Change my mind

It seems like there is this common belief that women age like milk.

That a girl in her early 20's is more valuable than one in their iearly 30's.

HOWEVER!

I'm only 23, and I've seen several girls I went to highschool/ some college with, that let themselves go badly

These girls are 23 and younger

After highschool they look like what you'd expect a 40 year old woman to look like (not that there is anything wrong with 40 year old women ofc) but still.

Meanwhile, you have some women who are 30's/40's that can pass for a decade younger than themselves if not more.

It's about if a woman lets herself go, more than age.

Over eating/bad diet Smoking Drinking Or drugs

(Not saying having kids is a bad thing, but I know it's a deal breaker for a lot of men/women on this sub)

Would you rather have

A 31 year old with (sarah) No kids College degree Banging body Nice personality Good habits

Or

A 21 year old with (amy)

2-3 kids No college degree Has let themselves go tremendously Party girl Bad habits/drama

It depends on the person, not their age.

You could switch their ages, keep them the same, make Sarah 3 years older, and you'll always still prefer her.

Personally I want to have kids some day, so that'd be my motivation for seeking out a girl my age. But if a girl was much older, and was willing and able to have kids for me, I'd be down. 💯

Anyways discuss, what's your opinions?

Do you agree, disagree? For either explain why, and be nice to each other in the comments 🤷🏽‍♂️😂