Do you have one type or multiple types ?

ScarAdvanced9562 · 2021-11-05T03:34:03+00:00

Smart brunettes who play softball. Oddly specific but 3 out of 3.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-05T05:44:26+00:00

Big ass latinas, followed by by big ass anything else.

theosamabahama · 2021-11-05T04:12:39+00:00

physical type, not so much apart from tall-ish and white-ish and not obese.

personality-wise, i like guys who are a bit rough but cultured. if he can win a fistfight and then play jazz guitar i'll do whatever he says.

MisterShogunate · 2021-11-05T08:02:25+00:00

I have phases. There are times I'm all about model looking tall skinny blonde white chicks, then there are times I'm into really curvy women. I've had an asian girl phase, but now it seems I'm pretty much all over the map. I haven't been with a black girl though, but I am very open to dating one.

kyjolski · 2021-11-05T04:43:30+00:00

I like all kinds of girls, but definitely have a preference for a few things - petit, gingers, short hair, alternative style. Working out is always a major plus.

Non-physical traits (crucial for LTR) would include being smart, open minded, non-religious, laid back (as in, don't stress about minor shit that doesn't matter), ambitious and up to travel/doing things/experiencing life (couch dwellers are a no).

purplish_possum · 2021-11-05T13:34:59+00:00

I like big black women -- and big Hispanic women -- and big white women -- and big Asian women ...

My old secretary told me my black GF, my former Native American GF, my Hispanic 2nd ex-wife, and my white 1st ex-wife all looked exactly the same. She had a point -- they did all look similar -- soft round neotenous features.

lostandconfusedhaha · 2021-11-05T05:11:26+00:00

Speaking of extremes I don’t have one type, but several combinations of hair/skin color/texture that I’ve always been drawn to. And i figured out recently that they all follow a pattern of contrast.

Pale white skin with really dark or black hair; redheads they just automatically are contrasting or striking; light hair and eyes with really tan skin (italians and eastern europeans, and some middle easterns, i’m talking abt u); anyone with green eyes as that is also striking.

If your light but have curly hair, love. If you’re dark but have straight or light hair, love.

it’s just the contrasting features that you don’t typically see — so yeah, it’s the striking aspect for me as well.

But then there’s always the classic dark brown textured/wavy hair with deep chocolate brown eyes that I seem to always fall back on as ideal, for some reason. Freckles only as the cherry on top.

Siukslinis_acc · 2021-11-05T06:53:55+00:00

I'd say my type would be: goofy, lighthearted, fun, sassy.

Visually would be something like this (taken out of my answer to a thread about fictional characters). The characters till Ishioda have at leastone of the characteristics. Ishioda and after - just the looks.

Looks wise I think it would be at least a bit of facial roughness. Those smooth faces like the K-pop stars have feel a bit "uncanny valley" for me, or just signal to my brain that they are too young/children.

Prismatic_Symphony · 2021-11-05T03:59:07+00:00

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Hard_Thruster · 2021-11-05T05:18:30+00:00

I'm more of a values and goals guy.

Don't really have a physical type. As long as she's attractive.

sunkized · 2021-11-05T11:57:25+00:00

Women that look like Betty gabriel, Lauren hill, or Megan good.

Prismatic_Symphony · 2021-11-05T05:40:17+00:00

Time to build a boo! 37M here.

Ideal physical: thick - (meaning not fat, but curvy (the stomach is not a curve, ladies)) enough to look feminine, but not as extreme as, say, Kim Kardashian. Gotta have a nice round ass. Boobs less important, but if they fit my hands that's an awesome plus. Love dark nipples. Love big nipples. Hair color doesn't matter. Outside of munchkins and giants, height doesn't matter; I've dated a few inches shorter and taller than myself. I'm open to any race, though my description sounds kinda like a black girl, so I may have a slight preference for black. A bit younger than me is ideal, but I've dated older.

Ideal mental - intelligent, kind, likes to travel, likes to read, musician and/or dancer, non-smoker, and some level of physical activity, whether that's dance or regular exercise. Her actual level of education doesn't matter, but if it's high it's a bonus, as it implies (though doesn't guarantee) intelligence. I'm an intelligent and witty guy, and it's rare that a woman can keep up with me, so when it happens I'm definitely interested. I'm a musician and dancer, so if she's at least one of those, we can super-duper connect on appreciation of good music.

Though I say I have a type, those who I've ended up dating haven't often fit that cause of who's around me and interested in me, and cause getting to know her personality helps plenty for accepting physical flaws; a beautiful personality makes her body seem more beautiful to me, so her raw looks may be a tad less important to me than for most men.

manic_Brain · 2021-11-05T04:06:38+00:00

According to my friends and sister, kinda. Usually nerdy and sweet, into kaiju movies and horror, likes to read. Also tend to like more introverted and quiet types.

If you want more physical attributes, I tend to like shorter guys, usually taller than me but I have also yet to meet a guy under 4'11 who was a child though it's not outside of the realm of possibilities. Broader than me is another plus though I doubt that is surprising.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-11-05T04:14:16+00:00

In terms of looks, not really. But my other standards are pretty specific so the same type of guy generally meets them.

Miserable_Yam4778 · 2021-11-05T05:30:43+00:00

Smart but not obnoxious about it, usually a juvenile sense of humor, will cast aside all pretense of dignity in the presence of a cat.

Usually black or brown hair, green or grey eyes, somewhere between like 5'5 and 5'8 and chubby.

lybid8 · 2021-11-05T06:01:12+00:00

I really don’t think most people have a set physical type, but maybe general features they Tend to go for - for me it’s good hair usually dark, at least 6 in taller than me (I’m 5 8), athletic.

redheadbeauty15 · 2021-11-05T06:38:58+00:00

Alain Delon & James Deanesque men

Or

rugged, tattooed, sort of skinny sort of greasy vibe with full lips and full hair

TheMorningJoe · 2021-11-05T06:54:38+00:00

I don’t even know anymore lol

Illustrious_Wish_383 · 2021-11-05T08:15:52+00:00

I dont really have a hard type. I've been attracted to women who, if you put then into a lineup, would look vastly different.

I also am pretty fucking sure I don't fit anyone's type myself.

rivetcitymayor · 2021-11-05T13:38:42+00:00

“ I ain’t got no type …bad bitches is the only thing that I like “

ashpr0ulx · 2021-11-05T14:32:59+00:00

one type: swamp rednecks. my type is literally florida man.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-11-05T03:45:47+00:00

I like men who:

Have dark hair

Clear skin

Are decently taller than me (at least 5’8)

Wide shoulders, broad back, long arms - built like they were made for crew

Workout

Generally have some sort of should-be-a-flaw-but-really-isn’t facial feature - a Roman nose, a scar, etc

Well groomed. No man buns, ew

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-11-05T03:45:18+00:00

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Pastelitomaracucho · 2021-11-05T05:03:43+00:00

I like them smart, educated in science, with boobs, and younger than me.

00_BergEmergence · 2021-11-05T06:19:05+00:00

If some landwhale with horrible skin and bad breath told you she played D&D you would not be head over heels for her lol.

Everyone has a similar type, that type is people who have strong indicators of fertility and good genes.

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MLEMisafunnyword · 2021-11-05T03:43:39+00:00

My ONS and FWBs have been all over the place, no real common thread. I like all types.

But somehow 3/6 of my LTRs have been olive skinned Sicilian virgos (all Sicilian, too, like, family straight from Sicily), the other 3 were pale white artsy rail thin virgos. Astrology is plainly bullshit, but I still find it funny. Like, what are the fuckin odds?

My preference is a different story. I think Middle Eastern chicks, when they're hot, are the hottest on the planet.

baresquad · 2021-11-05T03:51:30+00:00

I would assume most people have multiple types

I do but all kinda within the same framework. I do well with leftist women likely because at the base we have a meeting of the minds so foundational compatibility is really strong and within that there’s such a dynamic diverse group of types that I fuck with

Art girls, athletes, Instagram types, astrology girls (I get asked my birth time A LOT), teachers, musicians, nannies all in all a bunch of cold ass women

yungthrowaway97 · 2021-11-05T09:21:59+00:00

One type. But can find more sexually appealing. But only one type makes me feel that butterfly feeling.

WheelIntelligent1354 · 2021-11-05T09:28:25+00:00

I have multiple types, but for different things. I definitely want a more traditional girl for a more serious relationship. I also want a more modern women for more casual things.

snowcakey · 2021-11-05T09:47:57+00:00

6ft+, athletic, handsome, asian male

Bandit174 · 2021-11-05T09:49:07+00:00

Either white with brown hair blue eyes or Asian and I lean towards prefering Asian lately. They tend to be cuter and I think they often have the most beautiful hair. Those are my two main types in regards to skin/eyes/hair. I'm not too picky about height or boob size, I can appreciate most sizes/heights within the normal range. Like I could think its hot for a girl to be 5'1 but also hot for her to be closer to my height. And same with boobs, small/medium can be hot and so can large but I probably prefer medium.

fakingandnotmakingit · 2021-11-05T09:58:22+00:00

According to the Internet my type is a unicorn. But somehow I've managed to date 2 of them and marry another.

Essentially I like social, leaning extroverted, sporty nerds.

Bonus if they have tatoos. Bonus if they're outdoorsy types.

Looks wise I seem to have leaned towards tan dudes. Who tend to lean either skinny or lean. Like they don't have muscular gym builds because most of them got their excercise through sports or running, cycling etc

januaryphilosopher · 2021-11-05T10:35:56+00:00

I don't think I really have one, but some characteristics keep popping up. Physically, it's dark hair, not having an extreme body type and being short is a bonus. I'm into people who are intelligent and introverted with a good sense of humour. And I guess everyone I've been really into has been friends with me prior to that in some capacity.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-11-05T11:11:30+00:00

My types have been all over the place. At one point I wanted a thick soul sista, but at another point I wanted to drink some vanilla, then at another point, I preferred a bit of fiery Latina. At this point I don't really have many racial preference (tho I seem to attract white girls the most)

Though I have consistent preferences for a nice ass, thick thighs, and something people haven't mentioned here, but I also can become really attracted to her if she has a nice pair of lips.

As for personality types/archetypes, goth/alt girls have won my di- my heart.

Also I find myself physically attracted to the "Instagram bad bitch" type of girl, but I have my doubts that I would actually date someone like that

UrFoodMolestedMyNose · 2021-11-05T11:45:08+00:00

I think I have a very ridged type lol

racially ambiguous (white + anything not white but strangely I don’t really like white guys unless they fit the following bellow well)
dark brown to black hair (can be lighter if skin is dark)
eye colour in the range of green - black.
athletic build. Fat is a big no not even chub. However skinny is ok as long as they don’t look bone-y.
taller than me but taller is better up to about 8 inches taller (5’10) then no benefit is gained from height.
cheekbones.
no facial hair. Not overly hairy.
visibly good hygiene.
big hands , wide shoulders
nice nose shape.

Freevoulous · 2021-11-05T11:54:18+00:00

Honestly, I have a very specific ype:

- skinny/slim

- sporty build with some lean muscle, supple small ass and small breasts

- black hair

- blue or green eyes

- narrow, slim face, preferably with a straight and narrow nose or aquilline nose

- OPTIONAL: Im very much into "alt" girls, with tattoos, piercings, dreadlocks, and goth-y fashion sense, luckily, im the kind of a guy who attracts those (big, tattooed, bearded and long haired).

Personality: I like intelligent, sarcastic and a bit cynical women with a dry sense of humour. Im very much into intelligent and assholish banter, and love women who can take it and dish it out. My personal ideal is a woman who is "classy sassy" and can dish out nuclear levels of sassy banter while remaining perfectly classy and polite.
Another thing that I find attractive is passion: women who are very much into some hobby or goal, even workaholics who love their job, I find passionate dedication and hard work to be very attractive. If she makes good money on it, and knows how to spend it smartly it moves her to LTR material immediately.

Now, I also pursue women who are not that type (my general policy is to flirt with every passable woman in vicinity, acting like a horny Golden Retriever), but I hang out in places where my type is likely to be present.

AquaChip · 2021-11-05T12:07:02+00:00

Any race. Masculine (not hyper masculine). 5’10 or taller. Muscular but not shredded or jacked. Preferably has hair but if his head is shaped nice then I’ll let the bald slide. Can grow a beard the connects. Very little body hair. Open-minded, outdoorsy, liberal or a least moderate, has a career (doesn’t matter if it’s white collar or blue collar), likes animals, likes to fish, likes reading, pragmatic, values friends and family, more of an introvert than and extrovert.

zeusiscloud · 2021-11-05T12:41:08+00:00

E girls and Goth girls with thicc thighs

2021-11-05T12:58:07+00:00

I have three requirements to want to date a women: I find her attractive, she is kind and caring, she has an interesting and inquiring mind.

In terms of what i find physically attractive. Fairly low body fat is a must. I also like thick hair, preferably long, and a proportionately big butt. But neither of these are absolute requirements.

I have no real preference in terms of height, race or style.

My biggest preference in terms of looks is just don't be fat and i include chubbiness in that.

lulll · 2021-11-05T13:31:20+00:00

probably easier to explain what i dont like, i dont like fat women (little bit of chub is ok), don't like women with southern accents, and i don't like blonde hair

2021-11-05T13:35:18+00:00

I like pretty women with a sense of humor and preferably Black but that’s negotiable and it’s as simple as that.

Expensive-Guitar3609 · 2021-11-05T13:54:26+00:00

I'm into women who look exactly like me, this is tall, white skin brunnetes with hot bodies, and specially with blue eyes. Megan Fox and KateBeckinsale type of women.

It's not like I've only dated this type of women, but I find brunettes extremely alluring. When I'm with a woman who's my looksmatch in every aspect things just feel... "Right". Even the sex is better and more exciting, it's like her body was made to fit mine. Weird shit.

I have to ask, am I a racist because I have a prefference for brunnetes? Not that I care really, but it would be good to know haha.

Commercial-Engineer3 · 2021-11-05T14:08:16+00:00

slim thick women with hourglass figures (Kim Kardashian shape), long hair, interested in health and fitness and self care. Very girly and feminine, and likes smelling nice. Modelesque facial features.

AnabolicPenguin · 2021-11-05T14:14:16+00:00

Nerds and geeks people interested in the world with passion. Id go as far to say good a skin and maybe non saggy boobs even that isn't absolute. I can overlook alot if she makes me happy. Slightly shorter than me.....I like to be able to kiss in missionary literal only reason. Race not important its how you act and treat others.

SkookumTree · 2021-11-05T16:47:20+00:00

Physical: between 5' and 6', in decent physical shape. No health issues or severe/heritable deformities. Preferably likes working out.

Personality: An ambitious abrasive bitch! Someone that is blunt, tells it like it is, doesn't have much tact or filter. And is caring.

sine120 · 2021-11-05T17:29:17+00:00

I married a redhead nerd with no regrets, but that's not the only type of girls I like;

I like big girls, pretty kitty girls, really witty girls, singin' ditty girls.

I like the leggy girls with the nice thighs, I like a good chest no matter what size

I like the belly folds, I like the 6 packs. Really tall queens, and the short stacks.

Yeah I just really like girls.

metropolisapocalypse · 2021-11-05T05:13:31+00:00

Exactly two. Either nerdy gamer sweet pretty boy with a good heart, or sexy dom dumb jock guy who has definitely committed many crimes.

Maybe one day I will meet a combo and he will be My Perfect Man™️.

Mimoxs · 2021-11-05T05:42:23+00:00

A couple of types but essentially more like subtypes within a type. I like multiple personality/trope types but all the same physical type

But I can find aesthetic types pleasing. Like nerd boy vs artsy boy vs alt boy vibes. As long as they're the same height/build/face

over348 · 2021-11-05T07:04:05+00:00

Be at a good weight and have a low body count and im game

NarniaFox · 2021-11-05T07:16:27+00:00

If we have emotional connection and I find their smell alluring, I can become into them. I don't have any visual preferences though and I've fallen mostly for my friends. So similar/compatible values and interests are necessary.

philomexa · 2021-11-05T03:52:01+00:00

For the millionth time, I'm only into brooding musicians preferably pale, thin, and tattooed, long dark hair is a bonus.

My husband is a midwest-touring-bar-band version of these fellows.

All other types of men are NPCs.

Romeo_Is_Bleedin · 2021-11-05T10:44:39+00:00

men in this thread; "I like short or tall, petite or curvy girls with nice boobs, but I also like small boobs, fit butts, but also kind into thicc milfs so don't mind the cellulite ..."

women; "I'm totally not into the conventional hunk type, I like funny nerds with broad shoulders and chiseled jawlines, I also have a thingy for tall guys, but that's just meee teehee"

Khidorahian · 2021-11-05T14:57:44+00:00

any women with a slim abs dainty build and looks good in swimsuits. Through I do like more thick women too.. just ladies in swimsuits just make me go ooga

Weary_Lingonberry717 · 2021-11-05T15:33:36+00:00

attractive people are attractive regardless of your type. tall, blonde and skinny women were considered the epitom of beauty standards in US, but that didn't stop the kardashians to become billionaires by looking good. asian men are considered the least attractive, but many girls would fawn over a regular guy who looks like jungkoon or jackson wang , even if the majority of them, prefer black or white guys. if you have facial symetry, healthy hair, straight teeth and a good figure wether it's fit or skinny, then you will have many people simping for you even if you're not their type.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-11-05T15:47:04+00:00

When it comes to just purely sexual attraction multiple types, I've fucked a variety of women based on race, body type, personality, etc

Now when it comes to relationships my standards do get a little more narrow

learn2earn89 · 2021-11-05T15:58:29+00:00

When I was younger I had crushes on short to average height (5’5”-5’9”) Hispanic guys that ranged from pale to light brown skin with either pitch black hair to a golden brown. Usually super skinny or somewhat muscular.

In college I had crushes on average height men with blue or brown eyes with average build. After college I really didn’t pay attention to anyone. Around 25 I started becoming attracted to dark haired white dudes with tall, lanky physiques.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-11-05T16:49:02+00:00

I thought i had multiple times then i was told after showing multiple people I'd dated or slept with to an individual on this sub (who were in pics i was showing of me ofc) she was like yo you have a very distinct type of slim, angular face, like not rounded face, with certain body type. And i look bad on all the girls i slept with and my mind is actually kinda blown as to how many of them actually fit this mold.

To date they gotta be smart and successful too

wrtcdevrydy · 2021-11-05T16:53:02+00:00

There's a minimum attractiveness threshold for me and then I look into personality traits.

Someone who is constantly learning and improving themselves just goes to 10/10 instantly.

Orange_Paisley · 2021-11-05T17:48:06+00:00

If you lined up all my exes you’d be hard pressed to find physical similarities. But they’re all loners, weirdos or nerds.

That__EST · 2021-11-05T18:13:46+00:00

Alternative styled BBW brunette women with tattoos. Feminine. Pisces.

🤤

manfrom-nantucket · 2021-11-05T19:47:34+00:00

Just don't be fat, old or boring.

funlightmandarin · 2021-11-05T20:02:55+00:00

Tall, assertive, dark-haired, olive-skinned, tired-looking intellectuals/academics with a nerdy side. 😍

LJinnysDoll · 2021-11-05T21:14:05+00:00

I liked mixed raced males. My fiancé is Black/Italian, and before him I was with a British/Egyptian guy. Just gorgeous to me. Bad-boys, Skinny, tatted up sleeves and chests, dark hair, caramel colored skin, dark eyes. Mysterious as fuck, and slightly broken. Both had most of those traits.

I’m a thicc white girl with porcelain skin, dark eyes, and long dark brown hair.

OneAngryBlutbad · 2021-11-05T21:15:18+00:00

I like Black women and Asian women who are metalheads, into alt fashions and looks and active hobbies like hiking or horseback riding or even mixed martial arts or shooting and hunting. Looks wise I like slim Black women with big butts and big boobs, same for Asian women and I admittedly have a thing for redheads especially tattooed redheads for some reason.

tonyghow · 2021-11-05T22:18:02+00:00

So... all women are your type.

resultsmatter1 · 2021-11-05T23:52:42+00:00

This is our problem, our likes as men are too varied compared to women.

AbbreviationsHot1200 · 2021-11-06T00:36:51+00:00

Blondes and Asians

S0mnariumx · 2021-11-06T03:54:40+00:00

Alt girls of any of those subcultures. Their style points even overcome not having my preferred body type.

Willow-girl · 2021-11-06T05:54:57+00:00

"Among those I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those I love, I can: they all make me laugh." - W.H. Auden

Hello891011 · 2021-11-06T08:55:46+00:00

Guys who are sober (not used to be the case) and I’d hope that they’re in to cars :) the rest idc just not boring

f1vepointoh · 2021-11-06T12:41:03+00:00

A woman with a nice butt and isnt a sjw

redkoicarp · 2021-11-06T14:24:38+00:00

Yeah I've noticed I have multiple types, which I found quite interesting. However, I have one type that is my "favorite" of all types, means, one type I consider to be "husband material" or something, if that makes sense (?). Perhaps this is only a phase know and I could imagine it changing when I actually meet one of my other types, fall in love and prefer that type then as a result. How about you, does that sound familiar?

controversyonly · 2021-11-07T02:18:59+00:00

I love cute black women with curly hair, light skin darkskin, brow skin

I love middle eastern and North African women with with curly hair

I love Indian women with wavy hair

I like any woman with curly hair who’s cute

Title	Do you have one type or multiple types ?
Author	theosamabahama
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Date	November 5, 2021 3:16 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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