Change my mind
It seems like there is this common belief that women age like milk.
That a girl in her early 20's is more valuable than one in their iearly 30's.
HOWEVER!
I'm only 23, and I've seen several girls I went to highschool/ some college with, that let themselves go badly
These girls are 23 and younger
After highschool they look like what you'd expect a 40 year old woman to look like (not that there is anything wrong with 40 year old women ofc) but still.
Meanwhile, you have some women who are 30's/40's that can pass for a decade younger than themselves if not more.
It's about if a woman lets herself go, more than age.
Over eating/bad diet Smoking Drinking Or drugs
(Not saying having kids is a bad thing, but I know it's a deal breaker for a lot of men/women on this sub)
Would you rather have
A 31 year old with (sarah) No kids College degree Banging body Nice personality Good habits
Or
A 21 year old with (amy)
2-3 kids No college degree Has let themselves go tremendously Party girl Bad habits/drama
It depends on the person, not their age.
You could switch their ages, keep them the same, make Sarah 3 years older, and you'll always still prefer her.
Personally I want to have kids some day, so that'd be my motivation for seeking out a girl my age. But if a girl was much older, and was willing and able to have kids for me, I'd be down. 💯
Anyways discuss, what's your opinions?
Do you agree, disagree? For either explain why, and be nice to each other in the comments 🤷🏽♂️😂
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Wife’s joke: “hard drugs, late nights, and hard alcohol will make you age like milk. But: Yoga, weekend brunch and White Claw will help you age like MILF”
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Yes, but does that mean they should though? Think of how the child might have disabilities or other health issues. I personally wouldn't want to create a life knowing the chances are high that they very well may suffer.
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By 45 most men have likely had children. If they're trying at 45 then they shouldn't. It's too old for many reasons. One of which is by the time the child is 30 then the man will most likely be dead. I'm 41. My first child was still born with complications due to Spina bifida anencephaly. She live to the last week of the pregnancy and passed away in utero. Worst day of my life and I wish it upon no one. I had my son at 32 and that was probably pushing it. He is healthy, thankfully. The only thing I regret is not having children younger so I'd have more time to spend with them later in years
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Cheese makes me gassy and causes me to release demon, death like farts. I'll pass 😂
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But it still seems like you will be settling. Who in their right mind wants someone to settle with them?
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Actually a women at 20 is at her peak fertility. Most would agree on this. Definitely more desirable. Her mental maturity doesn't matter at all. As long as she's not just completely childish and stupid. If she's outgoing, and wants to have fun then that's about all it takes. Most men know it won't last.
A woman at 30 isn't always more mature than the 20 something. She's just been through more. Many times more traumatized and jaded. Her mental maturity hasn't really changed all that much. All that has change is her perceived sexual market place value. It's not like it was at 20. Smart men know to tread this age range carefully. Because a woman in her 30's is thinking more strategically too.
Honestly, I feel a woman that has reached menopause and her sexual drive is over. Is the best time for a man to settle down with her. She doesn't have those sexual and biological desires to influence her better judgement. She'll most likely stick around because it's the smart thing to do. By that time a man, in his 40's to 50's, will be over the same desires. Then if they get along well. They can continue their lives together. Hopefully happy.
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Yes, some 20 year old people can look childlike but those same people can present themselves and look much older with makeup, body structure, muscle mass, etc. Genetics play a huge roll. Biologically we're attracted to what we're attracted to from puberty on. Socially we're conditioned to not be attracted or to pursue minors. Much of the reasoning is because of the mental and physical strain that it has on people of that age. They physically can go through the act but are too young and naive to deal with the responsibilities of raising a new life. The age of consent won't stop people but that's why we have laws in place because humanity will act like animals otherwise. It's honestly not disgusting to be attracted or admire the beauty or handsome qualities of young adults. They have a fleeting quality that we once had and many strive to keep for as long as possible. Look at different cultures through the world. Every culture has different rules and feelings of all age groups.
We all have our preferences of likes and dislikes in people. None of us are really wrong or right as long as it's within societies rules and laws. When our preferences go outside those established laws is when there's a problem. We have laws in place because that's the only way we know how to control the masses and provide some sense of order and structure.
Also the perception of hot is different male to female.
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