My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLED

Netherus · 2022-07-09T01:54:27+00:00

Always assumed that girls with so much followers online get this inflated ego and sense of entitlement that just make them insufferable. And tbh, most girls could do what they do. It's enough to show a bit of skin, dress provocatively and spend a shit ton of time until you get that perfect photo.

ZachMoore88 · 2022-07-09T01:37:12+00:00

I never understood the appeal of Insta Models.

omarnz · 2022-07-09T01:58:32+00:00

I’ve seen girls who are a 10 on Instagram be a soft 6 or 7 in real life. One I thought might’ve been a crack head when I saw her in real life. It’s actually wild how different it can be.

TerminatorReborn · 2022-07-09T02:45:10+00:00

You forgot to mention that everything they do revolves getting attention on social media. Picking her up for your date and she looks great, but you think she dressed up for you? It's because she is gonna spend 20 minutes taking selfies making stupid faces, then ask you to take pics of her besides some instagramable ornament. The food you ordered just arrived? oops, can't eat just yet, have to take pics from every angle. She actually suggests the place for you guys to go out? It's because she's seen other girls take good pictures there.

noldi123 · 2022-07-09T03:31:27+00:00

Dated a girl with 50K instagram followers. She had a princess entitled mentality. What car are you going to rent when we go to California. She'd only settle for Porsche or better. Constantly taking pictures for her Instagram and running around as her errand boy. Only wanted to be driven everywhere would never take public transport. Fake tits/ass/lips/liposuction. Showoff lifestyle on Instagram. Moody. Treated her birthday as an entire birthday month with expensive dinners/presents to show off all month

ParticularAmazing112 · 2022-07-09T02:29:37+00:00

This. I myself never dated any of them but a colleague of mine seems to move from one to another and he tells us this all the time. I’ve met a few of them, they seem to have this “I’m on top of the world energy” and not in a good way. They lack personality because of it.

Also you’re definitely right about they look like regular folks without the makeup. My colleague invited me over once and I was SHOCKED when I saw her without makeup. She wasn’t ugly or anything close to that at all. She just looked very regular, like any other girl you’ll see on the street.

As OP stated, apart from bragging rights, there’s really nothing special there.

Aldamis · 2022-07-09T03:51:20+00:00

Important post. I stopped following insta models a couple years ago. Exposing yourself to giant (probably photoshopped) asses and flawless pictures of bodies every day can fuck up your attraction to actual real women.

When you stop looking at them and stop watching porn (at least not every day) regular women get hotter. Hot women you see in person get even hotter, too.

SeaPen333 · 2022-07-09T03:22:35+00:00

I definitely wouldn’t brag about that. That’s like bragging you’re dating a twitch streamer.

Adventurous-Soup-646 · 2022-07-09T01:17:52+00:00

Seems about what I pondered.

Visual-Guide5473 · 2022-07-09T03:13:13+00:00

I agree. I really do not care for “models” on Instagram who show off ass pics 24/7 and have pics that are so clearly photoshopped and with filters. Try dating an actual model who works in the fashion industry, they usually look exactly like they do in shoots and on the runway since actual modeling requires genuinely great genetics. They are usually more down to earth than IG models.

norwegianmorningw00d · 2022-07-09T03:34:41+00:00

If a girl ever tells me she’s an insta model, automatic nope.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2022-07-09T03:31:51+00:00

This is why Cold approach is so awesome. You catch girls when they are just outliving their everyday lives. I hooked up with a few girls wear later I got their Instagram and it turns out that they have a shitload of followers and post all these sexy pics and their online persona is way different.

SoIlikeMangos · 2022-07-09T05:29:36+00:00

I had a friend who is a popular influencer (200k) & no one, I mean no one could handle being around her. Actually she is a beautiful & kind girl but that constant posing, taking pictures, saying one more time one more time, picturing everything on the table until the food gets cold, it was just so annoying & tiring. I don't know how you guys DATE them

GotThaAcid5tab · 2022-07-09T11:07:30+00:00

I’m confused as to when toxic narcissistic women, who sleep with tons of random guys, mostly for money became even slightly desirable. Met a girl the other day who’s philosophy is basically “it’s not worth doing if it can’t go on insta” ffs.

This instagram stuff just looks so desperate.. Just give me an attractive and chill babe who wants to do stuff and have fun, without being a deranged drunken whore, who doesn’t need constant validation from insta or orbiters or think she’s a celebrity, and ideally not a toxic manipulative prick either.

That’d be nice tbh.

_DonDraper_ · 2022-07-09T13:14:35+00:00

Popular instagram girls are like tourist traps. There will always be a restaurant that’s cheaper, not as crowded and as good as the tourist trap, you just have to look for it, as it’s not advertised.

LeaderOfWolves · 2022-07-09T03:28:02+00:00

Well yeah they are attention whores & the simps come along & feed their egos... They all look fake & plastic af.. Andrew Tate claims we need money so we can date beautiful women bc he fucks these plastic whores that are "top percent"

DragonfruitDefiant33 · 2022-07-09T03:43:23+00:00

10k and 50k aren't that many tbh.

BadDaddy1815 · 2022-07-09T04:56:04+00:00

Shocker. ;)

ozzzy83 · 2022-07-09T11:59:50+00:00

Indeed, they are shallow. I know so many wannabe models that are promoting their IG on dating apps because they know that most men will fall for their photoshopped look, and will add them, so they can promote OF account from there, and earn money through a bunch of horny guys.

Those girls are physically 7 at best, but with all that make-up, they appear as even 9. What's funny is that they are just tall, have slightly better than average faces, and even don't have tits at all! I mean, totally flat. But yeah, they act as if they are above everyone. Their personality sucks big time. They mostly do not even smile in photos, and have the same bitchy expression, other bitchy girl friends are writing below their photos like, you're fire my cutie, sending kissing emojis, and below those uploaded pictures, they have some bitchy comments which translates to this: While I am walking around in my high heels, dust is rising, and guys are watching, let them watch you in full glory. Something along those lines which screams I'm a prize, so fuck off. Basically.

Zero personality, shallow wannabe model girls, but they behave as queens. Who would want to date such shallow girls with wooden expressions on their faces? Mostly football players.

peacheeblush · 2022-07-09T15:24:15+00:00

-Pursues Instagram models, gets to know them, dislikes their personality. Goes to complain about how narcissistic and self absorbed said Instagram model is.

-leaves Instagram model, pursues a different model, has same attitude as last, cries and complains again. Wash, rinse, dry repeat. 😩

My point is. Y’all know how these attractive women act, you know they do this (not all of them) and yet? You still pursue them, still date them, still sleep with them and still try to have some type of relationship with them. Can you really blame them for not trying in a relationship when they have men throwing themselves at them? Yes, it’s fucked for me to say that but it’s true. When things are handed to you, without any effort given, what’s the point of trying?

But I’ll expect someone to come at me aggressively because I’m speaking the truth 😩🤣

burncushlikewood · 2022-07-09T02:26:49+00:00

Sometimes prettier women can be easier! They are often intimidating to many men so they may not get a lot of attention or get approached often. I know a guy that picked up this legit 10 brunette and she was so scared of breaking up she was almost depressed about it, she was very sensitive and fragile

mrrooftops · 2022-07-09T10:45:10+00:00

Why did you think someone with only 10k followers is not an average woman (albeit with cluster b traits)? You all have to stop pedestaling these attention seekers. You're drinking their Koolaid like a super simp. And that feeds their narcissism - I've heard women with fewer followers than that claim that they are 'public figures'. sad.

user30060909 · 2022-07-09T11:47:57+00:00

I’m glad I read this..for a total different reason to your point I know, and I’m sorry you had those experiences, but I model a bit (I don’t have a hugeee following) but I started modelling to help build my confidence. Now it has helped a lot but I find myself comparing myself to other models and I think but they’re just beautiful, and I know that I don’t look like that without my makeup…but maybe they are the same? So this has helped me in a confidence way that maybe I am trying to live up to things that aren’t actually real. I also don’t have a horrible personality, I’m a nice, normal person haha

vroomvroomski · 2022-07-09T18:14:48+00:00

As someone happily dating an Instagram model with 300k followers I'd like to offer another perspective. She doesn't take herself or her Instagram too seriously, just treats it as a tool to get stuff like money, connections, etc. to do actual productive things in the world.

Also, she looks even better without makeup imo. Her Instagram also gives her confidence in her self which I appreciate.

It is a little scary that she has more "backup options" than me but I do think she's smart enough to know why I'm better than them and stick with me

PaidRenegade · 2022-07-09T20:07:51+00:00

Yeah I’m amazed at how much “perception is reality” is true.

Several times I’ve hooked with a girl from online dating where she’s not quite like her pictures, but then later I’ll look back at the pics and think “yeah she’s hot, we should hang out again”

There was a South Park episode kind of like that too.

Like it doesn’t matter if Kim K looks like a hobbit irl, as long as the IG pics look awesome then that becomes reality

doobyscooze · 2022-07-09T20:33:29+00:00

See through her looks don't get starstruck. She's just another girl.

Social media is very fake. A beautiful illusion. An echo chamber for validation.

DM'ing women on social media is a catch 22. You got a gang of simps knocking at her door🛖. It's not worth it because that's just becoming a fan. Curating your attention and energy makes you stand out. The narcissism and need for validation...it's an addictive cycle.

Women DM'ed me before. I prefer women with no social media. The best girls I ever met had no social media, they were very engaging and enthusiastic -- very rare with girls of this era. Every time girls followed me it's always stalkerish syndrome😭

Girls online persona is WAYYY different than their real life. Very disappointing. Look out for unicorns if you see one 😉

Be the buyer not the seller. Why do you want to fuck with her? What is it about her that keeps you coming back for more?

Attractive women are a dozen. Attractive women are common af. Attractive look with an attractive attitude and personality is rare.

Do more Face to Face. Face to face is a breath of fresh air. A relief. Digital communication cannot replace human feelings.

ebell1989 · 2022-07-09T21:01:46+00:00

The worst is girls on dating apps with nothing in their bio except their IG....gross lol

Not gonna knock the hustle cause simps are just as pathetic.

RafaSuarezDrone · 2022-07-09T02:27:08+00:00

Any pic of the girls?

AbeMax7823 · 2022-07-09T03:18:00+00:00

Definitely true but I thought this was common knowledge. It’s the same as dating almost any hot chick but worse because, well, the internet. Think about it; influencers, musicians, models and actors literally desire the attention of audiences. How could you NOT expect them to be narcissistic especially if they have any smidgen of fame/notoriety. It’s a self-feeding loop of the ego. I only pursue women rated 7- 8.5 and aren’t any type of entertainer (besides writers and visual artists) Anywhere above that and she’s told every hour of her life how hot she is and usually is worse of a person because of it.

FlavoredButtHair · 2022-07-09T03:41:35+00:00

I'm 35 and I never understood all the makeup, filters for pics or any of that. I rarely use Facebook and don't even have an Instagram or Snapchat. I have no idea what the purpose is of Instagram and Snapchat

Owlingse · 2022-07-09T08:30:18+00:00

The make-up industry is very big (Billions in global market size.)

Oilll27 · 2022-07-09T20:49:20+00:00

OP seems insecure as a person. Would you get with them in the beginning if it’s not bc of their looks? Objectification ✨😩

dontbrainer · 2022-07-10T18:49:06+00:00

you know, when they go to the toilet,they pull out the same shit as you,so that helps keep them down to the earth they inhabit for a few years.

Truthland · 2022-07-15T11:30:17+00:00

stop makeup shaming. If makeup was so "powerful" then there would be no such thing as someone who is hideous since all they need to do is apply makeup.

Unlike beards and hats for men that do transform LL Cool Jay's turtle head into a human head. and hide misaligned jawlines, makeup doesn’t transform! If makeup did transform than Wendy Williams would be considered attractive! honestly can't understand how some people think makeup works. You can't make a beady eye into a cat eye, yes you can use eyeliner but you can still see the actual SHAPE of the eye. You can overline lips but again, you can still see the lip's actual shape. People think that you can change your features completely with makeup because they have been brainwashed by social media. Like for example on instagram, there's people that do these "crazy transformations" with supposedly only makeup, but what a lot of people fail to realize is that often these pictures/videos are heavily filtered and facetuned and the "crazy transformation" isn't makeup. And often times artists on instagram do makeup looks that look good on camera but would look horrible in person. If someone overlines their lips it may look good and believable on pictures sometimes but it will end up looking very noticeable in person.

Makeup didn’t “Transform” Kylie Jenner's lips for example! Unless you get lip injections, you will look like a line over your lip line! The photos you see online of women who use a product and their lips got full? THAT’S PHOTOSHOP! NOBODY WITH LIZARD LIPS CAN CHANGE THEIR LIPS FULL WITH ANY MAKEUP! It irritates me that ppl want to blame makeup for anything! Makeup is no miracle worker! Go look at actresses like Monica Bellucci, Debra Paget,Natalie Wood and otehrs who are attractive with and without makeup. Don't let your hatred of insta models cause you to speak ignorance.

rudebwoy100 · 2022-07-09T02:32:19+00:00

Every girl is on social media though so what makes you think the average woman won't have the entitled attitude just the same?

Weknowmoneyaintyou · 2022-07-09T02:41:40+00:00

My gf has about 40k followers as a shuffler/model and she's none of these things. She's pretty awesome. You're right about them being regular people but you can't paint them all with such a broad brush..

Snakehead004 · 2022-07-09T04:55:10+00:00

Yeah bartenders and strippers are often the same. Nice lesson to learn early in life

neolithicrevolution · 2022-07-09T10:47:43+00:00

Be attractive

red__what · 2022-07-09T02:42:50+00:00

trust me, never ever get into a LTR or God forbid marry an 8 or over anyway.

Not worth it no matter how secure and confident you are.

elementalflo · 2022-07-09T03:37:50+00:00

saulisdating · 2022-07-09T05:30:08+00:00

That’s a ridiculously small sample size to be confidently talking about what instagram models are like.

After dating JUST TWO, and with very tiny followings at that, you’re talking like all instagram models are the same.

If your two had a shit personality doesn’t mean all of them do :) you were just unlucky.

I’ve dated plenty models, including with 1M+ followers. They can definitely be great people, and some can be super spoiled and rotten. Some are REALLY good in bed, some weren’t, etc.

Point is, don’t overgeneralize like that, especially with such a small sample size. You’re just adding to the hate and confusion.

lokipoki30 · 2022-07-09T03:45:18+00:00

Tbh most men don’t care about face they care about body

primallyours · 2022-07-09T10:56:02+00:00

Real shit. There’s this influencer chick at my job l. Pretty standard in terms of look and vibe. I’m scrolling Tumblr one day and come across this pic and I’m like: this chick looks mad familiar. To the point it was bugging me. Image searched and found her IG. Oh shit, that’s chick from work. The difference is wild! She’s actually a cool person irl but man. I have no sympathy for guys who fall for the illusion though. It’s 2022 ffs.

Visual-Guide5473 · 2022-07-09T16:26:25+00:00

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starameski · 2022-07-09T02:49:28+00:00

Yep, confirm as accurate

Nogets · 2022-07-09T05:10:58+00:00

Thanks for the confirmation lol

ordinarybots · 2022-07-09T06:52:06+00:00

NEXT!!!

Bark4Soul · 2022-07-09T08:58:52+00:00

Thanks for the story no one asked for and most of us who live on earth already know.

Only_Commercial_774 · 2022-07-09T09:09:59+00:00

Fuck those girls and their instagram life

mzdebo · 2022-07-09T09:49:29+00:00

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redsing92 · 2022-07-09T11:35:14+00:00

Not a critique to your post, but except simps nobody with common sense can be fooled by Instagram models.

lestat_ · 2022-07-09T11:35:34+00:00

really? who could have thought lmao /s

Doctor0z · 2022-07-09T12:08:19+00:00

I can never date anyone whose social media consists of photos exclusively of them.

KillahHills10304 · 2022-07-09T12:44:44+00:00

Instagram model was the worst lay ever. Literally just starfish out and lie there going "ugh, ugh, ugh" with every thrust. I stopped and was like, "Damn, am I that bad?" She said, "What? No. It's good!" She sounded like she was disgusted with every go. She also kissed by, like, darting her tongue in and out really fast; kind of like how a cockatiel eats bird seed. She smelled really nice though.

It was weird, I'd rather have good sex with a "6" than whatever that was with an Instagram "model"

Prestigious_List5878 · 2022-07-09T12:51:35+00:00

Just different photos of different times... younger getting older and fatter.... that's what happens

PenguinLegos · 2022-07-09T13:07:57+00:00

We already know that. I think the only reason is because sex sells and lots of guys want to just fuck em and that’s it. Wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with any of them but I wouldn’t mind hooking up with one.

AtDaLastMinute · 2022-07-09T13:40:42+00:00

Lot of hot single moms with a hundred followers acting the same way lol.

JamalGoop · 2022-07-09T13:45:32+00:00

Instagram "models" are just vapid narcissistic whores (at best), or straight-up prostitutes (at worst). Don't waste your time. Don't sacrifice your dignity.

Nefertiti2021 · 2022-07-09T14:06:06+00:00

The only thing wrong with those kinds of women was the sex. It's the most boring sex on the planet

Sendeezy · 2022-07-09T14:11:17+00:00

10k followers isn't that crazy. I've been with totally regular girls with more followers than that. If she's acting like the shit because of 10k followers... Lol.

pearlspirit27 · 2022-07-09T14:26:23+00:00

Loved your post 👍🏻

PatientAssociation62 · 2022-07-09T15:59:29+00:00

I've had women DM me on instagram and within just a few minutes of chatting they start asking me to buy them shit, wants a new phone and I should pay for it, gives me some bullshit sob story, etc etc. It's really depressing.

DanishApollon · 2022-07-09T16:00:33+00:00

There is no value in bragging about instagram models.

jericho118 · 2022-07-09T16:23:21+00:00

very informative, you would typically think this is truth but always good to get further confirmation by someone who has actually been with such people

Sandvicheater · 2022-07-09T16:50:30+00:00

The world would be a drastically different place if make up ran out tomorrow.

jintana · 2022-07-09T17:00:12+00:00

This applies to anyone who is overly concerned with how they look.

Kennymacdougall · 2022-07-09T17:39:34+00:00

How did you get to date them in the first place? Since they have so many simps at their disposal it is practically impossible.

ThePenTester88 · 2022-07-09T17:41:50+00:00

I dont need to sleep with a IG model to already know this

Bradthefunman · 2022-07-09T18:43:30+00:00

My last ex has 350k followers on TikTok. She is completely entitled and has a massive army of simps begging for attention. She verbally attacks anyone who disagrees with her about anything. I would not recommend.

sansblonde · 2022-07-09T20:21:32+00:00

I thought this was common knowledge about Instagram “models”. It’s all fake bullshit.

crossfitvision · 2022-07-09T20:32:08+00:00

Simps have a lot to answer for. The strangest thing of all is that they derive sexual pleasure from giving money to woman. Even below average looking women have PayPal links on IG/Twitter.

mrniceguy268 · 2022-07-09T22:48:42+00:00

I’m sorry you’ve had to experience that.

WaitingForTheFire · 2022-07-10T00:41:16+00:00

The fact that you are using the term "Instagram model" should be a big hint about what to expect. First of all, not every woman who shares pretty pictures of herself fits the concept of an Instagram model. It sounds like you are talking about the women who are social media influencers. I'm sure there are some Instagram models who are genuinely good people, but the stereotype is a person who is superficial, fake and self-absorbed. It should not come as a shock when the stereotype is accurate. There is a reason why Instagram has come under fire for the negative effects it can have on the self image of young women. Instagram definitely leans more towards being an entertainment platform than a depiction of reality.

MadxCarnage · 2022-07-10T00:55:16+00:00

since when is 50K followers a lot ?

like I got that without doing much, and PR team ? for what ? x)

serialkiller_mne · 2022-07-10T02:20:00+00:00

Never bothered with them, as they seem stuck up and ignorant. Probably impossible to be seen in dms among 100 other guys simping

Also, is it true that they are dating a guy that can basically finance their travels, blogging shit etc. Basically being a golddigger and clout chaser

2022-07-10T08:22:10+00:00

I learned that too. I knew this girl who had some serious self esteem issues. At first we'd talk quite frequently and for a time I thought she might be good for me. I did actually ask her out once but it never materialized. She was a tiny 4'11 blonde fitness lady and model with a big booty she always bragged about. Anyway, she started dating a guy who looked twice her age and he treated her bad. So bad she swore off men including myself who did nothing wrong to her and became a lesbian. I mean if that's what she wants fine. Not too long ago I tried to reach out and see how she's doing. She blocked me. I'm like fine. Keep shutting off people who care about you. She just lost at the very least a good friend even if we never got to hook up.

Neo-Rio · 2022-07-10T08:45:21+00:00

These girls are at the top of their game though.
The game for these women is simply an attempt to win as many hearts as possible
(i.e. keep a simp collection)

Would they be better at it if they were actually nice people? Probably....

It's women like these that can be timewasters and traps for the aspiring player.
There's something called "pickup bait and switch" in the club.
You meet a hot sexy girl in the club, and when you get her home she turns into a good girl.
Or you meet a good girl in the club, and when you get her home she turns into a sex crazed nympho that wants you to do her raw multiple times over in different positions and she really gets into it!

Don't be fooled by women showing skin, sexy poses, and their attempt to catfish you.
In many cases the sex is terrible - because they didn't want sex - just attention.
When they have it - they're bored with it - and you - and sex.

suffocation90 · 2022-07-10T12:23:07+00:00

"Bragging rights"

Nah fam. This ain't it.

anenjoyableUsername · 2022-07-10T13:28:39+00:00

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TravelRNwPurse · 2022-07-10T23:39:25+00:00

The likelihood you’ve slept with any woman, let alone an IG model, is highly improbable. It’s giving “I talk to myself in famous women’s DMs.”

DTE33 · 2022-07-11T20:49:08+00:00

Congrats, I came up with the same conclusions by simply looking at some ig accounts of girls that you described. Sometimes they post pics without makeup and by now I understand that almost every woman with a thick layer on her face looks very average after she washes all that off. Without makeup they get pretty insecure just like any other person. I have the same feelings about gym guys. There are probably a few exceptions, but on the whole, there's not much substance there, just looks, hair products and shallow personalities. I say no thanks to people like that. And people who are preoccupied with looks are almost guaranteed bad lovers. Why should they give a damn to better themselves in bed when their looks are supposed to be enough to keep the other person happy?

DesperateForDD · 2022-07-15T03:54:38+00:00

No way they have a PR team with only 50K and 10K followers.

runaround_fruitcop · 2022-07-18T16:03:41+00:00

Idk. I have 25k followers and I do it for fun. No PR team and I don't even get paid to do it. Nor do I care to... It's kinda wild to assume someone with 10k has a whole production team behind them when it's them and a ring light and depending on the woman, editing.

In our modern Era. It's not really a lot to have 10 to 15k. If you can make basic enough content people want to see.

It's literally nothing special like people make it out to be. My roommate has nearly 20k followers and it's the same for her. No pr team or anything lmao

iluvreddit · 2022-07-20T17:16:35+00:00

Well spoken!!! I was dating this 6 out of 10 who was a very sweet girl. After we broke up, she got into doing her makeup / lighting / filgerting in a way to make her look like an Instrgram model. She's able to make herself literally look like a 10 on Instgram. Believe me, she's not even close to that in real life. It's absurdly fake.

2022-09-28T00:08:31+00:00

yeah they wont fuck or suck you until you max your credit cards

Title	My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLED
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