Q4Women: Have you ever experienced post nut clarity?

LeatherDifference583 · 2021-03-06T15:38:58+00:00

Yes.

After watching err...questionable porn. Also twice in my younger days when I had really bad sex and felt grossed out straight after.

MultipleColoredChloe · 2021-03-06T15:20:56+00:00

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2021-03-06T14:03:03+00:00

Never experienced anything like this. Any time I've fallen out of love or infatuation with a person it was a gradual, bit-by-bit thing, not a big epiphany moment.

kickedofflotsofsubs · 2021-03-06T14:12:09+00:00

I get no nut clarity. Like when the sex is done and I didn’t cum I find the man next to me repulsive. I just want him to get the fuck out so I can finish myself off (or call someone else who can get the job done).

Also sometimes I’ll have a weird moment of clarity as the sex is happening when I step outside of my body and go on a mental spiral that’s something like thinking about how odd sex is and how we’re just mashing our genitals together and then I look at his cute little super focused face and I’m like damn this dude is so serious and intensely into this, why is he so serious about this, I want to laugh so badly, don’t laugh that’ll upset him, wait he’s looking at you weird and is getting a lot more into it, why’s that? oh I haven’t made a sound in the last 5 minutes, focus focus focus, what do I need to do here? Moan! Moan goddamit! Remember that zoo excursion in the 5th grade where you saw two gorillas fucking? That’s probably what we look like now. Imagine we were living in a cage and had to do this in front of 60 8 year olds, that’d be fucking insane..

I’m glad this doesn’t happen too often though because it really is quite distracting.

YveisGrey · 2021-03-06T14:25:31+00:00

Having a man give me an orgasm would not give me any sort of “clarity” if anything it would just make me infatuated or something

87AudreyHorne · 2021-03-06T14:56:39+00:00

Yeah, right after sex my urge is to get up and shower and be alone (not in a sad way, just do something else). I have an intense need for isolation, like I reached the maximum that we can do together in that moment, now get lost for a bit.

It doesnt mean I completely and permanently lose interest though. However that feeling also happens but it isn't prompted by orgasm but by literally anything. Sometimes I just wake up one day and it's like my perspective is shifted and I have zero interest in the guy I'm dating.

2021-03-06T14:32:20+00:00

Yes, 100%. Fucked some real dumb Daryls for the D, why are dumb Daryls so amazing in the sack? Anyway I went from thinking me and DD had a future to Oh NVM maybe just FWB. We didn’t end up anything but Fuck Buddies and that was by design.

Mimoxs · 2021-03-06T19:01:27+00:00

That would require orgasm which most women don't get from sex

From hentai tho yeah. I'll be like yo what the fuck is this disgusting shit why did I get off to this

Dominemm · 2021-03-06T14:03:51+00:00

No. Post sex I usually feel cuddly, even if the sex wasn’t good.

Clarity moments are big life moments for me. Holidays, Birthdays, Vacation. Where there’s a certain standard of behavior he is supposed to meet and he just doesn’t. (Forgetting my B-day, dropping the ball on V day, weird around Christmas or Thanksgiving)

It’s my favorite stress test. But other than that, nothing. I wish women could dump all our hormones out to have clear headed decision.

saint-jezebel · 2021-03-06T13:53:33+00:00

High hopes on the woman achieving orgasm.

Farafpu · 2021-03-06T14:23:30+00:00

I guess that for experiencing it one has to gain nut un-clarity first. Nut vagueness?

There is a bunch of red flags, but they're all pretty mundane. Cheating, history of it, practicing weird kinks that I feel disgust to, being generally shitty person etc. But the thing is that developing attraction to someone takes a lot of time, so I don't think it's even possible for me to get the state of "nut vagueness" in the first place.

crookedsummer2019 · 2021-03-06T14:19:20+00:00

Post nut clarity? No. Post sex clarity? Yes.

RagMD · 2021-03-06T14:13:21+00:00

Yes, i definetily have. Not necessarily through sex, as the dude i should have experience it around never gave me a single orgasm. But i have experience it after masturbation for sure.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-03-06T16:25:43+00:00

No, orgasms usually leave me feeling a little high...all warm and fuzzy.

honeydewmelonz · 2021-03-06T17:19:09+00:00

Yes. After I masturbate I realize that the guy I thought I was into before is repulsive, boring, annoying, etc. The things I overlooked before like his baggage/dating history, kids, debt, hygiene, being unemployed/low income, are deal breakers for me now.

sarahyelloww · 2021-03-06T19:45:53+00:00

Funny this came up here now as I was just having a conversation with some guy friends about this last night (guy friend... Is that you??) The conclusion I came to is that, for me, because orgasms take a lot of intention and effort to achieve, regret is never the feeling that comes after them. If anything my glasses get real rose colored post orgasm, as I lie in the elusory bliss. More likely to feel clarity and regret after a sexual encounter that did not involve me orgasming.

chinchaslyth · 2021-03-06T20:12:47+00:00

Sadly most men I’ve had sex with were unable to make me cum or didn’t even care to try.

Therefore in the past we would have sex and only one person actually got off (not me) and I’d just be left frustrated. So I’d just never have sex w them again. Had a lot of one timers happen after going on 3-5 dates and then just telling them I wasn’t feeling it.

This happened for two years. Then before Covid hit last January I swore off men. Each time this happened I’d have clarity that i deserved better than mediocre sex.

Best decision ever bc now I’m dating someone (were on month three) and we both can’t stop getting each other off. It’s been AWESOME.

Noodles_R · 2021-03-06T14:01:23+00:00

For me, it’s not ‘post-nut’ per se - but if he treats others around him badly. If he’s rude to his mother, friends, shop staff etc, that’s my clarity moment.

IHaveABigDuvet · 2021-03-06T18:45:26+00:00

Nah, usually its "wtf am I watching?!" and lights out.

GridReXX · 2021-03-06T16:03:57+00:00

I don’t think women orgasm enough, nor pulsatingly crave “nutting” enough to experience the equivalent of male “post nut clarity.”

I will say using my vibrator and getting that quick O has saved me from making a phone call to link up I’d regret :)

Snacksbreak · 2021-03-06T13:51:40+00:00

No, as most men are incapable of making a straight woman come.

I have liked men I've dated less and less as I get to know them better. I would assume that happens to everyone, but who knows.

superlurkage · 2021-03-06T16:55:50+00:00

Post relationship clarity, yes.

Post sex, no. The clarity comes way before the end of sex

fuckitwhynot2019 · 2021-03-06T17:41:56+00:00

Yes I have...but I didn’t even nut, the head was trash & he couldn’t fuck either lol. I was 19 and horny so I decided to try out tinder & look for hookups, and just went with the 1st person who I hit it off with. I should’ve been tipped off that something wasn’t right when he bit me while he was giving me head, but I just thought “hey maybe he’s nervous and slipped up or something” so I ignored it & we moved on to the main event. Neither one of us finished, I tried to kind of direct him but it just wasn’t working out and I wasn’t aroused anymore so I said my edible was hitting (we ate pot brownies before) and got out of there.
The clarity hit shortly after. After that I just stick to masturbating

Fancy_Geologist · 2021-03-06T19:48:06+00:00

Yes. There’s no name for it, so it’s just - times when you ignore red flags, etc, because you’re horny and want to get laid. Once you get it out of your system you can’t really ignore other things anymore. Best thing to do is move on so you don’t dwell on it. But take the other person’s feelings into consideration because you’re a gentlewoman.

AngelWeyesDelRey · 2021-03-06T14:54:05+00:00

Nope. The concept fascinates me though. Post-nut clarity is why I am celibate.

rft24 · 2021-03-06T16:38:11+00:00

no, but i’ve experienced “during sex clarity?” as in i’d start thinking very deeply about our relationship and how the guy makes me feel during sex.

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2021-03-06T14:26:04+00:00

More like post-seduction/post-sexy clarity. If he’s wondering why I “changed up” after it seemed great, that’s why! 🤮

haiti817 · 2021-03-06T15:39:53+00:00

For guys they get post but clarity. So men has a build up of emotion up until they bust a nut then all of it is gone. Women emotion builds up after sex and stay heighten. This dynamic can explain false relationships. Guy date gurl all lovey dicey think he likes her bust a nut boom gone realize you don’t even have shit in common with this girl. And there nothing to talk about beside sex and love and the likes. Same with girl but inverse don’t know if she really like the guy or it’s the sex that’s why you still got girl still stuck to guy even if the guy dose them dirty

2021-03-06T15:01:11+00:00

Yes i do experience post nut clarity when i masturbate - it is more of a 'sad' this-wont-happen type of post nut clarity

my types of videos are hard to find as i prefer porn where the point of view is from the woman's pleasure and not the typically patriachal shit...so i had to first search through gay/'gay-for-pay' porn actors as they have almost the same level/high standard attractivenss for the men their

the type of porn that gets me off is one with an attractive(face and body),fit,around my age(18-20s),thick package with normal length etc

am more visual-focused than the average woman un/fortunately

oh i also watch orgasms type porn where chicks cum with the guy using his mouth

who knows perhaps i can make it happen but problems is too many creeps/boundary-crossers abound that lie,cheat and force for sex that its hard for a girl to even make any safe fantasies come true

Shining-Polaris · 2021-03-06T14:49:10+00:00

Yes, I experience it. But it’s not like a complete intense mind switch, as some guys make it out to be.

davidfosford21 · 2021-03-07T00:53:47+00:00

yeah many women i liked purely for the sex, i didn't like anything more than that about them and I want them to leave right after ejaculating.

its a sudden strong realization that many women are useless, with no personality and the only reason i want them is purely for sexual gratification. i never had anything like that with the women i love and cherish, but they are rare.

synosphrene · 2021-03-06T14:14:04+00:00

No genetic information in squirt

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AmandaPea · 2021-03-06T16:28:10+00:00

zainajpeg · 2021-03-06T17:43:55+00:00

Aggressively so

Ryuujinken · 2021-03-06T17:48:07+00:00

What's wrong with having 3 kids from different women (or men given the case)?

mystique_marvel · 2021-03-06T20:51:57+00:00

When doing it with someone I love like my current committed partner, I get all lovey dovey and go like damn I love this man

Late_Cranberry4318 · 2021-03-06T20:52:05+00:00

enlough clarity to know i need sleep lol

Zonkey_Zeedonk · 2021-03-06T21:37:56+00:00

Yeah definitely...when I was single/more promiscuous.

2021-03-08T15:00:41+00:00

Yup.

Not sure what it's called for women, but I've experienced it.

Used a large aerosol can as a toy and then wondered 'why am I putting up with this drama when I can get the same thing from an inanimate object'.

chalkandapples · 2021-03-10T00:11:28+00:00

No, it's very difficult for me to build up sexual interest. I never had lust cloud my mind. By the time I have sex I have a pretty good foundation on why I like this guy.

Title	Q4Women: Have you ever experienced post nut clarity?
Author	abaxeron
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Date	March 6, 2021 1:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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