free, like emotional support or giving a shit 💁🏻‍♀️

SubstantialBedroom81 · 2020-07-28T20:43:56+00:00

What even are they protecting from?

not_a_paper_pusher · 2020-07-28T22:18:58+00:00

This is one of the reasons I opted out of having children, the women are expected to sacrifice their time and effort while men do the bare minimum

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-07-28T23:36:34+00:00

Oh y’all...reading that “protect” gave me a flashback! One time when I was living with ex, our doorbell malfunctioned and was ringing nonstop, which was a very creepy and unnerving thing to happen at night. Well my gem of an ex tried to hide behind me and use me as a shield when we went to investigate. Protect, indeeeeeed.... 🤦‍♀️🤣🤡🔔

pascalines · 2020-07-28T23:59:29+00:00

Who are men supposed to be protecting us from?? Oh right.....men.

BabyGothQ · 2020-07-29T00:55:53+00:00

This isn’t even including be hairless, wear makeup, dress well, and sex. Which is by nature penetrative and by culture, at best, a hazard. Worrying about birth control, pregnancy, STDs.

booboodoughnut · 2020-07-28T21:01:11+00:00

Far too much on the ‘men’ section- it was better left blank tbh

neon_skelton · 2020-07-28T22:52:27+00:00

My NVM ex would say he did everything around the house because I asked him to do the weekly grocery shop.

He wanted to shop at Aldi and that doesn’t do online delivery. So someone had to go and do the groceries, and I have less time as I both work and study full time.

I would explain to him that when I did the grocery shop by myself, I would look around the house for items that need replenishing and write those on the list. He would expect me to keep a running inventory in my head and never check. I would plan out meals for both of us for the week and add items we needed. He never planned or cooked meals. Then I would bring the groceries home and unpack them, making sure to put everything in its correct spot. He would throw (literally throw) raw chicken onto the top shelf of the fridge, directly on top of raw vegetables.

So, in my eyes, he never actually did the full task of grocery shopping because I had to hold his hand and do the rest. They can’t or won’t even do something simple like that.

PaintedThread · 2020-07-29T00:37:22+00:00

I've had this discussion with a guy once and his reply was "Nuh uh! We fix the sink, the fence (wtf), and mow the lawn!" Sir...

MarbleWorld · 2020-07-28T22:26:47+00:00

She forgot personal porn star

sleeping_pretty · 2020-07-29T06:36:45+00:00

You also become their sister because you have to bend your back for their parents....

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-07-28T22:29:28+00:00

They forgot Social Secretary and Entertainment Director!

CloacaDiddler · 2020-07-29T00:13:53+00:00

The woman’s list can definitely be added to

giggirltra · 2020-07-29T00:29:35+00:00

Yep! Straight up my LVM loser of an ex husband. 🙌🏻 Ultimately wanted a divorce because apparently even ALL OF THAT wasn’t good enough. On top of working a full time job.

NihilisticBuddhism · 2020-07-28T22:31:37+00:00

Protect should’ve been in quotation marks lol

Curo_san · 2020-07-28T23:36:08+00:00

Big reason I don't want to have children is that majority of childrearing is left to the mother. No fucking thanks.

moosecakies · 2020-07-29T09:08:08+00:00

Where the hell is ‘act like a porn actress (but be a virgin) ‘ on the men’s wants ?! 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🤮

skyerippa · 2020-07-29T03:28:13+00:00

Forgot personal porn star

purrlikabaws · 2020-07-29T01:50:57+00:00

The audacity when an LVM, 4/10, overweight, +10 years on me says that he is used always being in relationships where it was 50/50. Yeah okay, byeeeeeee! That's what happens when I lower my standards. Never again!

Littlebunny080 · 2020-07-29T09:49:24+00:00

Omg this femoiselle account on insta is just pure gold, it’s amazing! A great start for your level up journey.

bbch2019 · 2020-07-29T06:03:40+00:00

It's not equal which us why I am 42, not married and have no kids. I have seen this as an unfair situation being an outside observer with majority of the women I know, with few exceptions. Those with the exceptions have healthy balanced relationships and I won't settle for anything than that.

grand_tiremaster · 2020-07-29T11:17:09+00:00

Future husband needs to help with all of the above, but I ain't gonna be working or going half on the bills. I'm just not going to be. Everything else is enough.

Orphanedpinkpetals · 2020-07-29T16:59:20+00:00

Western women have been duped yet western men claim oppression and gynocentrism!!! Can you imagine how happy some of these scrotes male ancestors would be to have a sex slave who also brings home the bacon so they can stay in the cabin and whack it till it cracks!???

manisfestationqueen · 2020-07-29T01:22:59+00:00

To me it's 100/100 I do my part all the way, and you do yours all the way. If you see me struggling of course help me out, take initiative. A smart man knows if he helps out, or takes initiative, then the woman will have more energy for intimacy. If I'm cooking I'm going all in, but I expect you to be the same way. Both committed into what we bring in

Orphanedpinkpetals · 2020-07-29T17:00:13+00:00

" protect "

ballsquancher · 2020-07-29T04:07:24+00:00

I am grateful that my man shares ALL of these responsibilities with me. Without even having to ask. You all deserve the same.

thewifeaquatic1 · 2020-07-29T05:01:08+00:00

Dont forget to keep it tight, fuck like a pornstar, and forgive a lil weekend cheating

GayKPOPCats · 2020-07-29T21:26:49+00:00

AJSHSHSHSJAJSHAA SORRY I READ THE FIRST THING AS “SPLIT THE BALLS” WHATGAJSSJDSJDHADHS

La1ka404 · 2020-07-29T06:17:36+00:00

Damn you get guys like that? Happy to live in Scandinavia lol.

Title	I see no lies
Author	throwaway23004345
Upvotes	1420
Comments	157
Date	July 28, 2020 8:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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