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Kentucky lawmaker’s bill forces men to get note from wives before purchasing Viagra

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February 20, 2017
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Title Kentucky lawmaker’s bill forces men to get note from wives before purchasing Viagra
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Date February 20, 2017 3:36 PM UTC
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[–]libbylibertarian 407 points408 points409 points 9 years ago (212 children) | Copy Link

It's a protest bill in response to, what this "lawmaker" thinks is a double standard forcing woman to consult with a doctor 24 hours prior to an abortion. I suppose she'd have a leg to stand on if government was suggesting woman get a note from their husband's before getting that next abortion.

[–]by_myself 169 points170 points171 points 9 years ago (58 children) | Copy Link

Getting pills for E.D. and getting an abortions are not anywhere near the same thing. If women had to see a doctor and get a note from their husbands before getting a dildo it might be closer to the same.

[–]DeepDelete 31 points32 points33 points 9 years ago (51 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't have to be a 1:1, if it isn't their body, people need to back the fuck off.

These people don't give one single fuck about all the kids that are being poisoned in Flint and other cities, but give a fuck if a woman needs an abortion? Double standard bullshit.

[–]jeegte12 47 points48 points49 points 9 years ago (34 children) | Copy Link

well that's a terrible argument. "they don't care about that thing, so they shouldn't care about this thing"?

[–]scyth3s 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

How about "they don't care about poisoning of entire towns but abortion is sooo immoral to them."

[–]jeegte12 19 points20 points21 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

but we're not talking about poisoning towns. the topic was abortion. why are identity politics so popular? why can't we just discuss ideas instead of people?

[–]scyth3s 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link

We're talking about the selection of which human beings pro lifers care about, because it clearly isn't all of us. I don't see how that isn't self evident.

[–]jeegte12 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

i'm not sure why which human beings they care about matters. does that affect their argument somehow?

[–]scyth3s 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Because at that point it isn't pro life. Most of them aren't trying to help the poor kids who have parents that should have aborted but couldn't.

It's about muh religion, not pro life.

[–]jeegte12 14 points15 points16 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

but this has nothing to do with their pro-life arguments. in a discussion about abortion, the topic should be abortion, not the debater's character.

[–]scyth3s2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The idea is that abortion it's murder. They demonstrate not caring about the lives of already living kids. Further, if they were pro birth control it would make sense and add validity. You know, prevent murders.

[–]Humulus_Lupulus19925 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I think most of anyone would prefer birth control over abortions. The issue surrounding these topics are very different. They don't want to pay for birth control.

Important distinction

[–]Humulus_Lupulus19922 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You are 100% right. They are just trying to remain intellectually lazy by tying to unrelated things together.

X is apparently okay, and because I think that all people on the other side of the argument are one collective, it must mean they are hypocrites for disliking y.

[–]shifty43214 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I live quite close to Flint. I happen to care about BOTH of these issues, quite strongly. Pro-life means Pro Life all the time, and you are quite wrong to assume that those who are pro-life when it comes to abortion suddenly don't care about whats happening in Flint, or anywhere else in the world for that matter.

You fight battles that you can, I cant fight the AIDS epidemic in Africa, doesn't mean I suddenly don't care, or am unconcerned. People, even "religious" ones, aren't as one dimensional as you seem to think they are.

[–]Source_or_gtfo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't see how that isn't self evident.

Because it's a point-scoring generalisation, not an actual truth.

The majority of those with a pro-life view being hypocrites (or using religious rather than secular morality in their reasoning) is not an actual valid argument against a pro-life position, it's just a dumb circlejerk.

I'm from Ireland, abortion is illegal here (it's a short plane/boat ride away - out of sight, out of mind). There used to be a very powerful socially conservative religious lobby, but in terms of things like welfare/healthcare/3rd level education etc. there's never been a "religious right" like there is in the US, not that Ireland is amazing at these things, just in line with the rest of western Europe (which is "left" by American standards).

I find it hard to imagine that a sizeable chunk of pro-life Americans aren't the same as pro-life people here, with some even being generally socially liberal too. I know quite a few people who voted yes for gay marriage who would vote no for abortion.

[–]DeepDelete 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

More like "this shows they are disingenuous and are just trying to push their religious views onto others".

Their dedication to "pro-life" (which isn't pro-life at all) disappears as soon a child slides out. At that point, fuck it. Doesn't matter if the woman dies (how very pro-life of them), if a family is without a mother, or if the child was already dead.

Hypocritical, delusional, and disingenuous.

[–]KLuke642 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well I'm a pro-life person. I wish there was no death penalty, no war, AND no abortion. If the mother or child would die during child birth its a topic for serious discussion. If both would die then there is no discussion. Pro life doesn't mean no abortions to me. In my mind it is asking which action preserves the most life. Before we fix abortion laws (and they need fixing) we need to fix general healthcare for expectant mothers.

[–]NotCindyBrady -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"If the mother or child would die during child birth its a topic for serious discussion." Yes, among the parents and their medical team. Not politicians and not you.

[–]KLuke642 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's what I meant

[–]Funcuz -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, parents seems an odd word choice here but whatever. I'm not the least bit religious but I'm against abortion on the grounds that we don't know when a fetus becomes a baby. I mean I'd rather err on the side of caution so as not to be a murderer even if the law allows me to be.

Prove it's not a baby and sure, kill away.

[–]jeegte12 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

and irrelevant to the discussion. none of that changes their argument.

[–]DeepDelete -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

They have no argument. Their argument is like asking "what is 5 + 5" and they answer with "I think blue is a better color than red".

[–]jeegte12 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

you're saying pro-life people have no argument?

[–]DeepDelete -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm saying their argument has no merit.

If they want to have a base to stand on, then shit like Flint (which stuff like that is happening all over the place...) and the push toward anti-sex ed/birth control wouldn't happen since sex ed/birth control lowers the number of abortions.

They talk the talk but don't walk the walk. Just because they think their imaginary friend wants them to.

[–]jeegte12 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

well that's not a very healthy way to have a debate. "i'm just right, they need to understand that, and until they do, i'm going to disparage and berate them."

[+]Jnk1296 points 9 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

Not necessarily, but their 'argument' is based entirely on personal beliefs based around religion, which, in a government which supposedly is based around the separation of church and state, really shouldn't have much standing.

[–]jeegte12 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

so you're saying that all pro-life people are pro-life because of religion?

[–]maniclurker 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No, it's based on the idea that terminating a future human life is a moral concern.

The problem, is that you don't know shit about your opposition. You lend poorer arguments for it.

[–]Temperfuelmma 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think any action that can be taken that are dangerous to the fetus or the pregnant woman should be banned imo but it's okay because you can have a different opinion from me without offending me.

[–]eletheros -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Their dedication to "pro-life" (which isn't pro-life at all)

That's a silly complaint. "Pro choice" are anything but pro choice. They just don't want to admit they are pro abortion.

I, on the other hand, am pro abortion.

[+]maniclurker -7 points-6 points-5 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm an atheist, and I view abortion as a moral concern. I believe it's pragmatically expedient, but an issue that we will need to thoroughly address as a society, at some future date.

Now, try to tell me I'm pushing my "religious" view. You're feminized. Many leftists are.

[–]DeepDelete -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The issue isn't about abortion. The issue is that people want to tell others what to do based on religious views...

But they don't really want to fix the problem, they don't want to help people (or kids) after the fact, and they don't really give a shit. They just want to feel superior for a moment and grandstand. If they gave a fuck they would help push the country in a direction that continued to reduced the need for abortions in the first place (sex education and birth control) instead of trying to push the country in a way that will push more women toward abortions.

[–]maniclurker 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh? You just made the statement that people want to legislate abortion due to their religious views. I countered your argument by stating my negative position on abortion as an atheist.

Once again, I don't subscribe to your feminized world view. No one is "pushing" women to anything. They are adult human beings. I refuse to infantilize them, and alleviate them of the responsibility of their actions. Not being able to financially support a child properly, or just not wanting it, doesn't morally justify abortion.

All of your arguments really blow, and are based on generalizations of your opposition.

[–]theGentlemanInWhite -4 points-3 points-2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No you have his logic backward. He's saying they care about abortion for attention while ignoring the real atrocities.

[–]KLuke642 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The Kentucky legislature can do nothing about the water of Flint Michigan.

[–]DeepDelete 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That isn't at all what has been said.

[–]jonnytechno 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

if it isn't their body, people need to back the fuck off.

Then they should remember that saying when it come to male genital mutilation

[–]DeepDelete -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, but at least there are medical benefits and it doesn't actually mutilate anything.

the infliction of serious damage on something.

Sorry, but circumcisions don't damage anything.

[–]jonnytechno 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Note: The vast majority of these links from reputable scientific journals, with peer-reviewed research.

1: Women prefer intact penises. And elsewhere you can find men do as well!

Source: http://www.healthcentral.com/drdean/408/60750.html

http://www.cirp.org/library/anatomy/ohara/

2: Masturbation feels better.

Source: http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/

3: Circumcision significantly reduces sensitivity.

Source: http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2006.06685.x/epdf

http://www.livescience.com/1624-study-circumcision-removes-sensitive-parts.html

4: Despite the reduced sensitivity, there is no change to lasting longer during sex.

Source: http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2005.00070.x/abstract;jsessionid=E233A9E106A9 A6D724B4E3606446784E.d03t01

5: Cut men have a more difficult time fapping.

Source: http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2005.00070.x/abstract;jsessionid=E233A9E106A9

Which was the reason it was promoted in the USA in the first place.

http://english.pravda.ru/science/health/27-03-2006/77873-circumcision-0/

6: Circumcision increases risk of erectile dysfunctions.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/sites/entrez?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=14979200&dopt= Abstract|

7: If too much skin is removed in circumcision, it can make the penis smaller since the dong needs some skin to expand during an erection:

http://www.altermd.com/Penis%20and%20Scrotal%20Surgery/buried_penis.htm

http://www.drgreene.com/azguide/inconspicuous-penis

8: Circumcision does not lower the risk of AIDS.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22096758/

9: Circumcision is more hygienic. Who the heck doesn't clean their penis? It's a three second job you do when you shower so this is not a valid argument. Women produce 10 times as much smegma as men - so it's OK to amputate an infant girls' labia lips so she doesn't have to wash them??

10: Circumcised foreskin sold to cosmetic manufacturers for profit:

http://voices.yahoo.com/human-foreskins-big-business-cosmetics-201840.html

11: Erectile dysfunction 4.5 times more likely to occur if you're circumcised

http://www.thewholenetwork.org/14/post/2011/08/does-circumcision-cause-erectile-dysfunction.html etc

12: Stanford's school of medicine list of circumcision complications (including infection, haemorraging, skin-bridging, phimosis, amputation and death):

http://newborns.stanford.edu/CircComplications.html

13: Cut infants get long-term changes in pain response from the trauma of being circumcised

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9057731

14: Circumcision decreases penile sensitivity

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23374102?dopt=Abstract

15: Circumcision associated with sexual difficulties

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21672947

16: Circumcision linked to alexithymia

http://www.mensstudies.com/content/2772r13175400432/?p=a7068101fbdd48819f10dd04dc1e19fb&pi=4

17: The exaggeration of the benefits of circumcision in regards to HIV/AIDS transmission

http://jme.bmj.com/content/36/12/798.abstract

18: Circumcision/HIV claims are based on insufficient evidence

http://www.4eric.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/MC.pdf

19: There is no case for the widespread implementation of circumcision as a preventative measure to stop transmission of AIDS/HIV

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1753-6405.2011.00761.x/full

20: Circumcision decreases sexual pleasure

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17155977

21: Circumcision decreases efficiency of nerve response in the glans of the penis

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17378847

22: Circumcision policy is influenced by psychosocial factors rather than alleged health benefits

http://www.circumcision.org/policy.htm

23: Circumcision linked to pain, trauma, and psychosexual sequelae

http://www.cirp.org/library/psych/boyle6/

24: Circumcision results in significant loss of erogenous tissue

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8800902

25: Circumcision has negligible benefit

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9091693

26: Neonatal circumcision linked to pain and trauma

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9057731

27: Circumcision may lead to need for increased care and medical attention in the first 3 years of life

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9393302

28: Circumcision linked to psychological trauma

http://www.cirp.org/library/psych/goldman1/

29: Circumcision may lead to abnormal brain development and subsequent deviations in behaviour

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10657682

30: CONCLUSIONS: This study confirms the importance of the foreskin for penile sensitivity, overall sexual satisfaction, and penile functioning: Furthermore, this study shows that a higher percentage of circumcised men experience discomfort or pain and unusual sensations as compared with the uncircumcised population.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23374102?dopt=Abstract

31: CONCLUSIONS: Circumcision was associated with frequent orgasm difficulties in Danish men and with a range of frequent sexual difficulties in women, notably orgasm difficulties, dyspareunia and a sense of incomplete sexual needs fulfilment.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21672947

32: CONCLUSION: There was a decrease in masturbatory pleasure and sexual enjoyment after circumcision, indicating that adult circumcision adversely affects sexual function in many men, possibly because of complications of the surgery and a loss of nerve endings.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17155977

33: CONCLUSIONS: The glans of the circumcised penis is less sensitive to fine touch than the glans of the uncircumcised penis. The transitional region from the external to the internal prepuce is the most sensitive region of the uncircumcised penis and more sensitive than the most sensitive region of the circumcised penis. Circumcision ablates the most sensitive parts of the penis.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17378847

Edit : thus was put together by a fellow MRA and I copied and pasted it for you

[–]Funcuz 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh...so your body is still your mother's? That's the argument you're making. Either babies and fetuses are the sole property of the woman pregnant or they're separate entities within the mother's body.

I've never understood how people can forget this fundamental fact of biology. It's in her body. That doesn't make it property.

Oh, and no, I'm not an anti-abortionist, either.

The difference is also that Flint isn't something people have any sort of ethical wrestling match about. It's not a matter of national policy because it's already been addressed through legislation drawn up years ago. That it was ignored is another matter entirely.

[–]DeepDelete -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh...so your body is still your mother's?

Wow... Ima stop you right there. How ass backwards do you have to be to try and make this claim lol. Like, hot shit, you wow that's some grad A bass ackery.

[–]Funcuz 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's your argument, not mine. Cognitive dissonance and how to recognize it there, buddy.

[–]marauderp 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm absolutely 100% pro-abortion but your argument is bullshit.

[–]maniclurker 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Not everyone submits to your ideologies concerning abortion. Abortion is morally ambiguous. That's the reason why it's such a hotly contested subject, in spite of western society bringing equality to women in every other concern.

Also, Flint has nothing to do with "not giving a fuck", and everything to do with "not having the budget to deal with it". There's also the matter of whether or not it's the rest of society's concern. People in Flint can move. Whether or not they choose to do so does not affect the moral ambiguity of abortion.

[–]DeepDelete -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Do you think Flint is the only place having issues. News flash, I'm from Ky and there are tons of places that are poisoning people. There are tons of places where kids are growing up on bologna for three meals a day. There are plenty of places where kids (until the ACA) didn't have health insurance... But fuck them once they slide out of their mother. Not their problem anymore.

Flint, is an example, that shit is happening all over the damn country including Kentucky.

[–]maniclurker 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Flint, is an example, that shit is happening all over the damn country including Kentucky.

What, irresponsible people having kids that they can't support financially? Listen, I can just extrapolate your argument, and say that we, as a society, should legislate the murder the people who we can't financially support.

All of your arguments against abortion will always be weak, and will always boil down to, "I think we should be able to." Which is fine, but don't try to dress it up as anything else. Furthermore, abortion is legal, and will likely remain so. As such, there's really no argument to be had.

[–]DeepDelete -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It has nothing to do with abortion at its base. I don't care either way really.

What I care about is person freedom and health. The argument against abortions is based on religion, a personal opinion on an imaginary friend, not on any rational thought.

The argument against abortion on a medical side, the health of the woman, is always ignored. If a woman is going to die because she can't have an abortion, that living person has a right to save themselves.

This could be about smoking joints, drinking beer, going sky diving, or anything else that is none of anyone else's fucking concern.

The fact that they try to argue against abortion and yet don't want to do anything to prevent them, at least nothing that has been proven to work, just shows how little merit they have. The fact that they don't want to help the child (or family) after the child is forced to be born shows that the issue had nothing to do with caring or trying to help, but about their imaginary friend telling them to be assholes for the sake of being assholes.

Don't have an abortion that kills a fetus, let that fetus be born and then slowly kill it. Yeah, that's real fucking humane.

[–]maniclurker 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know why you keep making the same dumb arguments. I've already refuted your position concerning the legislation of abortion based off of religious ideologies. That's like saying murder is illegal because of religion.

I guess your "debate tactic" is to ignore rebuttals that shut down your arguments, and argue with people that aren't involved in the discussion.

How fat are you?

[–]thefilthyhermit 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Unless one of those cities is in Kentucky, why would Kentucky lawmakers be worried about it? It's not their citizens with bad water. It's not their problem to solve.

[–]DeepDelete 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually a lot of cities have this same problem... But on the other note... Yeah, fuck em, fuck everyone that doesn't live right here. It isn't like we are one country or anything like that... But yeah, fuck those humans to death!

[+]libbylibertarian -26 points-25 points-24 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Not everyone gets them for erectile dysfunction. I got them once just to see what would happen.

[–]by_myself 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you have a big shit-eating grin in your face for 4 hours or longer like the guy in the commercials?

[–]Zero4505 12 points13 points14 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I use them so I can stop peeing in my slippers

[–]chakan2 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Me too...it's a lot easier to wipe off my chest than wash my shoes.

[–]RubyOrchid13 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I got one stuck in my throat last night. Woke up with a stiff neck.

[–]NOT_A_SENTIENT_DILDO 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And this somehow makes his argument invalid?

[–]topsecreteltee 113 points114 points115 points 9 years ago (71 children) | Copy Link

This is the "two wrongs don't make a right" lesson we teach children.

[–]zombie2uRBX 46 points47 points48 points 9 years ago (65 children) | Copy Link

The bill hasn't been passed and its just showing the absurdity of the othey

[–]Terminal-Psychosis 17 points18 points19 points 9 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

The absurdity of what "othey" (assuming "other")?

That women have free will to choose an abortion, or not, is fully OK.

What is NOT ok, is that men are completely at the mercy of her decision. Hell, even men that can prove it is not their child are very often forced to pay 18 long years of child support!

And if they cannot, debtor's prison, in the very true sense of the words. :(

We desperately need equality in reproductive rights.

If a man wants to keep the baby and the woman does not, he should not be able to force her into that 9 months of slavery.

Neither should a woman that wants to keep the child, be able to force the man into 18 years of slavery.

As things stand, we have an extremely biased, institutional sexism in the court and prison system. Against men.

[+]maniclurker -7 points-6 points-5 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Your arguments are better without the pedantry. I'd suggest you leave it out.

[–]Terminal-Psychosis -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

pedantry

Definitinon: excessive concern with minor details and rules.

There was none of that at all in anything I said.

Quite the opposite. I'm talking about very important issues of inequality, actually institutionalized sexism, that victimize a huge portion of the population.

[–]maniclurker 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The absurdity of what "othey" (assuming "other")?

This was pedantic and unnecessary. Your denial is pointless, because there it is. We all understood full well it was a typo.

[–]Terminal-Psychosis -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Completely off topic and uninteresting.

What we really all understand is, again:

If a man wants to keep the baby and the woman does not, he should not be able to force her into that 9 months of slavery.

Neither should a woman that wants to keep the child, be able to force the man into 18 years of slavery.

As things stand, we have an extremely biased, institutional sexism in the court and prison system.

[–]maniclurker 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

That's the point. Your pedantry was completely off topic and uninteresting. It lent nothing to your argument, except to show that you're a jack ass.

[–]This_is_not_Jesus 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (57 children) | Copy Link

It's not exactly absurd to make someone consider whether or not they want an abortion.

[–]geniice 53 points54 points55 points 9 years ago (33 children) | Copy Link

In the real world people do put quite a bit of consideration into having an abortion. Forcing people to consult a doctor at least 24 hours before hand is a fairly transparent attempt to make abortion more difficult (since you've got to find a doctor to agree to talk you and take more time off work to see them).

[–]This_is_my_phone_tho 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it's called obstructionism.

[–]CyberSoldier8 32 points33 points34 points 9 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

I had to consult my local county clerk and judge 5 months in advance and pay more than $200 in fees just to buy a handgun, and somehow all the liberals I talk to don't think that too difficult.

[–]geniice 15 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Handguns don't get more complicated if you delay buying them (and I've not run across any state what would have a 5 month waiting period for buying a gun).

[–]CyberSoldier8 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

NYS pistol permit application can take up to 6 months in my county, in some it takes longer than a year. in NYC you'll never get one unless you are rich and famous.

Not to mention you aren't even legally allowed to apply until you turn 21.

[–]ColonelVirus 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure, but you can throw away a defective gun or one you bought by mistake. Not really an emotional investment, compared to a child, unless you're a crazy gun toting nut case of course.

[+]geniice -6 points-5 points-4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Happily there are a range of far more effective guns that are not pistols.

[–]jeegte12 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

for every use?

[–]Endless_Summer 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's not the point. It was a valid comparison of obstruction of rights.

[–]cain8708 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Unless you are a female trying to get one because your ex boyfriend keeps walking through the restraining order that she placed against him. Especially in states where you cant buy a handgun without a firearms ID card, and that can take a while to get. But im sure its like you said, not a big deal.

[+]SwiggityStag -6 points-5 points-4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

24 hours isn't going to make an abortion more complicated.

[–]geniice 13 points14 points15 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Its not 24 hours. You've got to find a doctor (with an ultrasound setup) who will agree to consult within a reasonable distance to you and find time when you can both be availible for apointment. Given that for some reason not all doctors run their apointments timed to millisecond by atomic clocks you've got the issues that you need to leave a buffer of more than 24 hours.

Then you've got to get the time off work which presents a further challange.

[–]SaiHottari -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So unless your procrastinating like I did in highschool, two or three weeks. Still not much of a difference.

[+]theJigmeister points 9 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

I find this claim of needing a judge, county clerk, and 5 months to buy a gun dubious. Unless you were buying a Browning machine gun or needed to expunge some felonies first or something in which case that's perfectly reasonable.

[–]whambulance_man 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

New York has some fucked up gun laws, and if it was only 5 months I believe he actually was processed pretty quickly. New Jersey has similar hoops as well, I believe.

[–]just_zhis_guy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jersey resident, you are correct.

[–]just_zhis_guy 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jersey is fucking nuts. I looked into getting a handgun and said fuck it. It would honestly be easier for me to get an AR-15 like my friends than a 9mm.

[–]CyberSoldier8 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Welcome to New York State, where your rights are made up and the Constitution doesn't matter.

[–]smaches 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The thing is, you get an abortion with a doctor present, and you of course have a consultation beforehand. You can't just walk in and get a quicky abortion, this is a surgical procedure. The 24 hour consult bill is basically forcing the doctor to try and talk a woman out of an abortion which is a huge waste of time and resources, and just causes additional suffering for a woman already making a tough choice. Doctors aren't there to push agendas.

[–]Sasha_ 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually, I would have thought it was pretty sensible to require that the GP was aware of any planned surgical procedure. I mean, what if there was some risk to the patient in their medical history?

[–]smaches 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's not who is required to give the 'speech' though.

[–]Booty_Canoe 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Germany forces people to consult with Pro Familia (or similar registered organizations) before they are allowed to have an abortion for reasons other than the mother's health and you can only do it within 3 months.

I find that to be a very fair approach.

[–]NotMyProblemWoman 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Why?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Probably because an abortion is very big thing with wide ranging consequences, including sterilization.

[–]NotMyProblemWoman 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

any medical procedure has risks. Really, if someone wants a certain medical procedure done, and they have consulted a medical professional who is able to adequately educate them about risks, complications, etc., then it's kind of redundant and illogical to force them to consult with an organization that's almost unilaterally opposed to that medical procedure.

In the case of abortions, at the very least, it makes the process unnessarily complicated and beaurocratic, and at most (and this happens a lot) it causes large amounts of unnecessary psychological distress for the patient, who's almost definitely already experiencing significant amounts of that.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

any medical procedure has risks. Really, if someone wants a certain medical procedure done, and they have consulted a medical professional who is able to adequately educate them about risks, complications, etc., then it's kind of redundant and illogical to force them to consult with an organization that's almost unilaterally opposed to that medical procedure.

How would the doctor be against it? It's literally just a consultation, they didn't say they would need to go a Christian doctor at the RNC headquarters.

In the case of abortions, at the very least, it makes the process unnessarily complicated and beaurocratic, and at most (and this happens a lot) it causes unnecessary psychological distress for the patient, who's almost definitely already experiencing significant amounts of that.

That distress will be infinitely higher when they realize they'll never have children again because you are literally scraping off the wall of the uterus.

[–]NotMyProblemWoman1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

How would the doctor be against it? It's literally just a consultation...

Well yes, it's a consultation from an organization that has considerable bias, which could lead to a patient ultimately making a choice that isn't right for them. Any good doctor wouldn't be against seeking second opinions, but any good doctor would be against being forced to consult with an organization that doesn't strictly adhere to scientific principles and scientific ways of looking at medicine.

...they didn't say they would need to go a Christian doctor at the RNC headquarters.

I'm well aware, my point still stands.

That distress will be infinitely higher when they realize they'll never have children again because you are literally scraping off the wall of the uterus.

Source, and specifically source on uterus scraping causing infertility? I'm pretty sure I've actually never heard of this phenomenon before right now, which makes me suspect that it happens at pretty negligible rates.

[–][deleted]2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Well yes, it's a consultation from an organization that has considerable bias, which could lead to a patient ultimately making a choice that isn't right for them. Any good doctor wouldn't be against seeking second opinions, but any good doctor would be against being forced to consult with an organization that doesn't strictly adhere to scientific principles and scientific ways of looking at medicine.

There is no organization doing this, it's just a doctor's consultation.

I'm well aware, my point still stands.

No, it doesn't. If the bill states simply "you must go to a doctor" then the 'point' that they must go to an organization ideologically opposed to abortion is just wrong.

Source,

I didn't realize that people who wanted children but can't have them were totally okay with it.

and specifically source on uterus scraping causing infertility? I'm pretty sure I've actually never heard of this phenomenon before right now, which makes me suspect that it happens at pretty negligible rates.

Anyone who knows anything about the procedure knows what will occur.

The procedure entails scraping the undeveloped fetus off of the uterine wall. This can cause sterilization as later eggs no longer have the protective lining to nest in and will subsequently not fertilize because it's impossible. This is why most doctors worth their salt will never suggest abortion as a good solution to anything except as a last resort.

[–]NotMyProblemWoman1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

...then the 'point' that they must go to an organization ideologically opposed to abortion is just wrong.

Oh ok, it appears I misunderstood the original post I replied to a great deal. I was under the impression, due to the context of the post and due to how the ideas proposed in the post usually play out where I live, that Pro-Familia was a pro life organization. My apologies, I was totally, completely in the wrong there.

I didn't realize that people who wanted children but can't have them were totally okay with it.

I was talking about a source for the phenomenon of sterilization in regards to the procedure you mentioned, but I was a bit too ambiguous in my phrasing. You didn't need to respond with condescension over a simple misunderstanding of phrasing. I'm totally down for having a level headed discussion with you, you don't need to act like that.

The procedure entails scraping the undeveloped fetus off of the uterine wall. This can cause sterilization as later eggs no longer have the protective lining to nest in and will subsequently not fertilize because it's impossible. This is why most doctors worth their salt will never suggest abortion as a good solution to anything except as a last resort.

Thanks for the explanation (really, I'm not extremely well informed on this topic, as shown earlier), but do you have a source for those claims, and do you have a source that shows this is happening at more than just negligible rates?

[–][deleted]1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You didn't need to respond with condescension over a simple misunderstanding of phrasing. I'm totally down for having a level headed discussion with you, you don't need to act like that.

I did that mainly because you said "Source, and specifically source on uterus scraping", which comes across as two. I thought it silly that you would need a source on women being distraught about being sterile. I too like level headed discussion, but when something like that comes up I think it fairly okay to condescend seeing as it's a silly question, though you didn't mean it.

Thanks for the explanation (really, I'm not extremely well informed on this topic, as shown earlier), but do you have a source for those claims, and do you have a source that shows this is happening at more than just negligible rates?

Not much actually exists because it's not actually a well looked at topic (possibly owing to the lack of political will to do so. I've heard many organizations, especially feminist ones, espouse abortion as being risk free simply because it's easy to do so for their goals), but there are [case studies.] (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1154444/).

[–]NotCindyBrady1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Cite your source. This is quite a claim. Also, you know what's more dangerous than abortion? Childbirth.

[–][deleted]0 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Cite your source.

Read further down.

This is quite a claim.

Not really, if you know how an abortion works.

Also, you know what's more dangerous than abortion?

Eating a handgun?

Childbirth.

Which is entirely irrelevant. I never called for abortion to banned, and neither did the original proposal.

[–]Senray 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It really is, unless you support a similar requirement for every other minor medical procedure

[–]just_zhis_guy 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't mean to sound like a jerk but that's hilarious. Like zero thought goes into a woman making that decision she needs to be forced to think about it, but not for too long, just 24 hours.

[–]TurnOffTheNewsNRead 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It should be the woman's choice and no one else's. She shouldn't be FORCED to see a doctor to make her decision. Local governments need to fuck off and stop telling people what to do with their lives.

[–]zombie2uRBX 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

They've already considered when they go into get it and doctors put a lot of bias into it

[–]FastFourierTerraform 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What other procedure are you allowed to just show up and have done? I haven't seen anything that doesn't fall under emergency care that's much more serious than freezing a wart off. Some of the hoops that conservatives make are a little silly. You shouldn't be forced to watch a biased video before you do it. But it makes perfect sense to require someone to at least consult a doctor first.

[–]This_is_not_Jesus 13 points14 points15 points 9 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

An abortion is a medical procedure, it doesn't matter how much thought anyone puts into it a doctor will still know more about it.

An abortion is also something that will stop a human life from being lived, that's a fact that cannot be argued with no matter what your views are. Anything that makes people actually consider the consequences of such an important decision is a good thing in my opinion.

[–]just_zhis_guy 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

These types of comments are hilarious a kind of ignorant. To suppose that women don't consider the consequences on their own and need to be forced to is absurd.

[–]zombie2uRBX 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but thats your opinion. You see a doctor when you get the abortion. If you are getting the abortion and the doctor says it can't be done for any reason then so be it.

Your opinion is your opinion and you can put that on your children but my children aren't going to be affected by your opinion.

That's what's wrong with this sub. The world would be amazing if no ones opinion that hurt someone else was followed and we wouldn't need feminism or men's rights for that matter.

[–]This_is_not_Jesus -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

You want people to show up and have a medical procedure done without talking to a doctor? Would you have the same opinion if it was open heart surgery we were talking about?

[–]zombie2uRBX 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

No, the surgery is being done with a fucking doctor dipshit. They see fucking doctor so they talk about what is going to be done but it always ends up with the doctor saying "oh don't do it cause Jesus." Fuck that mentality. If someone wants to do something let them do it, people have different morals and people see things differently than each other. If they are operating with a scheduled operation and they say "This operation cannot be successful because of ______" then that's fine. But doctors will turn people away for moral reasons and just put another fucking kid in the system who will probably end up killing themselves.

[–]This_is_not_Jesus 12 points13 points14 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Is there really any need to call me a dipshit? Maybe you've had some bad experiences but any doctor I've dealt with has done what's best for the patient.

[–]zombie2uRBX-1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I'm just pissed off over a lot of shit rn it's been a bad day man

[–]jeegte121 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

is that a good excuse?

[–]originalSpacePirate 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

What doctors are you talking about? These arent special "religious" doctors preaching gospel during surgery. Your opinion is just so ignorant i dont know where to start. You dont just walk into a hospital and demand complicated surgery and the first doc thats available performs it no questions asked. You're meant to have consultation sessions with your doctor and often tests to ensure the procedure doesnt kill you. Where are you getting this ridiculous notion of doctors telling them they shouldnt have an abortion for religious reasons?

[–]Mmcgou10 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This actually happens a lot.

[–]SaiHottari2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

According to an isolated but vocal few. I've not seen a verified example of this actually happening. Just a lot of out of context videos and accusations. It sounds more erroneous than the claims of voter fraud by the DNC.

[–]3MillionIllegalVotes1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

In 2016, America has 11.1 million unauthorized/illegal immigrants.

Of those, 3.1 million live in states with ID requirements to vote (AZ/GA/KA/KS/IN/MS/ND/OH/TN/TX/WI), which leaves 8.0 million possible unauthorized adult voters.

Of those, 12.6% are unauthorized children, which leaves 7.0 million possible unauthorized adult voters.

Let's assume (as Trump does) that 100% voted Clinton and 0% had rejected ballots.)

Therefore, according to Trump, between 42.9% and 71.4% of unauthorized adults -- who live in utter fear that authorities will notice them -- registered and voted fraudulently. (Whereas just 58% of Americans voted.) And not a single one was reported for doing so: there were just four verified cases of voter fraud this election -- three of them for Trump.

And perhaps more importantly: After orchestrating the illegal votes of 3-5 million adults, Democrats forgot to put them in Wisconsin, Michigan, or Pennsylvania.

TLDR: 3-5 million illegal votes sounds really plausible, Mr. Trump.

[–]SaiHottari1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Alright, I'll come clean. I made the quip about voter fraud as a devils advocate to show empathy for someone seemingly left leaning. I honestly do believe in voter fraud, I just haven't verified it in such great detail. Thanks for the sources, though. I do appreciate it.

[–]Mmcgou11 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Any story about this will be just anecdotal, because there is no official position. But I will say this, having gone with my high school girlfriend to get one, yes, they tried to talk her out of it. It happens, a lot. Especially in the more religious, and conservative parts of the country, if you can find a provider in the first place.

[–]smaches0 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Because it happens. There are doctors that won't even proscribe birth control (and they legally can do that in many places) now imagine these same doctors being allowed to give the legally required 'talk a woman out f an abortion' speech.

[–]zombie2uRBX-2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I am talking about doctors from where I'm from. My sister they tried to persuade away from having an abortion and that shit hits close to me. She had it (thank god) but if not wouldn't be attending college where she is now or may not have gotten past High School. Doctors constantly try and persuade people and I'm not saying no questions asked. But those consultation sessions change course a lot.

[–]smaches -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

it removes a bunch of unwanted cells, not a life.

[–]just_zhis_guy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly.

[–]dissentforall 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How is it absurd if they are sharing health insurance costs? Most couples plan for families, so if she's trying to get a secret abortion, then it's likely the kid isn't even his. Abortions are on par with a minkt surgical procedure and the women aren't allowed to leave alone (atleast not here in Canada) due to the suicide risk.

[–]dungone 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Calling these "two wrongs" is a false equivalency. Depriving women of a right that men did not have to begin with is not the same as randomly lashing out at men who suffer from a legitimate medical condition.

If feminists wanted to "show men" just how important abortion rights were to them, they would be introducing bills for legal parental surrender.

[–]Lord_Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Whats the other wrong here?

[–]topsecreteltee 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The "I think they're doing something wrong so I'm going to do something I admit is wrong" attitude.

[–]atb1183 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then let's correct both wrongs, starting with one that is literally ruining lives

[–]MattLyte-3 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Comparing "modern women" to children is doing children a disservice

[–]locks_are_paranoid 43 points44 points45 points 9 years ago (65 children) | Copy Link

Consulting with a doctor before a medical procedure makes sense.

[–]JackBond1234 45 points46 points47 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, consulting the spouse who has equal guardianship over the child makes sense too.

[–]Benjamminmiller 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm not saying men shouldn't have input on abortions, but to call an unborn fetus a child is a stretch.

[–]JackBond1234 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's a stretch to say that a viable baby is granted child status by the vagina.

[–]Benjamminmiller -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would say it's a child when it can survive outside the womb.

[–]NibblyPig 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, it entirely depends on what the consultation is about. If it's one to discuss their feelings and ensure that this isn't a rash action caused by complete blind panic, and that it won't mentally screw them up a week later when they calm down, then I'm all for it.

If it's to preach about 'oh listen to your baby's heartbeat' and that kinda crap then I don't condone it.

[+]thewindandrain -10 points-9 points-8 points 9 years ago (59 children) | Copy Link

Requiring people to pay extra time and money if they want to access birth control does not. Abortions are already too difficult to access for the busy and impoverished working class. I guess you are out of touch with that.

[–]FeierInMeinHose 18 points19 points20 points 9 years ago (58 children) | Copy Link

Abortion is an invasive procedure, seeing a doctor before having it performed on you is very reasonable. Medically induced abortions use prescription drugs so having to see a doctor is a pretty obvious requisite.

Even for birth control pills seeing a doctor is important because they can make sure you're not showing any symptoms that may interfere with or be exacerbated by the hormonal treatment. There's a reason they're prescription drugs, and it's not so that poor people can't afford them.

It's about people's safety, not about oppressing the poor.

[+]AndaliteBandit points 9 years ago [recovered] (55 children) | Copy Link

What other medical procedures require by law a 24-72 hour waiting period between consulting a doctor and having the procedure performed?

[+]somelikeitinthetwat points 9 years ago [recovered] (13 children) | Copy Link

Vasectomies have a 30 day waiting period by law and you cannot get it unless you're 21 and older.

[+]AndaliteBandit points 9 years ago [recovered] (12 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for providing an example. There isn't a shrinking window of opportunity to obtain a vasectomy in the first place, but I didn't know that waiting periods were imposed by law in other states.

[+]somelikeitinthetwat points 9 years ago [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link

shrinking window of opportunity to obtain a vasectomy in the first place

The shrinking window of opportunity, unless you're an absolute moron, is a pretty large one. If you don't want kids, you should be on birth control. If something went wrong, you should get Plan B. If after all this, you still miss your period (which should happen around 2 weeks after the risky sex), you should immediately investigate why and if pregnant you should terminate. That would leave you a window of about 20 weeks to get an abortion.

[–]Tritonssecret 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Some doctors will flatly refuse a vasectomy if you are under 30 in the UK.

[+]somelikeitinthetwat points 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Here too, which I am OK with, no one should be forced to do something that is against their conscience. Women just assume it never happens to men though.

[–]Tritonssecret-1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yeah, I mean, I didn't know what I wanted at 25 and was thinking about the snip, but fifteen years later I was trying for a baby.

That speed bump wouldn't have stopped me if I'd #really# wanted the snip, but it stopped me making a rash and ill-considered decision.

[+]AndaliteBandit points 9 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

The shrinking window of opportunity, unless you're an absolute moron, is a pretty large one.

That depends on the state. While I was stationed in Arkansas, they passed a law banning abortion after 8 weeks gestation.

[+]somelikeitinthetwat points 9 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

While I was stationed in Arkansas, they passed a law banning abortion after 8 weeks gestation.

You have 22 weeks to get an abortion in Arkansas.

Is there a point you're trying to make or are you just playing a game of spewing alternative facts?

[–]AlternativFacts1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Thanks for using the Patriotically Correct (PC) term: Alternative Fact, fellow Patriot. You're making a Safer Space for Patriotic Discourse. Please enjoy this Mandatory Meme Dispensation.

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

A federal judge issued a temporary injunction against the Arkansas fetal heartbeat law in May 2013. In March 2014, it was struck down by Judge Susan Webber Wright, who described the law as unconstitutional.

http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2013/may/17/ark-heartbeat-abortion-law-blocked/

http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/03/15/arkansas-abortion-ban/6453807/

[–]Tritonssecret 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Actually, pretty much all of them will have some kind of waiting period built in because you need to book in to get the procedure.

However if you are looking to try to prove how men don't have to put up with this I'll refer you to the below document.

http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception-guide/pages/vasectomy-male-sterilisation.aspx

To make it clear, a vasectomy can be done quite quickly and easily in a GP surgery. Much like getting a mole removed. It is also reasonably easy to reverse. What you will find is no doctor will perform this on a first appointment. My brother had to have two appointments before it was even booked in.

This is not to make access to this type of birth control harder, or more expensive. It's too be sure that the patient fully understands the implications of the procedure and is not making a rash decision.

[–]Seicair 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It is also reasonably easy to reverse.

It's possible to reverse, but not guaranteed. It should be considered non-reversible birth control. Also, the odds of a reversal succeeding drop relatively quickly over the first 5 years after.

[–]Tritonssecret -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True. And this is the kind of information that a patient should consider before the op.

[+]PollywogJog points 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Note that these mandatory waiting periods are even imposed on women who have been referred to an abortion clinic for a D&C after miscarrying.

She must wait a day or three so that she can think long and hard about whether or not she wants to keep a dead fetus inside of her.

[–]Tritonssecret 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well that's just stupid. It should be changed to allow for that.

[+]AndaliteBandit points 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually, pretty much all of them will have some kind of waiting period built in

But not mandated by law.

This is not to make access to this type of birth control harder, or more expensive. It's too be sure that the patient fully understands the implications of the procedure and is not making a rash decision.

Perhaps the legislators behind these mandatory waiting periods genuinely had good intentions this time. However, you can see where that would be hard to believe when they are also behind bills mandating the size of janitor closets, or fetal heartbeat bills that ban abortion as early as 6 weeks gestation (1-2 weeks after the missed period, if she's lucky). They therefore have become the wolf who cried, "Women's health bill."

[–]Tritonssecret -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So what? You could make every non emergency operation have a 72 hour wait tomorrow, it won't stop any operation because many people have been waiting for that amount of time (and much more) already.

perhaps the legislators behind these mandatory waiting periods genuinely had good intentions this time.

I'm fairly sure they do as this waiting period will do more to protect women. If they are sure they want the abortion then it will happen. If they are having a fear reaction then that thinking time might change their mind, and if they are being coerced it might mean they have a chance to get help. It's impossible to unabort a baby.

If you are unhappy that legislation such as the size of a janitors closet (seriously?) is being passed then first of all stop selecting fucking idiots when you vote, second when you feel strongly about a subject that directly affects you then let your elected officials know, third don't support stupid ideas that don't affect you.

[–]FeierInMeinHose 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

None that I know of, but that's not the point I was arguing. He was arguing against having to see a doctor at all, not against the wait time. I think the wait time is completely arbitrary and is meant to deter women wanting abortions, but the doctor visit itself is medically necessary.

[–]NibblyPig 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (28 children) | Copy Link

Anything life changing the doctor would request you take some time to think about your decision.

[+]AndaliteBandit points 9 years ago [recovered] (27 children) | Copy Link

Then it sounds like it never needed to be mandated by law.

[–]Tritonssecret 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link

Sure, don't put a mandate in. The doctor could make you wait six weeks if they wanted to, or make you wait until you changed your mind, or suddenly a scan shows you are too far along and you must carry to term.

[+]AndaliteBandit points 9 years ago [recovered] (25 children) | Copy Link

The doctor could make you wait six weeks if they wanted to

Did that actually happen to women attempting to obtain an abortion before the mandatory waiting periods were enforced? Do you have a link?

[–]Tritonssecret 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

No I don't. I would expect that no doctor would be foolish enough to admit to any survey that they purposefully denied a procedure to a patient. The point is that if you don't set a period of time then it can be a case of wait until the doctors decide to do it. In some cases this will be "think it over, I'm going to lunch, see you in half an hour" and others could be longer because the doctor doesn't agree that the abortion should happen.

The rules aren't intentionally designed to humiliate anyone, the are supposed to do the following

1) ensure that the patient has been given the information needed to make an informed decision

2) ensure the patient has had a reasonable amount of time to consider that information

3) provide a clear deadline for when the patient cam expect their wishes to be carried out.

Can you point out exactly where it does not do the above?

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Why single out this procedure? There are a multitude of invasive, riskier medical procedures out there. So why not have legislators sit down and evaluate each one, determining how long of a mandatory waiting period should be legally enforced for each one?

And many states have apparently gotten along just fine without finding the need to impose such mandatory waiting periods. If they're necessary, how are these states managing without them?

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I notice you don't answer the question I've put.

Is it because you don't want to, or because you are unable to?

Why single out this procedure

Because most procedures that can be done in a couple of hours are simple and will not require reversing.

As another poster has said, in the US there is a mandatory period of waiting for other operations too, I notice you are not shouting about how unfair that is.

so why not have legislators sit down and evaluate each one

This is a good idea. Maybe then transgender people seeking surgery won't have to wait years.

how are these states managing without them?

It's your country, if you don't want inconsistent laws, change them.

Can you tell me how often you get an abortion instead of using birth control?

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Because most procedures that can be done in a couple of hours are simple and will not require reversing.

As simple as taking a pill and promptly being sent home? Because that's how an increasing number of abortions are performed these days, and even moreso outside of the US. It's how the majority of abortions are performed in England & Wales, the vast majority in Scotland and Sweden.

This is a good idea. Maybe then transgender people seeking surgery won't have to wait years.

No, they would still wait a substantial amount of time as they undergo hormonal therapy first.

That said, why do you believe that these legally mandated waiting periods are the maximum that can be imposed, rather than the minimum?

Can you tell me how often you get an abortion instead of using birth control?

Sure, the answer to that is never. The nationwide rate of unplanned pregnancies has been decreasing substantially for nearly a decade, while the nationwide rate of teen pregnancies has been steadily declining for decades. That's even in spite of the states that continue to have the highest rates, that curiously enough also mandate abstinence-only sex ed, if the teaching of sex ed is required at all.

Can you tell me why you felt the urge to ask?

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Sure, the answer to that is never.

Why is it so important to you as an issue then?

As simple as taking a pill and promptly being sent home?

Does having a mole removed have potential emotional effects?

No, they would still wait a substantial amount of time...

Exactly. You seem to think that there are no consequences for a decision, or that those consequences shouldn't be considered by the person making the decision. Nothing is further from the truth.

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Why is it so important to you as an issue then?

Would you ask this same question to an intactivist who isn't circumcised? I wouldn't, but I suppose that's just me.

You seem to think that there are no consequences for a decision, or that those consequences shouldn't be considered by the person making the decision.

I have never made that argument. If a doctor thinks that there should be a waiting period for whatever reason, I respect their judgement over a legislator imposing a mandatory minimum waiting period that you've been repeatedly confusing for a maximum. Do you believe that a legislator is more qualified to make that call over someone who's been to medical school?

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Do you think legislators don't consult doctors?

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

When there are legislators who thought a woman could swallow a small camera for a doctor to conduct a remote gynecological exam, or that women can't get pregnant from rape, I should hope they didn't get those ideas from doctors.

So you do believe that a legislator is more qualified to make that call over someone who's been to medical school?

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If my drain is blocked, I'll call a plumber.

It all comes down to the fact that you're voting for a moron to hold public office (maybe not you personally) Which brings us full circle to the original discussion.

If you support someone who puts forward ridiculous ideas, regardless of their intentions, you are opening the door for more idiocy coming into law.

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It all comes down to the fact that you're voting for a moron to hold public office (maybe not you personally) Which brings us full circle to the original discussion.

So why not leave it up to the discretion of the doctors themselves? There are many places such as Great Britain which have no waiting periods required by law for an abortion. How are they managing without such legislation?

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It's required by law that two doctors sign off the abortion before it takes place. This dual control creates a natural waiting period.

You get the sign of from your GP, who will then refer you for the abortion. Typically it's within a few days, but I'd be very surprised if it takes less than a day.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_the_United_Kingdom

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[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It's required by law that two doctors sign off the abortion before it takes place. This dual control creates a natural waiting period.

Which is not the same thing as having a minimum mandatory waiting period required by law.

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

No it is not. But there again under the American medical system you'd be required to pay two doctors for an abortion.

Do you really believe there should be no kind of reflection before abortion?

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

But there again under the American medical system you'd be required to pay two doctors for an abortion.

How is that relevant?

Do you really believe there should be no kind of reflection before abortion?

Maybe you're confusing me with someone else, because I've never made that argument.

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Pray tell, what is your argument?

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If a doctor thinks that there should be a waiting period for whatever reason, I respect their judgement over a legislator imposing a mandatory minimum waiting period.

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

And what happens when two doctors have differing opinions?

What do you do if your doctor decided that you wait for weeks?

[–]AndaliteBandit1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

And what happens when two doctors have differing opinions?

I'm sure that happens sometimes, how does that work out in Great Britain? How would a mandatory minimum waiting period resolve that?

What do you do if your doctor decided that you wait for weeks?

Are doctors doing that arbitrarily without a valid medical reason? If they're not, then what's the issue?

[–]Tritonssecret1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

how would a mandatory minimum waiting period resolve that

We don't have the waiting period because the method of ensuring the patient has had sufficient time to reflect on the information provided is different. If it was possible to do it with one doctor then we'd probably have a mandatory waiting period.

if they're not then what's the issue?

What is to prevent them?

[–]AndaliteBandit0 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If it was possible to do it with one doctor then we'd probably have a mandatory waiting period.

Now you're merely speculating.

What is to prevent them?

Nothing, including a mandatory minimum waiting period. How would that prevent a doctor from telling someone they have to wait weeks?

[–]Tritonssecret-1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

How your merely speculating.

Even you have admitted that there should be some thought gone in before committing to an abortion.

How would that prevent a doctor from telling someone they have to wait weeks?

Because if the period of waiting is fixed in law and your doctor tries saying anything different you'll have the law backing you up.

[–]AndaliteBandit0 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Because if the period of waiting is fixed in law and your doctor tries saying anything different you'll have the law backing you up.

You're conflating a minimum mandatory waiting period with a maximum waiting period.

[–]Tritonssecret-1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

No, i'm pointing out that as things stand the doctor will have to tell you that you need to take 24/72 hours.

If you change it to "the doctor should provide time for the patient to reflect on the information provided before carrying it the procedure" it is open to interpretation and may cause further problems/delays for people who require an abortion.

If you change it to "if a person requests an abortion it should be carried out as soon as possible" you are removing any sort of safeguards.

What would you like to happen?

[–]AndaliteBandit0 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

No, i'm pointing out that as things stand the doctor will have to tell you that you need to take 24/72 hours.

No, they are under no obligation to inform the patient of what the mandated minimum waiting period is. They are simply required to impose a minimum of 24-72 hours depending on the state. If your hypothetical doctor wanted to impose a waiting period of weeks at a time, there is nothing stopping him.

If you change it to "the doctor should provide time for the patient to reflect on the information provided before carrying it the procedure" it is open to interpretation and may cause further problems/delays for people who require an abortion.

Can you link to instances of this happening in Great Britain or other places that have no such minimum waiting periods?

[–]user1492 -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

What other medical procedure involves murdering someone?

[+]AndaliteBandit points 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

That sounds more like an argument in favor of overturning Roe v Wade, rather than an argument for women's health.

[–]user1492 -4 points-3 points-2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By golly, you're right!

Abortion is not about women's health, except for the roughly half of aborted children that are women.

[–]AustNerevar 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This isn't the debate we're having.

[+]thewindandrain -8 points-7 points-6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

As with everything its about money. Safety doesn't mean a damn unless it saves money

[–]FeierInMeinHose 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Alright then, I'm sure you're fine with mining companies dumping all of their wastes in the river, then, seeing as not doing that costs extra money and is only stopped because it's safer for people and the environment.

[–]iKILLcarrots 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's actually a thing happening places, with support even. In my state of Oklahoma. This is an actual fucking issue. Like, do you not understand the whole abortion conversation? People are trying to put laws in place to dictate what cells you have to carry in your body and what biological functions you have to do. That's not okay.

This is a bill intended to point out that thr reproductive rights conversations in our politics are not including the idea that women are people. That's a real issue that everyone should fight for, just like everyone should fight against circumcisions, male selective service enrollment, etc. Because any slight against some one's autonomy and freedom is a slight against all of us.

Willful ignorance is the downfall of every movement, if you seriously want to build a better future quit allowing yourself to be divided. I agree with a lot of what the MRA wants to achieve, the concepts of toxic masculinity and male disposability are things I'd change in an instant if I could, but nothing changes when you can't even be fucked to understand what is happening with the other half of the god damn conversation.

[–]just_zhis_guy 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I believe it's in response to Oklahoma (maybe?) trying to pass a bill that prohibits women from getting an abortion unless the man involved gives the okay.

[–]mwobuddy 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just like that one lawmaker who decided to make a bill making it illegal for women to work at hooters or strip clubs if over 25.

[–]T_Sam 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I believe it's a response to the Oklahoma lawmaker who recently made headlines for a bill that would require women to get permission from men in order to get an abortion. His theory is that a pregnant woman is a host and unless the father of the child wants an abortion, she should be required to birth the child.

[–]FastFourierTerraform 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I don't know exactly where that line should be, but it should be somewhere other than it is right now. Right now, a woman can do a partial birth abortion, or simply give the infant away for adoption, without any say from the father whatsoever. If we can legally require a man to be financial responsible for a woman deciding to carry a child to term, he should at least have some rights to it. Like maybe have an earlier "last date" for abortion if the child was conceived by consensual means and the father doesn't want to abort. Definitely require the father to have rights to the child in the event the woman tries to give it up for adoption.

[–]Vandechoz 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

a woman can do a partial birth abortion

not legally

[–]T_Sam 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm definitely on the same page when it comes to fathers having rights in event of adoption. In fact, I didn't realize that it wasn't the default everywhere.

Could you explain to me what you mean by "last date" for abortion? I don't understand what you mean, although I will say that I'm not sure there's a way to compromise when there's a disagreement on whether to have an abortion. One way or another, someone is forced into a situation that that person would have otherwise opted out of. Being financially responsible for a child you didn't want sucks, but so does pregnancy, abortion, and birth.

It's a woman's right to have an abortion or carry a pregnancy to term. The resulting child has a right to financial support from both parents. Some would argue that every fetus has a right to be born regardless of what the woman wants. I'm not sure there's a solution to be found that doesn't infringe upon someone else's rights.

[–]FastFourierTerraform 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Could you explain to me what you mean by "last date" for abortion?

Sure. Most compromise solutions on the abortion debate involve setting a (fairly early) date by which the woman must decide to abort or not (with obvious exceptions for edge cases). If there's no medical reason to abort and the child's father does not want the abortion to happen and is willing to care for and be responsible for the child, then it makes sense to me that the "decision date" should be sooner. I.e., there is a distinction between "this is an unwanted child" and "there is a loving parent that wants this child."

I mostly pose this as an alternative to financial abortion. My ideal solution is that parenthood is a strictly opt-in process. If a man doesn't want to be a parent, he declares that intention (typically within a few days of learning about the pregnancy), and it's up to the woman to abort or raise it by herself. If a woman doesn't want to be a parent, then she can abort.

The current way of doing things is doubly asymmetric. Men can be forced into parenthood against their will, AND they can have their parental rights unilaterally taken away by women. I figure that biology forces there to be one asymmetry by the nature of things. Adding another one is just inequality. So, either don't don't take away parental rights for men, or don't force parental responsibility; choose one.

[–]T_Sam 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure how moving the abortion date up benefits a man who would like to keep the child. If anything, I'd imagine it'd increase pressure to get the abortion before it's too late, especially in the states that require women to jump through hoops to have one.

There are some things about your opt-in plan that make me uncomfortable. It seems to treat abortion as a simple procedure like getting a tooth pulled when for some women it's an incredibly difficult experience physically and emotionally. For vulnerable ones, like women in abusive relationships and teens/college students, they could be pressured to fold to the pressure to abort because being a single mother is very difficult. What if she chooses adoption? Would the father be responsible to cover a share of medical bills or is he opting out of that too? How would that effect sexual practices and relationships between men and women? What effects would it have on birth control, condom use, and STDs? Would it increase abortions? Would it increase the need for states to provide aid? What would be the long term effects?

As for what you wrote about taking away parental rights from men, I assume that you mean wrongfully taking rights away. After all, there's thirty one states that allow rapists rights to children that are products of rapes. There are women who have no business taking care of a fish for a weekend who never lose custody of their kids.

Personally, I believe unless there is an issue of safety or wellbeing to the child, custody should be automatically 50/50. In cases where there's a question of ability, the case should go before a judge but in a blind manner. The case would be heard as parent A claims parent B abused the child in this way instead of mother versus father. False accusations and parental alienation should be treated just as seriously as abuse accusations and investigated. In the end, it's the court that comes to a final decision of whether to terminate rights, and I think that's an important distinction to make.

[–]tallwheel 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What bill? To get permission from what men? Their husbands?

[–]T_Sam 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More or less. The bill was pretty much shelved without consideration, but the gist was that a woman would have to receive written permission from the father of the child. She would also have to submit his name to her doctor, which would allow him another opportunity to block the abortion while paternity was established. One lawmaker behind the bill said that women are hosts and that if they get pregnant, it's because they are irresponsible because they know sex can cause pregnancy and did not take enough precautions. I think my favorite part was when he said, "I understand they feel like it's their body."

I hope I'm doing this right, because I don't really know how to link properly but here's an article if you'd like to read it. I hope the source is acceptable for you. I tried to find something that wouldn't be too biased, but it's difficult sometimes.

[–]just_zhis_guy 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://www.mercurynews.com/2017/02/14/oklahoma-lawmaker-wants-fathers-permission-for-abortions/

Like this?

[–]Tedesche 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I suppose she'd have a leg to stand on if government was suggesting woman get a note from their husband's before getting that next abortion.

Republican lawmakers have proposed laws requiring women to get approval from or at least notify their husbands if they want to get an abortion.

[–]DrMoomoo 44 points45 points46 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

ITT: people missing the point

[–]Aatch 28 points29 points30 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I don't understand why this was even posted here. It's a protest bill, and one that makes sense. It's supposed to be ridiculous and stupid. The lawmaker that presented almost certainly disagrees it!

[–]vmca12 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

The irony is that 24 hours ago everyone was praising the post that had a bunch of suggestions for "equal rights" framed in a way that removed rights from women to accomplish exactly this same point, and now that theyre seeing the EXACT SAME TACTIC from the other side suddenly the concept of satire is lost on them.

[–]mikesteane 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You could make the effort to link that post.

[–]tallwheel 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/5uyaz0/what_feminism_would_stand_for_if_they_were_for/

[–]mikesteane 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Now I can see what you are talking about, I can see that the two things are entirely different: 1. One is a poster pointing out a number of inequalities in favour of women. The other is a bill which assumes that the medical profession is "interfering" with women's bodies. 2. One is an Internet image at the producer's own expense, the other is being paid for by the taxpayer. 3. One bears a title which clearly states the conditional nature of the statements, the other makes no direct reference to any comparison.

The equivalence is very far from exact.

[–]HAESisAMyth1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You're so very right.

If a woman doesn't have to consult a doctor pre-abortion, then who is performing the abortion?

[–]tallwheel 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, you're right. That's a good point.

But (devil's advocate) on the other hand, one is a meme and one is a bill. Sure, the creator of neither the meme nor the bill may have actually wanted any of the things listed to come to pass, but what if the bill somehow actually got support and managed to pass or come close to passing? A meme has a 0% chance of doing that.

And, I would argue, that the meme in question was actually presenting far closer equivalents to issues that men actually face. Whereas this bill is presenting a bit of a false equivalence. There is currently no libido pill for women which requires a husband's consent in order to obtain. Abortion and viagra are not the same thing.

But, having said all that, you're right. They're kind of similar. Not sure I am necessarily a hypocrite for thinking the meme was clever, and that this bill is a bit arrogant and disrespectful. If the equivalence were closer, I can assure you I would have a similar view toward both... but they are a bit different.

[–]wrekd1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I fully disagree with a protest bill. These fuckers are paid to do a job. Not jerk around while meaningful work is pushed to the side.

[–]zeropointcorp 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, it's goddamn depressing going down the replies here.

Guys, don't worry. It's not aimed at taking away your Viagra.

[–]Prof_Acorn 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If Reddit has taught me anything, it's that there are many many people who don't understand sarcasm without a /s tag.

[–]Thaurane 73 points74 points75 points 9 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

“I want to protect these men from themselves,”

Great. Now apparently we aren't even capable of taking care ourselves let alone our kids.

[+]silverwolfer points 9 years ago* [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

They are showing the hypocrites of the religious right who do every trick they can to go around roe vs wade

[–]morthond 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

should the law be used to antagonize a large group of people in order to teach some portion of that group a lesson? should the law be used to teach lessons?

that's assuming that they'd even learn the lesson, which they wouldn't, considering that abortion isn't remotely equivalent to viagra in their minds, and that antagonizing people into learning a lesson never works anyway

[+]silverwolfer points 9 years ago* [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

This isn't a law, this is a protest bill.

Not meant to pass, meant to stir conversation , and it succeded.

[–]tallwheel 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe we should try the same thing. Make a bill to legalize FGM to stir conversation.

I suppose you could say that the failed bill to make women subject to selective service was somewhat successful in "stirring conversation" so there's that.

[–]dungone 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A protest bill to legalize FGM would actually make too much sense. You have to come up with something that's complete nonsense.

Like, oh hey, let's ban gynecologists until women start registering for the selective service. Haha, hilarious! /s

[+]dungone points 9 years ago* [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

It succeeded in making feminists sound stupid and entitled. I don't know how anyone things that this will sway the anti-choice crowd from trying to undermine Roe vs Wade.

[+]silverwolfer points 9 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

That is your opinion, others think this is a hilarious comparison.

Not all effects are 100% positive.

[–]dungone 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The same kind of people who think it's hillarious when a woman severed her husband's penis and put it through the garbage disposal after he asked for a divorce.

It's the "two wrongs make a right" crowd, even when theor sense of dairness and equitty is skewed beyond recognition.

[+]silverwolfer points 9 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Umm no. That is like saying the same folks who are pushed away from this think woman should still be slaves.

Why do you leap to such extereme ends?

[–]dungone 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The people who view this false equivalency as legitimate actually do view men as slaves.

[–]marginalboy[🍰] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think this is absolutely hilarious, and a worthy protest bill, and I think a woman who cuts off a man's penis in a fit of rage should spend the rest of her life in jail. (And I wouldn't cry if someone chopped off her clit, to boot.)

So, nope. You're wrong and, in my opinion, a little too uptight to be healthy...

[–]starrboy88 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women aren't seen as capable as making a decision for an abortion. This sub is already against women's choice, so why is this so horrible?

Do you not know about Arkansas?

[+]geniice -8 points-7 points-6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well aparently since you are too stupid to understand the context in this case then I suppose the argument could be made.

[–]tothecatmobile 19 points20 points21 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So many people here don't realise this is a troll, even thought its the very first paragraph.

[–]Seventh_______ 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Regardless she's comparing false parellels and wasting time proposing a dead on arrival bill and also being asinine about it. "Swear on the Bible" is even part of it

[–]thrway_1000 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

https://archive.is/ayfW8

[–]soparamens 12 points13 points14 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Wow, can they actually do that ? i mean, it would be against their human reproductive rights!

[–]Mackowatosc 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men dont have reproductive rights anymore. We are left only with obligations. Sad but true.

[+]co_lund -25 points-24 points-23 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Similar to when women want to get birth control, right???

[–]AloysiusC 38 points39 points40 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

No. The one is designed to interrupt a normal bodily function, the other is designed to restore it. So, at the very least, it's discriminating against people with ED.

Secondly, which male judge is ordering women to get a permission before purchasing birth control?

So you're a fucking misandrist piece of shit if you think those are comparable.

[–]DerangedGinger 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Every time I see someone try to bring Viagra into the topic of reproductive politics I do a massive face palm. There's a huge difference between correcting a disorder and interfering with the normal healthy functioning of the human body.

It's also pretty insulting to people who suffer from ED. Don't compare someone's unwanted disorder to a quality of life choice a healthy person makes so that their body doesn't work as normal.

[+]AndaliteBandit points 9 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't compare someone's unwanted disorder to a quality of life choice a healthy person makes so that their body doesn't work as normal.

Birth control is prescribed for a variety of unwanted disorders.

[–]nixonrichard 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The law treats prescriptions of the same drug for birth control and non-birth control very differently.

If you're being given a drug for hormonal effects without the intent to prevent pregnancy, it's not considered "birth control."

[–]AndaliteBandit6 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The law treats prescriptions of the same drug for birth control and non-birth control very differently.

If you're being given a drug for hormonal effects without the intent to prevent pregnancy, it's not considered "birth control."

Can you link to the text of this law that differentiates between the intended purposes for a birth control prescription? Because this hasn't been my experience at all.

[+]geniice -8 points-7 points-6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No. The one is designed to interrupt a normal bodily function, the other is designed to restore it.

Did you just try and argue that aging isn't normal?

[–]nixonrichard 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The drugs don't prevent aging, and are not intended to prevent aging.

[–]geniice -5 points-4 points-3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One of the effects of ageing is a harder time getting it up. Blame whichever evolutionary twist took out the human penis bone (although that may have been in part to make it harder for older men to get it up).

[+]somelikeitinthetwat points 9 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

bill requiring women to consult with a doctor at least 24 hours before an abortion

In the meantime, getting a vasectomy in NY state not only requires a doctor's consultation but also requires you to wait 30 days. If only menz were inconvenienced by laws like women!

[–]k9centipede -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Do you have to drive 3 to 5 hours to find a clinic that will perform that procedure?

[+]somelikeitinthetwat points 9 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

Oh no, I cannot get an abortion as easy as buying a bigmac, what am I going to do?!?

[–]k9centipede 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Risk losing my job now so I can take the time off needed to travel to get a medical procedure I need, or be delayed due to circumstances and require an even more risky version of the medical procedure, or end up with a child I might not be able to afford and require government assistance paid by taxes.

[–]tallwheel 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh come now, do people risk losing their job every time they catch a debilitating cold that requires sick leave? And I am going to presume that most women catch bad colds more often than they require abortions.

[–]k9centipede -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Plenty of people do risk their job taking time off to deal with a flu or cold. Does that make such practices okay?

[–]tallwheel 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe sometimes, but the vast majority of people do take time off work for illness, and the vast majority do not risk losing their job by taking occasional sick leave.

[–]scyth3s -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those all seem like options beneficial to society.

[–]p3ngwin 25 points26 points27 points 9 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link

“This is about family values,” she added.

oh FFS America still with this shit ?

Mazian told Fox affiliate WDRB that House Bill 396 would also require that someone seeking Viagra, Cialis, Levitra or Avanafil “make a sworn statement with his hand on a Bible that he will only use a prescription for a drug for erectile dysfunction when having sexual relations with his current spouse.”

o.O

“We are very ‘family values’ in the Kentucky General Assembly — they are all awash in Christian family values, so that’s why I put that part in there that [erectile pills] can only be used in a marital relationship,” she said.

Marzian admitted to the station that her bill is more symbolic than serious and she doesn’t expect it to receive much support. And yet, she told the Courier-Journal, she isn’t done introducing provocative proposals.

Why is this crackpot allowed to have any authority? She's treating her job like a playground, just fucking with people.

[–]REB3LxSOUL 29 points30 points31 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

It's not a legitimate bill. It's in protest to potential abortion restrictions. She only made it to prove a point.

[–]Beltox2pointO 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

But she still made it, what if the joke goes too far and is implemented, what then?

[–]REB3LxSOUL 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's so completely ludicrous and satirical that it's not going to. If by some astronomically small chance lawmakers decide "hey let's make this legal just to see what happens", then those are the people we need to get rid of, because those are the neanderthals in our government.

[–]Beltox2pointO 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My point is more that someone with the power to bring bills into question, is pulling this childish shit.

[–]p3ngwin 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

yes i read the article too, but you seem to be missing my point.

[–]scyth3s 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You don't have a valid point.

[–]p3ngwin 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i could say the same for you, but that's not how discussion works is it ?

[–]REB3LxSOUL 14 points15 points16 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No, I understood your point. You think she's not taking her job seriously. And she actually is. She's opposing a political view she and lots of other people find ludicrous, and much like men's rights activists gender swapping scenarios to prove a point, she's doing the same thing. It's the basic "how stupid would this sound if the genders were reversed" scenario.

[–]p3ngwin 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

you're equating men with no legal authority, swapping genders on articles, with this woman introducing a bill into a state's legal system.

One is posting on the internet as content, the other is introducing a bill into legislature, regardless of whether it will get support or not.

[–]novice_at_life 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey, she's just following the example set by the American people, a choice was made fairly and she didn't agree with the results of the choice so she's throwing a tantrum, just like the Trump protests.

[–]Mackowatosc 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thats what hapen of religious people get right to vote instead of death penalty.

[–]KorvisKhan 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dear Doc,

 We got a soggy noodle over here. We're gonna need those pills. 

Sincerely,

The Wife

[–]Mediumtim 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Reasons not to get married +1

[–]v573v 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Haha, no.

You need a note from your spouse in order to get the drug - let it sink in.

This law actually has a chance to be passed under christian family values.

[+]zeroflexflyer points 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Marzian admitted to the station that her bill is more symbolic than serious and she doesn’t expect it to receive much support.

[–]v573v 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And? She crafted a bill which strongly enforces no sex until marriage and put it infront of a bunch of people who strongly support 'family values' - if properly framed the bill could get passed.

[–]CardMechanic 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That may be our child you're carrying, but this is my boner and my boner alone.

[–]tallwheel 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

His boner his choice.

[–]MenDeserveRights 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Erectile dysfunction is a medical disorder.

Fertility and pregnancy are not.

[–]ChaosOpen 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a great idea, ask anyone you meet, wanting to have an abortion is exactly the same as wanting to have an erection... /s

Seriously, this reads like someone who is completely unhinged from reality.

[–]GunsGermsAndSteel 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Who the hell gets viagra from a pharmacy when it's so readily available through other sources?

[–]thewindandrain 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Otc viagra online! Pharmacists hate this one simple trick!

[–]GunsGermsAndSteel 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

No I mean for real, it's easy and cheap to get. And no, not through spam email.

[–]thewindandrain 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Personally I prefer to pharmaceutically destroy my libido so I can focus on excelling in studies and freedom.

[–]GunsGermsAndSteel 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What you want is antidepressants!

[–]Seicair 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Until they do nothing to inhibit your libido but give you complete anorgasmia.... Trying to masturbate on adderall was less frustrating.

[–]Ithinkitstricky 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is bullshit. My wife can get an abortion without my consent but I cant buy viagra solo? Eek

[–]_exitus_acta_probat_ 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For me to get a vasectomy, my wife had to sign an approval form before they would do the proceedure.

[–]Proteus_Marius 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"Kentucky lawmaker" just sounds like an oxymoron these days.

[–]thewindandrain 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Kentucky has some good laws. For example they have the lowest jail sentence of any prohibition state for large amounts of cannabis.

[–]Jack410962 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Not to mention they protect the rights of people who choose to smoke from being discriminated against in hiring

[–]bullseyed723 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

TIL: liberals are against consent.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Informed_consent

Also, this moron lawmaker is comparing getting advice from a doctor about a dangerous medical operation with ask your wife about prescription pills. Does she think all women are Pharma reps? Or just boner experts?

[–]dewse 17 points18 points19 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I mean, liberals and conservatives can be against or for the same thing. When you start to oversimplify politics, that's when you start thinking in "lefts" or "rights".

[–]bullseyed723 -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What is ambiguous about the quote from the DNC lawmaker in the linked article?

I surely don't see any of the rioters going to her house.

[–]dewse 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I should have said 'one' instead of 'you'. It was a general statement about the word.

[–]geniice 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TIL: liberals are against consent.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Informed_consent

No 24 hours isn't a requirement for informed consent.

[–]feedmecarrots 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If this is a "protest bill", it is a bad joke made at the expense of men. The woman who authored it should be reminded of that when it is time to be reelected. I don't think that she can represent men very well.

[–]scyth3s 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's a bad punchline, but she's on the right track. Get out of other people's business is a perfectly valid point to make.

[–]feedmecarrots 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Kentucky is a laughingstock because people are going to believe that this is serious. What if it passes?

[–]0xD153A53 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

While I get the "protest" angle of this, it's still nonsensical...

Trying to pass shitty laws for shitty reasons results in a shitty system.

How about push to repeal shitty laws, improving the system?

[–]graffiti81 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is fucking awesome. It's about fucking time somebody realized how anti-abortion laws are. This is the kind of shit we need.

[–]nixonrichard 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, remember that time when a woman had to pay $900/mo for 18 years because a man decided to keep an erection.

[–]BurrKing 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So... don't men already need to consult with a doctor to get viagra?

[–]pm_your_nudes_women 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you don't have a wife, you are not supposed to have sex anyways?

[–]ABaadPun 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Now men are forced to go out of state to buy dick pills to fuck hoes?

[–]JamesRussellSr 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Abortion = Erectile Dysfunction.

[–]choaniki 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What about singles?

[–]troubledtimez 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

jesus

[–]Beltox2pointO 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Okay, the government won't interfere with abortion rights. But then they also won't foot the bill. One way or the other.

[–]just_zhis_guy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I believe it's in response to this, which is egregious.

http://www.mercurynews.com/2017/02/14/oklahoma-lawmaker-wants-fathers-permission-for-abortions/

[–]metalman909 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The US is just getting hilarious with all these jeebus freaks writing laws

[–]dermac 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That.... isn't even related...

[–]Shovah1985 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is just wonderful, like a kid's now for school. But for sex.

[–]TeutonicTwit 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So, this ASSUMES every man is married and a christian???

[–]LobsterMassMurderer 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feel bad for any single T1 diabetics with neuropathy in that state. If it were to pass (glad she's not "serious"), they wouldn't have access to the best drug for their condition.

Edit: a letter

[–]pootinesque1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Because seeking a hard on is equivalent to wresting legal control over offspring from a male.

[–]Venerean1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Edit: Below is me getting tricked by not reading headlines. It's a protest bill. Good job protest bill!

What the fuck Handmaiden's Tale shit is the world people who pass these kinds of laws want to live in.

Fuck this!

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[–]Brodman_area11 -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm on board with this. It's a protest for the erosion of civil liberties women are facing in the "Family Values" dipshit states. It's not intended to be passed. I know the two are not equivalent, and some make a legitimate argument about the rights of a third party in abortion, but the hypocrisy still stands. Advocating men's rights doesn't entail curtailing women's rights.

[–]tallwheel 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a sensible comment. Agreed.

[–]vlTNTlv 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck my state

[–]snoozeflu 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What about men who are single? Who do they have to get permission from?

[–]Mythandros 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not at all a surprise, I was waiting for some petty, small minded feminist to propose a stupid idea like this.

[–]Jerzeem 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good idea. We need the support of men to pass laws that protect women's reproductive rights, so instead of passing laws that protect everyone's reproductive rights, let's try to pass stunt laws that piss men off. I'm sure there's no way this will backfire.

[–]innahbalance 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I could see this being somewhat okay if a substance in viagra was known for drug-related uses.

Edit: at least I did until she opened ber mouth and explained her reasoning -__- I thought it was more of a barrier to entry than a retaliation

[–]the_Bobson 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's next? Requesting nudes?

[–]ustael 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are some doctors that will not give you a vasectomy if you are married and don't have your wife or a note from her saying she knows and is on board.

[–]fcb98292 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry KY, not moving my business there.

[–]Prometheus444 -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

This is what happens when women are put in positions of power. Stupid.

[–]scyth3s 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Your comment is what happens when people are stupid.

[–]Prometheus444 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

You must have taken some time to develop that response. Seriously intellectual shit.

[–]scyth3s -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

It wss certainly more intellectual than this

This is what happens when women are put in positions of power. Stupid.

[–]Prometheus444 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

That's not intellectual, it's fact. Women lead with emotion. Putting them in major positions of power is simply not smart.

[–]scyth3s -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

You really shouldn't use general tends to discriminate against individuals.

[–]Prometheus444 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

It's scientifically proven that women lead with emotion. If you can prove otherwise I will continue this conversation with you. If you don't have anything factual or relevant other than your opinion I think it's safe to say we're done here.

[–]scyth3s -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

It's scientifically proven that men are stronger than women. Now go fight Rhonda Rousey.

You made the claim that all women lead a certain way. You need to prove it. What I said is

You really shouldn't use general tends to discriminate against individuals.

Because not all people in a common group behave identically. Right now your thought process is bigoted cancer. You are using a trend to assume things about an individual. Don't do that.

Black people commit more theft. Should we not let them work at banks?

Mexicans deal more drugs than white people. Should we not let them work in pharmacies? (This statistic is possibly not true, I made it up hypothetically to illustrate a point).

[–]Prometheus444 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Black people commit more theft. Should we not let them work at banks? Mexicans deal more drugs than white people. Should we not let them work in pharmacies? (This statistic is possibly not true, I made it up hypothetically to illustrate a point).

Except with women this is biological, there aren't exceptions. I am having a really difficult time understanding why you insist on disputing something that has been scientifically proven...

[–]scyth3s -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

there aren't exceptions

I didn't throw this term around too often, but you're a sexist pig.

[–]Prometheus4441 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

For stating a scientifically proven fact? Sorry that hurts your butt so much buddy.

[–]scyth3s1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Again, that's a general trend. Women are not all identical, and yes, some are very capable of separating their emotion from the task at hand. I don't believe that study had a sample size of 3.6 billion. Even the article acknowledges that this is a trend.

women are more likely to see the big-picture, have stronger emotions, and rely on their intuition for decision-making

Women’s brains favor more emotional activity

To favor one thing is not the same as being incapable of the alternative, especially when dealing with 3.5 billion different people.

Men generally focus on one task

Women tend to absorb more information

Men tend to deal with stress much more easily than women

Men tend to have better logic skills than women

Every part of that article that you you claim "proves" women are incapable of leadership specifically includes wording to acknowledge that there are exceptions to the rule. Further, the very article study you cite completely disagrees with your conclusion about women being bad leaders.

Relying primarily on the strength of just one gender as leaders can result in an imbalance of perspectives and ideas.

So you completely failed to grasp the point of the article, which ironically the article calls out as a trait of men.

while women exhibit generally better language skills than men.

And boy, did you completely whiff on the nuances of the language in this article. Next time you cite an article to prove a point, read it and understand it first.

[–]Prometheus4440 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Man, you are seriously dense. To clarify, I did read the article, and understood it well. I used it to reinforce my point that women lead with emotion, while men lead on a rational basis (for the most part). That being said, I'm not willing to roll the dice with putting women in major positions of power considering from a medical standpoint, they will use emotion over a rational thought process. Women are meant to be nurturers, not lead the pack. If you want to keep beating a dead horse be my guest, but I think it's pretty safe to say you get the white knight of the year award. Pat on the back buddy.

[–]scyth3s1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

they will use emotion over a rational thought process.

Generally speaking, only Sith deal in absolutes. There you go demonstrating your own inability to process the phrase "tend to" or the word "generally."

I think it's pretty safe to say you get the white knight of the year award.

Be sure to tell that to the subs I'm banned from like 2X and gender studies. They'll be thrilled to hear that they were wrong about me.

[+]Kingofthevale33 -10 points-9 points-8 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Isn't it funny that a men's rights sub is all for stripping rights from anyone else as at its heart this is about the double standard that "Family Value" state women have to go through VS Men.

[–]Apexbreed 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you hit your head recently? Men's rights has nothing to do with taking anyone else's rights. It's about securing our own. Only mental defects like you would see men having rights as a stripping of another's rights.

Requiring a person to consult with a doctor before surgery isn't even remotely the same as requiring permission from a spouse to get medication. If you see those as the same, you might be one of the dumbest human beings in existence.

[–]OilyB -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Kentickians are cucked! Laughing my ass off. When are men in the US finally going to wake the fuck up and get off their knees??

[–]energyinmotion -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What a stupid bitch.

[–]MittenMagick -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What I love is the equating of "helping a man stay hard" with "killing a child".

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