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DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-08T23:47:27+00:00

The scene in Encanto where Abuelo sacrifices himself and Abuela is absolutely anguishing over his death with her newborn triplets in her arms DESTROYS me every time it comes on my TV

purplish_possum · 2023-05-08T23:45:44+00:00

My oldest daughter and her husband are assembling a crib. Looks like she's getting an 18 month old tomorrow. If he doesn't reunify with his birth mom my daughter will adopt him. That would be grandkid number 10.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-08T23:03:18+00:00

Girls rule, boys drool

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-05-08T22:58:15+00:00

Idk how dating app algorithms work, but they should prioritize things like matching people of equal incomes and stuff so that the people matching are as close to the same level as possible

Preme2 · 2023-05-08T22:39:48+00:00

LeT Me FoRcE AbOrTiOns On WoMen Or ElSe I WILL nEgLeCt mY ChiLD!!!1!

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-08T21:53:47+00:00

https://twitter.com/isabellarileyus/status/1654915189194489857?cxt=HHwWgoCwlZamuPctAAAA

This goofy ass tradcon bitch on Twitter is ranting about men who get vasectomies being retarded, trans, and not real men and I can't stop laughing 😂

1 I can't take any woman that says "a real man..." seriously and 2 Her husband doesn't even look like a real man he looks like a kid still lol

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-08T21:52:53+00:00

Man in Detroit accused of fathering a child by a women he never met

Is it just me or do I see these kinds of cases happen in the US more often? Oh yeah the girl doesn't even get in trouble for this either.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-08T21:51:15+00:00

man, I hate suits. So uncomfortable and kind of try-hard too. Sports wear > anything else

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-05-08T21:37:30+00:00

There's a saying that there's nothing more that progressives hate than actual progress. The world is richer, healthier, better educated and more democratic than at any point in humanity's history. And that becomes more true every passing year.

Progressives are gonna be so upset when 2030 comes around and the world isn't underwater and ruled by totalitarian governments😢

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-08T20:54:32+00:00

Was listening to Jordan Peterson's podcast and he was talking about how he had a client who was so terrified of women he ended up taking him to a strip club every week for a year 🤣

0DarkFlirty · 2023-05-08T20:39:14+00:00

https://imgur.com/hXnBmqe

Why is it so hard for dudes on reddit to just get it? You are so close to getting it, does it really need to be spelled out for some of you? This is shit you should have learned in grade school.

"when I 'vent' or anything it typically gets ignored and I have a bad feeling that it's because I'm a guy"

Duhhhhh.

"i've learned not to vent about women to them bc they invariably take the woman's side when I'm not even asking for advice or feedback. Idk whats up with that."

I think it's the fact that I grew up with sisters that the "female in-group bias" phenomena was extremely obvious to me since I was like age 5 so I can't knock this one. But cmon lad, the real world isn't reddit where people just bullshit you about how exactly the same men and women are when it's obvious we aren't.

I noticed the evolution of "Menslib" since the beginning and I'm gonna be honest comments like these would have never gotten the upvotes they did, and if anything would have received way more pushback. Canary in the coalmine.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-08T20:19:49+00:00

Can we talk about….you know what? N 🧛🏻‍♂️

meteorness123 · 2023-05-08T19:56:08+00:00

As a man, I get an intense dopamine rush when I'm good at something or I acquire a skill. Far more intense than when I just look good.

Competence > looks

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-08T19:48:54+00:00

CMV: "High Value Man" does not guarantee having an abundance of women

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-08T19:39:04+00:00

I still buy Bud Light. Sadly even LGBTQ bars in Chicago stopped selling that beer. I guess America wasn't ready for their innovation.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-08T19:32:33+00:00

Q4everybody : Have you guys ever had psychologically induced back-pain ( or other type of physical pain caused by emotional stress) and did it get better once you identified and removed the stressor in your life ?

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-05-08T19:27:21+00:00

The Allen, Texas shooter’s manifesto was released today and he essentially was an incel. I am going to copy and paste a few of the things written.

There's no real motivation to bother trying, to be a "hard worker", to be "civilized", when your reward at the end of the day is to get married to used goods who is likely only settling for you because she's aged past her prime and has a ton of baggage

If men cannot be creators Of society, they will be destroyers of society. Now It's up to society which role they want us to follow

Men aren't entitled to sex?, true I agree, but women aren't entitled to safety either

Disenfranchised Males = Self Destructive Males

Conclusion: Everyone who tells us variations of "sex is not a big deal" needs to die be forced into lifelong celibacy. No exceptions

In these modern times the social contract is no longer functioning, expecting men not to regress and go back to the days of rape and violence when the contract is no longer being enforced and/or adhered to, is what is truly outrageous, and not the acts themselves

the violent responses of men today are retaliatory

From the mighty clash of two stags rutting, to the dawn raid of a chimpanzee, much violence in nature is perpetrated by males fighting each other in competition for female mates. A new study claims it's a similar story with humans. Cultural differences, limited resources and technological developments all play a role, but a team of psychologists based in China and Hong Kong believe the ultimate cause of human war rests with the male libido. Historically, they argue that the lure of an attractive female primed the male brain for conflict with other males, an effect that persists in modern man even though its usefulness is largely outdated

I don't care about getting a girfriend anymore. I still want sex, just not a "girlfriend" because I don't believe anymore women are capable to genuinely love a man

They have been overprotective growth stunters, control freak tyrants, prudes who BlueBalled me at every turn, narcissistic abusers, and because they know it will get arise out of me, they even annoy me just for the fun of it

I posted this here because it goes hand in hand with a lot of what we debate on here. The future looks very bleak cause there are thousands of men who think like this. The violent attacks will become more and more common

Traditional-Bad-4055 · 2023-05-08T19:22:14+00:00

Anyone else get more attracted to your partner over time?

Like there was always that initial attraction. But after two years of dating I’ve gotten immensely more attracted to her whereas with shorter relationships like in college I’ve gotten a tad bored

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-08T19:20:36+00:00

Scream 6 was fantastic.

27 and still looking pretty damn good.

Ciabatta_Scoober · 2023-05-08T19:11:27+00:00

Nothing destroys the idea that growing your social network can help with dating as a guy like seeing just how rarely most women make new female friends.

Outside of work and school, women going out and socializing really just means sticking to their small circle of already close friends, even at packed events they don’t really meet and talk to other women. So “warm approaches” at events like concerts and festivals and hiking and whatever else are all looks-based, just like on a dating app.

There are other social events like rec sports leagues or volunteering or professional societies and networking events where it is more expected that people will actually meet and talk to strangers, but these are very male dominated. They’re better bets, but can’t work for all men because there’s just more men there than women.

M_Scarlott · 2023-05-08T19:10:09+00:00

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AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-08T19:04:01+00:00

Child support is basically indentured servitude at higher incomes. If you ever make a high income, they assume you have the ability to make that higher income and will keep forcing you to pay support based on that income even if you lose your job or the job is too stressful or you want a career change.

Even in a two parent household, you have the option to quit your job and no one can force you keep working a job you don't like. I don't see why you should be forced to keep working a certain type of job when you're separated.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-08T18:48:28+00:00

I genuinely think many men in the manosphere autistic. You have people, making comments like

"I was fat and dropped a lot of weight and started getting way more attention from women. I was lied to by society that looks don't matter for men".

Uhm..well you were fat. How on earth is that a relevation.

They don't understand that when (normal/neurotypical) people say looks arent the most important thing, they are saying that if you don't deviate extremely from the norm, other factors are more important which is correct. So you werent lied to, you're just too autistic to read between the lines.

Thekurdishprince · 2023-05-08T18:43:32+00:00

Finally out of reddit jail

New-Friendship-4089 · 2023-05-08T18:40:08+00:00

It’s really unfair how quickly Asian women snap back after having a baby :(

meteorness123 · 2023-05-08T18:34:11+00:00

The good thing as man is that you dont really need looks as long as youre not deformed.

What a time to be alive.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-08T18:17:11+00:00

Q4W. I’ve come up with the conclusion that dating hasn’t fundamentally changed at all for y’all in the past 20 years. It’s just gotten worse for men but that’s only something that’s seen on their side.

But for y’all it’s not changed much. And definitely not for the worse probably Slightly for the better due to the convenience of dating apps which are just men vending machine for y’all.

How far am I off ?

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-05-08T18:14:46+00:00

I need my natural blonde gf now, god please!

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-08T17:59:27+00:00

Q4W: How often do you have feelings of worthlessness?

LaloTwins · 2023-05-08T17:45:26+00:00

Forever Based Billy Burr

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-05-08T17:42:56+00:00

Q4Men: if you are the sole breadwinner in a traditional relationship do you think it’s acceptable for your wife to divorce you if you can’t provide for an extended period of time?

Preme2 · 2023-05-08T17:40:05+00:00

Summer side chick vibes ladies 💅

noresultguy · 2023-05-08T17:28:50+00:00

Most women (18-29) are already in relationship. We can assume most of them are with average/normie guys. I am wondering if a chad (6 foot, millionaire, kind, muscular, handsome) approach you with serious intention (he want you to be his exclusive GF) and you feel he is not lying, will you accept his approach ? Will you consider leaving (not cheating) your actual BF for him ? Thanks for your answer.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-05-08T17:18:29+00:00

Now that I think about it, I’ve never actually bought or signed up for anything that anyone tried to come to my door and sell me. Either at my parents house or my house.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-08T17:10:44+00:00

I don’t think men should have preferences. I think women are the gatekeepers to sex and relationships and decide a man’s worth. I think women ar e better than men in general. Better looking and more better.

Men stop having preferences. That’s toxic and it’s patriarchy. Support women they’re amazing!!

Also I want a woman WITH A HIGH BODY count that means she loves sharing energies and will appreciate giving me energies. The higher the better!!

I LOVE WOMEN!!!✊🏾🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫵🏽🙏🏾🦾💪🏾🦾👀👁️👅

AnUnstableNucleus · 2023-05-08T16:59:50+00:00

Casual reminder you can change your interface language on reddit to pirate english.

Preferences > interface language > Arrrrrr!

Peacesquad · 2023-05-08T16:56:44+00:00

It’s giving Side Chick Energy

Peacesquad · 2023-05-08T16:56:23+00:00

What did I miss

baresquad · 2023-05-08T16:45:37+00:00

The focus needs to move away from “most men” when discussing dating. They center every topic around themselves but it’s pointless for the focus to be on a portion of men who basically aren’t participating.

For example, if the topic centers around things that men are capable of, it doesn’t make sense to focus on men who aren’t capable. There’s no need to respond to points saying things like “that’s not true for most men.”

It invalidates the realities of other men. And with “most” being relative in the grand scheme of men as a whole, there’s just as many other men as there are “most men”

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-05-08T16:31:16+00:00

back to back 40th birthday celebrations this weekend. I'm so tired, bloated, and hungover today.

there really are a lot of fat people, I just spend so much time in my bubble I never see them.
Limburger cheese is not that bad if you can get past the smell, its actually pretty mild in flavor
Doug Benson is 60 year old and has absurdly healthy + long hair for is age. However he did compliment my joint rolling skills.
why do the nouveau-riche like Brazilian steakhouses so much?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-08T16:29:10+00:00

So with the 'are we dating the same man' pages, how severely do they doxx the men involved? Would this not fall on Reddit TOS?

teball3 · 2023-05-08T16:25:50+00:00

You ever seen that old post about if somebody is coming at you with a crazy conspiracy, you should just try to out-crazy them until they go away? I'm gonna start trying that with RP. Like:

"AF/BB is real! She's just using you for money after riding the cock carousel!"

"You believe in AF/BB, but don't account for FL(Father Leaves)? You absolute child, don't you know that a woman with a present father can scare any Alphas into marriage? I bet you don't even consider Centauri rule that all societies fluctuate from AF/BB into AD/BL (Alpha Dies, Beta Lives) and back again."

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-08T16:23:46+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13ay4ye/i_shared_my_story_on_a_are_we_dating_the_same_man/

Looked into her post history a bit and it appears her ex cheated on her. The way she wrote it you'd have think he kidnapped her, beat her, and stole her life savings.

Personally I think it's a good thing for people to know if someone is spreading rumors about them privately. There are two sides to every story and people should get a chance to defend themselves.

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-08T16:11:44+00:00

Am I crazy or is geology/earth sciences the STEM major with the most conventionally attractive people on average

LaloTwins · 2023-05-08T15:44:10+00:00

An odd comeback I've seen on here is if you wanna criminalise paternity fraud you've gotta criminalise men fathering multiple children with multiple women...

What?

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-08T15:39:01+00:00

Advice from female dating strategy (from the app):

assume all men will pump and dump you until they prove themselves otherwise

some men take pride in breaking a woman’s heart. Be careful.

onlyfans is exploits women

Men here: 🤬🤬🤬🤬 this is misandry!!!

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