This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.

19Bubbles98 · 2020-10-15T13:23:18+00:00

It's really hard to have no d*ck?, oh no honey.

bye-raspberry · 2020-10-15T16:47:35+00:00

WAP stands for wack-ass pickmeisha

Shoddy-Telephone-939 · 2020-10-15T13:52:04+00:00

“He gave me a rolls-royce and I snub him?”

Um yes, absolutely? She’s wealthy enough to buy all the rolls-royces and material things she could ever desire!!! Not to mention she could have her pick of all the dick she wants at the snap of a finger (or the best vibrator money can buy lol). She is proof that low self-esteem and low value behavior (from both men and women) comes in all tax brackets...

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-15T14:06:43+00:00

Many abused women are misdiagnosed as bipolar. Cheating is abuse.

MACMUA · 2020-10-15T14:01:54+00:00

I try to like her.. I appreciate her come up. But god damn she’s very co dependent. She makes her self look like an idiot. Not every feeling needs to be broadcasted on social media. especially when it makes you look at a needy ass co dependent pick me

sassyheather · 2020-10-15T13:26:09+00:00

This physically hurt me as I read it.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-15T14:21:13+00:00

She sounds so pathetic. Honestly if you're in this situation then go get some dick somewhere else. Anywhere else. Anywhere.

With so many women watching and wanting to look up to other women, she should be doing better. She should have more dignity.

survivinghsp · 2020-10-15T13:43:07+00:00

I feel sorry for her daughter

tellmesomething11 · 2020-10-15T14:42:00+00:00

It follows the cycle of abuse, with the honeymoon period getting shorter and shorter. Because of her childhood wounding issues (growing up poor etc) she equates these gifts with love. They are both rich though🤷🏽‍♀️ The gift isn’t much for him, and she can afford her own rolls. She justifies his abuse by operating from a scarcity mindset, she believes she’ll never do better, because she believes she’s low value. She has her own money but places her worth on a man. We’ve all been there, but somehow found ourselves and leveled up. Hopefully she’ll find herself.

redbirdflies · 2020-10-15T13:35:07+00:00

I don't care if this gets me downvoted or whatever but she's a low value woman that hides behind a facade of WAP and richness.

2020-10-15T13:38:55+00:00

That is disappointing AF.

_mooness · 2020-10-15T14:39:58+00:00

I wanna say I expected more from her, but a girl who marries a LVM is probably gunna go back to him after he cheats. If she were HV she would’ve vetted him before marriage. I’m sure there were red flags. He’s so cringe.

nyclaurco · 2020-10-15T13:48:28+00:00

he will keep cheating on her and treating her terribly because she is now more successful than him, and lvm can’t stand that. at some point it went from offset and offset’s girlfriend to cardi b and cardi b’s boyfriend. he said it himself that he needs a regular wife, yet all he wants is cardi and to “humble” her.

Gambit12345 · 2020-10-15T14:26:02+00:00

Not a good look for her. I was so disappointed to see offsets goofy ass at her birthday. She doesn’t trust herself enough to walk away and she has so many young fans who are gonna see this and think it’s ok to keep taking the same man back.

AnniaT · 2020-10-15T15:06:17+00:00

Why does she devalue herself so much for this ugly man? It's not like she's financially dependent on him nor anything. Isn't she afraid of getting STDs or setting a bad example for her daughter?

blueveinnoble · 2020-10-15T14:35:28+00:00

She's not a good role model, even for her own child. This type of desperate attitude she displays is shameful.

At the same time, do I have a man buying me a RR for my b-day? No.

But, can she get a RR from anyone else asides from Offset? No. So she's taking what she can get at the level she's at.

It's confusing,to us because it would be logical to think, "she's rich, she can definitely buy her own RR. Why settle for a loser who cheats?"

That's why the MENTAL level up is (in my opinion) MORE important than the physical/financial level up.

In her own eyes, she still thinks of herself as this chick from the hood, on a come up. It could vanish any day (it does with some celebs who go bankrupt).

A hood chick's dream is to be some scrote's baby mama and ride in his Bimmer (BMW) and show off to all her frenemies. She's living her dream.

Only thing is, to us on the outside, it looks like insanity!

AnniaT · 2020-10-15T15:13:11+00:00

This is ridiculous. Someone send FDS link to Cardi. She desperately needs it.

PunnyPrinter · 2020-10-15T15:53:49+00:00

If you make big, permanent life decisions based on genitals, you're going to screw yourself up.

ShitFaced_Dumbledore · 2020-10-15T19:22:24+00:00

Ugh I hate this new culture trend of glorifying “dick”. Most men have wack ass dick game! These Pick-Me’s are lying, you crave attention and intimacy girl not dick.

Shoddy-Telephone-939 · 2020-10-15T19:27:57+00:00

Can we refer to Offset (cardi’s husband) as OffScrote going forward? 🤚

alichuchu · 2020-10-15T15:03:57+00:00

Didn’t she just divorce him...? She seriously went back? Ugh, that is very pathetic and I’m sad for her daughter

reina_nova · 2020-10-15T14:52:40+00:00

Cardi B is a LVW. To this day I don’t understand why or how she became famous.

2020-10-15T15:52:03+00:00

What kind of statements are those? Do women really talk and think like this? What is this?

the-red_woman · 2020-10-15T17:55:09+00:00

She’s trash though, definition of LV. I mean her most famous song is literally about objectifying women as nothing more than our genitalia. It’s low....

goththeinspiredart · 2020-10-15T16:40:49+00:00

I love how she believes that rejecting a guy who gave you a Rolls-Royce is the thing that's going to piss everyone off.

She's right but reveals the type of people she values; LVM men who believe wealth can justify personality flaws and disrespect. Unfortunately she represents a good chunk of women who believe that using a man for money and sex is a sign of being "an self-empowered woman". The truth is that people like her can only value themselves through men, regardless of their value, instead of having the strength of walk away from all of that.

I know the entertainment industry hates women and she probably had a lot of pressure to go back to this sort of relationship. I hope one day she wakes up to all of this and give her daughter a real chance to avoid trash like this.

Dramallamadingdong87 · 2020-10-15T19:18:58+00:00

Poverty is a mindset not a place.

In her eyes, she's still broke struggling to get by using the only asset she believes she possess - her sexuality.

A guy comes along and buys her a Rolls Royce, and straight away she's back to being that girl who believed she was only worth what someone paid for her. To her, that is love.

I hope one day she comes to her senses.

maraslove · 2020-10-15T15:56:12+00:00

She keeps trying to be strong and then goes weak again. I’m not going to sit here and be a hypocrite because when you love someone it’s really hard to let go. But get this, is the constant humiliation and embarrassment worth it? She’s going to have to grow some self esteem like many of us did and leave permanently. I have a feeling she’ll leave someday, but will waste her life away right now. If this was the other way around, he would’ve divorced her the first time.

straighthairgreece · 2020-10-15T18:34:57+00:00

Lol women can go without dick for a LOOOONNNG time. I bet she really missed having someone hug her and kiss her and all that.

Nat_at_all · 2020-10-15T20:41:41+00:00

NOOOOOOOOO Cardi! I was so proud of her for finally divorcing him!! Also wtf the dick is never worth the emotional trauma, stress, and pain!!!!

FlowerPrincessChief · 2020-10-15T20:49:24+00:00

Wow. I think a lot of people fail to forget that STDs and HIV are a real thing. Married women are still at risk of getting them as well.

At first I used to feel so sorry that Offset kept cheating on her. But I officially don’t anymore. She’s just setting herself up. Maybe she’ll leave once he brings her something serious. Based on his carelessness and public cheating ventures, he’s probably not using any kind of protection when he sleeps with these other women. Since he’s a rapper, I kinda doubt he even gets tested on the regular. He’s one of those guys who thinks he’s above testing.

Xlunas · 2020-10-15T17:09:44+00:00

What kind of excuse is that? She could catch a d*ck whenever she wanted.

FURYOFCAPSLOCK · 2020-10-15T17:21:07+00:00

Pathetic.

Averageblackcat · 2020-10-15T16:53:07+00:00

and here I was, hoping she had finally left him for good...

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-10-15T23:28:42+00:00

This is an abusive relationship and Cardi will leave when she’s ready.

localgirlcult · 2020-10-15T15:53:29+00:00

If any woman starts talking to me about Cardi B and being a badass yet again I'm gonna shut that dumb shit down. Don't mention this dumbass to me again. The wap bullshit coupled with this. You want a female agent for the patriarchy? You got one. How the fuck did we go from riot grrrls to this. Jfc. Bye. My sympathy is limited.

emtoots · 2020-10-15T19:15:34+00:00

Are we gonna pretend she can’t afford her own luxury car and designer hand bag??? Sis has the number one song in several countries and many more hits coming out with the biggest artists in the world but ok.

Eat_Pant_b0ss · 2020-10-15T22:01:43+00:00

"I dont really need the D I need the money" lmao guess not

honeybeeroll · 2020-10-15T15:51:58+00:00

/SIGH/ I knew this was going to happen....I have seen her say positive things about how to deal w/ men - when she first separated from him, in her harpers bazar interview she said she wouldn't date cuz she's got a kid, she can't bring just anyone around a kid. But somehow it doesn't apply to him. This man cheated on her and let the whole world know it for shits sake.

Idk, she likes a certain kinda guy and also tbh I think she likes the drama. You see the way she behaves with many other people, she picks fights a lot (like her recent bs with Candace Owens). She was always like this but when she was less famous, it was less apparent as she wasn't fighting w/ high profile people.

I like her music and there's things about her personality that I like, but she's very much like Kanye: narcissistic, combative, and has the capacity for intelligence, but is willfully uneducated and lives in an echo chamber of people that don't bring out the best in her.

typeadhd · 2020-10-15T21:29:01+00:00

oh_beach_please · 2020-10-16T08:39:43+00:00

Jesus fucking Christ have some god damned self respect I'm sorry but at some point we all have to be responsible for the choices we make. Some women are financially broken and have to stay longer than they want to, there's no excuse. Does she not give a fuck what her kids will think growing up reading this? Him buying her a rolls wtf who cares she could buy her own?? Jesus just get a dildo. Man this pissed me off

cherrypepsilvr · 2020-10-15T18:42:49+00:00

I'm really shocked by this, I used to think she was a bit of a Queen. Personally I wasn't a fan of WAP, it just seems like the same old "I'm not like other girls I'm totally horny all the time" thing, which advertises to young girls that the more sexually available you are, the better you are, and this is a sad end point of that attitude.

Sinchichis96 · 2020-10-15T16:28:46+00:00

I can’t believe people see her as a role model. I respect her grind but offff she got a lot of work to do. And leave him!!! What are you waiting for.

Charming_Mix7930 · 2020-10-15T22:44:03+00:00

I feel bad for her. How Offset gas behaved towards her and, when she trued to leave she was almost bullied to take him back is terrible.

xdecadent · 2020-10-16T11:17:01+00:00

As much as I love Cardi I hate how much she lowers herself for this man. It’s so embarrassing and damaging.

Bordersz · 2020-10-15T23:59:08+00:00

I'm not the biggest fan of Cardi, but I don't feel comfortable w/people putting her down and calling her a pickmeisha when it is obvious she is in a shitty and abusive relationship. I hope she wakes up soon instead of thinking gifts = money and thinking she has to go back to Offset to maintain her "family". The fact she is scared to turn down his gift is just sad. I wonder what happened to her the last time she turned down a gift

vitryolic · 2020-10-16T18:04:44+00:00

It’s 1 step forward 5 steps back with Cardi B when she talks about feminism and female empowerment, then neglects herself the most important woman in her life, by letting a man treat her like this

gothicctemptress · 2020-11-06T23:54:26+00:00

Being tested and found negative for whatever mental health diagnosis my ex believes would excuse his actions? Check.

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