Well apparently the worlds largest cuckold checking in.

redpillschool · 2015-07-23T14:00:37+00:00

TRP Mod here. Please PM me any usernames and the body of the messages you were sent and I'll be happy to take moderator action. Anybody contacting you, especially harassment, is strictly against our rules and they will be dealt with.

MoreDetermined · 2015-07-23T13:22:28+00:00

Alright dude, first off, welcome. The idiots who messaged you either have no fucking idea on how to behave themselves or are just plain stupid. Pretty much the highest rule of trp is to keep your knowledge to yourself, to stay the fuck out of other subreddits and to never preach trp in public.

Either way, you seem to be open to criticism, otherwise you wouldn't be here. Let me tell you one thing though: Not a single person in this subreddit will ever tell you to get back with your gf. No sane man would do that and the fact that you still want to stay with her after everything that happened shows me that you still are a beta bitch and you have some big time oneitis. (No offense, that's just how it is).

No idea why you feel like you should stay with her, but trust me, you should not. There are millions of other girls out there who might be worth your time. She has proven that she is not one of them.

Also: Therapists won't help. If I remember correctly your therapist saw it as a success that your gf banged that other dude, didn't she? Well, that tells you everything you need to know about therapists.

If you want some other advice than that, you are not ready for trp yet. Nobody here will ever tell you something else other than to dump her.

-IIII----------IIII- · 2015-07-24T04:22:00+00:00

Love and attraction are not subjects that a pretentious therapist can help you with. I hate to break it to you, but they can only be understood with first-hand experience.

I know everyone's telling you to dump her. I probably just sound like another voice in an abyss of negativity.

Honestly though man, if you have any sense of self-respect and spine, you'd break up with her. She's clearly mentally unfit to be in a relationship, as she cheat on you after you tried to support her. Now she realizes her limits of how much she can walk over you, so after she lulls you into her comfort zone she's gonna walk all over you and stay just below that threshold where you stand up for yourself.

Please, for your sake, dump the bitch. Work on improving yourself, and this will just be a stain in your history rather than the plague that ruined your life.

caputpill · 2015-07-25T21:08:16+00:00

Thank you for actually taking the time to read and understand the redpill before disregarding it - You will be glad you did so later.

I have a question for you on an area that I hope you will ponder further about - you wrote:

I am going with her again to her therapist on Friday for more info. I'll just say it now. If it was ongoing or more than one, I'm out. No questions asked. I don't give two shits what either sister has to say about it.

I want you to think about what reasons you have to accept a one-time affair but not a continuous one. From my point of view there are no differences what so ever and if you can see that aswell then you will se that not staying together with her is the right choice.

If you want to elaborate on why you believe there is a difference I would like to discuss this with you.

I ask you this question because there is no logic to your reasoning. I believe it is part of your internal 'hamster'(research this word if you don't know the meaning) trying to cope with the pressure you feel all around you to stay with her. If you actually had the balls to drop out and don't give to shits about the peer pressure, then you would have done it already.

But you don't because you arn't a well developed man with clear boundaries and your own agenda(alpha) so instead your hamster makes you think that:

Atleast it didn't happen more than once, it was just a one time thing and it didn't mean anything.. if it only happened once then I can get through this.

When you learn she has done it more than once I believe your hamster will develop new ways to cope, making you think thoughts like:

Okay, it happened more than once. But atleast she didn't swallow his cum and lick it of her fingers or do that special thing we always do afterwards or call him our honeyboney like she calls me

Then you will learn that she has done that as well and your hamster will develop - until one of two things happen:

You will feel hopeless and trapped in your life. Not happy and without a vision for a better future. Many people have been there and that is the reason why suicide rates for men is trippled compared to women - because no one comes to help you and takes your side. The sisters is a great example of how they value a cheating woman above a man and even a therapist will tell you to stay with such in such a toxic enviroment as a cheating girlfriend is.
You will feel hopeless and trapped in your life. Not happy and without a vision for a better future. She will cheat on you again and eventually leave you - there may or may not be kids. They might be yours, but unlikely - you will drift again, being single you lapse on to another, more vile women and continue the cycle.

Or you can take control of your life now and accept the truths that the redpill offers. Start respecting yourself and have boundaries for how other people use you, build yourself both physically, mentally and professionally and accept that you, and only you can make you happy.

I hope you will respond to this - I would like to hear your(or anyones) thoughts about my post. I truly wish you the best.

This is my choice and I'm right now choosing to take back what was my place in her life. If it blows up in my face then its on me, I am going into this with my eyes wide open.

I don't have any advice for you on how to keep your girlfriend and be happy at the same time. I don't have any of those because I don't see it as a possibility. When it blows up I hope you will remember us here - the kind spirits that tried to help you - and return to us. Don't listen to the insults and see through the harsh tone about women in here. Most people are still in the anger phase and needs a place to vent.(many have been through similiar situations) But it doesn't affect the theories credibilities, only your view of them.

caputpill · 2015-07-23T13:46:24+00:00

OP - Do you want to know how your girlfriend suddenly was able to bang you? You pulled whats called the ultimate game by dropping the bomb that you would dump her ass.

Read this:

They respond immediately to cure the immedate itch- which is that an ultimatum exists. But the emotional impact and consequences may be further down the line. You might not see it, but it will not be an effective long term strategy. She may do what it takes to keep you from leaving right then and there- but that doesn't mean you've affected her attraction to you. You haven't. How she feels won't be modified in the same way as real dread.

But nevertheless, none of these things is trying to negotiate attraction. Which does not work. And that's what an ultimatum is.

Remember - She was attracted to her coworker whose dick and cum she sucked and swallowed - Honest question: How can you NOT think of that ~~you kiss her~~ she kisses you?

( Crossed over because lets be honest, you still don't have the balls in the relationship to be the one who decides where and when the kisses are dealt)

badbfriend · 2015-07-24T19:04:41+00:00

I owe the community an apology.

I went back through my p.m.'s and I was going to screen shot the rape p.m.'s to the mods here because after reading the sight and the responses I came to the conclusion that those people did not represent fairly or accurately what you guys are about.

Guys I'm just shy of 4 k messages, not from here but just in general since my first post over on /r/relationships, so it is not an easy thing to look sift threw the messages.

But I found it and well I'm here to say

mea culpa.

The offending posts did not have a link to trp. It was sandwhiched between a couple of other posts that linked up to that thread on your main page and some of the language was the same. But I was wrong, there was no link so therefor more than likely they were not trp members.

If you guys or the mods would like I will happily delete my post to you guys.

Now going through a lot of other posts there were ones that had the harsh language calling me a "pussy", "bitch", "spineless" or other stuff but after reading the thread and reading a lot of the sidebar I've just come to the conclusion that this is just the way you guys talk (or at least some of you talk like that).

However the real kick in the ass for me was that when I stopped and read beyond the initial name calling I read that not everybody was saying this stuff to put me down but doing it to maybe wake me up and see things from another view point.

In fact a trp member by the name /u/_Big_Nick_Diggers sent me the link and a very solid heartfelt message about my situation.

In other words my entire post is null and void.

I'll leave it up to the mods if they want me to delete. Personally I've gotten some really good info from this post.

Also for anyone who wants to know I will be leaving the job in just over an hour on my way to the meeting with Sara and the therapist.

Archwinger · 2015-07-23T11:23:38+00:00

There are 3.5 billion women on Earth. This one particular woman you're with is not special. She's just the only woman giving you anything close to a chance. She's actually worse than most other women. Not only is she a cheater. She's damaged.

Her rape isn't your fault, and it isn't your problem. You shouldn't have to deal with this. You're not married. You have every right to find a non-damaged woman who isn't a cheater and be happy.

You're sticking with this one, non-special, inferior woman for two reasons. Sunk cost - you don't want to lose all that you've invested in her so far. And lack of options - you don't think you'll find anyone else or do any better.

In this case, no woman would be better than this damaged one. But you have the potential to improve yourself and be happy if you own your shit, right now, and start doing the work.

CrazyHorseInvincible · 2015-07-23T20:35:23+00:00

PMed in parallel.

I apologize for TRP coming and finding you. That's not supposed to happen.

TRP is a boot camp. We call people things like "bitch" and "faggot" here, to motivate them. But boot camps are for volunteers. They're not supposed to come find people.

Please realize that however harsh the language, the people who messaged you are actually concerned for your welfare. They told you to "dump the bitch" because they believe that is healthy for you. No matter how much anger you can clearly see in their writing, they are far more angry for you than angry at you.

They are outraged that someone would treat you this way, and they want to see you fight back. I share this desire. I hope that you will read the sidebar, hang out a while (horrific as some of the things you see might look at first glance), and absorb some things that may help you.

As a TRP mod, it's my job to run the community... but I can't prevent people who agree with me from sending PMs with their opinions. That's not happening in the subreddit, so I can't police it.

But don't let it put you off the things here that may be useful to you.

badbfriend · 2015-07-23T15:50:42+00:00

I put an edit on my main post for those interested. I'll be honest my first impression from the people sending me shit wasn't the best but coming here and reading and watching video's has been a little eye opening to say the least.

BigBrother14 · 2015-07-23T11:12:38+00:00

Get the fuck out, is this real life? Now everyone that is stalking his user profile for updates are going to see he posted here.

Either we're going to see gigantic backlash at him, or people following his progress (being in similar situations) and then finding the red pill.

Either way the next day or two should be mildly interesting.

nicethingyoucanthave · 2015-07-23T13:09:09+00:00

telling me that you hope my g/f is raped again while I have to watch is not okay

Nobody thinks that's okay.

Even the person who PMed you that message knows it's not okay.

It's called trolling. People say things not because they believe those things but because they hope to make you angry. If you actually received such a message, you should contact the reddit admins.

The person who sent you that PM may not even have been from TRP. There's a subreddit that sometimes tries to troll us, and they've talked openly about false-flags. About a year ago, there were a lot of women in TwoXChromosomes complaining that they constantly received harassing PMs. When the admins investigated, they found the claims to mostly be lies.

It's so easy to troll, so easy to false-flag, so easy to create fake accounts - you just have to accept that while on the internet, you can't believe everything you read.

bryanlharris · 2015-07-23T14:50:59+00:00

Is the therapist a man or a woman?

wont_tell_i_refuse · 2015-07-23T13:05:05+00:00

How do I take back control of my part in her life?

Dude, you don't. You move on and GFTOW (go fuck ten other women).

It's a hard pill to swallow -- I know from experience -- but there comes a point with a woman where you are fucked. She just doesn't see you like that. She can't. You are beta forever.

So I'm not saying "dump the bitch", I'm saying she dumped you. And there's no coming back.

truchisoft · 2015-07-23T12:40:02+00:00

spare me the "dump the bitch" or "lose the hoe" posts. This is my choice and I'm right now choosing to take back what was my place in her life. If it blows up in my face then its on me

This, here, shows how you are thinking right now, we males give shape to our live by ourselves, you don't have a place in her life, she has a place in your life.

This is what we call "frame", by thinking this way, you are showing you are inside her frame (that is, her reality defines your reality), and this explains a lot of what happened to you.

Lipophobicity · 2015-07-23T11:02:59+00:00

Screenshot the PM's you were sent. Post a pic with the names blacked out here, and without the names blacked out to the mods here and the main TRP subreddit.

I've seen too much made up stuff about TRP to blindly take your word for it.

CryptoManbeard · 2015-07-23T10:17:45+00:00

The reason you will see many people here who post hateful or idiotic comments like that is because they are angry. It's not an excuse, just an explanation. Many of us are here because we made really stupid decisions, trusted women at face value, and then got burned by it. Now that we have a much more realistic point of view in terms of female behavior, seeing a story like yours can be frustrating. For some people who are newer along their journey, they aren't yet comfortable with the truth and so they will get angry when they see someone acting like they used to.

I had an acquaintance explain to me the other day that he is expediting his marriage to his girlfriend. She has multiple kids from her past marriage, and they are expediting for custody purposes. He is Captain Save-a-ho. I shook my head inside and thought, "wow what a dumbass. He thinks he's being a hero but he's just setting himself up to get his heart and wallet torn out of his ass." I read your story and thought the same. You were being completely blind to how bad you are getting screwed, all the while thinking you were just doing the right thing.

You're a good dude. You have a lot of integrity and I applaud your commitment in this case. However, your faith in this girl is clearly misguided and anyone can see that the only ending for this relationship is extreme pain. This woman has absolutely zero respect for you, regardless of what happened. And I would bet that if you could analyze the situation closer, you would probably see that trend even before the rape.

You take back control of your life when you start realizing that you are the only one that will have your best interests in mind. You have to stop putting everyone else ahead of yourself. It's actually unhealthy to constantly put someone else's needs in front of yours if it's a constant thing. There's a clinical term for it, it's called codependency, and you have it bad (I know because I had it and I can easily spot it in others). Around here we'd call it "nice guy" syndrome or being a beta bitch.

There is no easy way to get rid of the blue pill in your life. The first step is knowledge, which you are going to receive now that you've seen there's a truth out there that you didn't know before. Do some sidebar reading, let it soak in, see how it applies in your life. You'll be angry during this time, because you'll realize you've been lied to your whole life and the things you held dear (being a caring individual for example), mean jack shit, and actually can be a hindrance to getting what you want. Eventually you will come to acceptance. Somewhere along the line you will see huge success in most areas of your life, and you'll look at your story at that point and wonder what the fuck you were thinking and how you could be so dumb. You'll also be thankful, because that event lead you on the path you're on. Your story isn't that special TBH. The setting is a little different because of the rape but the main plot points are essentially the same as thousands of others I read about day after day for the last few years (starting when I got cheated on).

bubbleki · 2015-07-23T14:05:40+00:00

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stickfiguresk · 2015-07-23T12:05:25+00:00

I don't know that much about rape victims, so I dont know if her cheating was related to her being raped, but I doubt it. If you take the rape out, your story would match a very large number of dude's stories that ask for help here. Though, your situation still doesn't seem too uncommon.

Her therapist has her wellbeing as a higher priority than yours. The only reason you were informed was because she's giving you the rope required to hang yourself--she's not helping you with shit, just getting some weight off your woman's shoulders.

She may have been 'reclaiming her sexuality', but it was at your expense(obviously). OP, once a girl crosses that line, she's going to keep doing it. Women have no concept of honor--after she's disrespected you on that level, that is now what you're worth. You can't un-cuck yourself with this girl.

OP, that post on TRP was made because you're lacking self-respect. The only people that have a man's interest at heart are sometimes his mother, and sometimes himself. Nobody else is going to stick up for you, while five (?) People have stood up for her.

We have quite a few guides on dating and picking up women and how to comfortably and safely spin plates. Your life can be quite a bit better Tomorrow, if you choose to help yourself. Good luck, man.

iBeNiko · 2015-07-23T15:57:51+00:00

You posting this with your main account that your gf has access to wasn't a smart move.

I'll just say it now. If it was ongoing or more than one, I'm out.

Good luck getting an honest answer, if your gf finds out you wrote this it is guaranteed she will tell you what you want to hear (that it was only once) whether it be the truth or not. And her family and your sister will take her side in keeping the truth from you. She cheated on you once that you know of while showing no affection to you, only to "miraculously" start showing affection towards you when she was threatened with losing you. that is more than enough reason to leave by itself.

caputpill · 2015-07-23T11:37:43+00:00

Dude.. Did you just post on the redpill with the same account that everyone of your peers now knows is you?

You've set yourself up to fail my friend.

First of all. The redpill is very controversial and combined with the harsh tone in here everyone around you will now try and manipulate you to try and see that this is a hate group and that you should dismiss everything that has been said in here.

Even if you succeed in breaking free from that monster and the sisters they will label you as a mysoginist and other 'vile' things and spread rumors about you.

redrandoman · 2015-07-23T12:55:51+00:00

You fucked yourself from getting any solid truth by posting here saying

if it was ongoing or more than once, I'm leaving

Your post history states your sister and your cuckold know your posts on reddit. They know you posted here too, buddy. Good riddance to an honest answer at this point, if you thought complete honestly was even there to begin with.

mordanus · 2015-07-24T01:22:39+00:00

You know how people describe beer goggles? The concept that with enough of a chemical someone becomes attractive even though they really aren't. This is exactly what you are experiencing at this point except the chemical isn't alcohol. You are trying to fix this relationship because you believe you are in love with her. The problem is that the person you believe her to be is an illusion.

Ask yourself if you are in love with her recent behavior. You should tally up her actions of late and set them aside as a completely separate thing than the person you believe her to be. Do you love those things that she has done? Do you love the selfish behavior that she has shown to you? Then attempting to justify cheating on you as 'finding her sexuality.'

You are going to 'sober up' and all of the bad shit she has sent your way is going to drop on you like a ton of bricks. It's going to be like waking up next to a 500 pound chick after a night of drinking. You are going to realize that you fucked up by not kicking her out of your life.

I'm just hoping that you can see through the haze before you bind yourself down to this woman.

Synthtwo · 2015-07-23T09:43:55+00:00

Good luck bud <3

grubek · 2015-07-23T09:12:59+00:00

Ignore the troll noise. They will always be there in the Internet.

As for your question, you can not. Words mean very little in general, but even less for women. Actions speak. And what your girlfriend now knows is you are a guy who will come back to her after she cheated. No matter what you do, no matter what you accomplish, that will always be in the back of her head. You might forgive her with time, but she will never forget.

As for the meeting with the psychologist, be very careful. First, you are right about what you should have done after the rape, but don't beat yourself up, it looks like the perfect trap. You are young, inexperience and her family and the psychologist took control. Even if you tried not much would have changed. At least you have good instincts looking back. That's why I think this relationship is doomed, you might hang there for a while but will eventually snap out of it.

For the meeting be ready for anything. Psychologist can be very weird people with weird theories but they have years of talking through shit like this and you'll be on her turf. This women should be doubted as psy given your gfs evolution, as other people told you in r/relationships. Not all psys are bad but be very careful with this one. Don't assume good faith, but don't confront her and try to avoid arguing with her too much. She has years of practice plus men are at a disadvantage because when we open up we look weak. Don't feel obligated to justify yourself, just say you don't feel something and that's it. And be ready for anything: she might be telling you there is more, your gf might be dumping you or she might be even trying to get the blame out of your gf and into her out of gf's parents pressure.

Be ready for anything, don't assume good faith and remain stoic. The damage has already been done, now its your turn to move (or she is dumping you).

jons_throwaway · 2015-07-23T09:44:21+00:00

You can not take back control and be her. Bottom line she is a cheating whore, and you let happen without no consequence. Your fucked, she will repeat.

Edit: If you had half the respect for yourself as you do for her you could see what needed to be done.

RidleySmith · 2015-07-23T10:37:46+00:00

Reading some of the articles on the sidebar of your main page has provided me some decent info. I can't say I agree with everything but I certainly think I could benefit from looking at things from a different point of view.

What don't you agree with? We can start from there and build up your knowledge

dooblegoo · 2015-07-23T16:29:35+00:00

Hold up.

So it's okay for her to fuck another man in order to 'heal'...

Yet it's not okay for you to dump her in order to heal yourself?

Do you see the double standard?

Why does she get a pass, because a bad thing happened to her?

This isn't even a question of morals.

You can't live your life subject to the whims of other people and expect to be happy. The only reason you should consider staying with her is because of the value she brings to your life. Not because of what she or some sisters thinks it's what you should do.

But do you really think she's that valuable? Honestly. Considering that she CHEATED on you? That's a sign of worse things to come. My advice: get out now.

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-07-23T15:00:53+00:00

How do I take back control of my part in her life? I will freely admit that I fucked up big time when this all went down. I felt helpless and hopeless and all I wanted to do was help her and do what it was everybody was telling me to do.

Well at least be aware of the truth. She cheated when of sound mind. If you're gonna take that back against all better judgment then that's on you but don't lie to yourself about the situation you were in. Your fiance took another man's cock, rationalized it somehow, and used the rape that you've been trying for a year to help her get over as a manipulative tool. If you can look beyond that then go ahead but don't lie to yourself that THAT'S what happened.

Overzealous_BlackGuy · 2015-07-23T13:21:50+00:00

I find it very RP how OP made this post. If I had more time to explain it I would, but the fact that he disnt allow these little ass kids to later his opinion, come in here and read what trp is about, and try to understand it is great. We welcome you're type.

But seriously Im part of the crowd that doesn't believe you can benefit from keeping homegirl.

despoticVeracity · 2015-07-24T02:45:22+00:00

The biggest issue you have is a lack of abundance mentality.

Think of a relationship as similar to a transaction or business arrangement, only with love, sex and care as the traded services. It may sound cold at first, but everyone needs to look out for themselves and avoid being taken advantage of. You don't have to be a dick about it; you can negotiate salaries, haggle and buy goods without going full Machiavelli.

So imagine you're at a car dealership, buying a car (your gf). You see one, you take it for a bit of a drive and you like it. The dealer comes up to you and asks how you like it. You tell him you love it and will have it no matter what. His eyes light up. He can now raise the price as high as he likes, because you've just sacrificed your most valuable bargaining chip: the right to walk away. More importantly, you've told him. You gave him a blank cheque to gouge you for all you're with.

This already happened in your relationship. You stuck around and she fucked around, giving you absolutely nothing. Since the rape, you've been a single man with none of the benefits and a leg cast of concrete.

Now in this case, you've told us that you are still going to be with her and aren't going to be leaving. This is, in many of our minds, a terrible idea. The car is damaged, the salesman is scummy and you're pretty sure the boot had a dead body in it. But, taking into account you're set on this, the most important thing you can do is not reveal that under any circumstances. If you're going to be buying a shit car, the least you can do is haggle it down to a low price.

How do you haggle? You point out all the flaws. You hem and haw. You appear torn. You pull out some other dealership quotes and talk about them. You explain how you just 'can't pay more than half what you're asking'. You bluff and you bluff well. You'll still end up with a shitty car, but it'll be decked out with extras and you'll get it for a low price.

In this case, 'price' is equivalent to 'care in the relationship'. You already did this. You placed 'intimacy' (sex) as your bottom line price. Whaddya know? She put out, when all of the care in the world from before had her screwing another guy behind your back. What else do you want? Daily BJs on demand? Breakfast when you wake up? Respect? Never to be shouted at again? The right to screw other chicks? You can get it if you haggle right.

Haggling, in this case, is what we call dread game. There are eleven stages, which you can find over on /r/MarriedRedPill, an LTR-oriented RP sub. In a nutshell, you raise your value (pass shit tests, hold frame and lift) while showing that you have options. You say (nonverbally) "I can get someone hotter than you who hasn't stabbed me in the back. Make it worth my while to be with you."

This is not abusive; it's being aware of your own value. You are a lover, not a mother or brother. Romance is conditional love. At present, she's expecting you to be a parent; someone she can reject, insult and disrespect and still expect to love her. Trying to force that upon you is abusive. All we want you to do is put a fair price on your love and stop selling yourself short.

All that said, your car is shit. It's been t-boned and taken for a joyride. The breaks are shot and the paintwork is a mess. It's going to cost more than you bought it for just to make it roadworthy. I can't suggest more strongly walking out of the dealership and going anywhere else. Try out some other rides. See if you like any of them. Enjoy how much more smoothly they run, not having to spend an hour jiggling the keys in the ignition just to get it to start moving.

Failing that, get your wreck of a car at scrap-metal pricing, with a sick complimentary stereo system thrown in.

pogiface · 2015-07-24T02:55:53+00:00

When i first saw your post it was a huge wall of words and it seemed you tried so hard. Aren't you tried yet? You are putting so much time and stress, energy into something and getting nothing in return. Sure you love her, but its time to cut your losses.

drqxx · 2015-07-24T18:03:57+00:00

Your woman is damaged goods and to top it off she fucked someone behind your back. Call yourself tough all you want. Your actions are very bluepill.

There are plenty of other non damaged women out there. Go find one.

flying_cumshot · 2015-07-23T16:37:16+00:00

Now I know for sure this is a troll

workdavework · 2015-07-23T08:01:16+00:00

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What is this?

byebyebluepill · 2015-07-23T08:30:28+00:00

But telling me that you hope my g/f is raped again while I have to watch

Yeah that shit isn't ok.

personally, I don't identify with TRP anymore because amidst the few nuggets of good advice for guys is a ton of sweeping negative generalizations (certain egative ones I find unfounded) about women which I find are unfounded. I'm sorry you've been harassed in that way.

But, I've followed your posts and I think you should ditch the letter and say that stuff in person. Reddit post gets found out and you go back? In all honesty, a l little spineless. You turned to reddit for advice, built a spine, so to speak. And you threw it out because they caught on? You built a spine, use it! For your sanity!

Nobody deserves the harassment I'm sure you've received from the brigade. You're not a bitch, a faggot, or a pussy. But stick to your plan!

Honestly, this comes from a place empathy. Hopefully I'm in soon enough to not get downvoted past you seeing this. Stay strong, love yourself, and know what you're worth. Now she knows what's at stake, don't be another dead bedrooms post. Please.

bryanlharris · 2015-07-23T11:39:56+00:00

I really want to hear what the therapist says.

trancedj · 2015-07-23T13:11:17+00:00

Welcome dude. Sorry to hear about idiots being distasteful and spewing hate. You’ll find some SOLID dudes here that would like nothing more than to help a fellow bro wake up. I'll share my story and maybe it'll help you. I wish like hell I'd found this sub earlier in life. These young dudes here have no idea how lucky they are. I’ll be 40 this year.

I spent 20 years in marriage and was a beta bitch by every definition of the word. Wife controlled the money. She controlled access to sex. She was the boss. Or more appropriately she was the captain and I was the guy who kept shit running; a lowly servant. I was fucking miserable. I stumbled upon this sub back in 2010 I believe. It took me years to fully swallow the redpill and begin “de-programming” myself. Since then I’ve divorced my wife and have started taking on my own life. You’ll find plenty of PUA stuff talked about here but that’s only a small part of what TRP has taught me. TRP for me is all about how to take on your own life. To be the man you were meant to be and to find happiness in yourself; not in other women. And once I did that the whole fucking world shifted dude. Just last weekend I went skinny dipping with 2 women ages 21 and 19. How the fuck did that happen? Once I started living my life for me without giving a fuck about what others thought I noticed women started coming out of the wood work dude. Now I simply have fun and invite those along who I think can add value.

PM me if you’d like to know more.

And again, welcome. If you study the knowledge here your world will never be the same.

PS - breakup with your GF. Look into going "monk mode" for awhile and start lifting weights as you'll need an outlet for all the anger. “The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.”

Asoka11111 · 2015-07-23T14:44:19+00:00

Dude please, stop seeing her therapist. That bullshit about her reclaiming her sexuality with a different man hurts me really deeply to read. Don't accept it.

Reddthrown · 2015-07-23T13:00:16+00:00

First, welcome.

Second, you owe this girl nothing. She has proven that she is not capable of providing a healthy relationship. The only reasonable course of action is to leave her and find a good girl. There are hundreds of millions.

dreckmal · 2015-07-23T13:16:43+00:00

How do I take back control of my part in her life?

Here's the problem with this question: your 'part' in her life is her choice. You know the old saying "You can lead a horse to the river..."

You two are not 'together'. You choose to be with her, and she is sort of/kind of/not really choosing to be with you.

You already know the answers to the questions you have, you are just terrified of them. And that's okay. Part of being a man is facing the shit you are afraid of.

I felt helpless and hopeless and all I wanted to do was help her and do what it was everybody was telling me to do.

Before you can help her (personally I don't think she deserves your help) you need to help yourself.

niftykettles · 2015-07-23T13:22:43+00:00

If you any dignity you will dump her. I've only just read this story and I find it baffling that you would even consider staying with her.

SexistFlyingPig · 2015-07-23T13:49:08+00:00

The red pill is not an easy pill to swallow. The gist of it is two fold.

1) You've been lied to about the nature of women your whole life. Your mother lied to you, your sisters lied to you, mass media lies to you. We have a phrase here, All Women Are Like That: AWALT. It means that if you see a woman behave in a particular way that all women do the same thing. Your GF cheated on you with someone she found hot. What other women are in this picture? Mom, sisters, etc. Do you think they might have cheated on their paycheck with some hot guy at some point in their lives? They have, and that's why they side with your cheating GF. What would their lives be like if there were consequences for their behavior?

2) You can better yourself, but it takes a lot of work, both physical and mental/emotional. You cannot change female nature. You cannot negotiate desire. You can get mad about it, you can get depressed about it, you can accept it, you can understand it, but you cannot change it.

Hunter2isit · 2015-07-23T14:24:24+00:00

know that pussy is thicker than blood, don't expect your sister to be on your side, her hamster will kick in and have her side with the GF everytime as it is a reflection on her own ability to power grab and use sex as a commodity. My own family sided with my ex who treated me as bad / worse than your situation. The hard one is saying AWALT and if someone isn't supportive, even a sister, don't reward them with your attention. You cant change them, you don't have to speak with them.

648262 · 2015-07-23T14:26:33+00:00

I love it! TRP porn almost.

Good on you man. I hope you come out of this a harder, better, faster and stronger man.

A lot of good advice has already been given, but go your own way - that's how you take control - proactive instead of reactive. This post blew up and if you were just some random guy all the advice you would get was "read that sidebar". That still holds up.

No More Mr. Nice Guy is also a very good and easy read for people in a similar situation as you.

Best of luck!

StrokeGameHusky · 2015-07-23T14:44:04+00:00

It says a lot about you character that you came here despite the hate. It shows you know there is a problem, or something may have heard resonated with you and you decided to check it out.

That's step one. Step 2 is to dump your gf (your next update it will be ex-gf)

Learn as much as you can. Pay extra attention to the AWALT(all women are like that) posts because it sounds like you may need reinforcement to learn of the true nature of women.

Your gf does not need your help. She is feigning helplessness bc it gets her more attention. I bet my life savings on her using the the helplessness card when she heartlessly fucked some guy, but wouldn't even touch you.

We have all been there where some chick just royally fucked us over, and this is the sub where we try to understand (thru real life observations, We NEVER base it on their words.) how women act, or why they do the things that they do.

I don't know how others in this sub feel about the redpillwomen sub, but it may be worth your while to get a women's perspective- from women who know red pill is the best thing they can do for their LTR/Marriage. A cross post would do the trick.

TL DR: just dump her and improve yourself. Your happiness in life depends on it.

flatox · 2015-07-23T14:50:33+00:00

The people who wrote to you are most likely very new members.

People new to the subreddit are in the angerphase of accepting TRP. They have their whole life been told one thing about women and the world which weren't true, and now they're angry at themselves for not seeing through the bullshit by themselves at first.

Therefore they just want to throw any possible insult they can towards anyone who resemble their former selves, because in a way in our minds it feels like telling our old selves that they were fucking stupid, and in telling people in similar situations it feels like giving themselves a mouthful. They're so angry, and it is natural.

But it is unbelievable that they just cannot keep it to themselves. TRP is not ment to be preached around.

And as you might have noticed, we have quite a lot of members, and just a year ago we didn't. So the majority inhere are new, and therefore you should take everything with a grain of salt. What i say here too. Also, because english is not my first language, as many others.

If anyone wrote comments here like you tell they PM'ed you, they'd either get a warning or a ban. From what iv'e seen, anyways.

So yeah, don't listen to newcomers. It takes years to embrace TRP's concepts and a lifetime to fully understand it.

GregariousWolf · 2015-07-23T17:00:51+00:00

You need to take back your place in your own life.

LukeMooney · 2015-07-23T17:51:12+00:00

Oh my god op ! Can't believe you're here! Welcome! Hope you take the advice and make trp your mainstay for eduction. Absolutely wish you the best in your endeavour of self improvement, stick with it, it takes years. And dump that fucking ho! DUMP HER FUMP HER DUMP HER DUMP HER DUMP HER DUMP HER. Have a great day!

BooksofMagic · 2015-07-23T19:37:57+00:00

Sure there is some "women are the enemy" vibes I get, but I honestly think at the core this is about being a better man.

Nothing much to add to what everyone else here has said. Just anted to say good on you for reading enough around here to get this point. Most everyone else always keys in on the bad, but in the case of TRP, you have to take the bad with the good because both sides are important.

ScottRikkard · 2015-07-23T22:02:50+00:00

This is my choice and I'm right now choosing to take back what was my place in her life.

See this shit? Its not your place in HER life. It's her place in YOUR life. Stuff like that show how your mind works. You have to be the Sun and women the planets, not the other way around.

You'll be good man. Patience and read the sidebar.

cantstopper · 2015-07-23T23:09:57+00:00

That's a tough situation to be in, but I have no doubts I would have walked out of the therapist session and never spoke to her or her family again after the "It's not really cheating because of..."

In fact, I would have forced my way to see her long, LONG before he was given the green light to visit her. Most of us would.

Essentially, she resented her loved one because she got raped, and cheated on him whilst strong arming her family to keep quiet about it.

That's just evil and wrong. I don't care what happened at that point.

Men, hold on to your butts.

He STILL wants to be part of her life...

You can't fix stupid. You really can't.

I hope this turns out being fake. Who the hell sits like a duck for months after his S/O gets raped?

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2015-07-24T02:58:38+00:00

So here is the question part of my post for you. How do I take back control of my part in her life?

You don't. I'm really sorry, but you don't.

It's like asking how do you put a firework back together. Relationships are the strongest sense of entropy and entropy is single direction.

I know you said that's not what you want to hear, doesn't make it any less true.

Good luck.

Throway99038 · 2015-07-24T06:16:01+00:00

Well you have made up your mind to give your cheating gf another chance, even though everyone has rightly told you not to. Btw this therapist of hers, if it is the one who told you it's not cheating, it's taking back her sexuality, then don't bother going, cause you will be blamed for traumatizing your gf, destroying her progress blah blah. You should focus on yourself. Stop being such a pushover, you were bullied into staying by your sister and her sister. If you can't see that, then god help you.

tuxedoburrito · 2015-07-24T06:58:52+00:00

I've been following your story since the original post hoping you'd find your way here. We couldn't draw you here, you had to find it yourself. I'm so excited you're here.

As for those assholes who said your girl should be raped, I'm sorry. They are trash and those comments were just meant to hurt. Don't sweat it. Glad you're here and trying to find a way to be a man.

Toolazy2work · 2015-07-24T20:26:06+00:00

Welcome.
You've chosen to stay with her. You will do anything to stay in her life. We call this oneitis. There are close to 7 BILLION people in the world, which translates to 3.5 BILLION women. Yet, this is the only one for you. That not really how things work. What this is is you're too AFRAID of life without her. You're AFRAID of change. Which is understandable, no one really likes change. But now, you're suffering extra and putting in more effort because of a mistake SHE made.
Now would be a more perfect time than ever to red pill up. What has she done to earn back your trust? What has she done to earn back your relationship? Is your time not valuable? Why waste it with someone who will hurt you so badly?
So here's what's about to change. You know all those times you wanted to go do something but she made you feel guilty about not doing what she wanted? Yeah, that doesn't happen anymore. You do what you want, when you want. You ask her what's she wants for dinner? Nope. You tell her what you're eating. She wants you to do chores, promising sexy time once they're done (chore play)? NNNNAH. You smirk and tell her to get to work and do a man project. You see she's had her fun and had her assistant (YOU). But she done Fukt up. Live how you want and if she wants to join, she will put her self where it fits your schedule. This is called frame. You have a direction, a drive. You know where you want to go and what you want to do. Women will try to make you loose frame, or bend to their will (their primal instinct, to see if you will be a good supporter and providers), with what we call shit-tests.
A shit test would be if you're sitting on the couch watching tv and she says come clean these dishes. Old you would pop up and do them, to prevent the inevitable nagging if you remained on the couch. You've bent to her will, lost your frame, and now look like a good provider. New you would do what you want. You can remain on the couch and ignore it, the same way a child crying in their crib gets ignored to eventually break them of the habit. Or new you could get up. New you could walk to the kitchen. New you can confidently, firmly grab her, lead her to the dishes, bend her over the sink, and fuck her while she does them. Because that's what you want to do.

This is only a fraction (really a byproduct) of what the red pill is. Red pill is reprogramming your mind to be a man. Men build thing with their hands. Men use their mind to solve great problems. Men use their muscles to defend their family from harm. Men make decisions. Men don't gossip about people at work or in the neighborhood. Men don't complain about their day. Men don't have to talk about how they feel (meditation is HIGHLY recommended in this sub). And most importantly, men are leaders. We captain the ship. If she wants to be first mate, she got to earn her spot.

Welcome to TRP.

LionLaw · 2015-07-25T04:48:31+00:00

I don't like you at all and believe you're making a horrible mistake in even trying to make things work with your train wreck of a girlfriend, but I'll give you some solid advice you've been ignoring since the first fucking posting.
GET HER A NEW THERAPIST

BenOfMahogany · 2015-09-26T18:44:52+00:00

Anybody saying your GF (or ex-gf whatever) should get raped again is fucking scum. We do not support rape over here. Please report those cunts to a mod

mismm · 2015-07-23T08:56:30+00:00

Let me tell you why you got so much hate: because any man with any sense of self-worth, any self-respect, any dignity, would walk away from this woman after what happened. You are not worth the dick and balls you carry.

I don't know what you are looking for here, because everybody will tell you to walk away. Nobody here is going to support you staying with her.

I also have a feeling you are a troll, but whatever.

teeay · 2015-07-23T08:37:07+00:00

Respect. Glad you came to visit. Ignore the dickheads, everywhere has them, here too. People here are a little overcalibrated when it comes to fidelity if you ask me, but they're a good bunch of dudes, and the message here is much more truth and far less misogynistic hatred than the rest of reddit would have you believe..

That said, your situation is a case where I'd think hard about staying with her. Tough call though. If the infidelity was more than a one off, like you suggest might be the case, then even I would say you should dump her hard. Do have a think about the oneitis issue though. It's a pretty nasty state of mind once you see through it.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-07-23T10:43:44+00:00

My comment will be drowned out by hundreds other but you claimed you read all the thousand PMs they sent you, so maybe you read this too.

First off, I'm so glad you have discovered TRP and are approaching it with an open mind. Whatever happens in the future is largely irrelevant...once you've seen behind the curtain there's no going back so I trust your life will improve massively.

Secondly, apart from the resources on the sidebar and others, I'd highly highly highly suggest you check out :

REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS in Youtube

They have hundreds of videos, but to get you started, go to rsdfreetour channel and look for Become an Entity with Structural Integrity. Up to you, but that shit is life changing.

Thirdly, TRP is not widely accepted in society and I doubt it ever will. Your sister and gf and so on know about this account. Are you sure you want to keep using this account to explore trp?

All the best to you man!

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-07-23T14:38:38+00:00

But telling me that you hope my g/f is raped again while I have to watch is not okay. Now those people may or may not have been members of this community but they sure as hell sent me the links. Like I said, call me whatever you want but seriously is advocating the rape of a woman what you guys stand for?

These are feminazi/gender studies students who get grant money to concern troll and pose as TRP posters to make TRP people look like assholes.

How do I take back control of my part in her life? I will freely admit that I fucked up big time when this all went down. I felt helpless and hopeless and all I wanted to do was help her and do what it was everybody was telling me to do.

You did absolutely nothing wrong, imo. The problem is with HER. She interpreted your love and kindness toward her as weakness, causing her pretty little head to swell up. Therefore she just HAD to stick it to you in some way. There's probably some reason that it's not her fault too.

IWontpayyourprice666 · 2015-07-23T15:52:50+00:00

Tell her you want to take a year off. Focus on you. Get AWESOME. Tell her at the end of a year that you'll give her a chance TO WIN YOU BACK.

If she fails to meet the challenge she isn't worth the effort.

gangstaman9000the2nd · 2015-07-24T06:01:34+00:00

It will blow up in your face.

Take our advice and dump the bitch.

Edit: You are the biggest cuckold in the world. Not "apparently".

cmiovino · 2015-07-23T13:28:25+00:00

Quite honestly, bro, your story resonated with me. I was with a girl for three years without sex. Talk about cuckhold. Then went she met an Australian party-goer on a European trip and kept talking to him for six months after, I still stuck around. Even when he had his plane ticket booked to come to the states, I was still begging and pleading with her to stay and that it would work between us.

Thus, I found this place. I will leave the details out, but I am in a MUCH better place now and feel much better about myself in general. TRP is 95% true and 5% 'hateful'.

Honest opinion: I'd recommend this to anyone new to TRP and single, or in your position wanting to save any kind of relationship. Self improvement if you're single, or dread game in a relationship. Basically, lift, improve yourself, be aloof, go out, get guy friends, and have better things going on in your life. Don't make this girl the center of everything... it's bad for your development as a man and eventually, the girl will resent you for it. Keep fresh and able to attract anyone.

Goldfulgore · 2015-07-23T15:03:36+00:00

It is my assumption that you GF felt "something new" when the rape happened and she went out to seek it. That's why she broke things off with you. I know it doesn't make sense and I know that rape is bad but seriously you have no idea how a woman's mind works. Then she felt remorse and bad about the whole situation and tried to get back with you.

Do you still want to have a relationship with this kind of person? Or are you just settling in because you have no other options?

Well apparently the worlds largest cuckold checking in.

I have seen worse, but you are high in the ranks.

charlie_p · 2015-07-23T15:26:06+00:00

Jesus christ this is pathetic.

mr_one_liner · 2015-07-23T15:48:48+00:00

Not much to add here but to say: welcome, there's crazies in every group, and there's tons of benefit to be had in this community, good luck, and I hope you stay!

TerrenceFartbubbler · 2015-07-23T16:40:17+00:00

This is a community that was formed to help men like you (us) to uncondition ourselves from the brainwashing that takes place during our lifetimes. You're brave to come here and post this. Most would say you're foolish for staying in this relationship. That is your prerogative. The best advice anybody could give you is read and reread the sidebar and materials. TRP is more about making yourself a better man, internally, than it is becoming a better womanizer. I know that reading everything here helped me see the value that I, as an individual, have to offer the world. Once I realized that, everything just kind of fell into place, relationship-wise. Good luck!

Entershikari · 2015-07-23T16:43:35+00:00

Dude your eyes are now open.

You're smart if you're here.

Read and take back the control of your life.

rokr1292 · 2015-07-23T17:48:09+00:00

Besides the awful pms you got, I'm really happy you're here OP. Hopefully this will be the start of some good for you.

At the same time, this post says a lot about this place. Everyone here seems like a member of the he-man-woman-haters club, but the purpose of trp is far above that. I'm glad you stayed long enough to pierce the veil.

From being here for a while, I kind of suspect those pms might have been from non-members that haven't seen through it yet. Trp is very welcoming once you're open to trp ideas

jd0589 · 2015-07-23T18:26:10+00:00

Can we sidebar this whole post? It's really highlighting how many decent members we have in this sub. Grade A stuff for sure

bongsmuggler22 · 2015-07-23T19:18:49+00:00

Yeah, keep going to the therapist that immediately began explaining away the cheating the moment it came up and trying to guilt you for not being happy about it... solid plan

bsutansalt · 2015-07-23T20:10:07+00:00

Considering the source of this thread, in the future I recommend all you use /r/RelationshipsUncut rather than the main sub.

I take a hands-off approach to moderation. So long as it's not illegal or against Reddit's ToS, have at it. There will be no moderating influenced by dogma/ideology on my watch.

Myrpl · 2015-07-23T20:18:36+00:00

I don't know if anyone told you yet but, regarding sidebar material, I believe that plenty of us were disagreeing and were at disbelief for a very good while. But don't take things at face value. Try something and if it gets you results, it works. If it doesn't, drop it. Skepticism and constructive discussion is highly encouraged.

[deleted] · 2015-07-23T21:57:35+00:00

OP is in such a shit predicament, in any other situation he would have dumped her but he's clearly confused on what he's supposed to do because he feels guilty for dumping her because she was raped.

[deleted] · 2015-07-23T22:06:13+00:00

Dude, I know you seem determined to stay with this chick. Your allowing your lizard brain to run the show over your actual brain..

Let's look at logic.

You have only one life to live..

Is this the girl that will make that life the most enjoyable?? Or are you just staying to benefit her life instead of your own?

exit_sandman · 2015-07-25T09:44:38+00:00

So here is the question part of my post for you.

How do I take back control of my part in her life?

Assuming that you're not a troll (which, given your story, I nevertheless sincerely hope you are), let me tell you what I've repeatedly said in here:

You know that you've terribly screwed up if the relationships sub tells you the same thing TRP would.

Because (isregarding the guys who said they hope you GF gets raped again/cheats on you before your eyes/whatever) that's exactly what happened: even the twu wuv-crowd from relationships thought that you were taken for a fool, strung along, lost your relationship for good, should have bailed months ago, and that she'll cheat on you again because you just signaled her that you're willing to be taken advantage of.

Again: if the overwhelming majority of the relationships sub gives you unambiguously reasonable advice (in this case: "RUN!!!"), your situation is so FUBAR that you shouldn't even be asking the question you had in the first place.

nantucketghost · 2015-07-29T19:28:59+00:00

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LukeRhinehart34 · 2015-08-06T03:08:08+00:00

Man, this whole situation is loaded with so many red flags it's unbelievable. She fucked you over, personally, I think you need to be comfortable with cutting her off, because your life will only get worse if you stay with her

formermangina · 2015-07-23T08:39:57+00:00

But telling me that you hope my g/f is raped again while I have to watch is not okay. Now those people may or may not have been members of this community but they sure as hell sent me the links.

LOL. You're getting trolled man. Who does that.

Hippostalker · 2015-07-23T15:02:17+00:00

"How do I take back control of my part in her life?"

By becoming a man with status that she would respect and fear to lose and will do ANYTHING to keep you.

However, right now she knows that you are weak and she can do anything to you and you'll still crawl back.

So if you want to stay with her, you need to change that.

fortifiedoranges · 2015-07-23T23:53:51+00:00

Going to the therapist is a waste of time.

user6580 · 2015-07-24T00:56:13+00:00

The problem is man.. even if you follow TRP perfectly it will not work out and it's simply because she has known you too long. She knows she can win you back, your reputation in her eyes will be forever tarnished by what has transpired.

If you followed TRP and met her brand new none of this would happen. So that's why everyone is telling you to move on.

Do what you want though, no body can tell you who you want to be with. I still recommend following TRP because even though your fiance is a lost cause, when you do eventually split you will be able to get the right girl next time.

(or you can continue to let her control you, marry her, and spend the rest of your life like that)

caputpill · 2015-07-23T16:46:49+00:00

I've really seen some grievous errors I've made in the aftermath of this. I've just got some thinking I need to do.

That is exactly what you need to do but you can't do it with them clouding your mind.

I mean this seriously - Take a bit of vacation time and just go to another city. It's the same reason why you go no contact with your x-girlfriend for a while - because you want it to work so your mind makes all these loops.

Get away from it all and after a while the answer will seem obvious. You need time to grief, you havn't had that yet.

king_of_red_alphas · 2015-07-23T09:29:11+00:00

If I understand correctly, the gf got raped, became distant from her BF and then ultimately banged some Chad as part of her "healing" process?

I'm not as black and white on this one. This isn't some routine hamster situation we're dealing with here where the girl just got bored and wanted to upgrade. It sounds like she was legit mindfucked by this whole thing and may have just felt shitty / dirty / fearful about being intimate again with her BF in the same way.

Now, of course that doesn't remotely excuse the fact that she banged somebody else, but it somewhat mitigates it IMO.

If this was indeed a one off "acting out" type situation and OP truly "loves" her (I know there's no such thing in TRPland) then it might be worth a try to work things out provided there's no indication this will be repeat behavior and trust is rebuilt slowly.

TRP is always going to err on the side of "next" for even the most minor transgressions from a woman. I think that only you can be the judge of if this woman is worthy of the work of rebuilding with.

All of that said. DO continue to study TRP principles and advice as it will be invaluable in your ability to avoid these pitfalls, whether it's with this girl or the next. It will also allow you to spot (very early) any sign that her cheating is more of a chronic issue that a simple one of symptom of confusion or whatever.

MagicGainbow · 2015-07-30T01:14:05+00:00

Well just saw the update, Op caved again, I say at this stage OP you are too dumb to live but it's your funeral, the whole thing smacks of them telling you whatever it takes to keep you there.

Back2TumblrWomyn · 2015-07-23T18:49:25+00:00

"But telling me that you hope my g/f is raped again while I have to watch is not okay. Now those people may or may not have been members of this community but they sure as hell sent me the links. Like I said, call me whatever you want but seriously is advocating the rape of a woman what you guys stand for? I sure as hell hope not."

Quit being so sensationalist and emotional you little bitch. This is the internet, people are going to find the dumbest and meanest shit to say to you. That's how this works buddy. Jesus christ.. Quit reading here, I don't have time for this fuckwit hahaha

Back2TumblrWomyn · 2015-07-23T19:13:56+00:00

OP shows he still cares. Girl smells blood in water.

"Oh yippie my therapist is even encouraging me to tell him of allll the big dicks I took while I was with him. That little loser still cares about me I know he does, If he doesn't want me at least I'll let him know how much big black dick I took"

MEANWHILE THERAPIST JUST EATIN POPCORN LOVIN THIS MESS SHES CREATED WHILE TAKING HER MONEY

YOU'RE A SUCKER KID!

Or ... or... or... just imagine if you're about to get chewed out and threatened with some sort of legal action because you posted that story of her on the internet. Either way I can't wait to hear what happens with this. Update us. God I hope you swallow that pill. I'm curious to hear what happens in that bullshit session but I'd be so much happier/proud if you stood up for your LIFE as a person and didn't go

FukknPissd · 2015-07-23T10:56:07+00:00

This guy is not worth our time. I don't see how engaging with this chap will improve my SMV or make a sandwich for me. Later chaps....I'm off to the next post. Peace

caputpill · 2015-07-23T13:22:09+00:00

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Date	July 23, 2015 7:37 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3earrq/well_apparently_the_worlds_largest_cuckold/
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