Hi! I know most men here are looking for support from men. Sorry to intrude, but I do learn a lot from y’all, and I do feel heartbroken for many of you. Married lady here. Happily.

Anyways… if you don’t know…

1. Statistically women are most likely to initiate a divorce.

2. There has been research (and you can Google this yourself) that the more divorced friends you have, the more likely you are to get divorced.

So yes. If your lady spends increasing amount of time with divorced women, statistically it’s “catching”. She will be influenced by it, especially if she’s easily influenced.

1. Also, statistically the happiest women on planet Earth are single with no children.

2. However, single mothers are the unhappiest women on Earth. I’m sure many of you can guess the reasons why. (not counting trafficking or abuse victims)

So if she has children, she is statistically better off staying married, unless the husband is physically or sexually violent - then she will be happier divorced. But if the husband isn’t violent, then she’s better off statistically married.

If she doesn’t have children, statistically she’s happier single. However, she’s wealthier if married and 2nd happiest of the group.

And if any of you are dating or ever thinking of remarrying again, you should ensure your lady knows these facts. Many women I’ve met are not aware of these facts.

I do keep in mind that I’m better off spending time with other married ladies who aren’t cheating on their husbands. Women are generally more social and our circle of influence can really affect our decisions.

I do think women are grown and who she spends time with is ultimately her decision. I don’t believe it’s moral to police or control women or treat them like children or pets.

Facts are facts though. And if she wants a happy relationship she needs to make good decisions.

Happy to hear if you disagree in the comments. I don’t mind a healthy debate.