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laserkatze · 2020-12-03T14:03:28+00:00

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fireforestfairy · 2020-12-03T09:53:32+00:00

There's so much misogyny on Reddit. Many of these sexist men have zero empathy for women. They only care about having sex with women and become bitter when women refuse to date them.

C_Haggy · 2020-12-03T14:16:22+00:00

"Women lie about rape to fuck up men's lives" : this happens so infrequently, it's actually functionally correct to say that women NEVER lie about rape to fuck up men's lives. False crime reports happen, yes. And rape is no different from any other crime in that regard. In fact, reports of rapes that didnt happen occur at the same rate as other violent crimes. But nearly zero false reports of rape have ever been filed with nothing more than an intention to fuck up a man's life.

That's a fact and never let a scrote tell you otherwise.

adertina · 2020-12-03T10:16:57+00:00

“Oh for sure” says the guy who wants us to believe he has a job

zombieggs · 2020-12-03T13:09:10+00:00

False rape accusations are rarer than false burglary accusations. Do you doubt your friend when they tell you their house was robbed?

saragc92 · 2020-12-03T11:00:10+00:00

Reddit is for men. Say anything controversial about men or empowering towards women and wait for all the hate to come.

I’ve gotten blocked from a certain feminist page for commenting how regardless of gender if a recently 18yr old marries a 35 yr old and this 35 yr old drinks with the 18yr olds and they have sex it’s rape in some states because the 18 yr old isn’t legally old enough to drink and the 35 yr is taking advantage of the situation.

Everyone assume that 18yr in this fake scenario was a women even though I never specified.

Apparently I hit a nerve for someone on that page.

fireforestfairy · 2020-12-03T11:15:32+00:00

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gutsandgorey · 2020-12-03T16:16:39+00:00

Men are 230 times more likely to be raped than falsely accused of rape. Y'all should be scared with us not of us!

ninetiesbaby16 · 2020-12-03T12:22:23+00:00

Omg read the room, amoeba brain. I swear men’s low EQ should be considered a form of mental disability, the same way low iq is.

button-up · 2020-12-03T13:45:00+00:00

My real rape accusation didn’t destroy anyone’s life but my own. Has a false accusation really done much harm? Really and truly? I’m not condoning it, but the affects would be minimal, no?

gabydrt · 2020-12-03T13:53:41+00:00

When men comment that ‘women lie about being assaulted’ I immediately assume they are sexual offenders

PrivyPal · 2020-12-03T14:33:06+00:00

No-one in their right mind would lie about that to a therapist. That response was exactly what she was telling people not to do. UGhhh.

laserkatze · 2020-12-03T15:25:49+00:00

Many men think if they say we should listen to the women who got raped, they are in immediate danger of being falsely accused of rape, while they gain nothing from supporting rape victims.

I don’t get their false security of never going to be a rape victim. I mean, even if they just think about themselves. Males are almost always the perpetrators but the victims are women AND men (and children), so no one is safe from rapists.

esterfanie · 2020-12-03T13:22:58+00:00

I have had this same interaction happen when a woman denounced her rapist on Twitter. There was an ARMY of men (and women! The majority of them were female teens, but still... ) asking for "proof", as if the testimony wasn't one. It seems like men feel more empathy for the random dude than for any victim. Even under their logic, why it is so important for them to believe in the potential innocence of the man than the victim's word?

"False rape acusations destroy so many~ men's lives!!" After so many cases of the contrary actually happening, how come they still think its valid to say things like this?

blahblahmama · 2020-12-03T15:32:36+00:00

The most insidious stereotypes that have permeated our culture are that women and children lie about assault/abuse.

amievenreal99 · 2020-12-03T16:19:26+00:00

Many of you in the comments assume men have low EQ. This is dangerous. If you have low EQ, you don't know any better, since you are not capable of empathy. But these men are completely capable of empathy. Look at how they treat each other.

If they acted out of lack of empathy, they couldn't do any better, and would be acting out of ignorance. But that's not the case.

Men laving low EQ is the narrative they use when they drop their "Am I supposed to mind read? How could I know this would hurt you? You need to communicate". They know well how their words and actions affect us and feel joy when inflicting pain towards us (think of all the humiliation porn). They are not ignorant. They are sadistic and evil. They push boundaries, assault, hurt not out of ignorance, but evil.

Book recommendations:
Why does he do that, by Lundy Bancroft

Men who hate women, by Laura Bates

Jaymite · 2020-12-03T13:49:52+00:00

My mum says this and she hates men. It's so annoying.

malibooyeah · 2020-12-03T16:32:53+00:00

When I say men are garbage creatures I mean this. And I mean it.

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2020-12-03T16:54:38+00:00

Countless times men have lied about not raping.

Funny how we should automatically believe men when they're victims but God forbid we believe a woman

caramelthrones · 2020-12-03T15:38:13+00:00

You: Talking about point A

Men: Readily jumping on Z’s dick

I will never understand this and it’s beyond frustrating. If you want to bring up another aspect of the topic, do so but not in as a way to deflect the purpose of the topic at hand idiot.

CatusCactus · 2020-12-03T16:36:03+00:00

Scrote logic:

Concern about the well-being of raped women <<<<<< Men’s reputation

manisfestationqueen · 2020-12-03T16:17:14+00:00

The topic is survivors, I know its hard to focus buddy. Those video games and porn have destroyed your brain. But try hard and focus on the topic.

breadandbunny · 2020-12-03T16:17:22+00:00

Why is that always the go to? The, "there are women who lie about rape." Imagine being that much of a callous person that you can't just focus on the fact that there are people who get hurt without making it about something else? The first person I ever told about sexual abuse wound up becoming a Hitler idolizer on top of talking so much shit about feminism. So tired of it.

frustratedmarxistfem · 2020-12-03T17:20:13+00:00

Never trust a man who says this. I worked with a guy who was adamant that women make false rape accusations, especially against black men, and he ended up sexually harassing me in the most horrifying way. He got fired(yay women in HR)but he genuinely scared me first.

matte_personality · 2020-12-03T19:11:28+00:00

I also hate it immensely when men and pickmes pull the whole “lying about it is worse than actual rape” because IT ISN’T. Especially because society is designed to always give men the benefit of the doubt no matter how much evidence is against them. Actual rapists go on to live good lives while their victims suffer in silence all the TIME.

Saitschik · 2020-12-03T18:52:08+00:00

Men don't understand rape. For the vast majority sexual violence has never been a threat in their life, while all girls grow up with it in one form or the other.

The only thing they can identify with is the perpetrator and fear of "false accusations".

Probably they go back and remember all the times they treated women poorly and get all defensive. Because the so called false accusations are often not that false but a grey zone.

Going to the police and denouncing rape is so difficult and traumatic that many, many victims don't even do it.

Men believe it would be so easy to just go to the police, lie and "destroy a guy's life". It isn't.

So they should finally stop to blow things out of proportion and help to tackle the real problem, sexual violence against women. But they are unable, they lack the empathy.

Express_Chocolate_60 · 2020-12-03T11:35:47+00:00

Yeah like what? 1% at maximum? FUCK OFF.

Dildo_Emporium · 2020-12-03T16:59:51+00:00

"Oh for sure, but also not at all"

Delirious_Duchess · 2020-12-03T13:08:09+00:00

Men really cannot hear anything about women's suffering without relating back to how hard things are for them. Especially on Reddit they love saying "men have it equally hard" or my person (least) favourite "if the roles were reversed women would get away with it!", no they don't and no they wouldn't.

Maybe it's because literally 99% are sex crimes are committed by men and something like 0.1% of rape claims are false. Men really like to believe that women gain sooo much for claiming false rape, when in reality something like a third of rape claims ever get followed up by the police, and even less result in arrest/criminal charge, with a tiny amount resulting in actual imprisonment.

randoredditorredlady · 2020-12-03T13:13:20+00:00

Imagine a woman who was sexually assaulted and is traumatized reaching out to a trusted friend or family member that they’ve known for many years, and telling them what happened.

Then imagine the man she opens up to saying, “Wow, that sounds really awful if it actually happened. But there are many times that a woman lies about being raped to fuck up someone’s life. I need to make sure that’s not what happened here.”

And this is a scenario that literally happens all the time. Women reach out to their brothers, fathers, friends in hopes of having someone to comfort or help them, only for them to say that they think so little of her that they don’t trust her story and it was probably her fault, or she was lying.

RamenUndergraduate · 2020-12-03T18:21:10+00:00

Whenever women are discussing rape or sexual harassment.... there's ALWAYS a group of men that yell one of the following phrases...

"Not all men! "

"Men get ______ too!"

"Women lie about being _____! “

“No one cares when the prepatrator is a hot!“

These type of men don't care about male victims they want to shift the conversation! How do I know this? Because they refuse to have these conversations in their own communities! I REPEAT they don't care about male rape victims... they come into women's spaces with an agenda... they weaponize male trauma and use it against women as an "Aha! GOTCHA!" moment.

22leafclover · 2020-12-03T21:39:14+00:00

2 Woman (totally brainwashed by the patriarchy) doctors minimized my assault. Vet all doctors before telling them anything, just because she's a woman...doesn't mean she'll care. Doctors are still business men at the end of the day that make $$ per appointment now, so a lot of them who are money hungry will try to stretch out the number of appointments as much as they can, so they give you little to no answers in the first few sessions. Vet everyone.

redmakeupbagBASAW · 2020-12-03T18:05:09+00:00

My friend was raped and pressed charges. She was a virgin before that. They went through Facebook pictures and used pictures of her out with friends in dresses saying she “provoked it” and clearly wasn’t a virgin, totally slut shamed her, etc. She lost and we had to see the fuck around town afterwards.

I was raped 4 years later in the same city and was afraid to report so I didn’t. I definitely was no virgin.

2020-12-03T17:03:25+00:00

"Everything before the word 'but' is horse shit."

watpompyelah · 2020-12-03T19:36:50+00:00

“Woman problem? No. Man problem. Always man problem.”

lissette_acn · 2020-12-03T20:16:00+00:00

My Ex Bf once told me He was scared I would accuse him of rape. Even though He never did. And that I would be lying to bring him down. I should have left his ass right there. I did it 3 months after that. I just couldn’t believe it. How can he think that about me? After 5 years of relationship.

purziveplaxy · 2020-12-03T20:43:30+00:00

He really couldn't help himself. IT NEEDS TO BE SAID! 🤦‍♀️

four_q · 2020-12-03T22:57:12+00:00

Okay name one Man who has been affected by this

JasmineAndCloves · 2020-12-03T16:47:53+00:00

Did anyone else notice that the OP never once said or even implied that he/she was speaking exclusively about women as survivors of sexual violence? There is nothing inherently feminine about the words “client”, “they” or “their.” Obviously, men, children and individuals who identify as non-binary can be victims of sexual assault as well.

Yet, the author of the second comment was so triggered that he immediately assumed this was a conversation solely about women making allegations against men, then felt the need to inform OP (who is clearly working in some professional capacity as a counselor) that his/her female patients may be lying.

I am certain that the OP’s philosophy of practice as a clinician working with survivors of sexual abuse will be fundamentally and forever changed by this revelatory insight. /s

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monatsiya · 2020-12-03T13:38:16+00:00

this shit angers me. do you actually give a fuck about people who were falsely accused or are you trying to push your all-women-are-liars propaganda? because i can guarantee that person has never spoken about false allegations of it’s not in the context of female survivors.

not even to mention the fact that false rape allegations are 0.5% of the time, if the amount of survivors who actually report the crime to the police are accounted for. this shit is so repetitive, gross.

oscine23 · 2020-12-03T19:07:42+00:00

What an insensitive, disgusting comment. SMH

aquietsword · 2020-12-03T22:25:44+00:00

Oh for sure, but there are more times that men claim false accusations to protect their reputation and not go to jail. Fucking scrotes don't have a clue about the actual depth of their privileges. If we lived in a truly equitable society, they wouldn't survive.

heroic_nincompoop · 2020-12-04T02:32:27+00:00

Woman: I've been through trauma

Man: Yeah, but what about me?

Every time. Without fail.

polardonut · 2020-12-04T02:33:01+00:00

bUt nOt aLl mEn

They can go and fuck themselves with their self pity and ignorance. Women can't say a thing without men blaming them for everything. Sexually harassed? Well u wore red lipstick so u had it coming. What fucking logic is that...

Frizzycatt · 2020-12-04T06:31:33+00:00

My family told me to get over my cousin molesting me because it didn't go so far as rape. They don't get why I still don't like or trust him because it's family and it's in the past. I have to see him every year and made to feel like I'm the bitch. He's their precious baby boy whose been through a lot.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-04T06:47:01+00:00

Every. Single. Time.

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Date	December 3, 2020 9:17 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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