Whoops he forgot the basic way to not destroy something, and you think he struggles with adulting? Or is it covert domestic violence- if he threw the same thing across the room or took a chainsaw to it, then you would be onto him.

Maybe it’s often you’re most sentimental possessions (whoops, ruined my childhood playtable trying to “fix” it, whoops mangled the tree my dad planted for me, whoops spilled water all over the thoughtful gift from my friend) or maybe it’s just frequent, erratic adulting lapses (whoops can’t remember those are hand wash only, whoops never cleans but “cleaned” my important papers into the trash “trying to help out around here like you want…”)

It may be an abuse tactic. Beware.