I guarantee there will be comments saying “hAve a ConVerSatiOn” disgusting 🤢😡

radsera99 · 2021-05-01T23:05:08+00:00

This is rape? He’s a fucking animal. Men that want to see women in pain or crying are twisted. I really wish she had seen that. This is what kink culture has created. Men expressing their desire to physically and emotionally abuse their female partners is acceptable. If BDSM wasn’t a thing I doubt she would’ve agreed to this and would’ve recognised it for the sickness it is. I really hope someone tells her that he abused her.

radsera99 · 2021-05-01T23:06:53+00:00

Her not taking as much pain as he wanted her to was a compromise?? FUCK BDSM AND FUCK PORN.

millennialpink2000 · 2021-05-01T23:49:34+00:00

He got even more turned on by her using the safe word. He loved it. He loved every second of hitting his wife so hard she passed out from the pain. I can't even.

NumberOneWetBlanket · 2021-05-01T23:05:48+00:00

Knew the end before even getting to end. I was like "let me guess, she finally agrees to go beyond her boundaries and he won't respect her safe word."

I am so tired of reading stories where men throw tantrums like children because their depraved sexual fantasies aren't being met and I'm tired of other women caving in to this bullshit instead of dumping these scrotes. NEVER EVER go beyond your sexual boundaries. If some dude tries to convince you otherwise, get the hell out.

gingerwabisabi · 2021-05-01T22:59:47+00:00

wtf, I can't even imagine how terrible it must have been to pass out. He needs to be in jail the rest of his life. Danger to society.

ConnectBlueberry9276 · 2021-05-01T23:00:13+00:00

Go to the police! This is rape! And physical abuse!

_differentmentality_ · 2021-05-01T23:02:16+00:00

This is the type of shit kink allows men to get away with. This is the type of men it attracts.

Infamous-Helicopter7 · 2021-05-01T23:23:46+00:00

This story should be in a police report, not in an advice sub on reddit.

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the-lonely-spirit · 2021-05-02T00:37:10+00:00

I swear, I see relationships where a woman is in so deep she can't see how abominable the male is being.

Like, he wants her to CRY and push her to her breaking point and she still cares about his needs. How are alarm bells not going off?

Just throw the whole man out...or better yet, tie him down and slap him and see how he likes it!

lansburysoda · 2021-05-01T23:05:23+00:00

He should go to prison

favoritesound · 2021-05-01T23:42:01+00:00

Yeah this is physical abuse or assault. Time to file a police report. Then he’d be less likely to do it again to the next woman.

Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2021-05-01T23:10:26+00:00

She. Needs. To. RUN!

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2021-05-01T23:50:11+00:00

This is rape.

3lbsofjewelry · 2021-05-02T01:57:43+00:00

I'm crying for this woman. She's married to a monster!

AyemHerself · 2021-05-02T02:03:05+00:00

Boo fucking hoo, his needs weren't met.

Ladies, if your partner NEEDS to put you through main and misery, fucking RUN.

Throwawayrightaway28 · 2021-05-02T06:16:54+00:00

Which just goes to show you, it was never about men "needing" sex or submission. They were married. She did everything he asked sexually and became his submissive against her own desires. And he still manipulated her into a situation where she couldn't fight back, then brutally beat and r^ped her. Because in his own words, "that's what he needed to do to get off." These scrotes hate women. That's their fantasy, harming us. Not kinky sex. That kink BS is just an excuse and a cover for their real desires.

W1nniethebish · 2021-05-01T23:01:25+00:00

Jesus.

karaokekiller · 2021-05-02T02:39:00+00:00

Oh my gosh 😢

How hard and how much must he have hit her to make her pass out?! I can't even imagine. And she'll be covered in welts and bruises and probably broken skin and it'll take weeks for her skin to heal, let alone the mental trauma.

I can't even.

womandatory · 2021-05-02T04:00:04+00:00

That post made me physically sick in my stomach. The fact she had to ask what to do. SMH.

aquietsword · 2021-05-02T05:29:41+00:00

I'm so thankful FDS yoinked any interest in bdsm right outta me

2021-05-02T00:02:33+00:00

Wow lib fems and kinksters have women thinking that they have to “take more pain”. Apparently if you don’t accidentally die at the hands of a sadist you aren’t sex positive.

rawwwrrrgghh · 2021-05-02T10:21:02+00:00

I just can’t.... Did you put attention to the language she uses? “I am always trying to improve myself”, “please him more”, “I have learned to take some pain”

I feel so sorry for her. Brainwash completed. This is just so hard. Because it’s not only about how he hit her into unconsciousness, but all the things she said above. She sees herself as something, no not someone!, to be used by men to please them. Not once did she talk about her pleasure. Only about what she can take.

Somebody save her

flannel_cure · 2021-05-02T04:16:12+00:00

What the hell. He tortured this poor woman for his enjoyment. She needs to RUN and he needs to be in prison.

FreshStarter0 · 2021-05-02T12:06:19+00:00

I am furious reading this; literally shaking. I looked up the post and although it is deleted, I found how it ends:

"Once I recovered enough to be able to talk we had a huge fight and he expressed zero regrets, in his view he did what he needed to do in order to get what he wanted. He thought it was okay that he tricked me into it. We argued for hours and then I gave him the silent treatment over the entire weekend. Yesterday he told me to stop being a bitch about it and we had another big fight. I don't know how we're going to be able to recover from this. I'm sick and tired of everything. What should I do?"

I really hope this woman is okay.

IAteTheDragon · 2021-05-02T09:11:29+00:00

How the fuck is this normalized? Fuck this shit, fuck these deviant perverts, this should be fucking illegal. Fucking hell! 🚷⛔⚠️

spicyspa · 2021-05-02T03:09:50+00:00

That's terrifying.

CrepeCraze · 2021-05-02T05:14:36+00:00

This made me very VERY sad.

seadragon6 · 2021-05-02T14:10:03+00:00

I couldn’t even finish reading this. FUCK someone please help this woman. This is abuse and he needs to be put away.

shutup201 · 2021-05-02T03:13:22+00:00

I cannot believe the state of sexual encounters these days. The shit men want from women is beyond degrading. The norm is bad enough, but now it's straight up...I want to beat your ass until you cry and pass out. How..HOW...did we get here? We need a hard reboot.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-05-02T05:38:31+00:00

That’s not “kinky” that’s torture.

shoesfromparis135 · 2021-05-02T19:25:13+00:00

I blame 50 Shades for romanticizing this bullshit. This poor woman.

alife404 · 2021-05-02T22:03:41+00:00

This is so fucked up I could cry. I just want to give her a hug so bad. Everytime I get second thoughts about FDS I hear about one of these stories. She did not deserve this. That man deserves to burn and die. She needs to call the police

throwaway32132134 · 2021-05-04T03:20:02+00:00

So, these are the main things that are just fucked to me:

Why is THEIR sex life only about his pleasure? There's no mention of him trying to be better for her in the bedroom?

Why are they continuing with painful sex acts when she has specifically said she doesn't like it? Could it be he doesn't care what she wants? 😨 Shocking right?

The level of pain he wants keeps increasing.... If he's obsessed with pain why doesn't he be the one getting gagged and hit??

The fact that he is turned on from her being in pain.

The fact that he is turned on from her being in so much pain she passed out instead of being disgusted with himself...

The fact that he intentionally ignored the safe word.

She passed out from the pain and he had zero regrets....

God, I'M SO TIRED. Men s*xually assault women left and right and there very rarely are consequences. It's become so normalized, especially if you are in a relationship with them. It's really disgusting. Vomit worthy.

suspended_animation_ · 2021-05-02T18:24:02+00:00

There's so much that I want to say.. Unfortunately my response wouldn't be appropriate here. All I know, is if I was her... and his guard was down... Skip the scene... I would end up in prison.

crazykitten27 · 2021-05-02T20:49:24+00:00

I hope she leaves him and finds her way here!) Poor woman🥺

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Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-05-01T23:22:22+00:00

No offence but this is what you get when you willingly date a sadist. It is not natural for men to want to see their partner in pain. They should want to protect you from pain, not put you in it. He doesnt care one single bit for her and its obvious. Men like this deeply hate women, can you imagine how much youd have to hate men to do stuff like this to them?

burpleseaurchin · 2021-05-02T00:40:22+00:00

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Title	I guarantee there will be comments saying “hAve a ConVerSatiOn” disgusting 🤢😡
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Comments	88
Date	May 1, 2021 10:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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