Sexy-Havers Only Discussion Thread

MoldovaImComing · 2023-04-29T06:08:06+00:00

Deepthroat. If a woman won’t go balls deep like it’s her last meal, she’s useless to me.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-04-29T03:51:53+00:00

TECHNIQUE IS UNDERRATED!

TheDustLord · 2023-04-29T01:38:35+00:00

Hydration is the best sex technique

nunchuckbitch27 · 2023-04-27T04:23:48+00:00

My best and worst were from the same guy my husband. The worst I will say is because of me and the best was because of him.

The worst:

I will start by saying I’m a n count snob. I think promiscuous are gross and I like monogamy, I have a low n count and I want men with a low n count it is important to me. I never wanted to get above 5 that and never wanted to be with someone that had over 5.

When I met my husband everything clicked he was as close to perfect for me that I found but nothing is perfect and he had at the time 1 thing that was a major flaw he was 16 years older then me. I was very hesitant but the more I got to know him the more I knew he was right for me. I caved and went on a few dates with him after about 6 months and we started to have relationship discussions the first thing I asked him was what his n count was it was slightly higher then 5 I didn’t want to deal with it so I blew him off again. I did really like him and I took into consideration that his count was close to my cut off and he was much older then me and his count really could have been much higher, I was making excuses because I did like him and thought I could be ok with it so I gave him another shot.

Because of his count number I was even more hesitant to sleep with him so we dated for another 6 months before we had sex. During that time we talked about a lot and I found that I actually had more sexual experience then him even though he slept with more people ( I was just more sexually curious and more adventurous) so it had nothing to do with insecurities or Imbalances I was still just grossed out because I think sex is special and should only happen on committed relationships, fortunately he did only have sex in committed relationships he just had more then me and they obviously didn’t work out. So I thought I made peace with his count number, even though I had only had sex with virgins in my past.

By the time we had sex for the first time there was so much buildup and flirtation it was so intense it should have been amazing and honestly probably would have been if I didn’t get weird. On top of all of the build up we both hadn’t had sex in about 2 years so we were both very sexually frustrated and very ready to get laid.

The night we finally had sex it started out great tons of filtration lots of amazing foreplay it was extremely hot. But I went from hot to cold fast because it was 2 years since I had sex last I started to get worried it was going to hurt again so I asked him to start slow he did. I felt great and I thought I was going to orgasm fast and it would have been an incredible sexual experience but in the middle of it I went from being really into it to shutting down because I started to think about his sexual past and I froze up and just laid there almost motionless and started thinking about that sex chart they teach you in sex ed and started to think about all of the people I was unintentionally having sex with and I felt so gross. Basically imagine starting out with porn sex and then almost instantly going into fucking a corpse it got weird. Nothing like that happened to me before or since.

The next day we had awkward conversations i new I fucked up and basically begged him to give me another shot. We had sex again and it was WAY better and we have had 2 decades of amazing sex since. But that first time was absolutely terrible.

The best:

All I’m going to say is it was our wedding night and I want to keep the details of that special night between us but it was fucking amazing.

Ppdebatesomental · 2023-04-26T21:44:11+00:00

The best? Hadn’t seen each other for two months, I moved cities to help him set up a new business. We decided we both needed showers and ended up in there together. Normally I’d find shower sex distracting but this time …it was definitely not. First time I ever had my salad tossed. Then pushed against the tile wall and absolutely nailed, full body to body press and the only time I ever passed out. That’s one of many positions that are much harder when the guy is a lot taller. We had prone bone seconds on the bed with the reach around. My personal favorite. A guy who worked for him was staying with us and commented on the noise, which came as much from him as me.

The worst, a grown ass man that curled his tongue into a weird, gross poker and jabbed with it…everywhere. The worst kisser, not to mention…

Always bad, I’m almost there and the dude suddenly decides to speed up to a ridiculously furious pace like he’s trying to start a fire with two sticks. Other women may differ, but if the pace changes too much for me? No bueno

Ohms2North · 2023-04-26T09:56:29+00:00

Multi-orgasmic women are so much fun

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2023-04-25T23:59:58+00:00

Had very good drunk sex. Husband was too drunk to change his position from lying down face up. Decided to ride his face while holding on to the headboard. When I was done with that I got off him told him he wasn’t done yet then got back on him but facing the other way so that we could 69. His pussy eating skills were still on point despite him not being able to move.

Once that was done, got into reverse cowgirl something that feels amazing for me but I’m usually too self conscious to do (thank you alcohol), and rode him until I was very close to cumming. Pulled a small bullet vibrator out of the bedside drawer and started using that while still riding him, and he put a thumb in my bum. That sent me over the edge.

Asked him if he was likely to finish (he was much more drunk than me) he said probably not, so after using his delicious body to make myself orgasm I gave him a kiss and went to sleep.

We’ve been sexting about how hot it was this morning, and I sense he is planning on getting to finish when he is home later.

My hips are sore as fuck though. He’s probably going to have to do most the work this afternoon I don’t think I can ride again for a few days. Maybe we will do doggy. Guess I’ll see.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-25T19:36:20+00:00

Worst sex I ever had was with this girl who had ugly duckling syndrome (aka she grew up ugly and lost a bunch of weight and started taking care of her skin and makeup). The ego hit her way too fast. Honestly, when I was around 18-19, I just fucked anyone and anything so I was not deterred by how much she annoyed me.

She kept bragging about how much sex she gets now and how hot guys find her, and when we had sex - she kept doing the fake pornstar moans. I actually never came and started to go soft so I had to fake an orgasm because of the cringe.

Willow-girl · 2023-04-25T12:42:44+00:00

The best sex is the most recent sex I've had, lol.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-04-24T18:24:23+00:00

Yesterday my husband licked my butthole and I did not care for it.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-24T15:38:15+00:00

I remember thinking my first GF was amazing at we only to sample other girls and realize she was mad average.

That’s like the people who thought their parents were the best cooks ever and then actually went out and bought their own food

abaxeron · 2023-04-24T12:28:36+00:00

It's the spider-man thing.

You put them fingers in, and do the spider-man thing.

dbz__f · 2023-04-24T12:26:46+00:00

When we’re together she wants it 3 or even 4 times a day. This isn’t a humblebrag or a boast or an attempt to make other guys jealous. I’m 30 years old. I don’t do much exercise. It’s difficult for me to keep up and sometimes there’s nothing even left.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-04-24T01:49:55+00:00

He lasts 45 minutes-2 hrs for PIV

grown_folks_talkin · 2023-04-23T21:53:59+00:00

It so rarely happens, but open discussions about what you're into with regard to physical stimulation and kinks.

In practice these discussions as just as important as discussions about favorite food/travel destinations/movies. The stigma against having these conversations early on doesn't do us any favors.

EDIT: To answer the other questions, the best sexual experiences for me include partners open to receiving rough oral sex as well as aggressively riding my face.

The worst was someone 9-10 years younger than me who was not as attractive as her pictures, probably sensed that I thought that, so proceeded to get me extremely drunk to the point I couldn't perform if I wanted to, which I still did. Disappointment all around.

luliloo · 2023-04-23T20:15:14+00:00

I liked that he talked the whole time. Commenting what he liked, describing what was happening, telling me what to say. Basically narrating.

And I like when he manages what positions we are doing and instructs me how to transition next. I don’t have to think about what’s going on and I can focus on the feelings.

md8716 · 2023-04-23T16:27:02+00:00

I've noticed that men use oral as a crutch for being "good" at sex. When all you have is a hammer, everything starts looking like a nail.

Truth is, you have to develop the other aspects. The stroke game. The foreplay game. Being able to smoothy escalate and transition from kissing to touching, to penetration, and beyond.

You're essentially the conductor and being able to use the right techniques to put on a show that's both satisfying to you and her is key.

Also, optional: perfecting the pull out game.

Scarce12 · 2023-04-23T08:51:57+00:00

Hands down, the D.E.N.N.I.S. system definitely brings out the best sex a guy can have with a woman, and I'm certain that while women are devastated by the "S", the sex is bomb for them too because of the emotional tingles it brings out in them.

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-04-23T08:17:40+00:00

What makes for good sex - patience, variety and listening are common factors. The rest varies by woman. I have had woman who loved being tied up and ravished. I have had women who wanted to tie me up and ravish me. Experimenting a bit with positions also works - I have realised that vaginas are shaped differently for each woman. Some are curved to one side so spoon fucking works wonders for those.

Some women don't like being eaten out. Many do. I usually ask women to masturbate when we are making out and I note finger positions and general demeanor. For eg: Some women are leg tensers - they tense their legs when they get off. For these women I find it best to finger them and eat them out in a horizontal position on the bed.

Best sex I ever had - I was in Chicago and hit it off with these two women who were pursuing a master's. One was a blonde East European/Russian mix and other was Half Israeli Half Italian. Gorgeous olive skin, dark eyes, jet black hair. The blonde had blue eyes and the most perfect set of tits I had ever seen. We went back to my hotel room and fucked for the entire weekend. Sleep, eat, fuck, cuddle and watch movie, fuck again. We tried everything and the chemistry was insane. I wasn't the first guy they had fucked together and they had some moves.

Worst sex I ever had: three way tie. All times involved vomit. I prefer not to talk about it.

purplish_possum · 2023-04-23T05:39:14+00:00

There are no universal techniques. Some women like gentle and tender. Some women like to be manhandled. Learn how to read the room and adjust accordingly. Both extremes can be fun although the older I get the more I tend to lean toward the latter.

purplish_possum · 2023-04-23T05:22:46+00:00

Do what you like doing. Don't do what you don't like doing. Find a partner who this works for.

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-04-23T01:43:02+00:00

What techniques and skills makes for good sex?

Personally speaking my primary skill is communication. I have decent social skills. So never had issues escalating intimacy, into sex.

On the physical aspect Stamina. I used to play high level rugby. So have a decent physique. For men that aren’t as adept, I’d suggest building a solid base of fitness. A metric I use is to keep my 5km run near, or under 20 minutes. So hopefully that helps.

One thing I love to do is giving head. Gets me wild. A former partner once sat on my face, and came/squirted/gushed all over me. That was memorable.

Another memorable moment was sex on a trampoline. With a sprinkler. That was pretty good.

Best sex was definitely with my now wife. On the balcony of her old apartment. A few drinks. The sun. Then we were into it. That one’s seared into the memory banks.

Godspeed and good luck!

gymbronyc718 · 2023-04-23T00:11:52+00:00

My best advice? Whatever technique you learned from your favorite porn actor or from that friend of yours, that you think always works to get a girl off? Toss it in the garbage because chances are it's useless.

Basically, every woman is unique in how she responds to arousal and what gets her off. One woman's clit may be as sensitive as a butterflies wings. Another, you may need a belt sander to get any reaction from her down there. One girls nipples you can blow on and she will be close to orgasm and another, you practically need to chew these mother fuckers off. And as sec and arousal progresses, her sensitivity may change as her hormones change within the same night.

So take every girl as a fresh clean slate and don't use your "orgasm proof" techniques on her. How to know a woman is close to orgasming? She won't be screaming and tossing around. No, she will become still and only the parts that need to move to produce an orgasm will move. That's how you know you are close, just keep doing what you are doing.

If she's screaming and tossing around, it most certainly means she's faking it.

Ohyarlysmiles · 2023-04-22T22:45:21+00:00

The whole sex as performance thing needs to go in this culture.

A person isn't good at sex.

Two (or more!) people have good sex.

It's an INTERACTION.

Generally the best weapon on your side is to LOOK GOOD.

If a woman is highly attracted to you, generally it makes for good sex.

But as a matter of variance, you're going to have bad performances.

Best sex: idk there's been a lot of highlights. Me and an ex gf used to have some great marathon sessions I remember fondly tho.

Worst sex: been several lows too. Usually the times when I've dipped below my standards and my cock refuses to fully participate lol

MrHustleTopG · 2023-04-22T21:53:28+00:00

If she’s a keeper then eat her pussy, don’t use teeth, work the clit, suck it and flick it. Work on your rhythm during sex, just jamming it in won’t impress her. If you can’t make her cum and cuddle up next you after purring and shit then she ain’t coming back.

Best: Current plate, she enthusiastic, submissive, she my top plate because she don’t cause drama and is pleasant, fit, good head skills, makes me feel like a man.

Worst: First bitch I had sex with, too nervous, barely wanted to do anything, we had to stop halfway.

Over_Noise3530 · 2023-04-22T19:42:20+00:00

Best sex: the guy walked in, started making out with me and feeling me up. Sucked my nipples and slapped them. Fingered me then ate me out. He sucked on my clit like he was giving it a blowjob. Then I gave him head while he fingered me from behind. He picked me up and fucked me against a window. Then put me on the couch and fucked me missionary with my ass hanging off the couch and him kneeling in front of me until I came.

Worst: the guy didn't do foreplay, I had to take the lead and he just sucked. He was in his late 30s and inexperienced. Also he kept telling me sob stories about his ex which just killed the vibe. I left around 3 am

Stunning_Thing4208 · 2023-04-22T19:29:39+00:00

Man here:

Learn to eat pussy, touch her and hold to her like you never want to let go, look at them deeply in the eyes and tell them how much you like them and how beautiful they are to you.

Don't ever stop foreplay/oral until they either orgasm or they literally grab you by the dick to start fucking.

Don't Jackhammer unless asked. Keep the momentum over the full range of motion, deep and sensual. Accelerate at times and be ready to keep the pace if they respond positively. Continue to touch, kiss, hold and stare in the eyes. Continue to talk tovher: dirty or romantic talk, learn which one applies to your case.

Groan and be vocal.

Change positions or go down if you're edging too much. Don't finish just in 30 Seconds, but don't make it a marathon either.

When you're done, lay and embrace, focus on every inch of her skin with your fingertips, saviour the moment. Her breathing, the smell of her hair, her laugh. Kiss her deep in her lips, which at this point they feel like you can sink in them.

After all of this, I normally page OP so he comes to pick his mom up

The best sex I have is the sex I have when I'm in love or when she is extremely into me. What she specifically does doesn't matter much.

AlmostKindaGreat · 2023-04-22T19:11:39+00:00

What techniques and skills makes for good sex?

As a man, projecting confidence and calmness and taking the lead by default. Women also want you to be experienced and have a decent sexual vocabulary to stimulate her in a variety of different ways. If you don't have experience you just have to fake it 'til you make it.

This taking the lead can also be described as "dominance" but does not have to be overtly dominant. I always think firm but gentle. Firm as in you know what you want and you express it (physically and verbally) without apology. Gentle in that you are always considerate of her and sensitive to what her body or her words are telling you. I don't think a lot of women necessarily want to be "dominated" per se, but she wants to feel lusted after and I find a man who takes charge in bed communicates that desire and passion to her in a way most women are open to receive it.

While a man should expect to take the lead by default, it's wonderful when women are confident enough to express themselves sexually. I love it when I make a more shy woman feel comfortable, safe, and just plain turned on enough to surprise me with letting me know exactly what she wants. Or she becomes emboldened to just take what she wants. So hot.

Good sex involves people who lust after each other and get tremendous pleasure from each other's bodies and words and also receive pleasure at perceiving their partner's pleasure. I tell my lover how hot and sexy she looks. How much I'm enjoying things I'm doing. Moan and sigh to let her know I'm loving what she's doing. I talk dirty and use words I don't often use outside the bedroom. This is stimulating to her and gives her a sense that I so hot for her that I'm losing control and going almost animal-like in my lust for her.

Despite emphasizing dominance, really the whole experience should be psychologically rich, moving from more forceful and dominant sexual expression to tender and sweet, and back again. It should be a physical and psychological ride, guided by subtle cues of your bodies and non-verbal vocalizing as well as words.

Every session should be different. Sometimes women respond to the a man's forcefulness and just want him to go caveman on her until exhaustion. Other times she may want sweetness and subtle touching. Gentle admiration of her whole body. Ideally you can go back and forth between both in one session.

I could go on and on but I'll leave it there.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-04-22T19:04:16+00:00

What techniques and skills makes for good sex?

Having a big dick and knowing how to use it.

Getting off on bringing your partner pleasure.

Being receptive to feedback.

Understanding that each partner is unique in their bodies and preferences.

What was the best sex you've ever had?

With my narcissistic ex who had a huge schlong and the stamina from hell.

What was the worst?

Drunk sex with another hung dude. Not enough foreplay. Copious amounts of alcohol may have been involved.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-04-22T19:02:41+00:00

Best sex: Older woman I briefly dated in law school. Very fit body and an extremely high sex drive was also batshit crazy but she gave the best head and is the only woman who could make me cum multiple times from just oral. On the weekends we would fukk all day until I was completely drained, then she would bring out her rabbit and keep going.

Worst sex: A bigger girl who had a crush on me that I wasn't really attracted to. Couldn't really get hard when were making out and fooling around but once I got inside of her I was able to stay hard until I started grabbing her naked body. It felt like a wet sack of marshmallows, I instantly lost my boner and couldn't get it back. She got upset and asked me to eat her out because she hadn't got her nut but helll neither did I. I just told her I wasn't feeling well and put on my pants and went home.

Best technique: For guys, be aggressive . Even if you're too rough it's still okay. You can tone it down later but she needs to see that masculine aggressive side of you every time you have sex.

King-SAMO · 2023-04-22T18:58:28+00:00

Learning how to interpret peoples body language has come in really handy when trying to get a lady off, in more ways than I’m comfortable typing out on the internet. It also comes in really handy at the poker table, and when you get arrested.

worst sex was trying to get back together with an ex whom I didn’t love anymore.

best was with an ex who was friends with my current, so let’s not ever talk about that…

anon018274031 · 2023-04-22T18:46:39+00:00

Worst: one night stand with a guy who did no foreplay, and thought he was amazing. Very arrogant. Had the passion of a plank of wood and then afterwards insulted me. Put me off sex so much I haven’t had sex since.

Best: guy I ended up seeing for a while. From day 1 understood the importance of mental stimulation. Would be teasing the second we were together so that by the time we got behind closed doors I was begging for it before he even touched me. Sometimes it would be verbal teasing (whispering in my ear what he wanted to do), sometimes it would be subtle touches (sliding his hand to the inside of my thigh, touching the small of my back, running a finger down my neck to ‘move a stray bit of hair’). There were multiple times he would take control, push me against a wall and kiss me like his life depended on it, threaten to fuck me in the lift, bend me over in the kitchen. Like he was HUNGRY. He Knew how to be vocal, knew how to dirty talk, told you want you wanted. Played to my praise kink and made me feel confident. Bedroom sex sessions without fail we never have PIV sex until I had cum at least once, he could use his hands and his tongue. He went down on me like he was starving, and he moaned whilst doing it. He was enthusiastic and when you were with him you felt he primally wanted you. <——this man has ruined men for me because I don’t think I’m ever gonna get even close to this again

Spyro7x3 · 2023-04-22T18:04:59+00:00

I didn't answer about techniques before.

I'll say I don't really believe in techniques, people seem to focus on the ones that have to do with direct stimulation of genitalia it seems like and I'm not really convinced of all that. I once saw someone recommend positioning a neck pillow in a certain manner to do the correct finger bang and I'm just like bruh no one got time for that. Its more important to have a good tempo and really get into the heat of things don't stop in the middle of something to make preparations that just seems weird to me.

I think some more underrated techniques are breathing heavily on her neck, giving audible indications as a guy and binding her with your hands, things like grabbing her arms while hitting it from the back and making her fall on her face, grab her neck and force her to your dick, pull her around the bed etc.. (obviously this only applies to partners who are very comfortable with you and allow free use and what not) and if you're going to do it don't be a bitch about it, put some bass in your voice. I see a lot of guys saying they're doms but they're afraid to touch or interact act with girls (being deathly afraid of rape charges lurking around every corner is beta shyt)

imo: ladies the best things you can do aren't mechanical techniques but rather letting him know how much you want it. Let him know you're his little fuck doll vocally and actively

If your guy is more submissive this might not apply I don't know much about that dynamic

No-Rough-7390 · 2023-04-22T17:53:36+00:00

Worst sex of my life: first time. I was drunk and just didn’t enjoy it. Also used a regular condom that basically numbed any feeling. Was honestly concerned sex was going to always be awful for me.

Best: with my LTR a couple of hours ago. We never have a bad time. She’s super enthusiastic, very much into pleasing me, as am I. Always a great dynamic.

Tips: learn how to give women squirting orgasms and you will almost never have a bad encounter.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-04-22T17:42:04+00:00

What techniques and skills makes for good sex?

Finding the balance between being assertive and listening to other person. People like different things so I’m not sure there’s one skill to rule them all. Find your strengths, be willing to learn new stuff?

What was the best sex you’ve ever had?

When I feel confident about myself, I’ll be able to have the best sex. So there are multiple times.

What was the worst?

I haven’t had bad sex, but one time I wasn’t as into it as I had originally thought.

saraimarsena · 2023-04-22T17:33:51+00:00

WORST:

my ex. i think for him sex was something to do for him to enjoy, not something to mutually enjoy that could bring us closer. all he cared was that i was a virgin for him. thankfully our experiences together were limited as it was a LDR, but i can remember my first time giving head. he was off way too many drugs and couldn’t finish anyway, but he wanted me to continue for an hour. no feedback, just silence as he watched a movie, i barely knew what i was doing and what he liked/didn’t like, and it was kinda humiliating and very uncomfortable. he just wanted to see me do it for as long as i could go before giving up. there were times he would beg and plead for sex and pressure me even when i said no, and he didn’t care if i was crying the entire time. other times he would record me without my permission and blackmail me with it, which broke down any trust we could ever have.

BEST:

only have had 2 partners total but my current relationship is just night and day. i learned i actually LOVE giving head. just hearing your partner be verbal and experience pleasure from something you’re doing is INTOXICATING, and thankfully i don’t mind giving as long as he wants, i don’t mind when my jaw starts to hurt, i just love love love to please and know that i’m the one having that effect on him. also unpopular opinion, i like drunk sex sometimes (within reasonable levels of intoxication). makes my mouth water and my throat feel a bit deeper lol.

for me, good sex is just enthusiasm with a person i deeply trust. someone i’m very into who’s very into me too. you both get off on pleasing each other, so you’re open to trying new things (including toys! but not necessarily every time). enjoying the foreplay as part of the experience and not just a chore. flirting throughout the day to maintain a constant air of attraction.

even though i always enjoy sex with my partner now, I’d say our best recent experience was after a fun date a few weeks ago. to me, a great date is the best foreplay, and there’s such an incredible build up in tension when you’re out and about, flirting with your partner and enjoying a great time together. we went to dinner and saw a movie, came home and had some drinks … eventually the build up in desire and physical need for it to happen right now just became an experience of primal lust that idek how to describe. i honestly feel bad for men who believe a woman can only experience that feeling for a 6/6/6 chad … they’re truly missing out.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-04-22T17:33:03+00:00

The best sex is when you have mutual desire, lust, enthusiasm, technique chemistry and when you genuinely care about the person, that's when sex is at it's very best in my opinion.

As far as what techniques make for good sex, it's really not that much different than like learning the techniques for a job, like take basketball for example learning all the techniques might not make you the best player, but it helps if you can at least dribble, shoot, pass, etc., Having the tangibles down, not much different in sex, learn how to thrust, learn where certain things are when you're going down on somebody, learn how to move your hips, all that

Best overall sex I've had is with my wife for sure, she was a virgin when we started dating so she was pretty much new to everything but now we've tried and experimented with different things, and after 8 years of marriage it's like that one really awesome movie that you can watch over and over again, not get bored of it, we know what each other likes, the technique is down she knows what I want to hear when I want to hear it, I know when she wants to make love, I know when she wants to get FUCKED etc lol

The worst sex I ever had was years ago, cute girl that I met and she just wasn't giving me anything, starfish missionary, blowing technique was garbage, not good at riding , even her moans sounded fake and not like over the top fake it just didn't work we didn't click, I could barely stay hard and I just kind of finished myself off on her ass, wished her a good night and we didn't talk again lol

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-22T17:12:28+00:00

Best thing a man can do is turn oral sex into a hobby, craft and an art. If you can bring the enthusiasm and the willingness to learn her personal Konami Code, you're in business. Best sex always involves some goof cunnilingus.

Worst sex? Tinder date, she took the condom off, I came in her. I was mortified about STDs for months and a chid scare after that. Thankfully nothing came from it. As a matter of fact it isn't the first time that's happened either, this particular person just sketched me out.

Fellas, if she starts taking the condom off, act fast. Your instincts will absolutely betray you. .

Spyro7x3 · 2023-04-22T16:39:07+00:00

Best sex ever had was when my fiance and me first started using heroin. It was nearly two weeks of non-stop sex she turned into an actual fiend. The draw back is that after you start to build up a tolerance opiates stop making you horny and actually start doing the opposite so after that 2 weeks was like a 2 week lull period so I don't recommend going as hard as we did.

This same ex was all around my best partner ever she had the perfect look and attitude to me she was very into me for the first year. Ex stripper so she could do all the ass popping tricks and stuff she went dummy on me. She had the gorilla grip and could basically suck dick with her pussy lol

My worst experience was with a different stripper girl who kind of wanted to claim me invited me over to "help with laundry" and I wound up not even getting off and leaving after giving her an O. She was really into traditional BDSM and its just not my thing. I like being dominant in the context of a relationship

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-22T16:12:28+00:00

Listening to you partners words and body language and communicating what you like with both too.

Best sex: for the first three days of our honeymoon we never left the hotel room. Just had them deliver room service to outside the door and rolled it back out when we were done.

Worst: probably my 21st birthday when I kept going in and out of blackouts from all the beer and shots. I was told it was a really wild party that got out of control and It might have been great experiences? But I was way too far gone. I’m not even sure how I ended up where I was when I woke up the next day.

bubbly_100 · 2023-04-22T16:11:33+00:00

Plenty of foreplay, the right fit (preferably above average to big with the right shape), you look handsome, you’re clean/hygienic, you last long enough, you know how to seduce her mind, not too gently (she wants you to fuck her not make love) and being able to make her squirt.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-22T16:03:26+00:00

Creativity and enthusiasm. Caring about your partner's pleasure as much as your own. A willingness to listen and to pay attention to nonverbal cues from your partner. If that thing you just did made them moan, file that away in the mental rolodex for future use. And also remember that each person is different - just because your last partner wanted you to stick your finger up their ass while gently thwapping their genitals with a rubber chicken, doesn't mean your next partner is going to want that.

Edit: Best sex was my third date with my husband. He picked me up after work (around 6) we went to his place so he could change, we messed around a bit. We went to dinner. He tore my clothes off and told me he never wanted me wearing anything at his house. We did salacious things to each other. At one point we were on the floor, both naked, holding each other for what felt like hours, staring into each other eyes. That was the first night he told me he loved me, but it was a casual toss in among other conversation so I could ignore it at the time. We did, um, things for a while longer. He got up to go to the bathroom and came out a few minutes later and said, "Look outside." It was daylight already.

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