Hi there. Hope everyone is doing well. Well, dating is generally speaking, not a nice experience for men. But, I believe men have no choice but be able to"take it like a champ" and do it anyway.

If you are a (average) man who is genuinely looking for a relationship with a woman, you still have no other choice. Honestly, think about it. Has something ever be easy when you were born a man, when it comes to getting money, have food, or any other thing? Dating is no exception. Keep in mind that, women can literally sit down, wait, and she will get men going after her. Women do not really have any efforts to put. Men cannot do that. You have to make efforts.

I see a lot of men here get mad when they are told by other men to try to go outside more and socialise with people. Yet, they do complain about not getting nothing with dating apps. Let me tell you, dating apps were made for attractive men and for any woman (wether attractive or not). If you are an average Joe, try to make efforts and go outside to meet women. Now, I do know about the way men are told by feminists, society that they are all predators, rapists who must be locked in cages. I know there are a lot of risks when you approach a woman. But, the only thing I can say is, try your best to read your interlocutor body language,  really. If she is busy, not receptive, my man, time to move on. -Do not be in a rush. Do not feel like you must approach even if you do not feel confident at the moment. It is okay to take things slowly. It is okay to wait till you feel comfortable enough to approach the woman who caught you attention. Go at your own path. -Do not expect that, just because you have made a move, it must work and the woman will accept to give you her phone number. Keep in mind that, she might not find you attractive, she might have a partner, she might give you a fake phone number. -do not throw a tantrum. Do not overreact to a woman telling you no, do not try to harm her. Would like it if another man decide to harm your mother, your sister just because she told him no? Would like it if a woman you are not interested in at all, started to physically harm you, just because you told her no? Be a respectful human being.

What if she is the kind of woman who like to say no, but by no she actually means that she wants me to be a bit persistent? If you think you are a mind reader who can detect this type of women, go for it. Otherwise, if you do not want to get in trouble, as soon as a woman tells you no, move on.

Keep in mind that if you want a relationship, you have take the risk of putting yourself out there and approach women. If you do not? Oh well, less competition for the other men who do it.

Another way, is trying to ask for help from your male or female friends. You can ask them to link  you up with some of the women they know who might be single. This way is suited for men who do not know where to go to find women to approach.

Women mostly will never know nor understand what it is like to be a man in the dating scene today. They do not have to sympathise either. After all they are not expect to make a move or any other thing. They just have to wait till they get an offer and just say yes or no. They are not the one expected to know everything, to be experienced in relationship, to know their way around a woman body. That is why a lot of women are disgusted by the idea of virgin men (the older you are, the worst). They will see as a proof that those men must be socially inept, has not been found attractive by a single woman to at least have sex with them, or that those men must be misogynist incels, that is why no woman wants them. This is an example of what I just wrote https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wlq3jk/q4w_would_you_say_most_or_all_men_can_be_great/ijuxa0a?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3

Oh, stupid me. According to some women on here, women approach men and make the move on a regular basis. They say that if you have not been approached yet, it means you are not attractive and have not been judged worth the risk by any woman. Also keep in mind that, a lot of women (if not all) see men as the enemy. Remember? Patriarchy. Men have done bad to women since the beginning of life. Also all men are privileged. So now it is time for women revenge. So , why would women try to sympathise with men issues in the dating scene?

I believe my post is already to long, so I will stop there. I will just add those points -try your best to go outside and start to approach women. -try to ask for help from your male and female friends, in case they might know some single women. -when you approach a woman, be respectful, be your self. Make to read her body language so that you can back off if she is not at ease. -be prepared to be told no or to be given a fake phone number. It will affect your confidence. It hurts. But such is a man life. You have to accept that and move. -DO NOT GET VIOLENT WHEN A WOMAN TELLS YOU NO. MEN NEED TO STOP THAT. ACCEPT THE NO, AND GO AWAY. NO NEED TO PHYSICALLY ABUSE WOMEN.

If you have any questions, you can ask. I or any other user can give you answer.

Edit: my first award on reddit. Thanks for the award kind stranger.