Daily Community Chat Megathread

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-08T18:44:52+00:00

Still funny that women are expected to vet men or it’s our fault when we’re around shitty guys, yet guys here rationalize not vetting women whatsoever and then act like victims when most women they know are shitty.

baiser_vole · 2023-11-08T18:39:32+00:00

:/ I have a concert I want to go to, and the tickets are sold out. Even the black market has crappy tickets. I might just get those crappy tickets though. I really should be paying more attention to who’s coming to perform.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-08T18:34:14+00:00

I'm listening to the controversial Matt Healy episode of the Adam Friedland Show and it really isn't even that bad. Just sounds like how a bunch of guys talk when they're fucking around. Weird how women will push sex work is real work, then cancel men for not watching the right kind of porn. Weird though because the hosts are making way worse jokes and weren't cancelled. I'm starting to buy into this whole anti-woke stuff.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T18:32:13+00:00

Are women good at mate selection?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T18:28:35+00:00

Lori Harvey back to the streets lol

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-11-08T18:11:33+00:00

Stupid dating strategy is going for an already successful man. You're competing with everyone else.

Smart dating strategy is to identify winners before they win. Requires taking a risk and being intuitive/intelligent, so as usual people just want the quick fix.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T18:06:31+00:00

I hate hearing my mother talk about my disability. I covered my ears today when she tried talking to me about it. I just hate hearing about my embarrassing behaviors and how awkward I am. I've always had to hear how awkward and different I was, I just want to stop being embarrassed about myself.

relish5k · 2023-11-08T17:53:27+00:00

Im 2 weeks postpartum and first time mom. Honestly, I didn't expect postpartum to be this difficult. I heard stories about it, but all the pains, brain fog, traumatic birth, newborn... I cannot recognize myself anymore in mirror. My husband is not that helpful with baby but he works long hours and I'm forever grateful for that. I'm experiencing really bad cramps from birth and yesterday night I couldn't sleep. I knew I was getting only few hours of sleep before baby wakes up so l got up and put period cramp massager on because that's the only thing that saves me now (I'm breastfeeding therefore don't take painkillers). About 20 min later my husband woke me up screaming on me that he can't sleep from vibration. He woke up my son. I quickly to picked him up and exited the room but he followed us shouting how he can't take it anymore and how I'm selfish and lazy woman because I ask him to babysit our son so I can take a shower or prepare a meal). I was just crying and begging him to stop so I can feed my baby. I was thinking about calling my dad because I was scared. After he left I spent my night crying and thinking about what he said. I don't know if I really did something wrong?

When women are single, it’s because they are too picky.

When women leave their partners, it’s because they weren’t picky enough.

If anything, women should be pickier and more people should be single. Wouldn’t help the birth rate but would be great for the divorce rate.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-08T17:47:24+00:00

I have to be awake for 42 hours starting midnight yesterday. I took a 40 minute nap last night (doesn't count less than an hour). My joints are hurting a lot worse than usual. I feel like I need another adderall. A little pick me up. Bc otherwise I will pass out at my desk lol

I fucking hate election night. I wish I was warned about it earlier.

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-11-08T17:39:26+00:00

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-08T17:38:32+00:00

Can someone explain to me why sluts love Maya Angelou lol. Ever since the days I remember on MySpace in like 2005 to Facebook, to IG, to snap I seen girls who I know for a fact got trains run on them stay posting pics and quotes of her. She’s like their idol and inspiration. Like it got to the point when I matched with a girl on a dating site who had a Maya quote in her profile I knew I was smashing lol. Is it because she said she was a sex worker in her younger days? Which is weird cause many of these girls aren’t sex workers, they don’t get paid they just like to get ran threw(which is fine btw) I’m just curious

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-11-08T17:37:50+00:00

Since my last LSD experience I turned into a complete sociopath and lost all empathic feelings, it's great and bad at the same time

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T17:35:38+00:00

Bro, red pill men believe in being disciplined until its time to practice monogamy and be faithful to their SO.

Quite the irony, bro.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-08T17:34:53+00:00

I feel like a lot of parents place a ton of pressure on their kids to be scholars in school. Like I knew kids in middle school and high school who get anxiety in class because going home to their parents with an 85 was unacceptable, it was 95 and up. Some of these parents weren’t great in school either themselves which is kinda weird. You were a steady 77 student in high school.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-08T17:30:29+00:00

It's obvious that most of us are degenerates. What are your red flags?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-08T17:08:16+00:00

you're not an incel unless even prostitutes reject you

fakecels love appropriating true incel struggles

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-08T17:06:50+00:00

Last movie I saw in a theater was The Creator. The action was good and the art direction was probably the best thing about it, but I found it worked best if you just enjoyed the visuals and didn't think too hard about the plot holes, inconsistencies, and stuff that didn't make sense. Anyone see any good movies lately?

md8716 · 2023-11-08T17:04:25+00:00

I always feel sorry for people who say relationships or marriages are hard work.

I've found that marriage and relationships are way too easy and effortless if the 1) the girl is diligent team player that can trust and follow the guy's lead, 2) the guy is a good leader and generally a good dude who handles his shit and doesn't cheat, and 3) they both fuck regularly.

It's pretty simple, yet people constantly overcomplicate it. Particularly, chronically online overly neurotic "educated" people.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T16:57:39+00:00

The best thing about being a man is expecting nothing from any one. Like bro, I don't complain, I'm not entitled to nothing and I have to earn what I want, bro.

Life on enhanced hard mode

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-08T16:50:44+00:00

Ohio I guess "codified abortion rights" and "legalized recreational marijuana" and all the leftists are celebrating, but I am definitely full republican now because all I'm thinking is, "cool, they just normalized getting high and killing babies"

Anyways, I used to be cool and liberal, but I've seen what a leftist utopia looks like, and it is pretty awful. Progressivism is a race to the bottom. It is the "good times make soft men and soft men make hard times" thing.

The only progressive policies I support is being more of a welfare state like scandinavia, but socially I am way more conservative than I used to be.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-11-08T16:47:15+00:00

everyone is aware of the phenomena where a guy pays for a woman's rent/bills before theres really an established commitment. Does anyone know of someone where the roles were reversed?... The woman pays for the man's stuff?

Please share the story if applicable

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T16:33:06+00:00

Bro, to succeed at dating, you have to be a toxic f-boy who asks for s3x early. Proof -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17q6h3c/dating_this_guy_for_a_month_and_a_half_and_he/

Stay toxic, bro

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T16:31:46+00:00

They hate men, because men are more likely to resist.

RESIST, bro.

monster_lily · 2023-11-08T16:16:33+00:00

We have all been banned from using the vending machine at lunch

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-08T16:09:58+00:00

"PROVE TO ME THAT I SHOULDN'T KILL MYSELF AND THAT A GF ISN'T THE ONLY SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEMS. GIVE ME REASONS OR GIVE ME A GF! NOPE, NOT GOOD ENOUGH! THAT'S NOT A GOOD REASON!"

...I get that we should always endeavour to help but I ain't dealing with that fucking nonsense. Get tae fuck. That isn't a genuine cry for help.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-08T16:05:57+00:00

Sometimes I wonder about the women who talk such a big game here on PPD. I wonder about the men you all select. Who are they. How successful were they with women before you met them. How many romantic and sexual failures did they experience before being so lucky meeting you.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-08T15:59:12+00:00

If your spouse inherited a vacation house would you contribute towards the costs associated with it? Edit: To be clear, together you two can afford the costs and you rent the house out to make money.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-08T15:39:25+00:00

Only PPD will tell you that it's not normal to have friends

💔

monster_lily · 2023-11-08T15:36:21+00:00

Wahhhhhhh this is not fair 😢

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happy_discus · 2023-11-08T15:27:24+00:00

I hate working out so much. I work out every second day of the week since January and haven't gained a single bit of muscle mass.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-08T15:27:23+00:00

Threatening suicide to a bunch of strangers who don't know you is wild. And then demanding they give you a girlfriend to prevent your suicide is even wilder.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-08T15:13:46+00:00

I think someone having an unhealthy need for external validation (not only from the opposite sex but in general) is the best way to predict infidelity.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-08T14:58:25+00:00

it’s really fucked up to say “hey strangers, if you don’t give me a solution to fix my life then i’m going to kill myself”

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T14:57:40+00:00

Did looksmaxxxxxxxing work for any of you men?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-11-08T14:57:36+00:00

If the biggest problem in your life is not getting the casual sex you want with the women you want I'm afraid you might be "living life on easy mode"

thetruthishere_ · 2023-11-08T14:57:22+00:00

New songs on the playlist.

On & On

Lose Control

Our Days Are Numbered

houstongradengineer · 2023-11-08T14:53:53+00:00

Q4M: have you ever been hollered at by a group of men from a driving car, or is this just something men only do to women? It happened to me, so I'm curious.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-08T14:49:44+00:00

I’m getting a lot of “situationship” content on my instagram feed. I don’t know how to tell y’all this but if you’re in the “talking stage” with a man for 3 months, y’all are fucking and he still hasn’t asked for commitment. He doesn’t like you, sis.

I’ve never been in a relationship but I’m pretty observant. The difference between men who want to be with you and genuinely get to know you vs men who only ever had sexual intentions with you are STARK. Even if they’re lying it’s pretty easy to tell by their actions or rather, inaction.

princedune · 2023-11-08T14:48:17+00:00

anybody else notice an uptick in tinder bots lately? ive gotten like a dozen matches this week, unfortunately all bots. I feel like chad when I look at my notifications though

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-08T14:45:31+00:00

I just realized something, I was the receiving end of a betabuxx situation. It is so weird, I don't think I'm a Chad at all. I'm too short and ugly and poor, but I've been on the receiving end of girls giving me money and gifts.

I think this really does come down to game, showermaxxing, and knowing your niche market appeal.

ArmariumEspada · 2023-11-08T14:44:08+00:00

I’m sick of this notion in society that male sexuality is dirty an perverted but female sexuality is mature, holistic, or morally superior. It’s not true.

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-11-08T14:39:34+00:00

Not saying that I'll suicide didn't get me a girlfriend. Saying that I'll suicide also didn't get me a girlfriend. What have you got for me that's better than suicide? I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask for help one last time, so this is it.

At this point I'll be better off by just killing myself. I see no reason to call a crisis hotline (or anything like that) because I've already tried that, and they tell me they can't help me.

If I say that I'm going to kill myself unless someone finds a woman to be my girlfriend, will someone finally find a woman to my girlfriend? Obviously, we're talking about a woman who also want that.

I'm at the point where, unless someone does that for me, I'll be better of just suiciding. I'm not going to justify why this is the case, it just is.

See, I tried to get a girlfriend on my own. I tried everything. Sorry, I don't have time to explain every thing I tried. I tried to get help with this and no one will help me.

For a long time suicide wasn't the default, best option for me. I tried asking for someone to find a woman to be my girlfriend without mentioning suicide, but no one would bother trying to help me.

Now that suicide is better for me than continuing to live without a girlfriend, I have also asked for help and mentioned that my default best-way-forward is suicide. I asked many, many times. Every time I asked they refused to help me, which means giving me what I asked for. When I tell the crisis hotline that my crisis is that I don't have a girlfriend they will hang up on me. I've tried calling back several times.

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
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Date	November 8, 2023 9:00 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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