The amount of how come you’re still single or it’s so easy for men to find someone these days I’ve been hearing is astounding are yous just not aware of what has been happening to the dating scene currently for men?, and when I say it’s at its hardest it’s ever been they’ll respond with well you just need to look harder or not be a creep as long as you’re not a creep then you’ll find someone……huh?????

Ladies you guys seriously don’t believe it’s that easy right? Take a look at this sub and sure some of the men on here are just venting in pure emotion I get that but can you blame us, if a woman can’t find someone it’s usually because the person she wants isn’t around so she’s annoyed at the men who can’t pass the bar. If a guy can’t find someone it’s because of these reasons.

A: he’s unattractive (ugly, not as tall, not in shape and or lacks personal hygiene).

B: suffers from “nice guy” syndrome.

C: just doesn’t fit in anywhere meaning he’s just an outsider and doesn’t have much interpersonal experience with anyone.

D: too immature can’t grow up and doesn’t want to.

These are just examples and they’re all valid reasons but ladies this disqualifies a huge amount of men and the men who let’s say pass all those threshold they’re as common as a solar eclipse, and most women have stated many times that those are their standards usually so how is it easy for men to find someone?.

We can go around and preach to the moon about how more and more men should adopt those standards but women aren’t exactly peachy either men are more willing to concede and accept these as just human flaws that will eventually turnaround, hence why our bar for women tends to be lower, not low just lower.

With the rise of dating apps (it’s declining lately but still), more and more men seek answers what am wrong I doing wrong they ask and when they ask women they’re met with well are you a creep? no well you must be if you can’t find a girl, you really think it’s that simple? What about looks, money, height, shape, hygiene and charm etc.

Because I know plenty of non creepy hobos and how come they don’t get a girlfriend?