What do you mean when you say men who consume porn but wont wife pornstars are hypocrites?

ashpr0ulx · 2021-08-19T13:12:49+00:00

no one is obligated to be open to marrying a pornstar. but i don’t believe in bashing a profession i openly create a demand for, either.

ohdiddly · 2021-08-20T02:33:18+00:00

It’s hypocritical to watch porn and also shame and degrade sex workers. I don’t care who you want to marry.

subhuman_cretin · 2021-08-19T12:37:35+00:00

So what everyone is a hypocrite

Anyone who eats meat but won't kill an animal etc

Inlo94 · 2021-08-19T12:24:19+00:00

I don't find it hypocrite. What I find hypocrital is bashing sex workers and then buying their products.

01000101010001010 · 2021-08-19T13:13:13+00:00

Its like women using the services of plumbers, but refuse to marry them.

KirthWGersen · 2021-08-19T13:09:22+00:00

To quote Tim Wortsall:

"Gary Becker did point out that there’s something of a little conundrum in sex work. Very large numbers of people are qualified to do this relatively unskilled labour (sure, skilled labour here is preferable). And yet the prices paid for this unskilled labor are very much higher than other unskilled labour.
What gives?
The answer being that there’s some consumption of capital going on here. Transference of the long term wealth – through marriage – opportunity into short term income.
Tarts tend to – tend to, there are always a few who hypergamize – marry less well than they would have, ceteris paribus, if they’d not been tarts.
OK, we might not talk about marriage these days but the lady above is an exemplar of exactly this point. Yep, sex work produces cash now but at the expense of reducing future opportunities. Capital consumption to produce that income.
Of course, there is a solution here. Date some of her OnlyFans. But then which “beauty” wants to date those sort of sad little men?"

redditradishman · 2021-08-19T16:12:17+00:00

These ladies are recreational only.

Jamless_fem · 2021-08-19T14:23:16+00:00

There's no hypocrisy here.

The only hypocrisy is bashing sex workers and consuming there products at the same time.

Sex work exist because of the huge demand from pornsick coomers.

So hating on sex workers and creating a demand for sex work at the same time is counter productive.

Can't have it both ways.

midwestufohunter · 2021-08-19T21:35:15+00:00

its just weird and creepy that men love porn so much but hate the women they are watching.

my hobbies are painting and reading.

i would love to go to dinner with the painters and authors i follow.

if they are attractive, single and age appropriate, i would also love to date them.

NarniaFox · 2021-08-19T12:19:16+00:00

Saying that "sex work isn't different from any other work" or that "sex work is just work" is hypocritical if doing this jobs disqualifies someone due to some moral complications. It means you do see this kind of occupations as something detrimental.

KirthWGersen · 2021-08-19T13:05:10+00:00

I would rent a boat/plane but I wouldn't buy one. The amount of use I would get out of it wouldn't be worth the maintenance cost/depreciation.

As the old saying goes, if it flies, floats or fucks: rent it.

TomorrowsWar · 2021-08-19T14:58:33+00:00

You don’t need to marry her but you should not devalue her. She’s a person. That’s how I feel and any man who says otherwise is pathetic to me lol

YveisGrey · 2021-08-19T13:58:18+00:00

Mmm idk I think it is a bit hypocritical I mean here you are consuming the product then acting like the content is beneath you. Why do you think you are too good for a pornstar when you watch the content?? Makes no sense to me. A person who is above it would not participate in it’s creation or consumption.

AquaChip · 2021-08-19T12:05:58+00:00

It’s more like men who watch porn but bash women for participating in porn are hypocrites. Just like men who complain about Instagram models but follow 50 of them are hypocrites.

YveisGrey · 2021-08-19T14:02:47+00:00

What you are saying is “I deserve a partner who is ‘sexually pure’ and/or exclusive to me while I sexually objectify another person.” You can make a whore out of someone’s gf, wife, daughter, sister etc… but God Forbid you end up with one yourself 🙄

I feel the exact same way about men demanding low n count women or virgins meanwhile making all manner of efforts to sleep with as many women as possible even going so far as to manipulate or lie to women in order to get casual sex with them. Yes so you can sleep with everyone’s future wife but your future wife better be untouched. 🙄🙄🙄

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-08-19T22:48:52+00:00

It’s definitely hypocritical when men who watch porn believe they are better, purer, more moral and more deserving human beings than men and women who make porn but no one should have to marry anyone they don’t want to.

However, if the woman checks all a man’s boxes and being a pornstar was the only reason he didn’t want her, then he’d definitely be an amoral hypocrite who doesn’t believe in equality for men and women.

M_LaSalle · 2021-08-19T13:27:17+00:00

The fact that a fellow makes use of, say, escorts, is no reason to marry one. if you want to call it hypocrisy, then knock yourself out, but men dealing with the realities of bachelorhood and the modern dating market are under no obligation to be consistent in your eyes.

Life is what it is, and we all have to get by. Calling someone a hypocrite in discussions of sex or politics is one of the most time wasting activities humans can engage in. Bloops and conservatives both seem to live for it, and for some reason they both seem to think they accomplish something when they do it

Tracker1958 · 2021-08-19T15:21:45+00:00

Giants different in having sex and making a woman a wife and a mother. People fuck like rabbits and won't marry any of them. A man will almost fuck any woman, but he won't marry any of them. When a man makes a woman his wife and the mother of his kids, he wants her to have a very low body count. Women with high body count most likely won't be getting married any time soon. When a man marries one of these women, he is not a high-quality man.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-08-19T18:12:35+00:00

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whosthatcreep · 2021-08-20T02:27:04+00:00

Women who like to flush their toilets and would never date a sewage worker complain about this

Mentathiel · 2021-08-20T11:18:44+00:00

A lot of guys don't want to marry a porn star because they think she doesn't have self-respect, is somehow fucked up, won't be able to be loyal, or in general is damaged by the experience in some way.

Yet they create the demand for a product that they think damages women in their opinion.

Hypocritical isn't the right word I guess, but callous maybe?

SaBahRub · 2021-08-19T14:08:58+00:00

It’s just another aspect of the general double standard in sex

superlurkage · 2021-08-19T13:40:55+00:00

Porn is sex, which is good for men and bad for women

CatchPhraze · 2021-08-19T15:46:26+00:00

Male and female sexually is different. Woman get off by being a focus of desire. Men get off by possessing or even just viewing said focus. So a 1 to 1 rarely makes sense in terms of equality of outcomes.

AbbreviationsHot1200 · 2021-08-20T21:20:48+00:00

Its no different than women who will accept money and gifts from men they would never marry

2021-08-21T03:16:14+00:00

As another commenter said, women also accept money , gifts, attention from men that they would never get with.

Same deal. A lot of the women here are just playing dumb. Dont adjust your behaviour to these chicks, be a man and do what we always do.

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neetykeeno · 2021-08-19T19:57:01+00:00

I don't think I have ever said that. I mean after all...I like rock music but like hell would I ever want to be a rock star's wife.

What I do say is you can't regularly yank it to porn, yet find porn stars repulsive as long term company, and still have me think your sexual attraction to me is or one of my daughters or any woman is worth a lick of spit. I mean seriously you have systematically trained yourself to be attracted to that which you find worthless...so ummmm...no it ain't flattering, it doesn't mean anything good about you and your erections, fuck off.

JumboJetz · 2021-08-20T01:31:27+00:00

As if anyone on Reddit even has a chance with a well known porn star.

Reminds me of the Chris Rock joke. “Jada Smith boycotting the Oscars is like me boycotting Rihanna’s panties - I wasn’t invited”

__Honey_Badger__ · 2021-08-20T22:55:03+00:00

I'm pretty open and pro-legalisation of most types of consentual sex work. Including things like escorting and OnlyFans etc.

I would certainly marry an ex-adult film star if the opportunity presented itself...don't get me wrong I'm a tiny asain dude so it's unlikely 😂 but I have no problem with it at all...I don't even think my slightly traditional family would mind if I was really into the person (they might resent it at first for a bit but then they'd be fine probably).

I think the times have really changed with this issue tbh.

Itburns12345 · 2021-08-21T11:24:00+00:00

For the same reason wed vist bangkok but wouldnt wanna live there

Robotemist · 2021-08-21T18:45:25+00:00

Consuming porn and not being willing to wife a pornstar is no different than women who are willing to go to restaurants but not being willing to marry a waiter. Or call the police when in trouble but not willing to date a cop.

TheIntrepid1k · 2021-08-22T18:05:25+00:00

Because masturbating to porn is not at all the same as exposing your asshole for the world to see. It is also not nearly the same as having 20 men ejaculate on your face.

Porn is just for men to be able to successfully climate without using their imagination. Its not real to us, its just a tool.

Here is the difference; if you could choose to be born into a family which one would you choose?

A: one where your father masturbates to porn.

B: one where your mother has shown her asshole to the world for everyone to see.

I think its obvious that there is a clear difference. You would be nuts to choose B.

Title	What do you mean when you say men who consume porn but wont wife pornstars are hypocrites?
Author	Straight-Claim8132
Upvotes	63
Comments	303
Date	August 19, 2021 11:51 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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