She says it way better than I ever could here’s link to full video:

https://youtu.be/-P\_XXAMSLMY?is=MKDa6mDprdswtZV5

In summary:

Men compare women having sex with them to chores they have to do that they don’t want to, but expect her to do, especially when married because of entitlement

Pressure kills desire

Men would rather sexually coerce (rape) their wives than leave them

Men don’t value true intimacy (emotional connection) only sex

It’s not that men don’t understand, they just don’t care.

Men’s behavior is the reason they are not getting sex as much as they want, not women’s attraction to them

Sex is not a need. The sex as a need argument is used to hide men’s contempt of women. They don’t want to talk to women, they don’t love women, they love what they can get from them. If you loved them you would not coerce and abuse them.

Marriage is not blanket consent to sex. Nowhere in a marriage contract does it say that you can be a bad partner and still receive sexual access

Sex is an important relationship agreement, but not more than being a caring partner

She’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting your behavior

If you think women don’t like sex, you are telling on yourself

Men refuse to talk about their own feelings, let alone their partners. Safety and emotional connection are true needs, and are needed prior to a women wanting to engage in sexual acts. Men use women’s bodies as a way to try to fast tract connection and bypass neglected relationship maintenance but that often results in women feeling violated, traumatized, and resentful, and men do not care.

THERES NO MALE LONELINESS EPIDEMIC FOR THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND WOMEN.

Sex is something people do when both are consenting, men think of it as something being done to women.

Taking out the garbage is not the same as having unwanted sex. ONE IS PARTICIPATING IN ADULT LIFE, THE OTHER IS ENTITLED SEXUAL ACCESS TO ANOTHER HUMANS BODY. He understands you don’t want it, but you should just do it. It’s a service to be provided.

Why would women be with men who don’t like them? It doesn’t make any sense.

Men care more about the performance of desire than true desire. If women don’t perform desire to men’s standards, they get hostile. Men don’t want to create desire. Men want to feel desired without doing anything to be desirable. They want you to show it, but don’t really care if you feel it. IF SHE LOOKS LIKE SHE IS WILLING, THEN THEY DONT HAVE TO FEEL LIKE THE EXACT MEN THEY ARE. Men expect women to abandon themselves to protect his ego.

Withholding sex is not a thing because you are not entitled to a woman’s body, even your wife.

Women do not bait and switch men, men bait and switch women. Men externalize blame and refuse to self reflect. Men refuse to take accountability for the environments they create. When men don’t get sex from their partner they cheat, furthering abuse.

Men should be honest about how much sex they expect per week and how they will treat you if they don’t get it prior to entering relationships.

Men don’t leave relationships because they would lose access to services. There are studies that prove if you remove the labels of behaviors (neglect, coercion, rape) men admit they engage in these behaviors at alarming rates.